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Lexusgs430:
Make coro comot for road first........

Mizzyliz:
Yeah..
They only get worse

TyroneP:
People change a lot. Sincerity of purpose is one of the things lovers forget to have as their watchword. Most times, they get distracted by few situations and they stop loving one another. Most of these situations may be a strong indications that one of them is falling out of love. Excellent communication helps lovers to explore deeper thoughts of how they feel about one another thereby giving room to correct any mistake or bad behaviour in love instead of falling out of love. And from experience, when someone stops loving you, it can result in depression if you find it hard to get over it on time.

Marofav:
A simple book: MODEL MARRIAGE by Dag Heward-Mills answers this question and many more. I'd recommend it for anyone about getting into a relationship, in one, about to get married or already married. It's a Marriage Compendium

Banter1:
Yes! I'm a testimony even though we are not together anymore

lasisi69:
you talk too much for a yahoo boy... Na all these chewing gum boys go dey pay you 2k... Find better HK put body but, You no get sense...

lugo99:
. Faabu or Pherboo or Phaboo or Farbuhari?? which one

lugo99:
. Faabu or Pherboo or Phaboo or Farbuhari?? which one

richmanrichard:
they change during courtship but goes back to their default setting when marriage don done

DeAlphaMale:
Don't mind him maybe his GF is here in nairaland with him

Lexusgs430:
I dey o.... Hustling to find my daily garri.........

Mocata:
Get real people never change.
Or at least nobody has ever changed just because of pussy

lequama10:
who shared you the story, pls this is 2021 don't come and fabu us here oo, or come up with made up stories to support ur narrative. Edakun...

bixton:
Apologies but he succeeded in that because she was not truly focused in her service to God.
She got so distracted in a lot of ways too numerous to mention.

But she refused to see. She made herself blind.

ednut1:
some do some dont. You can generalize everyone

CosmicJames:
That's the story of a pretender. Not that of a changed person.
In reality, humans don't change.
We only install/uninstall or activate/deactivate good and bad habits.
Just like the case of phones and computers. We install or activate the softwares and apps that we want or need in our phones or computers. And uninstall or deactivate the softwares and apps that we don't need/want.

The computers and phones doesn't change. But the softwares or apps running in them do

This statement suggest that people can get rid of a bad habit, and develop a good habit for someone they love if they really want to

At least 200 defilement cases were recorded in Gombe State in 2020, the state Commissioner for Internal Security and Ethical Orientation, Dauda Dauda, has said.

Dauda who disclosed this in a chat with journalists on Saturday, disclosed that 40 out of the cases were reported in Gombe, the state capital, adding that the state recorded 39 attempted rape across its 11 local government areas.

He lamented that most of the cases were incest, involving fathers and their children.

The commissioner also stated that 10 kidnap cases were recorded in the state between 2020 and now, adding that investigation revealed that the kidnappings were perpetrated by criminals from the neighbouring Adamawa and Taraba states.

He said, “Thirty seven were arrested for unnatural (gay and lesbianism) offences, 61 for act of gross indecency and three cases of abandoned children were recorded in 2020.”

He stressed that gender-based violence had been recognised as a human rights abuse “that leads to high rate of mortality.”

Batari, who is also a security expert, explained that the state government had set up a security strategic plan to consider, “what should be done to ensure that Gombe is secured.”

He added, “We have also sent the bill for the establishment of the State Security and Environmental Corps to the state Assembly for ratification.”

Upon approval, he said it would be domesticated at every of the 114 wards in the state, adding that leadership in the ministry had set up a 24-hour toll-free Security Information Centre to attend to emergency criminal cases.

jaxxy:
Yes people can change depending on some factors.

1. How strong the habit
2. How self discipline they are to quickly adjust
3. How much they value the one in their lives
4. Coincidence of being ready to change and need that push.

Mind u Most cases don’t play out this way. Instead it get worse. My submission are for rare cases.

Sepetonri:
No o, I'm not talking or are you a MOD too? Better shift before small thunder touch you. . Mynd44 and others delete this account now or ban me for life. I have told you my own.

Kingstanding:
. God is the only one that cannot change. What is love to human being?

Sepetonri:
No o, they gaz delete my account this night. Eyin MODs werey da? Come out o else thunder destroy you.

openmine:
Like i said ab initio,people willingly decide to change because they believe its the right decision to make not because of an individual!

kabanayol9:
For where, forget that thing, you are who you are especially when money � come show, your real attitude comes alive.

openmine:
People don't change because of an individual!
Whoever says that they will change for someone is not being honest with the person or themselves!
So what if the person you are making changes for no longer fancies you later in the future, will that push you into a default setting?
Change only happens when the person willingly decides to change not for anyone but for their own good!

Sty1esLawyer:
Sounds like a telemundo with a happy ending.

Sty1esLawyer:
Sounds like a telemundo with a happy ending.

Sepetonri:
Where is that mad man called laslastinonsen and the foolish myndd. I can't even spell their names. Useless son of bitches. Thunder kill all una family if you don't delete my nairaland account.

Lexusgs430:
I am a dry leaf........

Tajbol4splend:
Of course I believe so but I just think not everything is going to change about them

Lexusgs430:
Change is for simps..........