₦airaland Forum

thesicilian:
It is not my business whether you're a "Tinubu supporter" or not, I'm not interested in your political affiliations.
There's hardly any major city on earth where minimum wage earners can afford to rent a 1 bedroom apartment without having to save part of their income for many months. That's assuming you want a comfortable 1 bedroom apartment, with it's own toilet, kitchen and bathroom at least.

But a minimum wage earner in Lagos should be looking for a single room, not comfort. There are many very standard single rooms you can get for between 10k - 20k per month, depending on your taste. Again, I don't think there's any major city on earth where a minimum wage earner lives in comfort.

You self too dey take things seriously.

This is only for analysis and research purpose not an ideal situation

Wisdom is profitable to direct!

Good one, suspend the Governor and incarcerate him too

But until FG arrests, Gumi, El-Rufai, Shettima and The Sultan of Sokoto for their role in terrorism financing, I won't take them seriously

SlavaUkraini:
Some children stay up to one year in the womb

Yeah, village people at work!

MOSSAD is on his trail

Him and Gumi will soon collect!

BondRiv:
Law abiding people should be protected, irrespective of religion. This war criminal only knows how to sow discord.

I thought the moderate Muslims in Nigeria said there is no genocide and insecurity anywhere in Nigeria

Allow those who cried out to be protected, those who felt their bandit brothers can kill them at will, should enjoy the insecurity they created

Op is either a Yoruba man or APC supporter

emergency lovers of Nigeria just because their brother is President

Any cry wey dem set ring light and camera cry, na content.

next please!

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! Why should it be the wife's responsibility to police a grown- arsed man's emotions for him? If a man emotionally disconnects from his marriage, it should be his responsibility to detect and immediately correct himself.

Abeg normalize divorce and stop pretending men are adult children women need to take care of in marriage...the same marriage these men are supposedly leaders/heads of. No wonder sex goes out the door after a while with women eventually realizing their husbands are no different from their own children in that they too need raising.😩😩😩😩

Normalize divorce make women freely exit such relationships. A grown man still unable to do the basic inner work required of all adult humans needs a mother and not a wife and no woman's child should be burdened with such nonsense. 😩😩😩

As usual you don't fail to disappoint, to you everything is about gender war and we versus them
When a marriage fails it could be the fault of one or both of the parties
Do not forget that there are good women and there are bad women, vice versal
maturity means you are able to see things objectively and discuss it without biases
a woman's behavior could make his man withdrawn and thereby leading to the collapse of a marriage, please note this!

It's obvious Tinubu wants to end insecurity, but he lacks the will power to do so. It's so unfortunately that the JAGABAN is a toothless dog

A yoruba man who claims to know politics than the Americans but hides when Islamic terrorists and their sponsors speak

We thought GEJ was weak, but it seems Tinubu is a jellyfish and without balls

If Tinubu don't arrest Gunmi, then our SW brothers should hide their face in shame.

It is becoming evident that the Olukunmi people fears the Fulanis

eyaaah, SW has suffered sifia pains

they even contributed money to save their king, the governor and Tinubu nor send them

Tomorrow they will still defend both Tinubu and the bandits

where is lai Mohammed? is he now a bandit?

waiting for Kobojunkie to comment

for him or her not to be here by now smelts a rat

maybe a skit

Making a video and posting online isn't the best decision for a mature man in this kind of situation

if it is true, take care of your baby and forget the mother, he should even celebrate that one of his problems has left

Ladipo boys are already recycling end -of -use vehicles so the govt don't need to get involved

Change your friend circle OR be friendlier to them too

What you sow is what you reap!

HacheNoire:
But the US president is also a criminal. So what point is he making.

