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CelebritiesRe: John Dumelo Shades Super Eagles After Match With Croatia by mabelly: 7:56pm On Jun 17, 2018
Rokia2:
And offcourse Nigerians will over react as usual.

That’s his opinion kini big deal duh. undecided
What are you saying. So someone will insult you and your people and you will allow him? Whether its his opinion or not.

Thing is, no matter how bad my child is, the day a stranger will beat him that's the day you would know that he has a parent that can fight.
AutosRe: #SOLD#2010 Cheap Used Hyundai Elantra In Abuja Selling@1.150m by mabelly: 3:25pm On Jun 10, 2018
I have seen this car in 3 different places, one person wants to sell for 800k another 900k now you 1.150m.... Na wa ooo, I guess the original owner is the 800k. Because I have got to check the phone numbers attached to all 3 adverts, and they are all different.

All this best if you are the real owner.
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by mabelly: 6:03pm On Jun 05, 2018
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BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by mabelly: 5:44am On Jun 04, 2018
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CelebritiesRe: “Everybody is trying to act like its cool its really absurd” Falz on cyber crime by mabelly: 8:59pm On May 28, 2018
madridguy:
Falz should go and sit down somewhere before some of his colleagues will take it personal with him.

Nigeria entertainment industry depends on Yahuu Yahuu money if you don't know you don't know.
Without Yahuu money Nigeria entertainment industry will still be langing behind.

I'm not supporting Yahoo but since you cannot take away drug money from American entertainment industry then you cannot take yahoo money outta Nigeria industry.

So FALZ leave dirty for Lawma. Don't be too holy.

Your father cannot be defending corrupt politician and you will be forming saint.

Nobody holy pass.
Can you imagine this one. You just have to try to kill the messenger by tying him to his father. Take the message and let the messenger breath.

Abeg, is he his father? By the way, his fathers profession doesn't discriminate. Even the devil needs a lawyer. If nobody defend the criminals, you will till be the one to cry blue murder. So abeg just pack well.
CelebritiesRe: Kizz Daniel’s Name Change Doesn’t Absolve Him From Court Case – G-worldwide by mabelly: 9:03pm On May 27, 2018
soberdrunk:
All these Nigerian artistes, once they see 'small change' they are so quick to bite the hand that fed them, if i want to sign any artiste in Nigeria it will be done in three different shrines, one in the west, one in the North and the last in the East, let me see how you will go against the contract and not end up under bridge........ angry
I agree with some of your submissions. A lot of people with talents out there looking for who to promote and sponsor them and here is someone with money trying to invest, after investing, he is trying to get reward for his investment and you now want to run. Making it a bad business for him.

If we look at it from Gworldwide angle, we will realise that they do have a point. Without them, kiss Daniel will just be another artist training on the street trying to rise. Also, kiss Daniel might have just been a bad investment if he didn't blow meaning Gworldwild took all the risk. So they should equally be the one to swing the pendulum.
RomanceRe: A-Week Engaged Nigerian Lady Dumps Her Fiancé A Week After “losing” His Job by mabelly: 10:40pm On Apr 29, 2018
DonPiiko:
Saw this on twitter earlier, my response
Why are you bluring your face and handle, do you know we can actually go to the twitter handle, use the time and date to locate your tweet and booms we got you.

But who got time for that grin
CareerRe: Man Shares How His Wife Who Is An Architect Suffers Sexism In Her Profession by mabelly:
angry

Well I believe it goes both ways, just that you don't see the men complain.

Have you ever worked as a financial sales executive/rep/marketer, then you would understand that it is mostly an easy work for the ladies than the guys in that field because people would easily trust a lady with their finances just because she is a lady.

Also like someone just mentioned, that she sees guys that fix nails as sissies just because she believes its a lady's field.

So truly in this world of ours, both genders have it pros and cons and not for one gender to always cry blue murder
CrimeRe: Man Shot Dead In Port-Harcourt After Withdrawing Money From ATM by mabelly:
I didn't attend your wedding some couple of years back but I heard a lot about you. Your wife is a good friend we all(including you) graduated from the same University. I heard of how loving, caring and supportive you were and I must say, who ever did this, did not only grieve your wife, your family and your friends but grieved a whole lot of people.

