No one has the right to judge another, more so in an era where no one is willing to judge anyways. Who is flawless? That is the question that quickly come to mind, I guess. However be it, do not put yourself in a position to discover that on the day of reckoning, the one who will judge you and must judge you will be YOU. Wise counsel is meant to be heed. Thanks to Linda Ikeji and her kind.


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We are encouraged much more to adopt the Jewish phenomenon which allows resourcefulness though natural gift ....Let craftmanship be unleashed in an era of economic crunch. An era of no paid jobs availlable. Developing an attitude that enables multiple income flow.



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Contrary to his declaration, it makes him more affectionate than bad to have all his family members with him everywhere he goes. I never thought tattoo could be a genuine binding force until this came along. This sure redefines the widely criticized art in this clime.


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This doubled view is so worth it! ...It is amazing to see women sacrifice time, money and knowledge to empower others. Having done these, it is up to every woman out there to decipher the area of her life requiring empowerment. A person's deficiency can only be restored on a platter of determination to change and taking action which enable appropriate solutions apply. Self development is entirely an individual decision to make. Do not forget all these include "Being a Beyonce" amidst all of it. Get entertained!

"When women come together with a collective intention, magic happens"....Phylicia Rachad.


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Preaching the word got more practical than you can imagine in this church.
What is your take on this learn-how-to-make-love session of gospel spreading.


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Don Jazzy Again!.... Giving his audience back to back this past days as he reveals why he is reluctant to put a ring on a finger for life partnering....

Verified
"For so long everyone keeps asking me when am I getting married? Well truth is almost 18 years ago I was 20 and I got married to my best friend Michelle @yarnstaswitch and it was beautiful. I loved love and I loved marriage. Michelle is soooo beautiful inside and outside with such a soft heart. But then me being so young and full of dreams I went and bleeped it up cos I was giving all my time to my Music. Music became priority instead of my family. We got divorced when I was 22 and it hurt. I am still very much in love with my music and I wouldn’t want to marry another and Bleep it up again. So I’m taking my time. Why am I just saying this now?? I really like to keep my relationships private actually. Past or present. But I was watching the bounce interview with Ebuka which is almost like a tell all interview, and I felt bad skipping this huge part of my life. So yeah make una no vex o. ��‍♂️��‍♂️��‍♂️"


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Themba Cabeka survived a dare-devil risk to be lifted from Jo'Burg to Uk in the wheel of an aircraft in company of a friend Carlito, who unfortunately paid the ultimate prize for such desperate search for greener pasture.


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You may have been buried but do not forget you are seeds... by dying, you multiply. Keep faith.
Jesus Christ suffered the kind of death no one would wish an enemy yet he was without sin. He was humiliated and tortured to death that we may be reconciled with the Father. If you are healed by his stripes, then you believe no love is greater than that of the one who gave up his only begotten son . Keep faith therefore, to the end.


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The music producer, Michael Collins Ajereh a.k.a Don Jazzy who said that as a kid, he helped his father on the farm and sold bean cake or Akara for his mother expressed displeasure over Nigerians' preference to queue up behind western celebrities like Lori Harvey on social media. Though he took it right out of my mouth since it appears foreigners capture the heart of young fans more than indigenous wave makers, the big question is Why?


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Answering and making of phone calls while charging could be lethal to the handler under certain circumstances capable of instigating hazards.

Most people are guilty of this act virtually on daily basis not knowing the dangers involved in such act.

All you need to know...
Generally, charging increases the temperature of the internal component of the device including the battery thereby raising the device susceptibility to explosion.

Smartphones usually emits radioactive materials that are nuclear to arousing turbulence when the situation warrants.

Furthermore during in coming or outgoing calls, the level of radioactivity progresses to an alarming state that can initiate explosion that could be disastrous.

It has been discovered that not using the manufacturer’s original wall charger and battery is a potential cause of explosion in most smartphones during calls while charging.

To be on the safer side, it will be advisable to detest from making and receiving calls while charging most especially when you are using third party wall charger and battery.

Also substandard mobile devices that were not manufactured in accordance with international safety standards are also a causative factor capable of triggering such hazards. This is because such devices emits higher amount of radiation due to improper radioactive shielding done on such devices.

Poorly structured batteries when heated to a specific temperature could trigger an explosion due to the inability of the battery to handle or absorb such intense situation.

