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Tajbol4splend:
No, certain things can change about you, before I got married, I was kinda slow in making my decisions, you know this lackadaisical attitude and it was really because I was the only one to be affected if there was to be any consequence

Tajbol4splend:
Yeah you right, at some point in your life you outgrow some beliefs

Tajbol4splend:
People change but just that not everything changes about them

Tajbol4splend:
People change, for good yes, in fact pressure is going to change a lot of things about you when you are married, I mean pressure of responsibility shouldered by someone responsible, I'm not talking of wife wahala o

Nazgul:
We're saying the same thing...no one truly changes.

ojun50:
People don't change, dey only stop that habit just to impress that person after getting what they want, attitude returned.......

SmellySperm:
we wey no get lover nkor?

Nazgul:
Only an encounter with God can change a person permanently.

Anything outside that would be a temporary change. Meaning the person will return back to his/her default state once the love infatuation dies off

Nobody truly changes...I can boldly confirm this.

That's why it's always advisable to marry someone who possess the qualities you want in a spouse and not someone who you'll spend your whole life trying to bend to your taste.

InfernoNig:
Both. Mostly because I love her and she had made me a better man.

InfernoNig:
Yes. I reduced my womanizing habit and I am close to stopping it.

Liposure:
exactly. But sometimes true love sounds like fantasy to me. To me love is abstract

JimmyDarmody:
Hmmm I've met someone like this before but I couldn't take it after a while. I just felt like I wasn't the type of person for such kinda deep connection. At some point it was as if she was tryna control me in the name of love. I know that her motives were genuine but I saw myself in a spot where I had to do too much to keep her happy while I myself wasn't too comfortable. I called it off.

Kingosytex:
Nothing show!!!

Kingosytex:
I dey use run enter my inbox now

Kingosytex:
You no wan help me abi?

Me, I no dey quit.

I no de even lose.

Kingosytex:
Check your mail na!!! Abeg.

Seyzcham91:
well i can't marry myself cuz i'm not dating anyone

i be certified Treasurer for SMAN

Kingosytex:
Abeg na!!! Jst sent you a DM.

Kingosytex:
No, not at all.
Abeg na, see as I de beg you.
Abeg na!!!

Kingosytex:
Baby, I aint broke, far from it.
I will create a heaven for you, make you the angel of my life.

Kingosytex:
I can even wait for eternity.

PETGEB:
my nigga

Kingosytex:
Amen!!! I appreciate HIM cos I have found you.
Just tell me when you want us (my people) to come around.

Kingosytex:
I no dey search again o!!!

I don see am.

Abeg na!!

Kingosytex:
That means you are just what I have been looking for.
GOFRONT come o!!!! I don see my missing rib.

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Whatever rocks their boat. Fun isn't always bad.[/color]

Kingosytex:
I love proud people.
Don't you understand?