I lost every appetite for food when I heard this on monday morning and still haven't gotten myself. How I wish we can turn back the hands of time cry cry

May you find peace away from this wicked world.

Rest In Peace
PoliticsRe: Fly Over And Road Construction In Epe, Lagos Ongoing (Photos) by mabelly: 8:37pm On Apr 16, 2017
Afam4eva:
Like i said, i'm not holding brief for Fayose. But i don't see how he's different from atleast 30 governors in Nigeria who just want to maintain the status quo of been spoon fed by the center. Not as if the center isn't supporting that ideology anyways else it would have released more powers to the constituent units. The only reason why Fayose is a topic of discussion is because he's always in the news for the wrongest of reasons.
I agree with your submission here.

And that is why we need to start stoning our leaders, at least the northerners have started. Instead of waiting for one non existing judiciary to apply the Constitution, let us start stoning them just the same way we pass instance judgements on people who are caught stealing Maggi and yam without us waiting for their conviction so why can't we do same to these bunch of criminals in Prado jeeps.
PoliticsRe: Fly Over And Road Construction In Epe, Lagos Ongoing (Photos) by mabelly: 8:20pm On Apr 16, 2017
Afam4eva:
As for Fayose, i'm not making a case for him. He's your typical Nigerian governor who is average at best. But we seem to be judging him sing the Lagos and Akwa Ibom yardstick which is not fair. With the mothly allocation that states like Ekiti get monthly, the best they can do is to use it for overhead and other minor to average projects. You're definitely not going to be seeing the kind of projects you see in Lagos and Akwa Ibom there. It's just not going to happen. Maybe if Ekiti had a huge source of income.
I will like to differ to the above quoted.

Any sensible governor or government with limited fund and resources would think out a plan to get involved in a more commercially viable venture that has economic of scale and the easiest to go into would be agriculture.

Instead of running from market to Palm wine joint. Fayose should get involved with creating wealth with the little he has instead of spending all on feeding and waiting for monthly stipend from Abuja.

Let ekiti be known for a particular commodity or production and see how the fortune of the state would change for the better.


I am sure if Fayose was a hustling young bachelor whose father gives monthly allowance our advise to him would be for him to try and hustle hard investment and make money for himself so that he would be independent. Isn't it?
PoliticsRe: Fly Over And Road Construction In Epe, Lagos Ongoing (Photos) by mabelly: 7:56pm On Apr 16, 2017
deomello:
Lagos state's total debt is N432 billion

Delta's state's total debt is N700 billion

Akwa Ibom passed more budget figures than Lagos state, but nothing significant came out of the huge budgets.


Money without sane and credible leadership means nothing.

Lagos is lucky not only because of IGR, but because they've always been blessed with good leadership from their 1st governor, Mobolaji Johnson to Jakande, Marwa, Tinubu, Fashola and now Ambode.

The mentality in Lagos is different and not the same in other state. Eko o ni baje and Eko for show means you must perform more than the leaders before you.
And instead of all these other state indigen to hold their local and state governorments accountable they keep throwing stones to far Abuja, when their state houses are close to them.

Most times when I go out I see how Lagos is transforming and I am always filled with joy. From infractures, to job creation, to beautification (this one makes me really happy), health care, security abeg Lagos is good to go. In fact I won't be wrong to say Lagos is on auto pilot right now because every machineries are been put in place.


However, Lagos might not be able to accommodate the population drift if all other states do not developed their States at the same or close rate as logos.
PoliticsRe: Fly Over And Road Construction In Epe, Lagos Ongoing (Photos) by mabelly: 7:28pm On Apr 16, 2017
Afam4eva:
He may make a difference but i assure you it won't be huge because it's very difficult to have ideas and not have money to execute them. Those bridges that he builds in Lagos cost a lot of money and one bridge can finish Ekiti's allocation for one year (exageration), so it will be had for him to build anything of note.

I'll prefer my state too have money and average leadership than have above average leadership and lack funds.
If I were you I would prefer an above average leadership with a moderate fund.

Because no amount of resources can out play the human resources. Give a billion to a dullered and see it squandered. In economics, the most valuable resources is the human.

