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. by Maclink288: 5:56pm On Mar 16, 2020
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Re: . by Davash222(m): 5:58pm On Mar 16, 2020
So, out of all the problems we are having in this country and beyond, [coronavirus, Lagos explosion, APC crisis and others] this is the only thing giving you concern
Smh

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Re: . by JAOS(m): 6:01pm On Mar 16, 2020
your dick sense trouble leave that girl and face your destiny

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Re: . by Nobody: 6:01pm On Mar 16, 2020
Sorry
Re: . by don4real: 6:03pm On Mar 16, 2020
Maclink288:
Good day all, I'm a 22year old undergraduate and so far in my life I haven't had sex but recently I decided to try it out but the issue now is that during the pre-intimacy I got hard but as soon as I wore the condom my dick went flat, no erection at all! I became scared coupled with the way the girl was just looking at me. I really don't know what to do I was really frustrated!
I don't know if anyone has faced this challenge before. I really need advice I'm so scared, I think I'm too young to be experiencing this.

I'm in my final year in school and I have not been able to focus on my studies because of this.
I'm even scared of inviting her for the second time.

Please I need advice.
Thank you.

Nothing wrong with you, you just had phobia for condom. Spend more time on pre-intimacy and stop watching porn if you are doing that.

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Re: . by Maclink288: 6:15pm On Mar 16, 2020
don4real:


Nothing wrong with you, you just had phobia for condom. Spend more time on pre-intimacy and stop watching porn if you are doing that.

Thanks
I started watching porn at a young age but believe me I've never done masturbation.
I made a resolution not to do that again.
Thanks once more for your contribution
Re: . by Maclink288: 7:13pm On Mar 16, 2020
Please I really need advice

Mods help me push to front page
God bless you
Re: . by Lightangel65: 8:20pm On Mar 16, 2020
Maclink288:
Please I really need advice

Mods help me push to front page
God bless you

maybe God doesn't want you to to commit premarital sex, it's a very bad sin.
"All other sins are committed outside the body but the sin of sexual imorality defiles the body"

Think about it there are fun things to do rather than sex and women

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Re: . by Whyzaid(f): 8:23pm On Mar 16, 2020
Why do you want to sin against your body by force?

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Re: . by NosaHenry(m): 8:27pm On Mar 16, 2020
it was your self confidence that took flight. it is so for most beginners, next time you might need to take some alcohol to boost your moral. good luck
Re: . by Omoakin180: 8:29pm On Mar 16, 2020
Nothing is wrong with you. You either were over thinking it and too anxious. Being your first time, you’ll be tensed and things like this is bound to happen. Next time, just calm down and don’t over think anything. You are fine.
Re: . by pepemendy(m): 8:31pm On Mar 16, 2020
Davash222:
So, out of all the problems we are having in this country and beyond, [coronavirus, Lagos explosion, APC crisis and others] this is the only thing giving you concern
Smh

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Re: . by Nobody: 8:33pm On Mar 16, 2020
Davash222:
So, out of all the problems we are having in this country and beyond, [coronavirus, Lagos explosion, APC crisis and others] this is the only thing giving you concern
Smh
bros na romance section he post am na. Stop being hypocritical
Re: . by adokhai(m): 8:35pm On Mar 16, 2020
Stop masturbating
Re: . by pepemendy(m): 8:36pm On Mar 16, 2020
[quote author=Maclink288 post=87497109]Good day all, I'm a 22year old undergraduate and so far in my life I haven't had sex but recently I decided to try it out but the issue now is that during the pre-intimacy I got hard but as soon as I wore the condom my dick went flat, no erection at all! I became scared coupled with the way the girl was just looking at me. I really don't know what to do I was really frustrated!
I don't know if anyone has faced this challenge before. I really need advice I'm so scared, I think I'm too young to be experiencing this.

I'm in my final year in school and I have not been able to focus on my studies because of this.
I'm even scared of inviting her for the second time.