When such explosion do occur, severe burns are usually the aftermaths. These outcomes are extreme enough to cause death if immediate help is not rendered to such victims. Such burns are as a result of the severe electrical shock that accompanies such situation abruptly arising from the inability of the entire device to coordinate the influx of the charged electrons.

Low battery situation is another avenue that is necessary for increased radioactive material emission which obviously is a potent factor for hazards of this kind. Such explosions are more likely to occur at the initially phase of the charging process when the percentage charge level is still minimal and insignificant.

In a bid to quickly pass across vital information during low battery situations, victims are usually anxious to make calls thereby predisposing them to such potential hazards that could be lethal, and this risk increases with devices on third party accessories such as battery and wall charger in conflict with original manufacturers’ standardization.
Be informed .....Don't be ignorant.


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Jaruma empire got Regina Daniels hooked on Waist beads, Chocolates and Aphrodisiacs on a total bill of 10,000{N5m}. A whooping, eye popping sum! Delivered in their Abuja home by Jaruma empire boss herself, billionaire Ned Nwoko's youngest wife excitedly received and showed off her latest acquisitions {Kayamata products} which she ordered 2 months ago and has frantically called for it's delivery.
Kayamata has widely gained acceptance among the elite for sex enhancement. This transaction was made with the approval of her bedroom buddy and hubby from every indication.
The presence of Ned Nwoko was heavily felt as he stepped into the room{off camera}with an aura that got the aphrodisiac guru and dealer on her feet and bending in humble and respectful greetings. His presence also had a romantic effect on the setting. Regina's voice changed to a pure affectionate one as she paused in admiration of her husband, calling him baby adoringly.
Jaruma proudly put her cash payment of $10,000 on display too for the purchase;

Waist beads at N1.5M

Jaruma Chocolates and Aphrodisiacs content put at N3.5M

Apparently, they have more to pull off as she cajoled Regina.


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. Telema loses focus as well as her men. While she flaunts her pride, men see something else. Has she given it all it takes to keep her virginity but not herself a desirable woman? Let's find out...


It looked like my lucky day as a relationship counsellor to step into an empty waiting room upon my arrival at the office. Well, not so surprised... It was Valentine's day! My candid wish was that no one would digress from the euphoria of the day to visit a relationship rehab haven... At last I might have the time I needed to prepare the piece for presentation at a couples' night event on that special day, lovers' day, So I got down to work as soon as I settled in, totally consumed in it when I got a tip off about the presence of a visitor. I guess I muttered something to my secretary before she exited. Whatever it was, I needed about half an hour to finish my write up but what sounded like a bang on the door got me startled. It didn't register that I granted the meeting with whoever yet I had a lady gaining entrance and apologizing as she did. The past days had seen all attendees come in pairs. I must confess, it's not always a walk in the park having couples consulting together. It takes much diplomacy to tackle issues without appearing like a feminist, chauvinist or any ruin to either of them. I am Telema, she said cutting through my thoughts while I beckoned her to sit. I am a frustrated single she added before making herself comfortable. I am so sorry, my visit on a day like this might ruin your schedule today. I could have gotten an appointment but am desperate...am truly sorry, she apologized some more. If it would mean anything, I quickly introduced myself to confirm to her she is meeting with the right person since it was her first visit. My frustration about men walking out on me simply because I wouldn't give in to their demand for sex hit the roof on my 36th birthday, which by the way was two days ago. It got so tempting to give away my virginity just to keep a man a little longer in my life...maybe long enough for wedding bells to ring. She continued in a raspy voice. I have toiled hard enough to be in some love nest, with a soulmate on a day like this but look at me here, she lamented.
I assume and let people vent whenever they come gushing like that, letting them speak as they wish in the first ten minutes creates conducive interactive atmosphere, enables them ease off, feel at home with me as well as gives me a vague insight into the personality and character on set. The earlier I understand, the better and quicker I can help...not getting contradictory now because that word "quick" doesn't apply in relationship repair. Uninterruptedly, She narrated her ordeal from one man to another.
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I couldn't break my gaze at her while making a mental note of the number of men she mentioned. She had been through 13 romantic relationships since her 24th birthday. Wow! What a collection of Ex's. How Telema managed all those without ending up in bed with one of them remains a mystery, making her a super woman, more like a highly principled girl...Isn't she? The awful of her dilemma is that none of these men held on for more than 8months.
Good enough she hadn't lost her virginity before her visit to me but holding onto it may not be the reason men dump Telema.
No doubt, several men who want sex before marriage do insist or walk away if not obliged. In this case, the problem may not be the virginity or the sex denial. It wasn't her looks either. She was an alluring beauty which I prefer to being charming...she was every feature a sexy piece worth waiting for by any man in his right senses. I see no need for the rush to co habit to disrespect her wish which seemed to have been the judging by her narration. Telema indulged me regarding her social and financial status, revealing how she attained self-sufficiency in a dignified fashion.
Despite all these, she isn't good enough for keeps as a wife yet. Please don't say "it's not her time yet". This statement has kept many from looking inward and unlearning or relearning as maybe required. Thankfully, she's enlightened and courageous to overstep such assertions to seek professional help.

