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Samuel1402:
Hello Nairalanders I just need ur mature advice on blind date. I met this pretty lady on Facebook about a year ago now, when I first know her she don't used to reply my chat she doesn't greet me if online many times I've try to talk to her online she always ignore me no matter what I say. But last year june the whole thing change she started talking to me she gave me all her contact no,had bbm contact and since then we av been two good friend online in October last year she told me that she feel I av something in mind that I might want to tell her but I said no and she keep asked this anytime we met online. Truly I av it in mind to tell her I'm already in love with her but I'm afraid of losing her friendship. So when she keep asking what I av in mind for her I decided one day to tell her and last november I let the cat out of the bag I told her my mind she laff and asked me what keep me for so long to say it . To cut the story short we became serious online couple and without bn seen her b4 I was madly in love with her. We plan to meet last december but it didn't happen and now I'm off at work today and she is off at work too so we both plan to meet by 6pm today her place is about 10 to 15 min drive from my house we plan to meet at an eatry closer to her house. I've never involve in this type of date before and not to lie my heart beats as the time draw closer please I need advice from u people especially anybody with similar experienc . Please don't yab me and don't laff at me

I wouldn't laff at you,

but I'm already laughing

If she ends up being a catfish I shall laugh some more

axum:
How can you ask me to come out of the closet and still say dont be a faggggit?

I meant stay in the closet or dont be a faggit

[quote author=pasqal09 post=29532055][/quote]Lol that would be heaven

happyjuliet:
Gud day 2 u guys, 2 whom it may concern whoever decided 2 send me a FRD request do so he his own free will, coz I see no re season y some of u guys will just send me a frd request after accepting it d next tin is 2 start talking anyhow (Sex, can I have ur number, can u come 2 my house and so all) 4 crying out loud what is soooo special abt u guys place abi na heaven ni. I no some people will start criticising me, calling me all salt of names I don't care I have just said my own Ooooh, I put my pin 4 just one reason and is 2 look 4 frds notin more. Dis is 2015. Gud day.

Hello juliet.

My name is Romeo

mmmm.......


sexy

khiaa:
I don't think he would enjoy me biting him.

You'll never know unless you try,

go to him, embrace the vampiric side of your soul.

Iamvictor:
My favorite love movie of all time is: A walk to remember.
Popular but
rebellious Landon Carter ( Shane West) is
threatened with expulsion.
At these functions he is forced to interact
with Jamie Sullivan ( Mandy Moore ), a girl
he has known since kindergarten and have
had all the same classes since then, but to
whom he has rarely ever spoken.
When Landon has trouble learning his lines,
he asks Jamie for help.
Landon and Jamie begin practicing
together at her house after school. Go and get the movie.
My favorite love song of all time is
Love is like a butterfly by Dolly parton
Love is like a butterfly
As soft and gentle as a sigh
The multicolored moods of love are like it's
satin wings
Love makes your heart feel strange inside
It flutters like soft wings in flight
Love is like a butterfly, a rare and gentle thing
I feel it when you're with me. Go and download this track. Thanks for reading please don't forget to drop yours. #GodblessNigeria

too corny

khiaa:
lol...You want me to bite you?

Yes he wants it very much.

He is thirstier than a camel in the somali desert

Pls the Sciences of Hadith have rankings for how sahih a narration is.

AbooTasleemah1:
AlhamduliLlaah that you understand them in contextual meaning but are you in anyway familiar with the explanation of the scholars? Do you want to tell us none of the salaf has ever understood it the way you do? Akhee, when it comes to ambiguity like this, we seek those who knows better... And when Allaah gave us a decree through His Prophet, we're in no position to reject it or fault it. Rejecting or criticizing it might jeopardize our state of being Muslims. WaLlaahul musta'an!

Bro, If you read what I wrote I never criticised, rejected, or faulted with what the prophet said.
If you can prove that I did then I will apologise and if I hurt your feelings in any way then I apologise

CAMNEWTON4PRES:
to be honest what's wrong with Africa being regarded as a country?

I used to despite that trend too, however I am realizing that there is nothing wrong with that, yeah it is not always funny, but who cares? knowing full well that most people doing such, are not Africans , why should we care and what's bad about it in the first place? is it not the first step to our unity and us speaking with one voice? I mean what's really the motive behind us Africans trying to fight that image of Africa being a country? that because Ebola is ravaging west Africa I shouldn't be concerned because im from central Africa? or better I am from Cameroon?

or Because im Tanzanian the Cameroonian and Nigerians being killed by Bokoharams shouldn't be my concern? is it not that kind of non connection, laid back or I don't give a fck attitude, that brought us to the stat we are finding ourselves? at the mercy of western cultural, economic and military imperialism?

