Freestainworld: Nothing is absolutely wrong with that, it is left for you to answer or not.
Lol . It's also left for them to employ him or not. Really, this salary thing is rampant now some even go to the extent of requesting for payslip, new stuff now na statement of account request. To me this is totally wrong but in Nigeria everything goes.
BabaIbo: I am a young man in my thirties and she should be in the same range(I didn't ask her about her age because I don't really lay emphasis on age). We are from neighbouring towns.
As my heading reads, recently I met a lady online and we have been communicating well and I noticed she ticked most of the boxes of what I want in a woman.
Prior to now, I told myself I will stay away from anything woman because I just started a business last year and I want it to grow and balance before thinking of any thing women or marriage.
Recently, I noticed I am developing strong feelings for her, strong enough to lead to the alter.
Now the problem is, she is a single mother of two, we don't stay in the same city and the father of those kids seems to live in a neighbouring city to where she lives(although to a good extent the father of those kids is not a problem).
My question is what will you advice me to do in this situation? *Go on and start a relationship with her. *Keep her as a friend, although she may get hooked by another man along the line.
Anybody here who have been in similar situation, should help share their experiences too.
Note: She has never been married. She is working and comfortable, money a problem is not a problem, i.e no unnecessary billing associated with some relationships.
May be real love but check if vegetable is not involved first of all.
Young042galaxy: What are they reverting to? If it's not from N52 per kilowatt to N33 it was before, then their reversal is rubbish. This increments is killing us especially students. I now spend 2k for just 38kwz which lasts for just 7days.
MyOpinion1: The most important thing is for you to marry someone you are emotionally and sexually attracted to. Men to some extent are promiscuous in nature But a woman will cheat either because of greed,/finances or because the partner/husband cannot satisfy him *bedmatically* .
When you find reasons for women to cheat, although you're not 100% correct, may I say men may give you reasons why they cheat. Need for Varieties stands tall.
I was recently given a 6 months contract by SFH to work as a finance assistant of a project with a salary of N125,000 per month (subject to 5% withholding tax) and I currently work as an accountant for a private school which salary is N70,000 per month.
Is it advisable that I leave my current work of N70,000 per month and go for the contract offer with SFH or I should just reject the contract offer and continue with my present place of work?
Plz anyone?
Bro, I doubt if there is any temptation here. Years ago, I was in a similar shoe, I got a take home salary offer of ₦612k when my current salary then was ₦180k thereabout. I was certain the company I was to move to is an highly projectized one (meaning it rarely exceeds its target so the extension could not be more than 3 months). When I tot about school fees after the 6 months, I jejely remained in my 180k job. Keep searching for a better job but reject the new offer!
domopps: Former Nigerian President Olusegun Obasanjo, has 21 children and though he listed the names in his recent controversial book, My Watch, he did not mention their mothers.
However findings by ENCOMIUM Weekly revealed the mothers of these children and other women that had dalliances with the two-time president of the country.
The mothers of the children include…
MRS. OLUREMI OBASANJO, his first wife, who he married on Saturday, June 22, 1963, at Camberwell Green Registry, South East London. She was just 21. Mrs. Oluremi Obasanjo is the mother of six of the 21 children of the former president.
They are Senator Iyabo Obasanjo, Busola Obasanjo, ; Olusegun Obasanjo, the first son, ; Olugbenga Obasanjo, Enitan Obasanjo, and Damilola Obasanjo, the last of the woman’s children who was born in 1982.
MRS. STELLA OBASANJO, the late former First Lady died on Sunday, October 23, 2005, in Spain after a failed tummy tuck surgery. She had only a child, Olumuyiwa Obasanjo, who was born in 1977, for the former president.
GOLD ORUH, a former director at Nigerian Television Authority (NTA), who met the former president as a reporter during the civil war in Port Harcourt, Rivers State. She had two children for him. Her children are Funke and Seun Obasanjo
MRS. TAIWO OBASANJO, is the twin sister of Mr. Kenny Martins, the politician and former Chairman of Police Equipment Fund. She also has two children for the former president. One of her children is Esther Olubunmi Obasanjo who got married in August 2010.
Mrs. Taiwo Obasanjo has since reverted to her maiden name, Martins. Since her secret dalliance with late Godwin Daboh became public knowledge, the former president distanced himself from her.
Late MRS. LYNDA OBASANJO, nee Soares, was another woman who had children for Chief Olusegun Obasanjo. She was said to have had two children for him before she was killed on February 14, 1987, in daylight by armed robbers. She was 45.
We really don’t know the names of her two children among the 21 children. Her cousin, Priscilla Soares was later made MD, Nicon by Obasanjo.
MRS. MABEL OKOSODE OBASANJO is another woman who has children for the former army general. We, however, don’t know how many children she has for him and their names.
MRS. TITILAYO OBASANJO, is another woman who has a child or children for the old man. COL. ADEBOYE OBASANJO, mother’s name is not known. But according to Mrs. Oluremi Obasanjo in her book, Bitter Sweet My Life with Obasanjo, she is a mother of two and a divorcee brought to the former general by one of his aunts who lives in Arigbajo, Ogun State, when she (Remi) was chased out of their Ikoyi (Lagos) matrimonial home for challenging his (Obasanjo) philandering.