I will tell you for free... after what seemed like an hour thirty minutes listening to her, I had some questions popping up on my mind but had to wait for her to take a breather but she ignored all the signals I gave her to let me come in beyond nodding, shaking my head and saying "awwwww" She would stop me with" Let me finish Doc, I'm not done talking doc" Realizing she was never going to finish, I started deciphering what her problem could be. It is beyond being attracted to men who aren't ever ready to settle down. It Is possible she obviously ignored a character trait tarnishing her personality...something her crop of men frown at. It's exhausive to deal with someone whose opinion must hold since they would never hear from the other side. It surficed that i would never have my chance so i kept listening as she went over and over about herself, her pride, her dignity, her beauty, her money her age and over bearing being. she couldn't stop talking and didn't stop. she drank water all the way to bottom of the bottle. Could it be she is tied to certain kind of personality who detests people who can not hold a decent interactive communication but who likes being engaged in a boring one sided conversation. Telema spoke lightly but breathlessly, maybe eloquently but rarely considered a pause. It occurred to me she wasn't one to listen to anyone else but herself.

Telema talks too much! I had to conclude. The beautiful wealthy damsel sitting before me is talkative. Yes, Talkativeness!... This is the problem. While she goes wordy, rambling inexhaustibly, the men who encounter her are impatiently dying to have the amiable girl, the meek personality projected by her appearance... this often seem at large, That girl is never there, It's only a matter of time, sooner than later actually, the center just falls apart and they would be gone. Anything done too much is bad.

The popular scriptural parable of the ten virgins revealed both the wise and the foolish were virgins; A set of five were not allowed to see the bridegroom not because they refused to lose their virginity to the groom before the wedding night...But because they were foolish. They were called foolish because they had no extra oil and were adamant. Extra oil in this case is good character!



Telema didn't have extra oil to sustain the kind of relationship she's presumably destined for. While she bragged about her virginity which seemed basically what she had to offer, these men sought more enduring quality. Unfortunately as it seemed, she never heeded self-counsel either because everything she might need as counsel from me, she said herself. She knew it all and proudly called herself a chatter box but she was simply garrulous. I couldn't agree with her on hiding under a street jargon "Chatter box" to rot in rudeness.
It's in fact rude not to let others have their turn to talk in a supposedly interactive session. I have admired "chatter boxes" but only on instances where they chart a money spinning course with it...where it's been converted to a potential source of livelihood the way Bovi and Treva Noah have done. Even the doctrine teaches Christians to fast from words that they may listen and learn.

If she could barely shut up, how can she handle confidential matters? She has a bad behavior which of course many may have tried to point out to her.


I broke through her one million word per minute to get her to take a deep breath and a minute to think...I asked her to tell me one thing her erstwhile lovers complained about her, just one common thing her lovers complained about her.

Surprisingly it seemed a tough one for her to figure out. I had to quickly make a note, listing a few bad manner seemingly associated with ladies of her age and class.

Overtly sensitive

Criticism

Waywardness

Crowding themselves with friends

Showy

Opinionated

Domineering

Frigid

Stinginess

Expensive to maintain

Religiosity

Quick-temper

Hiding a health condition

After going through the note…They say I talk too much, she said casually but I think am just bold and quite expressive….

She was in the middle of more when I cut in again to ask her to choose the option/options nearest to "talking too much" in the list. Taking a closer look, she chose domineering, opinionated and showy.

Impressive! It felt. She said it herself which made it easy for me. I explained straight how talkativeness could have been the bane of her relationship, talkative are usually socially awkward since no one sticks too long around them…
to be continued...
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