₦airaland Forum

@leahsarah, canada,
sincerely speaking most, infact with a capital letter MOST Nigerian overseas marry a white woman for papers, they endure all the "white trash " from the woman for a visa, right to stay etc, when they get it , silly excuses erupts, literallly erupts, he wouldnt tolerate u anymore etc.

im in th uk, i have a white girl, i never tot of marrying her but she is damn so lovely. i was a player, i verbally abused her a lot yet she tot it and sometime wud only say " this is not the right way to treat a woman" sincerely those words always gets me thinking, i always felt ashamed of mysef and i would go back to apologise. anyway , after much problems ( mostly from me) she still got me thinking abt marriage, she told her parents but they refused and she pleaded with them to accept me, i heard her on the phone to them crying,pleading, she said: " dad, i have made up my mind, i really want to be with him, i luv him, sobing, finally they accepted.

however, when i told my own parents abt her and our intentions, cud u believe wat my mum said she said :" better don't bring shame to this family" this is the 21 century, i made it clear to my parents that they either accept my choice of wife or they shd forget me. my dad is a traditional chief in Nigeria, finally he is coming arnd the idea.

so back to ur man, i think he is playing you. if he insist on u to his parents THEY would surely accept you.

what is Niger delta?? it comprises of ijaws, uhrobos, efik, akwa ibom, ibos, etc. if niger delta is to b a nation, apparently they would always have the ibos. however, if they don't want the ibo as part of the nation then they would lose most part of river state and delta state as it current is, from egbema right to bonny and opobo, then asaba to agbo, all these areas are ibos. hence, the ibo nation would never b landlocked. also the new niger delta would then b truncated with akwa ibom and calabar on the east, part of an ibo nation at the center and the bayelsa part on the right.

Also, does anybody on this forum think the akwa ibomite would want to be with the ijaws i don't think so. they might not have much issues or problems  but they are so different. an akwa ibomite might despise the ibo but they know they two are more closer and think alike- both are proud and career minded people, both believe in hard work and education- thats why u get a lot of akwa ibom in eastern university than u get them in "niger delta uni" .

Anyway, this is a silly discussion. nobody is dividing, we re all stuck in this and have to find a way to get our nation out of this downward spiral and steer the debate to progressive issues.