KOFOWOROLA MOJISOLA OBASANJO, who got married to Peter Kenneth Blackshire, a British Baptist minister in 2002, shares the same mother with Tunde Baiyewu, the British singer of Nigerian descent. Tunde Baiyewu’s mother lost her husband and relocated to Nigeria with her two children. She met Obasanjo who was still an officer in the army. Their dalliance produced Kofo Obasanjo.
MRS. BOLA OBASANJO, is the woman that is presently living with Chief Obasanjo. She also has a child for him called Funsho Obasanjo. The woman was formerly based in London, but had to relocate to Nigeria to be his resident wife.
There are other women in Chief Olusegun Obasanjo’s life though they did not have children for him.
HIS OTHER WOMEN MRS. MOWO SOFOWORA, a lace fabric merchant and a married woman started dating him as far back as 1973, when Obasanjo was a Lt. Col. in the army.
Mrs. Oluremi Obasanjo mentioned Mrs. Mowo Sofowora as one of the women who caused problems in her marriage. She was said to be older than Obasanjo.
MRS. LABO SALAKO, the wife of late Captain Salako, who died in 1972, at Argungu in a motor accident. Late Captain Salako was Obasanjo’s mate in London. After the death of her husband, she moved in with the Obasanjos at their Ikoyi (Lagos) residence on the advice of Obasanjo and the wife, Remi, acquiesced with her husband. But before the wife knew what was going on, Labo was already having a rollicking affair with her husband.
To make matters worse, she wrote Obasanjo a letter in which she advised him to divorce his wife, Remi. Remi got hold of the letter and made several photocopies and sent them to friends and relations. This was what led to Remi’s departure from her matrimonial home for several months. The story is in Mrs. Oluremi Obasanjo’s book, Bitter-Sweet.
MRS. LAMIDE ADEGBENRO is the wife of Chief Niyi Adegbenro, the former Commissioner for Agriculture in Ogun State and a kinsman of Chief Obasanjo.
Lamide Adegbenro, who should be in her 60s now was also mentioned by Mrs. Oluremi Obasanjo in her book as one of the many mistresses of her husband.
Former Vice President, Abubakar Atiku also mentioned her during his face-off with Obasanjo that she got a gift of a brand new Peugeot 607 and $110,000 that was paid into her NATWEST Bank, UK account in 2003, by Otunba Fasawe.
MRS. ALO: A former Vice Principal of Queens College, Yaba, Lagos, was also alleged to be a mistress of Chief Olusegun Obasanjo.
Mrs. Alo was the Vice Principal of Queens College when Iyabo Obasanjo was a student there. So, the day Iyabo saw her in a swimming trunk at her father’s swimming pool in Ota Farm, Ogun State, she nearly assaulted her if not for her mother’s intervention.
Mrs. Alo, we gathered is still very close to Chief Olusegun Obasanjo as she is a member of the board of directors of Obasanjo’s school, The Bells.
THE PRINCESS, A princess of Lagos, who is a lover of white apparels was also said to have been romantically involved with the former president immediately after the death of late First Lady, Mrs. Stella Obasanjo.
In fact, the rumour mill had it that she virtually took over the president’s private life when the First Lady died and was positioning herself as the former president’s wife before one of the children, Funke openly told her she was not welcomed in the family.
It was in order to wave off the influence of the princess in their father’s life that the children came together to impress on him to marry another woman.
It was this pressure that brought about Mama Funsho, Mrs. Bola Obasanjo relocating from London to Nigeria as his official wife….
Brosst: Tanx ma'am. I will follow part of what you said. Have been trying to raise half of the money and take it to them so that they won't see me as a bad person and I can't run away because of N40,000.
Raise what money for them? It's their mistake let them deal with it. Don't squeeze money you don't have for their own matter. Bro, look at issues from spiritual perspective and do more hard thinking.. Your situation needs to improve! Stay blessed!
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Open box means new but seal on the carton only broken to unveil the item and the owner is selling mostly cos of change of mind. Does this item satisfy these requirements?
Trump is the sense that Americans deserve... We all thank God it's not exceeding four, harrowing, years tho Some gullible Nigerians would start this Christianity/World saver's concocted conspiracy theories, as if there is no extant script we are currently playing to. To hell with that theory especially from people like FFK etc
BlowYourMind: The woman is evil looking for unnecessary publicity, what measure has she taken in house with the school board members before unnecessary outburst, she should have seek redress with the school management before going public, I even heard that the state superintendent in Deeper Life, an old man came kneeling down for her in the hospital. I guess that was what really made the commissioner so bitter against her, the woman is evil.
For those quoting me, read objectively and with open mindedness before coming to spew trash, the woman failed woefully in her parentage, how can she be the last to pick her child from school, a mother that her child have gone for 13 weeks, should be enthusiastic to have her child back home.
You're just saying nonsense. No justification for abuse of your children/ward in the boarding house. They were entrusted to the school management for adequate protection and tutelage, anything short of that is unacceptable! Check your brain and put yourself in the mother's shoe. Anyone could be delayed over an appointment even if she doesn't go back to take the child at all (if she has had an accident and died going to the school), the child's protection, which all boarding schools have signed up for, should not be handled with levity.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: An Employer Asking Applicant About His Salary In His Previous Work.is It Right? by Mac2016(m): 9:02pm On Jan 12, 2021
. It's also left for them to employ him or not. Really, this salary thing is rampant now some even go to the extent of requesting for payslip, new stuff now na statement of account request. To me this is totally wrong but in Nigeria everything goes.
