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HIV1:
In as much as the parents might share little fragment of the blame, the girl in question share most of the blame. If my child came home with an unwanted pregnancy , am I suppose to rejoice?

Bro there are better ways to go abt it in a way as not to affect anybody. Her parent acted imature in this issue. What happens if they(parent) decides to have a meeting with the supposed "boyfriend" parent and look for a way to sovle the issue on ground. Even if it is by giving her daughter hand in marriage to the boy forcefully. Yes forcefully, coz she has bring shame and disgrace to the family. But they neglect her to her fate and this was the repercution. You shouldn't rejoice when your daughter who is not ripe for marriage comes home with pregnancy. But what diffentiate you from the masses is your sense of reasoning and maturity in handling the issue.
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chynie:
so she can get pregnant again abi

her parents reacted as expected but too harsh

is a lesson to others

The outcome of her parent's body language made her did the abominable act. The deed had already been done. this is the time she needs love and care from both partys(boyfriend included) no matter what, her parent should have accepted her. She is still their child. But she was rejected and hence she decided to take her life and that of the unborn child. For me, i think she has a myopic sense of reasoning for subcribing to the act. She should have looked beyond her present predicament and forge ahead there are better opportunities awaiting her. Note, I am not in anyway promoting sexual intercourse from the younger generations. But when it happens the next step is "WHAT IS THE WAY FOWARD" her parent were too harsh though.
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She look good.
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Nice write up. Quite educative though.
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But why?..if her parent had accepted the pregnancy and welcomed her with warmth gestures she wouldn't have subcribed to suicide. That silly boyfriend of her's too didn't even help matters. No creative minds anymore, going to school is not even in their agenda. What we see now are Youth with misplaced priority parambating the streets looking for whom to devour. RIP to the victim.
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Creative mind.
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Nice step taken by the managements. I dont know if a friend of mine that schools there will b happy or sad in this latest development. Cos as i speak he has settled for a casual job.
#NigeriaEDUCATIONsystemsha
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This is not true. But if it is, then i think his supposed followers will have a trait of the personality that he posses.
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cruzita:
who dey beg u to coach?abeg carry ur yansh go siddon for mile 1 market.

lol @ mile 1 market. Btw he will make a good coach if he decides to settle for a coaching job when he eventually retires.
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Lovely photo. She is looking good.
#myEXfirstlady
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Hmmmmm interesting. And our youth will go about chanting this lyrics not knowing what's even behind it. Come to think of it we have thousands if not millions that look up to this our so called celebrities as role models.
#GodheLPourYouth
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I think it's a term used in yoruba know as OGA (i might be wrong though)
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Lol cute couple.
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prettythicksme:
Real nigga spotted! i am not talking of dry bone gurls,slim gurls with flesh where necessary #boobs&butt!#u feel me?

of course ma'am. Now that's what am talking about.
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prettythicksme:
No guess,i'm slim

nice. I prefare slim girls that are fleshy you knw wah i mean. Just as u said *with meat* lol u are funny

prettythicksme:
Confirm!!we no dey eat much!!#teamslimgurls with meat where necessary

lol @ with meat where necessary. I guess u are a slim gurl
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Lol not at all @donTbone
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From grass to grace...never lose focus
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Lol ;DLol let's hope for the best for chelsea. I see dem making top 4 :-XLol
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Nice physique.
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Sexy.
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Nice point though. #TEAMslimgirls
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Fire in Nnewi few min ago now in yola.. All efforts to reach the fire service seem abortive hmmmm is it that our fire service officials are still on new year break. I pity the victims whose goods worth millions have been liquidated as a result of this unfortunate incident.
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Are my eyes deceiving me? This are children for goodness sake. The law agencies shouldn't fold their hands on this one. Justice must be done. Let's join hands together to fight against this silly sociopaths that have subcribed to this aborminable act.
#saynotochildABUSE
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Happy married life bro.. Wish you a blissful marriage #caLLmeBERG

Smh I thought somone created a thread of cossy orjiakor balancing a bottle on her b**** sometime last year during her bufdae and this is the same photo. This op sef eerrh anyway, good for her... next!!!
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Naija which way?? God help us all this new year. #caLLmeBERG

Wait a min, are you a widow? Cos from your write up there is no place you stated anything about your husband. That's by the way. Though i find this epistle funny and i can sense an atom of a false input. But notwithstanding, my advice for you is to be open to that cousin of yours cos frm the way i see things you are kinda afraid of him. He is 36 for christsake he should go out and look for something productive to engage in. Come to think of it you are endangering the lifes of your daughters. Take note, Konji is a respecter of nobody. Their future is at stake, if at all any of them gets pregnant for him it won't go well. Just tell him to his face to leave your home not minding the repercution of your act. Even if it's done violently by involving the police i will be in full support of it. A word they say is enough..........
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Ma'am what i can deduce from ur write up is that it speaks volume of improper child upbringing. I smell an iota of indecipline from your child. Cos this is like 2 partys agreeing 2 perform a task more like a mutual agreement. For goodness sake she is 18 an adult. She is to blame for not opening up to you at the early stage about the advances from lani. Cos am 100% certain this is not rape gosh!! Maybe lani might have convice her through monetary terms and other enticing benefit. Judging from ur family financial status presently.(i might be wrong though) Well, unfortunate the deed had been done. What you ought to do now is that try as much as possible to make sure your husband never gets to know about this. Not in his present predicament. Just get your child away from the confines of that territory you can take her to a relative of yours for now. i don't even think she can be able to continue schooling for now. not in her condition. But what beats my imagination is the fact that she never even bother to tell you till this point you got to find out yourself.. Some girls sha smh. Try to disassociate yourself for that sociopath of a man called lani. pls don't subcribe to abortion Its not a good option. Goodluck, i wish your family well.
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Have you inquired to know the cause of the pain from her?
Being ignorant of issues such as this or paying little or no attention can lead to an unwelcoming scenario which you or your wife will find very difficult to tackle when it gets out of hand on the long run. My friend, your wife needs medical attention ASAP to avoid stories that touch. But this is only "iF" she is not a virgin oo cos if eventually she is a virgin wich you never stated on your write up, then no cause for alarm. she is just new in the game and with consistency and patience it wil become a thing of the past.
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