I mostly pity delta, rivers, and most oil producing States, they've not been blessed with good leaders even with all the resources at their disposal.
WebmastersRe: I Have Been Approached To Create A Ponzi Scheme Website by mabelly: 5:56pm On Feb 17, 2017
I am inside a vehicle right now and the only thing the woman behind me has been talking about on phone is how to confirm someone on one of these ponzi scheme and how to make payment for another. She is laughing and giggling.

And you are here talking conscience. It's a choice, not a must or compelled.
WebmastersRe: I Have Been Approached To Create A Ponzi Scheme Website by mabelly: 5:51pm On Feb 17, 2017
Dude, you just acted unwise. I understand you really aren't good with website development so I understand you rejecting to do the job but if it's on moral ground man, you just lost an opportunity to make yourself rich.

Now think of those tobacco companies, they produce cigarette even when they know the health implications and the fact that it kills people yet it's a multi billion dollar business. To me since nobody is being forced to part with their money then it's their cross to carry when it is lost. In life, you win or you lose.

So my friend. You just lost an opportunity.
Car TalkRe: Third Party Insurance. What Does It Cover? by mabelly: 7:06am On Feb 15, 2017
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SportsRe: Video: Lionel Messi’s Jaw Dropping Amazing Assist/dribble/tricks…looks Impossibl by mabelly: 5:36pm On Feb 01, 2017
Wonderful.... I will always give it to Messi, the guy is good
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Job Vacancy by mabelly(op): 9:31pm On Jan 18, 2017
4words:
So I can ask my cousin to go with his CV for the interview?
I believe your cousin can
Jobs/VacanciesJob Vacancy by mabelly(op):
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigerian Bottling Company Limited Experienced Job Recruitment 2016 by mabelly: 2:43pm On Dec 14, 2016
wiztobet:
Yeye people, afta they must have given out the slot...... huh
lol and how do you know this.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Zorya Vs Manchester United: Europa League (0 - 2) On 8th December 2016 by mabelly: 6:51pm On Dec 08, 2016
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RomanceRe: Would You Like To Know Why Men Cheat? by mabelly(op): 6:15pm On Nov 06, 2016
Oyiboman69:
Its in their making...nothing anyone can do,only the poor ones stay loyal,at least for the time been.
lol youve got a point here. so should we pray they remain poor and loyal or rich and not loyal undecided
RomanceWould You Like To Know Why Men Cheat? by mabelly(op): 5:03pm On Nov 06, 2016
Five things men are looking for when they cheat:


1. Emotional connection.

As relationships mature, power struggles tend to become more prevalent (as obvious as the "I'm Right"/"No, I'm Right" conversation and as subtle as the timing and frequency of sex). When a man experiences repeated

power struggles with his spouse, his natural tendency is to "go to his cave", which really means get quiet and distant and grumpy! Which makes emotional connection that much more difficult. Over time he misses the emotional connection he previously felt with his spouse.
When he meets someone new and they accept him for "who he is" it's much easier for him to connect with his emotions and feel connection with this new and interesting person. Of course when the lust and honeymoon period are over and the power struggles start to arise in the new relationship he'll likely revert to his well-learned pattern and his struggles will start all over again.

2. Appreciation.

Men loved to be appreciated and like so many people they don't really know how to accept appreciation! Or how to ask for it or even how to give it to themselves (or to other people for that matter). So when it stops being quite so plentiful from their spouse and if the relationship contains a heavy dose of blame and criticism (as most do) or even possibly contempt, men start looking for positive affirmations from others. With the new love interest everything is wonderful — he is wonderful — in the first flush of a new relationship — then we all tend to fall into upping criticism and dropping appreciation

3. Intimacy.

Men want a partner who will listen, who will volunteer information about their own lives and discoveries and someone who smiles and excitedly shares their hopes and dreams. Of course, men don't generally know how to communicate this. In their existing relationship the tendency is to think, "We're married, I know everything about you ... " In their new relationship everything is new and exciting and learning about the new partner is initially easy and the feeling of intimate connection is created.

