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linearity:
If this is abroad and it appears it is from the material used to build this House, the guy is too late.

He will be very very lucky if he did not get charged for cruelty to a child by throwing them into the cold.

Secondly, if they are married, regardless of the DNA, in the USA he is the father of the child and would be made to pay child support. He will be lucky if they did not throw him out of the House, order him to continue paying for the mortgage or rent and then child support plus alimony to the lady.

Abroad, there are proper ways to go about things, one wrong step as he has understandably done here, you will be on the hook legally.

Don't get me wrong, what the lady has done is very bad and from her comments, she is not even remorseful about it, but guys should understand that, in the West things are looked at differently, it will shock you how men are paying child support for kids that are not their even with a DNA test.

For your DNA test to hold any water in the West, if you guys are not married....you must first sue the lady for Denial of Paternity, and ask the Court to order a DNA test and make sure you do this very early when the child is a few months old....if you wait until the child has started calling you 'Da da...' the doctrine of estoppel can be used to force the paternity on you even if the DNA says otherwise.

If you guys are married, it becomes very complicated, because the presumption of the law states that you are the father, you can still overcome this, but very difficult especially if the actual father steps up and states they will take over the kid. If the actual father does not step up, States in the US would not just delegitimize a child like that just because of some piece of scientific test called DNA.

Everything you stated made sense to me. I mean, why should the innocent kid made to suffer the sin of the wayward mother? Throwing the kid out in the midnight, I can't do such.

oglalasioux:
Boy, I’m 45. Read between the lines.

That's like a fool at 45, dear friend. Happy bachelor's life at 45

Maryam070682557:
This is beautiful
Where's the location of your farm?

Osun state, Osogbo.

We've not really started farming normal In the North because of lack of rainfall..

We're praying for May to be nice

Even in the south, rain hasn't been falling regularly. People who want to plant maize are just starting

OBTOREPA:
God bless your hustle

Amen. Thanks.
I would have loved maize and melon inter cropping but goats wouldn't let me take the risk of planting maize in an open place like this.
But we just planted maize on a partially fenced plot of land beside me. If I can't go through the trouble of barricading it, madam has volunteered to use cow manure on it regularly to keep goats away from it. We will see how it goes

CelestineNelson:
Have you ever come across a DNA test that confirms that the husband is the father of the Children?

Or is this a new tactics of scattering homes ?... Because this is becoming a daily occurrence !

Those ones can't make the news and you should know why.

Orlu13:
u have inverted sense

anytime issue of DNA is brought up, human beings like u will start bringing up this line....wat is wrong with ppl like u

Did he say something wrong? He actually made sense. How many men commenting on this thread had their fathers conducted DNA test on them? Probably zero.
But if the tests are to be carried out now, some will be found out not to belong to their "daddies". . Or, may be you saying cheating just started like ten years ago?

oglalasioux:
Madam said she knew why she said no to DNA testing, smh.

Only fools marry.

If you have all the money in the world with the biggest dick in the world and the most handsome physique, your woman will surely cheat on you. That’s a fact! The most time a woman can stay without testing another dick is 6 months max .

There are some comments you read on Nairaland and you would begin doubting your wife and doubting even yourself too. But when you realised that most of these comments are made by yet-to-marry redpillers, your mind go relax a bit.

Sapasenator:
You sabi draught?

Me I be draught grandmaster nau. I played in a tournament before. I love that game die.

Since teenage years to adulthood. Lost interest in it around 2002. Even when this man would sit and play with my people, I didn't play against him. He was quite good at it, no one defeat him among my people. That was last year.

Two and half weeks ago

During the clearing

More pics

The journey started towards the end of February when I started the clearing of the yet to be developed 5 plots of land around my house.
I have two reasons for doing this:
One: to push the busy around my house back
Two: to get me busy every morning before I go out for the day as I actually have plenty of time on my hand
I equally bought and planted hybrid of water melon among the melon, about 100 seeds for N4500.
This was planted middle of March after the first rain.

ZombieTAMER:
Don't know him


But RIP Baba

He passed through my area regularly, sometimes sat with us to play draught game. The man was an alcoholic, everyone knew it was just a matter of time because it already showed in his body.
RIP

DMerciful:
I still think the lawmakers overreacted. The punishment is not commensurate with the crime

Commensurate? When they rape your 13 years old kid, tell the judge how many years you want the convict to serve. That's someone's life ruined from the inception.

and sometimes rape accusations are false. We have seen people that were framed and spent years in jail only for the accuser to confess later. Imagine the accuser never confessed and it was a life sentence!!!

His innocence can be proven later as long as it is not death sentence.