Asia isn't a country, Europe isn't a country, the Americas aren't a country, heck even Antartctica's divided up between countries.

Get over it

AbooTasleemah1:
As Salamu alaykum wa RahmatuLlaah!
Firstly: This is the ruling of Allaah and His
Messenger, as the Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
"Whoever changes his religion, kill
him." (reported by al-Bukhaari, al-Fath, no.
3017).
Note: It was revealed in Surat Najm Vs 2 and 3 that the Prophet(sala Llaahu alayhi was salam) never speaks of his own desire.

Secondly: The one who has known the religion which Allaah revealed, entered it and practised it,
then rejected it, despised it and left it, is a
person who does not deserve to live on the
earth of Allaah and eat from the provision of
Allaah. By leaving Islaam, the apostate opens the
way for everyone who wants to leave the faith,
thus spreading apostasy and encouraging it.
The apostate is not to be killed without
warning. Even though his crime is so great, he
is given a last chance, a respite of three days in
which to repent. If he repents, he will be left
alone; if he does not repent, then he will be
killed.
If the punishment for murder and
espionage (also known as high treason) is
death, then what should be the punishment
for the one who disbelieves in the Lord of
mankind and despises and rejects His religion?
Is espionage or shedding blood worse than
leaving the religion of the Lord of mankind and
rejecting it?

#Copied from Islamqa with some Editing from me. I hope this benefit us more... The word of Rasul(sala Llaahu alayhi was salam) is not to be checked by any of us coz we'll never understand the religion better than him, we should try and ask from scholars who knows better should we encounter any shubu'at(Unclear/ambigous issue). WaLlaahul musta'an!
...And Allaah knows best

Are you one of those e-sheikhs who barely knows any arabic, hasn't read any actual texts and likes to speak without researching anything?

If so, please continue.

I've read both hadith and you need to understand them in context. Allah swt himself say, there is no compulsion in deen (religion)

You can read my earlier reply.

Kazrem:
I just stumbled on this now and I like the content and decided to share it especially for those babes thinking they are big girls where as they biz girls.

Who is a big girl??

You are a big girl

jantavanta:
Sister of Emperor Constantine The Great

Here is an Orthodox Church icon of Princess Saint Anastasia, Emperor Constantine the Great’s junior sister:

https://www.saintsunit.org/pc/images/russian_icons/Virtuous_women/St_Anastasia_Constantines_Sister.jpg

Constantine was born in AD272 or 273 at Naissus in modern-day Serbia, son of the Emperor Constanius.

He was proclaimed Emperor in the Roman stronghold of Eboracum, now York in England in AD306 by his troops on the death of his father. They were both on a military campaign against Scottish tribe the Picts.

He founded Constantinople, as a new Rome and centre of empire, and died there in AD337.

https://www.reformation.org/en-constantine-coin2.jpg

http://www.africaresource.com/rasta/sesostris-the-great-the-egyptian-hercules/black-romans-emperor-constantine-the-great/

Bro did you know my Grandma was Julius Caesar??

jantavanta:
The true racial composition of Europe has been presented to us as a White continent so that we do not know
that Africans were the rulers of Europe and it was through inter-marriage that White people penetrated the
Black aristocracy until the 1841 when the aristocracy became whitened and decided to partition and colonize Africa.

It is time to re-examine all the images we have been shown in our textbooks and claim our heritage which included
Europe. In ancient times, Europe was practically Northern Africa, because military and scientific knowledge was
controlled by Africans called Moors (pre-Christian and later Christian and Muslim)
It was Africans who introduced Christianity into Europe and converted the arriving white Europeans to a Black Mary
and a Black Jesus.

The racial composition of the ancient world was very different when religious books were written
so we need to re-evaluate the images that we daily associate with the persons in these books.

Culture is the most powerful weapon holding down the big continent of Africa, because we have been deceived
about our History in the Faculty of Arts of tertiary institutions that were established by Europeans
to reinforce propaganda about the assumed Euro-Arab superiority over Black People.

Our development begins in our minds and will manifest in our ability to produce our needs, from toothpicks to petrol.


