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Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 7:52pm On Jan 16
Hi Cuties and Fellas!

We've seen a lot of people fall in love in different ways.

Some people promise to change if you could give them chance to come into your life.

Many people have been victims of this in the past.

A guy or lady will promise to change and become a better person but the reverse is the case once you allow them in your life.

I don't know if people do really change when they love someone.

Please let's discuss this question:

Do you believe people can change if they love someone?

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by InfernoNig(m): 7:53pm On Jan 16
Yes. I reduced my womanizing habit and I am close to stopping it. grin

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 7:55pm On Jan 16
Or maybe sometimes people did not actually change. Maybe you just never knew who they really were.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 7:57pm On Jan 16
InfernoNig:
Yes. I reduced my womanizing habit and I am close to stopping it. grin
Did you reduce it because you love the person or because you're afraid of loosing the person?

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by InfernoNig(m): 8:02pm On Jan 16
LoveTalk:

Did you reduce it because you love the person or because you're afraid of loosing the person?

Both. Mostly because I love her and she had made me a better man.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by TruthHurts1(m): 8:04pm On Jan 16
No.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Nazgul: 8:11pm On Jan 16
LoveTalk:
Hi Cuties and Fellas!

We've seen a lot of people fall in love in different ways.

Some people promise to change if you could give them chance to come into your life.

Many people have been victims of this in the past.

A guy or lady will promise to change and become a better person but the reverse is the case once you allow them in your life.

I don't know if people do really change when they love someone.

Please let's discuss this question:

Do you believe people can change if they love someone?


lalasticlala, mynd44, OAM4J, mukina2
Only an encounter with God can change a person permanently.

Anything outside that would be a temporary change. Meaning the person will return back to his/her default state once the love infatuation dies off

Nobody truly changes...I can boldly confirm this.

That's why it's always advisable to marry someone who possess the qualities you want in a spouse and not someone who you'll spend your whole life trying to bend to your taste.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Namkbank: 8:13pm On Jan 16
People don't change

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by SmellySperm(m): 8:15pm On Jan 16
we wey no get lover nkor?undecided

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Lessonteacher(m): 8:18pm On Jan 16
I think it's possible but hard

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 8:21pm On Jan 16
InfernoNig:

Both. Mostly because I love her and she had made me a better man.
Wow! You're such a lucky man to have encountered the damsel

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by InfernoNig(m): 8:23pm On Jan 16
LoveTalk:

Wow!
You're such a lucky man to have encountered the damsel

Definitely.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 8:23pm On Jan 16
Nazgul:

Only an encounter with God can change a person permanently.

Anything outside that would be a temporary change. Meaning the person will return back to his/her default state once the love infatuation dies off

Nobody truly changes...I can boldly confirm this.

That's why it's always advisable to marry someone who possess the qualities you want in a spouse and not someone who you'll spend your whole life trying to bend to your taste.
There are situations in life in which people suddenly show us their true face. It may seem as if they have changed all of a sudden. But in reality, they simply dropped their mask and stopped pretending to be someone they are not. Of course, their true face can be quite beautiful just as much as it can be an evil grimace.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 8:27pm On Jan 16
SmellySperm:
we wey no get lover nkor?undecided
God will provide

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Nazgul: 8:28pm On Jan 16
LoveTalk:


There are situations in life in which people suddenly show us their true face. It may seem as if they have changed all of a sudden.

But in reality, they simply dropped their mask and stopped pretending to be someone they are not. Of course, their true face can be quite beautiful just as much as it can be an evil grimace.
We're saying the same thing...no one truly changes.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by ojun50(m): 8:29pm On Jan 16
People don't change, dey only stop that habit just to impress that person after getting what they want, attitude returned.......

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 8:33pm On Jan 16
ojun50:
People don't change, dey only stop that habit just to impress that person after getting what they want, attitude returned.......

The thing is some people will fake the change so as so to satisfy the other person.

There was a story I heard about a lady and a guy, the lady is a good Christian and the guy started going to church because of her, he told her that we are serving the same God that he converted to Christian and they dated for 3 years before they got married. In fact, the guy became dipper even more than the lady.

But unfortunately, the second day of the marriage, the guy brought out his praying kettle and told the lady that, for good 3 years I have served your God, now it is time for you to serve my own God too. He said that he must not see her in church never again.

He deceived her that he's changed but after he got what he wanted, he showed his through colour.

This world is full of deceit, if you know someone deeply just hold on to the person, don't go and be looking for trouble.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 8:33pm On Jan 16
Nazgul:
We're saying the same thing...no one truly changes.
I was trying to back up your points.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:36pm On Jan 16
People change, for good yes, in fact pressure is going to change a lot of things about you when you are married, I mean pressure of responsibility shouldered by someone responsible, I'm not talking of wife wahala o

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Zebulun15(m): 8:38pm On Jan 16
When talking about true love it's possible for someone to change.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:39pm On Jan 16
LoveTalk:
Or maybe sometimes people did not actually change. Maybe you just never knew who they really were.


People change but just that not everything changes about them

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 8:42pm On Jan 16
Tajbol4splend:
People change, for good yes, in fact pressure is going to change a lot of things about you when you are married, I mean pressure of responsibility shouldered by someone responsible, I'm not talking of wife wahala o
Let me support your point by saying this:

Let’s face it, it’s not only other people that change. We ourselves change as well. This does not necessarily have to be a bad thing. In fact, when reflecting on the beliefs and opinions you held 5 or even 10 years ago, you might realize that many things changed for the better.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 8:43pm On Jan 16
Tajbol4splend:


People change but just that not everything changes about them
Are saying people don’t change, they reveal who they really are?

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:50pm On Jan 16
LoveTalk:


Are saying people don’t change, they reveal who they really are?


No, certain things can change about you, before I got married, I was kinda slow in making my decisions, you know this lackadaisical attitude and it was really because I was the only one to be affected if there was to be any consequence

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:53pm On Jan 16
LoveTalk:

Let me support your point by saying this:

Let’s face it, it’s not only other people that change. We ourselves change as well. This does not necessarily have to be a bad thing. In fact, when reflecting on the beliefs and opinions you held 5 or even 10 years ago, you might realize that many things changed for the better.



Yeah you right, at some point in your life you outgrow some beliefs
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 8:56pm On Jan 16
Tajbol4splend:



Yeah you right, at some point in your life you outgrow some beliefs
Very true

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 8:57pm On Jan 16
Tajbol4splend:



No, certain things can change about you, before I got married, I was kinda slow in making my decisions, you know this lackadaisical attitude and it was really because I was the only one to be affected if there was to be any consequence
So, people do change right?
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by LoveTalk(f): 8:58pm On Jan 16
lalasticlala and mynd44 won't come out now ooooo. They should teach us something tonight nah grin
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:02pm On Jan 16
LoveTalk:

So, people do change right?



Of course I believe so but I just think not everything is going to change about them
Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by extol1(m): 9:03pm On Jan 16
the answer to this question is dicey. for me, it is like a talking drum that has two sides. it is possible and not. human beings hardly change except divine intervention.

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Re: Can People Really Change If They Love Someone? by Lexusgs430: 9:06pm On Jan 16
LoveTalk:

If everyone changes, Lexusgs430 won't change.
lalasticlala won't even change talkless of mynd44 grin



Change is for simps.......... grin

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