People are afraid to challenge this in order not to be called rapist but since I have zero tendency for that, I can interrogate that punishment as extremely harsh

Your family is not victim, I get it. The law is already there. If you still go ahead to commit the crime of rape, you will only have yourself to blame

eeithis:
it isn't rape he slept with a minor.... probably with the consent of the minor who later Bleep him up......

Consent of a 13 years old kid? You're probably more sick in the head than the convicted criminal

I will advise them to carry this kind of justice to the northern side because abuse of minors is too much there!!!

It is worse in the eastern region where minors are put in baby factories to be making babies every year

DMerciful:
Rape(sleeping with a minor) is condemnable however, life imprisonment? Is this not too harsh?

Lagos State house of assembly lawmakers specifically passed life sentence bill on proven case of rape and the gov at the time signed it into law.
The law is already there, just don't rape. Even the judges hands are tied. It is like when some Niger Delta states started making law that pass death sentence on kidnappers just because it has become too much.
This guy wasn't the first to be given life sentence and definitely he won't be the last person.

cenaman:
He was given life sentence because he is Igbo. If he was to be a Yoruba or hausa man, that mumu and bias Justice Oshodi, would have sentence him to five years in prison starting from the day of his arrest.

You think he was the first rapist to be given life sentence in Lagos state? Google search will help change your tribal sentiment. You guys have soft spot for criminals, why?

allcomage:
I don't support rape but life jail is no no for me. 10 to 20 is OK, then our corrupt politicians should get life jail for corruption.

That's the Lagos state law on rape. But if dem rape your daughter, mother, wife or sister, you can plead with the judge to sentence the suspect to three months jail term. Ode

Good development. The states that are not doing something like this, what are they doing with their resources?

IPIGSRSHALLOW:
Even the US elections have many irregularities.

I have witnessed them firsthand.

More importantly, whoever or the team that wrote this report is just acting as if they have not seen the videos of APC supporters getting beat up and kicked out of polling areas in the SE?

This report is complete and utter rubbish with that omission alone.

LP won Lagos and Abuja when Obidients didn't even allow APC supporters to near the polling units in South East. Obidients are just too loud on the internet, you wouldn't believe how hypocritical they're

Amayabor1:
Lol. If US citizens that support Isreal in this war come out to protest, you go know say this pro-palestine protest na child's play.

There is far more support in the US for Isreal than Palestine. Nor let these baby protests fool you.

Laughing. USA govt doesn't listen to her citizens when it comes to sponsoring wars. Many USA citizens don't even want their country to get involved in third party wars let alone sponsoring ones like that of Israel's genocide

Lol. They're weaponise anti semitism

Arafat1:
Still not my compulsory responsibility... It's up to his widow to accept or refuse my sex proposal.. It's also up to me to change my mind and help her unconditionally... No one can hold my throat and force me to help my brother's widow and even dictate how I must help her.

Even parents refuse to take care of their own kids.

I don't think anyone ever mentioned the word "compulsory" or "force". One can even refuse to help one's children like you pointed out. But you can't deny that she's your family, and her kids too.
And who wouldn't want to be helped unconditionally by family members?

galantjoe:
Before a man makes such demand, he has known that the widow is collecting pricks outside. So, it is only simp that will bankroll a woman while another man will eat her pussies.

It is where man works that he chops provided it is consensual.

I hate monkey 🐒 dey work, babu dey chop

Edit
I have a widow of my junior is brother. I paid her children sch fees and give her monthly upkeeps but I have never demand any sxx from her.
So see me as someone who take such advantage but what I said is what I would advice anybody on that matter.

So, your junior brother's widow won't eventually collect pricks outside? What will you do when you find out she's collecting dicks outside? Stop helping if she won't allow you to chop too?

Arafat1:
Don't wax sentimental


Who made it my responsibility to help a widow?

Not a random widow, your sister in law. Who probably has children who are your families

slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar

This story nor clear

If na the cashier fault unto she connive with her boyfriend to play a fast one on the the owner of the ticket

Why bet9ja dey compensate the owner of the ticket with 3 million

Shebi the matter go dey between the cashier and the owner of the ticket...why the owner of ticket and bet9ja go dey reach agreement of 3million

The story didn't say it was bet9ja, where did you read that?

justi40:
Wahala full body
Na by force to fight war

Yep. Most especially when there is no adequate volunteers. Na by force remain

Totally avoidable situation

Westerhoffe:
Not yet his time.
GOD saved him.

People saved him/them

Nlanalyst:
52k yesterday.
Ifo, Ogun state.
Although price has increased today.
56k or so .

Imagine! They couldn't even wait for two days. See how long it took them to reduce the price since naira gained value

erai30:
Nice one tit for tat, never raise your hands to hit a woman. Reserve the strength for a man or better still go and fight your mate.

She's going away for some time. Does it worth it?