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UniqueGem:
what if you where the doctor and the "to-be-groom" is your brother/dear friend, will you still follow the doctor's code of ethic? Let us be realistic here. In judging issues, let's learn to judge from the root. Firstly the lady had an affair outside their courtship, that's "cheating" and "infidelity", she got pregnant and aborted it, that's "murder" yet she was "deceiving" and "lying" to the to-be groom. Now before judging the doctor, firstly judge the lady for;1. Cheating 2. Infidelity 3. Murder 4. Deceit and 5. Lies. Being so reserved with issues like this is the reason we have so many failed marriages in nigeria. Now everyone is blaming the doctor for not following code of ethic. Now ask yourself, will you be happy if you were in this guys shoe and doctor knew the truth but kept it away from you?

Muzikluva:
true but I think the doctor wanted something from the lady.A doctor can't just go expose his patient!

Mariojane:
does her having an abortion makes u unhappy? what if she is a lady with gud morale and character? most (not all)of u guys at one time or the oda had compel a lady or two to abort pregnancy. is it not a guy dt will marry d lady that aborted for u? i believe u need to have a serious discussion with her. there is alwayz a reason to every action.
the doctor was very wrong he wasnt suppose to disclose such information to his patient patner without her permission.

mistakes do happen. if you are breaking off with her u shud remember that u will get female children and they might make d same mistake. what will u do if ur in-law-to-be breakup cos of that.(am not wishing u such but just put urself in the girl's shoe).

Tymax:
Somebody mentioned patient-doctor confidentiality. Lol. Very funny.

My friend, it is compulsory for the doctor to reveal any test results to the fiancé. If not, the marriage is a fraud; a big mighty scam.

So the doctors should also hide mental problem and HIV because of confidentiality? What if she is unable to bear children as a result of past abortions? The doctor should hide that vital information from the fiancé who is looking forward to fatherhood?

Are you kidding me?


E no go beta for confidentiality.

Freiburger:
The doctor's licence should be revolked, that kind of silly behaviour is against the code of ethics in that profession.

Cutehector:
Will forgive her as long as she has asked for forgiveness frm God.

modskiller:
Hmm hmm see kweshun!!!!!! I'd go ahead with the wedding now, then on that day when the pastor says I now pronounce you man and wife, I'd tear the pastor a hot slap, if people ask why then I'd narrate the story and tell the pastor to always ask for opinions before jumping into conclusion.

Nwa4Jesus:
Some pple are here talking trash. Cancel d wedding cancel d wedding. How many of u knows if ur wife has done abortion before? How many ladies out there that can have a confident to tell their hubby to be that d have had abortion before? Please d doctor must have been looking a way for d lady but no road for him that's why he chose to expose d poor girl. Nonsense!!!

lastpage:
You are right... but like all whistle-blowers, he did it for "the good of the Society"........ which far outweighs any other consideration we might think of.

Just put yourself in the shoes of that man.... (even if you are a woman, just imagine that someone knew your husband has impregnated woman and was with her some days before you accepted his proposal for a wedding.... and did not inform you? ...or if you are the Mother of the man that is about to start life "being duped"!)
...... marriages founded on such deceitful pedestals are the ones that produce broken homes and broken families/children.

Now, she is FREE! She can go and marry the man she really loved, who impregnated her...
..and the man too can reset his life from gear One! Its never too late to do it "right".


Lastpage!

Xiadnat:
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That doctor has a huge legal ramifications coming to him professionally.

If it were in US, thunder from the media and the medical proffession go rain down on him (doctor) finish sef.


That doctor go be the one to suffer no be the lady o

SAMBARRY:
Abeg let me hear word jare. What of the play away match men do on bach eve. Few days or hours before the wedding. Just please shut up jare




the woman sef slow she for do the wedding after the wedding push the pregnancy on the man's head . All join




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cleric:
Trust me, it is better and cheaper to cancel a wedding even few seconds to the altar than being in a marriage full if regrets. It is obvious you will need to do a DNA test for all ur future kids.

Ilekeh:
Why not ask her what caused her to abort the baby ?

If you can't communicate with your wife-to-be , then you can't communicate with your wife.

AreaFada2:
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That's why I say all those "no sex before marriage" brigade, 95% na wash. She go dey nack her oga in the office, mugu will be doing Christian courtship with her.
If not that the pregnancy came too soon, she would have passed it off as her new husband's baby.

The reason why according to research, 50% of firstborn kids belong to another man, not assumed biological dad.

Nonsense.

Truckpusher:
I will send out another invitation for bachelorhood celebration and case closed.

1stola:
Pix now or you're crazy.

dammytosh:
Please don't upload any pictures.

The guy should stop every wedding plans and forget about it

He will never forget..

humilitypays:
Watch this amazing viral video- Greatest Way To Reward A Cheating Bride:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rOL5Wv0ImFs that's what the guy needs to do.

ULSHERLAN:
I be Saint Paul

sauceny:
If truly he was a qualified doctor,he should have understood the "patient doctors confidentiality"

If i were the lady in question, i would drag him to court & ask his license be revoked with effective immediately.

denko:
if you love her forgive her and go ahead,

Fairgodwin:
make I book space first before I even read..

Ok, the answer's simple: I will first of all thank the doctor (for forever delivering me from a forever trap), and second of all, I WILL CALL OFF THE WEDDING and cut all ties with the lady!!


Who cares what people would say or do? It is MY HAPPINESS we're talking about here, like seriously!
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I am Otis!

jboy73:
Haha.
Keep exposing them.

Vision4God:
Stop every wedding plans

ULSHERLAN:
I will go on with the wedding arrangements

emmyrichie:
Wait until the wedding day when people are gathered, grab the mic, narrate the whole tale and walkout of the venue. Na the stigma go haunt am till she gets to the threshold of hades.

ammyluv2002:
Cancel the wedding ASAP

Olami90:
No story naw... Buy Biggest padlock ever/chain nd go to her house/her family house nd lock it in their presence then throw d key into d ocean...
Is there somfin to think/consider abt dat again?

searching4love:
Ignore the tramp

Dyt:
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