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hmmmnnnn i dont ve any issues with albino but i wont marry one cos it will be unfair to my future kids and their generation, why put em tru the stress, kids may not 4give that kind of thing, wats will my excuse be,lack of men,love,money, i think not

Poodle:
I have been there, and I can tell you from experience that as a guy that loving is not the problem but will you do the same thing everyday?

Money is very important for love to be exciting. There was a time I had nothing to offer my girl aside from a wonderful sense of humour and great sex and she truly did love me for no reason. I knew I had to move to the next level but guy, e nor easy.

Time passed and nothing changed, I became boring and sex became a boring routine. She has left me and maybe I should blame her but thats life.

The truth is that i feel she left me because i was poor and jobless and time wasnt on her side.

So Ladies, Love is good but don't marry a man if he is poor and jobless and LAZY, marry him if he is poor and jobless and hardworking as long as there is a prospect for prosperity. LOVE WITHOUT MONEY NOR DEY LAST!!!!

As 4 me, I am very comfortable now, women nor wan let me rest.

my dear God bless you for your honesty, am sick and tired of the fact that people think all girls are after money, when the thuth is that we are just being smart, come to think of it i think am an inspiration to men, cos to get with me a guy had 2 work hard,

edygirl:
You keep saying that the elder sister's wedding might be affected. What are you talking about? Did she sleep with you when she already got married? Was is it not before her wedding. Don't be talking as if you are doing somebody a favour because you ain't after all her husband had seen she was not a virgin.

WORD GIRL, JUST WAT I WAS THINKIN

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amaka1:
lol @ lovestinks I'm sure your brother wants more than a cook for a wife o!otherwise he would employ himself a cook abi?

true talk amaka1 but from ur pac i can see u also a pretty face, well must comment u 4 this thread really learnt a lot from it, very good going.u a STAR

@Da Junta
DUDE THIS IS REALLY A HARD ONE, NOW I KNOW ALL THE FACT I DONT KNOW WAT 2 SAY.I THINK U SHOULD COME CLEAN AND I WISH U LUCK, BUT PERSONALLY I WOULDNT WANT 2 DATE SOMEONE THAT HAS SLEPT WITH MY SISTER, NO MATTER WAT.LEFT ALONE MARRY, ARE U GUYS GONNA KEEP IT AS ONE BIG SECRET FROM UR PARENTS ,FAMILY AND FRIENDS.

lovestinks:
hey i just tot of a good one.since u d dude has done so much for you as u say i will advice step by step dumpin,

STEP 1:NEXT TIME U SEE HIM BE QUITE AND ACT DISTANT

STEP 2:TELL HIM YOU VE BEING HAVING SOME FUNNY DREAMS LATELY ABOUT THE TWO OF YOU AND YOU THINK U GUYS SHOULD TAKE SOME TIME APART,

STEP 3: AKA THE BOOM SHELL, TELL HIM THINGS ARE NOT GOING WELL.TOO MUCH STRESS U CANT EVEN UNDERSTAND OR BEGIN 2 EXPLAIN, AND U WANT TO CALL OF THE RELATIONSHIP.MAKE SURE U TELL HIM U WISH HIM WELL FINDING SOMEONE SPECIAL.so he knows its final.

OR

MAKE HIM BREAK UP WITH U, HOW? SIMPLE. MAKE HIM BELIEVE YOU ARE DATING SOMEONE ELSE,

in continuation of how to make him break up with you, TELL HIM YOU PREGNANT AND WANNA KEEP IT,

hey i just tot of a good one.since u d dude has done so much 4 u as u say i will advice step by step dumpin,

STEP 1:NEXT TIME U SEE HIM BE QUITE AND ACT DISTANT

STEP 2:TELL HIM YOU VE BEING HAVING SOME FUNNY DREAMS LATELY ABOUT THE TWO OF YOU AND YOU THINK U GUYS SHOULD TAKE SOME TIME APART,

STEP 3: AKA THE BOOM SHELL, TELL HIM THINGS ARE NOT GOING WELL.TOO MUCH STRESS U CANT EVEN UNDERSTAND OR BEGIN 2 EXPLAIN, AND U WANT TO CALL OF THE RELATIONSHIP.MAKE SURE U TELL HIM U WISH HIM WELL FINDING SOMEONE SPECIAL.so he knows its final.

