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khingTony:
alright, initially you didn't say you are "rich", and you didn't say you want a "big Wedding"
well, if you are rich and earn big monthly, 3 million naira won't be too much for a wedding
the amount I stated Earlier was for an average income earner, 60K can take care of a home, but can't guarantee you a comfortable life, and your partner should be able to assist you.

am am average earner, but am trying to come to terms how 60k monthly income can be managed in the home

highpriestess:
500k.

please, take note, starting a family is one Herculean task.

do you mean for the total cost of the wedding or for your monthly earning?

mrbyron:
No less than 100k monthly and the girl the guy is getting married to must be working too, earning no less than 50k monthly

bro sincerely, how many people earn up to 100k monthly. wow! dat means dat a lot of Nigerians will have to stay unmarried. thanks all the same for your opinion it is very welcomed

khingTony:
just budget like 500-600k for the wedding,
60k-90k monthly earnings is fair enough

can 60k be enough to take care of a home? and besides do you think 600k will cover the cost of both traditional wedding and white wedding?
anyway, thanks for your opinion, its well appreciated.

guys and ladies in the house. please how much do you think a guy's monthly earnings should be before he can think of getting married. please i really need your sincere opinion on this issue cause i plan on settling down anytime soon. secondly i will also love your opinion on how much do you think is the least amount a guy should have as savings to cover up the cost of marriage rites and overall celebration expenses.

Millenniumlady:
What's not a good character they are in a relationship so it's her right to take those gifts from him

OLOSHO. you were on the other thread saying there are no good men out there and here you are acting like the true OLOSHO you truly are

Millenniumlady:
So that's why you're judging me......Such is life

Its enough to judge you with such misleading and imoral word on your signature. people attribute your signature to your innate thoughts and what you stand for. 'hoeing' portrayed in your signature makes people see you as highly promiscuous even if you are not. you could be cool but people could see you as otherwise and tend to take you as just a fling without loyalty.
my advice, remove such signature or anything that could portray you as immoral which might hide the true and tender loving girl that every guy would die to keep and take home to mama, or better still, quote the name of the artiste so they would know that those words aint yours

Prognose:
What you 'think' or "not think" , is the least reliable source of information.
I can swear to you that I saw a goat talking today and I honestly think 99% of women have not been molested but rather lost thier virginity through careless means. I can think anything and put it as smartly as possible, but it doesn't make it true. My "opinion" is not reliable.

Google allows for anyone to put information on it. Google information is usually and mostly misleading. It is filled with the unverifiable opinion of millions of people and societies all over the world. You might read it on google, but that doesn't mean it is true.

Google has a separate engine for verifiable information that has been researched upon. Its called Google scholar. Other search engines for verifiable information include hinari, iSeek, researchgate, sciencedirect, plos one, ERIC(educational resources information centre) etc.

If you want to prove something for sure, you have to take it through a series of tests to ensure that the results you get will be true. The lowest form of research you can try would be case reports while the highest form of research would be a metaanalysis. Without seeking information
this way, you would just be carrying around other people's opinions. Wether they are true or not, just because you saw it on google.

true talk

Ellabae:
wish I could hold u right now nd tell u it's gonna be fine. Jst be strong dear.

haba! aunty!! hold him? do you want to molest him again?

ndy87:
it's not a laughing matter.

do you know anyone who was sexually molested as a little boy?

ecstasy357:
I don't feel comfortable sharing

please do, its a faceless forum and you could be letting the world know that this evil practice does exist

odinmachi:
drop contact

what do u gain by watching porn, it only heightens your crave for sex and masturbation

zinnyzee:
Enough of this please.... It's sickening, not a thing to joke about.

its ok, was just kidding, at least Nigerians are more enlightened that such social vice against the vulnerable little male children does exist and should be kicked against

zinnyzee:
Shut it already, ass-hole.

hmmmmm ass hole, i guess thats where you like touching the little boy

zinnyzee:
Shut up.

well at least you have learnt that you will be destroying that little boy's life so stop playing with his winky while bathing him

zinnyzee:
Yeah.

have you molested any young child before? talk true make devil shame. you have looked at and played with their winky before.

zinnyzee:
Heh... This is a new one on me.
I always thought the molestation and abuses were one sided. This is an eye-opener.

now u know

A Russian boy reportedly beheaded himself with a chainsaw after losing at a computer game.
Pavel Mateev, 15, from Tomsk region, went into his yard on Monday morning, September 3, before he "switched on a chainsaw and sawed off his own head."

Russian media cited local sources saying that he was addicted to a computer game that his single mother had bought for him. It is unclear what computer game he was playing before he killed himself, but a female source said Pavel spent hours at his computer and that his "nerves gave in after a game".
The local office of the Russian Investigative Committee gave no further details on Pavel’s case except to confirm a criminal case had been opened into incitement to suicide.

what ever addiction you are battling with, you have to stop it now or it could be the end of you!!!

MISEDUCATIONS:
most men were raped as boys. many men lost their virginity without their intelligent consent

and they are also suffering the negative effect till this day

QueenSekxy:
men are worst.

its because theirs are more reported. when a male is molested and complains, he is seen as a pvssy

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Can't even read the stories with a straight face. Perhaps I should start up an NGO for molested males.

if u can, at least d world should know that not only female children are being molested. i think its high time we start paying attention to the boychild

Deadlock:
Bad relatives are worse than sworn enemies.

so true

more

Nigerian Men Recount How Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' Sexually Abused Them


Read this shocking revelation of men who have been sexually abused and molested in their childhood days.
guys if you have been sexually abused as a child please feel free to share your experience so parents can learn.

please move this to front page


Olashile Abayomi
@FireOFola

Dear men,
Please can you share any bad experience you have had with a woman?
I'm not talking about heart breaks in relationships..

I mean pure evil like molestation, sexual harassment, abuse, unfair treatment at work etc..

Please share
Don't be shy.. Please!

https://mobile.twitter.com/FireOFola/status/1036194524924661760

i served in yikpata camp kwara state. the camp is so terrible with bushes surrounding the hostels especially hostel 5. the clinic is poorly furnished and yikpata is far from ilorin where corps members can get proper medical treatment in case of serious emergency.

franklingud:
Hey start there, open your mouth.

Yaba left

Uselu psychiatric is preferable for you bro

Barzinime:
And you think there is a dot of brain in you?

i don't think, i know there is obviously not a dot of brain in you