How many convicted criminals do we have in our Government? None! But the US president is a convicted criminal

Your President and VP are criminals

a drug lord and a terrorist sponsor, why won't they ban you people

Many women in Nigeria were raised wrongly, and they are even proud of it at their prime

Once you say 'Hi' to them, they want to transfer all their liabilities to you.

women raised not to take responsibility for themselves will always find themselves at the mercy of some horrible men

many Nigerian young women never bought anything they own with their own money, they live off men

To most of them, it is better to marry a horrible rich man than marry a struggling good man. It is all about money and survival to them

If you are a woman in an abusive marriage, please leave and fend for yourself and your children

get a job, a business, make your own money and settle down to find a better love again

I am not surprised

terrorism in Nigeria is state sponsored, in other words, The Federal Govt is behind banditry that's killing and burning villages all over Nigeria

Shame on all Yorubas in Government that are taking sides with Fulanis to kill Nigerians

Kobojunkie:
Name some of these better reasons to stay married when rather than seek a divorce?

2. Why should another marriage be the solution for leaving one marriage? Why can't you focus on resolving the problems that got you stuck in the first marriage you had to leave before then deciding whether finding a new one or taking a long hiatus would be best option?

3. So, my guess is as a woman you were financially abused in your marriage explaining why after x number of years of marriage, you come out unable to afford a place of your own. And rather than direct your anger at the right person-- your abuser -- you turn around to blame those who told you you were better off without your abuser in your life in order that you can finally begin working on you? You want them to take you on as some sort of charity case after your foolish decision to invest all for nothing in the name of marriage?

4. I see! She should not leave even when she is emotionally, mentally or even financially abuse. (All more than valid reasons to want to leave an unfulfilling marriage, by hmm the way.) She should wait until the man is ready to literally throws her out into the streets -- something that ultimately happened to well over 50% of women by age 40 -- before she knows she should begin fighting for herself and her own life? 🥱🥱

I think you are a woman from your comments

you usually colour everything with abuse and all what not, almost all your comment is centered around abuse of women as if that's the only reason marriages fail. Always try to comment based on context of the post

The lawyer is speaking from a moral point of view, if you as a woman left because you hate cheating, why become a side chick to a married man after divorce

for your information, all side chicks enables cheating!

For me, it is better DR Congo goes to the world cup than Nigeria

Even if Nigeria is allowed to proceed to the Intercontinental qualifiers, they will still not qualify for the world cup

These crop of Super eagles are not serious walahi

Players wey dey always play ball go back?

It's all about manipulation bro

it is better to pay OS 20k, knack am to your satisfaction than to entertain a leech in the name of girl friend

she will call you broke when you refuse her manipulations, even when you give her the money, she will still be stingy with the sex

why not just pay and knack and move on? OS can never show you attitude

btw, I am not promoting patronizing OS, but Nigerian girls called for these comparisons

Story as told by Omole, a yoruba man who probably wasn't close to Buhari to know much about him

Buhari was a terrorist, Omole is just an attention seeker, a booth licker and an agent of Tinubu

heykims:
Addict in front row, na so life be

Addition no dey follow whether you know book or not, whether you get money or not; anyone can be addicted to something

Dangote fit be addict to something

when it comes to serving food at parties, fear women!

Hope she wasn't killed because of her faith?

Ok we don hear, APC can add that Tinubu's achievements

A citizen of one disgraced country coming to another disgraced country is now a thing to celebrate

Dangote knows Farouk is playing Tinubu's script, he is only beating around the bush

Both Dangote and Tinubu are working for their personal interests, none cares about Nigerians

Wale Tinubu is one of the highest importers of PMS, so you get the gist

When the say ...Subsidy is gone!

They just lied to you.

Everybody know say this man na fake Pastor na

Once you hear anyone say Ibos are the problem of Nigeria, know that he is in bed with APC Politicians

Like Reno, Like FFK, Like Fake Pastor Ayodele... same script, same pattern, same personality

Mrexcell:
As educated as he is he ought to have known that igbo senators in the senate don't have the numbers to stop any nominee from getting the senate approval.

It is not about having the numbers to stop Reno's clearance, it is about vetoing it

Let it be on record that no SE senator voted for his clearance

I am not Ibo but Reno has been a controversial figure with deep hatred for SE for no just cause.

Such individuals shouldn't be rewarded with appointments like this

Well, this is Nigeria, where the VP and Minister of state for defense are known sponsors of terrorism, yet they are in government