4. Feeling wanted.

Everyone wants to feel wanted regardless of age, gender or occupation. Men are no different. And men tend to be socialized to provide security and strength as an expectation, rather than something to be appreciated for. As life moves along a man can often feel like his contribution is taken for granted and who he is, as opposed to what he can provide, becomes less important. In a new relationship suddenly he matters again.

5. Sex.

Speaking of fun activities, men generally do want sex and the more the better. Sex is one way that men feel connected to their partner. Men also feel appreciated and wanted when they have sex with their partner. So for men, sex provides the first four items on our list plus physical pleasure that allows men to focus totally on the present moment. In a new relationship the sex tends to be a lot more frequent. At least initially!
So what's the answer?

When a man thinks about cheating it's likely that he's not happy about the relationship he's in and/or that something is missing. What also seems to happen is that men feel victimized by their relationship and believe they have no power to influence a change. "If only she would ..." is often a refrain that many married men espouse and yet they say nothing to their partner. Or complain that when they try, she just doesn't listen.

Sure there's a part that the partner plays in all this but I'm talking about the male side of the equation and what the man can do to find what he's looking for within his relationship.
I see four main approaches being part of the cure:

1. Be brave. Speak up about what is concerning you or lacking in your relationship — regardless of the response that comes up from your partner. If you want something different in your relationship, you need to become courageous and communicate clearly. Then the possibility for creating something very different and special can exist.

2. Take responsibility. Be open and interested in what you are doing to contribute to the state of your relationship. And be willing to make your own changes.

3. Recognize the difference between feeling sexual and taking action. Sexual feelings, like all our other feelings, are not under our control. Acting on our sexual feelings is totally under our control. Don't use the "I just couldn't help myself" line to excuse your behavior.

click on the link below to continue reading ...

http://kleeqers.com/ask/articles/ask/would-you-like-to-know-why-men-cheat
WebmastersRe: 10 Things You Must Know And Have Before Creating A Blog by mabelly: 2:44pm On Feb 06, 2016
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RomanceRe: October 24th: My Introduction Date That Never Came Through by mabelly: 8:32am On Oct 24, 2015
Ayauche:
Am also a catholic and I dnt see myself giving up my faith for anything or any1. If u both really love each other as u proclaim then u can come to an agreement. Dis isn't a new situation and couples do overcome them. Dnt end ur love story if really there is one. Dnt listen to advise 4rm anyone rather do what ur heart tells u. Advises will only confuse u the more.
Can you hear yourself? You said you dont see yourself giving up your faith for anything or anyone yet you are talking about coming to an agreement. B*ullshit!!! There is no coming to an agreement from your end because your mind is made up.
Science/TechnologyRe: 9 Tech Companies Building Nigeria’s Future by mabelly: 9:51pm On Oct 19, 2015
dejt4u:
10. Sidmach (ICT)
Hello, do you work with Sidmach or you know someone who works there?
PoliticsRe: Shovel Used To Serve Food At IDP Camp In Maiduguri (photos) by mabelly: 6:17pm On Aug 27, 2015
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LiteratureRe: Two Realms... {Romance-thriller} by mabelly:
TiffanyJ:
Wow, divepen1 you never sleep? How have you been? Suddenly I lost track of you on Nairaland
Tiffanyj, kindly respond to my request please.
LiteratureRe: Deceitful Couple by mabelly:
TiffanyJ:
Write it soon? I just started writing the plot. I just saw how Maureen and jake story will be. Jake's charcter is one very bad one. Now that I have my plot, I can write the story whenever I want, for now, one other story occupies my mind
Good evening Tiffanyj, my name is Mabelly, an astute reader of Nairaland and its literatures. I recently launched my own website and i have a literature segment where stories will be published for the viewing pleasure of the public.

After going through some of the literatures on here and the great talents that abound, I humbly request for your stories to be published on my website. your story will be credited to you with your name written at the bottom with due publicity. i believe this would broaden your horizon and publicity reach. Thanks as i await your response. My contact... mabelly001atgmaildotcom
HealthRe: No Ebola Patient Died In Abuja - Says Doctor Who Treated Suspected Patient! by mabelly: 7:49pm On Aug 03, 2015
repogirl:
grin OYO thinzz
hi repogirl, you are really a bunch of talent. your writing skills are A1. keep it all.Forever and For Always.

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