OR

MAKE HIM BREAK UP WITH U, HOW? SIMPLE. MAKE HIM BELIEVE YOU ARE DATING SOMEONE ELSE,

@ poster, honey much as it feels nice 2 curse the silly dude and all, we still ve 2 face fact here, bearing in mind that i feel ur pain.will like 2 say, the fact that u had the hots 4 him does not garantee he will feel same, love and emotions is something no one can explain.or control.maybe he did nt feel same attraction, or maybe he misread ur feelings as that of just friendship, my advice is that u should get on with ur life he sure as hell int the only fish in the pond.just think of it that its his loss. as for your friend i will advice u to be wary of her.she seems dangerous.if i were in her shoes i will call u and talk 2 u about the dude comin on 2 me.and tell u if i fancy him or not.dont say i wont date him if u say not 2.but at least i told u.cos i wont want a guy 2 come betwen us pals, so babes move on, am sure u cute in ur own way.nice guys will surely come along, above all lifes 2 short 2 waste on such matters, cheers

Amaka1, please where can i meet u 4 this ur egusi soup and r u married if not please i ve a brother.really nice guy and all, wont mind u in my family, lol

@ ses no offence are u 4 real next am sure u will be advising him 2 sleep with the male in her family

@ poster i want u 2 just take a minute and think, why do u think u lied 2 her in the first place if u really love her, am thinkin its cos u not a honest person or u just playing games, can u honestly say 4 a girl u are thinking of marrying u did not know u dated her sis.why didnt u tell her be4 u started dating her.talk of a relationship built on lies am sure u knew the truth will come out some day, i dont think u really need our advice, look into ur heart and do wat u think is right, cheers

sweetlove:
Hola Coco29 and sista, I am following Up your replies,However there is still No real answer on when will a Man stop Lying.
Gracias Mi amigos.

hey are u serious i tot this was all a joke, my dear answering this question is like answering the age old question about the chick and the egg.which came first, am sure u get my drift

when hell freezes over,

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for once am actually lost for words, i just pray this type of situation should pass me by oh

hey bossman, well said but whoa you sure know how to hit the nail on the head, am sure ur post will induce a few tears, though it will be good 4 her 2 just move on it wont be easy cos am sure her friends and family already think of her as married, will not be easy 4 her at all, lets face it our society is 2 judgemental, in other countries it easy but her whoa, its really a big step, my advice to her is that she try and get in touch with him be4 she does anything drastic.

vbrown20:
Babygal,so sory about your predicament,but remember the sayin 4 better for worse,abi,just keep prayin nd don't lose hope.I knw he is goin 2 kme back 2 you,there aint no good gals in uk,u knw,wish for the best nd your guy wil b yours again

hey girl i like your giving her advice and all but wat is this about there being no good girl in UK.thats not nice, on behalf of us girls in the UK i think you owe us an apology, cos its wrong to generalise/sterotype

hey MR poster if u guys ve being going out for 3-4 yrs as u say and u did not know of her condition then you ve nothing 2 fear, my advice to u though is to avoid her giving you a head if u dont wanna lose your willy. cos u dont know when the fits will strike(get my gist)lol good luck 2 u guys,

candylips you are right, yes i think he is looking to get noticed, hope u got enough of that dude,

dakitten check the gay section thats where they go first, lol

girl no offence but u ok, wat i term just there.not 2 pretty not ugly but just ok, but i must admit i like ur confidence thats wat u need girl, the way u see ur self is wats important, u go girl.

yes pls it should be banned, the annoy thing is that i cant understand why i ve 2 inhale other peolpes waste, worst off is when i go 2 clubs and i come out smelling like a chain smoker hair and all it really disgust me.so i had 2 limit clubbin .there are steps 2 stop it in london, u wont belive the joy i felt when i was in aberden in scotland where smoking has being banned the clubbing experience was off the hook, nothing like a smoke free enviroment 4 clubbing

please mr poster wats ur own in the matter, are u the him or the her in the story, hope u not just interferring, cos i think relationships ve enough problems already than input from u and i

girl i feel 4 u, its sad that u ve done this court wedding thing, london is not a place 4 a guy 2 be left alone at all, infact he will get snached from the airport with girls willing 2 help him out .the rate of desperation in london is high oh.takes the grace of god for a guy not to stray.am sure is probably shacked up with a girl.my advise go over to the UK if u can, cos no guy is worth putting your life on hold for, you have 2 know wats up and where u stand, good luck,

yes i think there is a gen thats controls that fact.a male pal of mine once told me that a guy will give you 75% of his love the other 25% goes out one way or the other.for stuffs like 1 night stands,hot girl chasing him aka pussy attack etc, this really changed my way of thinking so my solution to this whole thing is that i am cool with the 75% any decrease to 60% - 70% still hanging there.but try keeping him in check.less than that am off, this way i always know when 2 push off, and protect my heart, dont critise pls this system works 4 me, so i use it.

nothing, absolutly nothing, i can say anything to get wat i want, its just words 2 me, why hoard it.lol

hey your topic brings to mind the saying that goes, "penny wise pound foolish"

the earlier the better, get obstacle off the way,

i wonder what brenda is doing with a guy like u who is 2 chicken to talk 4 him self, girl he is not worth ur while

hey girl i feel u, ve u tried finding a job at www.gumtree.com .there are always jobs on there daily, you cant go wrong with them.good luck.

I will simply say OK IF THATS WAT U WANT, and hang up, cos am not one to beg a guy.