Here are useful hyper-links:


When Saxony was Black and England had Black Royal Families http://www.beforebc.de/all_europe/02-16-800-00-73..EnglandsFirstRoyalFamilyWasBlack.html
African featured nobility of Early Europe http://www.beforebc.de/all_europe/02-16-800-00-51.html
Kings of England and When Africans had straight hair http://www.beforebc.de/all_europe/02-16-800-00-65a.html
Africans of Ancient Germany http://www.beforebc.de/all_europe/02-16-800-00-90.html
Ferdinand and Isabelle, the Catholics http://www.beforebc.de/all_europe/02-16-800-40-NW-cas-88-000-20-10-00..Ferdinand-II.and.Isabel.of.Castile.jpg

Yes, and the sahara is full of luscious green grass

Born in 1881?

oh dear

Death comes calling

Uzeinalkali:
Traditions-base d system contains the law of killing a person who leaves Islam i.e. a Muslim who changes his religion. This is based on hearsay and not the Qur'an.
This so-called Islamic law is a
contradiction with Quranic values and clear teachings. Allah commands freedom of religion for people in this world. For example,
He says: "There is no compulsion in religion" (2:256)

"So can you force people to
believe?" (10:99)
The following verse shows that people who turn away from Allah's religion after believing
stay alive in the world:
"As for those who believe, then reject faith, then believe again, then reject faith again and become increasingly defiant, Allah will not forgive them, nor will He guide them to any path." (Qur'an 4:137)
If an apostate is killed, then he will not have the chance to believe again: the verse mentions a second occurrence of the person
believing and disbelieving. To add
further weight, the verse finishes by saying, "nor will He guide them to any path". This is clearly indicating that apostates continue to live their lives on earth as Allah will not guide them in the remainder of their lives. Killing apostates is derived from so-called authentic "hadith", but something which contradicts Allah's verses can in no way be
authentic. To justify and accept a contradictory teaching to the Qur'an is highly rebuked by Allah:
"When he learns something from our verses, he scorns them. Such people will have a humiliating punishment!" (Qur'an 45:9)
"These are Allah's verses we recite to you to show the truth. In which narration (hadith/ﺣَﺪِﻳﺚ) after Allah and His verses do they believe in?" (Qur'an 45:6)

Bro, Its a good point and here is the answer which the schilars of sharia agree on.

The Sharia law and the Ayat do not actually contradict. If you understand arabic properly, the apostasy mentioned is apostasy that is paramount to treason. The apostate may practice whatever religion they practice in private, but they are not allowed to mislead other muslims. Plus, Islam is there for society as a whole and not just for the individual, the treason that I mentioned is providing valuable information or harming the muslim society that might physically or financially harm muslims at the time in the society Muhammed pbuh was living in.

muafrika:
Am not. Am in the land of the Lion King. Hakuna Matata. I know you hate this place.

Nah I dont really mind

bizie:
Please I need your honest comments on this. I was in a relationship for four years with a girl I grown to love so much. We were soulmates. And after all those years we became so close and felt nothing would separate us. But September last year saw the inevitable happen. I broke the relationship because of a major disagreement we have failed to agree on for years. Well I don't wasn't to go into details of that.

But after some months I went into another relationship with a girl I held in high esteem. She had everything I wanted in a woman and I was happy again. I told her everything about my past life, my job, how much I earn, my plans for the future and what I expect from a woman I want to get married to. And from her response I felt we agreed on these points so the relationship began.

But not even a month into the relationship she showed her real color. Meanwhile while I was trying to woo her I heard some things about her that weren't palatable. Her ex had to arrest her cos he felt jilted after he spent about 200k on her in just a year and four months. When the case was resolved, I felt she has changed so I continued with the relationship. But like I said, her true colors began to show again. She started demanding for money subtly. As in she won't ask directly but wud alws tell me things she doest have but wished to have. I got her a tab(25k) some dresses and shoes in the space of two months. Even took her to a beach and the slave trade museum in badagry.

You guys won't believe that just the next day after the beach n museum visit she asked for hair money and I told her am broke! Only for her to rain some insult on me. Saying I am not doing enough for her as a bf. That the reason why her hair is fine n long is cos the people before me took good care of it. Adding that if this is how I took care of my ex, she won't have stayed with me for 4 years. And other miserable statements I can't remember now.

So I broke the relationship on the first of this year. She's been calling to say sorry but I told her there is no going back! Now her family and some of my friends thinks I used her as rebound for my first relationship that ended after 4 years.

Its kind of confusing but am sure it wasn't a rebound or what do u guys think. Please honest comments .........thanks.

You did the right thing and theres no need for you to feel bad.

She was using you, not the other way around. I wouldn't have stayed with her for a second

Im joking around,

dont take it seriously

Am I right in guessing you live in the USA?

Cause I live in the land of many kangaroos