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Good day everyone, I'm a 22year old boy recently I discovered my heart beat faster and I do have chills although there was something I was thinking about before that feeling came up. I thought it was hbp but I've checked my BP on 3 different occasions and it's normal (110/70).
Please doctors in the house what might be the problem cause it's getting me worried
Thank you

Bj5all:
Thank you

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Bj5all:
Medically it's called sexual performance anxiety, when it happened to me a couple of years ago i thought the world has ended. Got help from Google search and i just realized that i was just putting myself under pressure to please my babe and a day came that uncle D fell down flat because of too much exhaustion, that was how it all started.

The next day, when i wanted to make use of Uncle D, the thought of previous failure flash to my head and Uncle D collapse immediately and i thought it was all over. The anxiety grown until i realized it was normal and i was just putting too much pressure on myself to perform.

It will take you some time to overcome your anxiety but you are perfectly normal.

Sex involves your emotions and psychology, the problem is both has been screwed up and will need time to reset back to normal.

Please avoid taking drugs so that you don't become drug dependent, you will be fine and you will enjoy sex again

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MayorOlohLo1:
Like people have said, it's mostly psychological. I hyped my sexual prowess and made boasting claims so much that at the sight of the real deal, i was brought back to earth. I lost my balls, literally and figuratively. And it could also be as another previous person said "God didn't want it to happen". A minute of pleasure really could change the course of one's life. Come to think about it, she was too easy and beautiful to be true (met her on facebook). God is wise.
I want u to believe nothing is wrong wit u, and ur pecker is working just fine. Believe it. Mine is.
PS there's a new thread in the romance section with the topic "Guys whats ur experience with strange and weird girls". Read the comments and you'll be shocked by the things you'll see, and you'll also see where i'm coming from. Peace.

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MayorOlohLo1:
Like people have said, it's mostly psychological. I hyped my sexual prowess and made boasting claims so much that at the sight of the real deal, i was brought back to earth. I lost my balls, literally and figuratively. And it could also be as another previous person said "God didn't want it to happen". A minute of pleasure really could change the course of one's life. Come to think about it, she was too easy and beautiful to be true (met her on facebook). God is wise.
I want u to believe nothing is wrong wit u, and ur pecker is working just fine. Believe it. Mine is.
PS there's a new thread in the romance section with the topic "Guys whats ur experience with strange and weird girls". Read the comments and you'll be shocked by the things you'll see, and you'll also see where i'm coming from. Peace.

Thank you so much bro
I think my mind is relaxed now
I need to leave sex and face my studies, I know the future is bright

MayorOlohLo1:
Brotha this same shii happened to me last year in oct. i had this new chica, a catch. beautiful, busty, fair and tall, my perfect girl. It was soon time to get my pecker wet. She came. looking all breasty and sexy. immediately she stepped foot into my abode, i had began to touch and caress the softness of her bosom and buttocks like a perv in a very "i no send u" kind of way. for prior to our rendezvous we had talked countless times about the dirty things i'll do to her. She hesitated a lil bit but i gave no ears to her illogical protests. I was listening to the language her body spoke and i comprehended well enough. Next thing we know, i had her nipz inbetween my moist tongue, suckling like my life depended on it. Delay is dangerous. while at it, i noticed the formerly protesting lips were yearning for more, squeezing my head inbetween those heavy mounds, the soundtrack being so sweet to my hearing, i decided to bring out my fully cocked weapon. Lo, i was about to shoot when my john went cold and weak on me.

Lol... So how were you able to remedy the situation?

naijafox:
hello good morning
I told you guys before that this is more psychological problem than physical

the solution is very simple yet hard
STOP THINKING ABOUT IT

have you not wonder that after the lady leave because your dick was weak , you quickly rush and start washing porn, your dick become so hard like never before

bros forget all those fruits, exercise and enhancement, they don't really help in this situations because there is nothing really wrong with your body

its your mindset, your brain
I have been there before and it wasn't easy
if you see a lady you can trust, stop using condom or be free with her

there was a scenario in 2015 when my mindset don mess up 2 girls, I control one babe from Eskimi to my room, dick was hard, rush rush to wear condom and stuff, dick became like fish, I was already worried saying 'not again' babe told me to go and have a cold bath, she said I was tensed, I did that and when I came back we just relaxed together playing ps2
I was beating her and making fun of her, she took my pad and ran to the kitchen, omo na so we start to dey drag for kitchen o,, omo the sexx too go sweet o

Bros work your mind, if you meet babe, get the mindset that this babe would beg for more, avoid those short time ashawo for now,they don't have patience, their bad mouth self go worsen your thinking self

moreso stop thinking about your dickk

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Thanks all for sharing your opinion
Other opinions are still welcomed

I think what made me flopped that day was because of anxiety and true I was really tensed.

I'd need to be calm next time or better still I'd leave it for now and focus on my studies.

Vega100:
I faced same thing in my sex life, that thing frustrated me as a person!!! It messed me up and sapped my confidence... very bad thing for anyone to face..

What you do, take a little of vega100, it's sold every pharmacy, just take half of the tablet, like 30 mins b4 action.... that won't happen again... believe me, of u don't, that shit will continue and it will mess ur sexual life!!!

It messed me up.

Whao
please bro how healthy is this? Hope it doesn't have adverse effects

MadeinHNDRXX:
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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you bro, it’s mere anxiety, try to be more relaxed next time

Thanks bro

Kobicove:
What you had were probably anxiety attacks which will wear off soon

Thanks

Joeeasy:
Lol... I guess it's porn-induced Erectile dysfunction

Whao!
Please what's it all about? I watched porn alot while growing up but recently I stopped
Please tell me how to remedy the situation

Vega100:
I faced same thing in my sex life, that thing frustrated me as a person!!! It messed me up and sapped my confidence... very bad thing for anyone to face..

What you do, take a little of vega100, it's sold every pharmacy, just take half of the tablet, like 30 mins b4 action.... that won't happen again... believe me, of u don't, that shit will continue and it will mess ur sexual life!!!

It messed me up.

Thanks allot
It actually drained my confidence

adokhai:
Stop masturbating

I've never masturbated in my life

Omoakin180:
Nothing is wrong with you. You either were over thinking it and too anxious. Being your first time, you’ll be tensed and things like this is bound to happen. Next time, just calm down and don’t over think anything. You are fine.

Thanks
A night before that day I was just thinking and wondering how it would be.
I need to be more confident next time

Please I really need advice

Mods help me push to front page
God bless you

don4real:
Nothing wrong with you, you just had phobia for condom. Spend more time on pre-intimacy and stop watching porn if you are doing that.

Thanks
I started watching porn at a young age but believe me I've never done masturbation.
I made a resolution not to do that again.
Thanks once more for your contribution

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