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Why are u guys emphasizing on the 500 naira being 2 small? Are u implying that you can carry on such act if offered something bigger?

ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

Guy why you no show me love instead by sending me a little token.

Today is my birthday sefff.

God go even bless you join.

Happy birthday to me


I'm 25.

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What stops you guys from posting their pictures online or giving out their names and basic information so we the citizens can easily identify them. This thing is fishy jare.

Chi59:
Who needs a certificate when you've got a sugar daddy

Mad oh.
You're funny girl.

Isoduwa:
Nigerian is a joke issa joke

20k is just 10 £ or less

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bro4u:
Lols, today's episode of my schools annual orientation exercise for it's newly admitted year one students wasn't funny at all, the students were taught 'practically' how to extinguish fire, everything was going fine oo not until the fire adamantly refused to quench. ...

Oga, are you a fresher there?

I was chilling at the convo park when the drama started.

chukxie:
Mine. Dinner with wifey and daughter at Wyndham Hotel buffet.

No be small phone snap this pictures oh.
Merry Christmas sir

Bluehill1051:
OP, How old are you?

22

I am both a Liverpool and Manchester city fan. So no heartbreaks.

saintvc:
Your parents advice is not bad. they just dont want you to put all your eggs in one basket as .you can study nursing and still do your masters in clinical psychology. and still.be a lecturer.

lecturing Job would be easy to come by in the next few years, you only have to be humble enough to receive the small pay in private university. NUC has over 50 private universities awaiting accreditation. with time, as you mingle with the professors in government, when they see how wonderful your publication are, they might get you in. morrver, you are financially boiyant to afford MSC abroad.

Thanks a lot for the advice.

kelvine:
Nursing is better. You ll never run out of jobs.
Even in Nigeria

Thanks bro, I appreciate.

Dear NL.
Recently, I was offered admission into a federal university to study psychology. I've always wanted to be a lecturer, so I opted for a course that wouldn't be much of a problem to me. My plan is to give in my best so as to come out excellent, go for my Masters abroad and venture into lecturing.

The problem here is: my parent doesn't buy the idea. They keep saying that landing a lecturing job is hard to come bye these days, that I might end up being disappointed. Moreover, a course such as psychology isn't one to expect any thing good from, especially here in Nigeria.

Now they are pleading I consider Nursing, according to them, I stand a higher chance of getting a job in a nursing profession to psychology. They are planning on sending me out of the country after the program. Should I just dash off my dream of becoming a lecturer to pursue nursing?

I love being around young people, and being in a university setting as a lecturer gives me that privilege to teach, mentor and guide them and at the same time work on my self. I think I'll find fulfilment as an academic. I'm confused, what would you advise me, if I were to be your brother?
Thanks

0temSapien:
That's the Holy Spirit. Remember the Holy Spirit dropped dead as a dove on Jesus' head after his water baptism.

You went too far in a bid to be funny.
Enjoy your doomed life.

Messi deserves it based on individual record.
Ronaldo deserved it last season based on individual record, but you know, something happened.

Tonto na Christ embassy member o

If blacks were white we'd be the worst racist

The doctor ruined his death. Everyone has the rights to life and death. In a saner country a person can be sued for interfering in a suicidal attempt.