Please I need advice.
Thank you.[/
Re: . by Maclink288: 8:37pm On Mar 16, 2020
Omoakin180:
Nothing is wrong with you. You either were over thinking it and too anxious. Being your first time, you’ll be tensed and things like this is bound to happen. Next time, just calm down and don’t over think anything. You are fine.
Thanks
A night before that day I was just thinking and wondering how it would be.
I need to be more confident next time
Re: . by Maclink288: 8:40pm On Mar 16, 2020
adokhai:
Stop masturbating
I've never masturbated in my life
Re: . by Omoakin180: 9:11pm On Mar 16, 2020
You are welcome.

The first time time I tried having sex with a girl I met one on one for the first time (we’ve been talking on Facebook for a while) while putting on condom series of thoughts like what if this girl is possessed, I don’t even know her place, I don’t even know anybody with her etc. started disturbing my mind. Before I knew it, I lost erection. The girl wasn’t even helping matter because she was surprised, asking me if I was impotent and series of questions. I was just laughing (because I was surprised too and I knew I was ok). My brother, the girl cried that night. We slept that night without having the sex.


When we woke up in the morning, I was totally free of my fears and I had calmed down owing to the fact the she’s spent an appreciable hours with me which is what I was used to, we had mind blowing sex. She was all giggling after the sex. That’s why I said nothing is wrong with you. It’s because it’s your first time (because that was my first time of having sex with someone I met for the first time) and you are tensed courtesy of several thoughts you’ve harbored.

Cheers.


Maclink288:

Thanks
A night before that day I was just thinking and wondering how it would be.
I need to be more confident next time
Re: . by TallPck1(m): 9:13pm On Mar 16, 2020
Don’t touch your face, eyes, nose, or mouth when your hands are dirty.

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Re: . by NiCurious: 9:17pm On Mar 16, 2020
Maclink288:
Good day all, I'm a 22year old undergraduate and so far in my life I haven't had sex but recently I decided to try it out but the issue now is that during the pre-intimacy I got hard but as soon as I wore the condom my dick went flat, no erection at all! I became scared coupled with the way the girl was just looking at me. I really don't know what to do I was really frustrated!
I don't know if anyone has faced this challenge before. I really need advice I'm so scared, I think I'm too young to be experiencing this.

I'm in my final year in school and I have not been able to focus on my studies because of this.
I'm even scared of inviting her for the second time.

Please I need advice.
Thank you.

Practise putting on condoms so that you're used to wearing them, then it won't be a surprise to your manly parts to have one on, when the time of need arrives.
Re: . by holsconcept(m): 9:18pm On Mar 16, 2020
It happens at times, but u are OK. May be u are afraid of something which gives u a deep thought. Try it out wt another girl ul c d difference
Re: . by StrikeThru: 9:19pm On Mar 16, 2020
For real bro, it's just a phase, being a first timer. Those things happen due to anxiety, over-excitment or related issues. Just relax your mind next time.
Re: . by rs172(m): 9:23pm On Mar 16, 2020
Maclink288:
Good day all, I'm a 22year old undergraduate and so far in my life I haven't had sex but recently I decided to try it out but the issue now is that during the pre-intimacy I got hard but as soon as I wore the condom my dick went flat, no erection at all! I became scared coupled with the way the girl was just looking at me. I really don't know what to do I was really frustrated!
I don't know if anyone has faced this challenge before. I really need advice I'm so scared, I think I'm too young to be experiencing this.

I'm in my final year in school and I have not been able to focus on my studies because of this.
I'm even scared of inviting her for the second time.

Please I need advice.
Thank you.





Hey bro.. reduce your sugar intake
Stop taking carbonated drinks again, i mean coke, fanta pepsi, lacasera, bigi cola and the likes.

Eat more of fruits such as Banana, watermelon, cucumber , and drink more of alomo bitters
Re: . by Okoroawusa: 10:29pm On Mar 16, 2020
They is nothing wrong with you... it's just the anxiety of the first time.
Re: . by Vega100: 11:28pm On Mar 16, 2020
Maclink288:


Thanks
I started watching porn at a young age but believe me I've never done masturbation.
I made a resolution not to do that again.
Thanks once more for your contribution
I faced same thing in my sex life, that thing frustrated me as a person!!! It messed me up and sapped my confidence... very bad thing for anyone to face..

What you do, take a little of vega100, it's sold every pharmacy, just take half of the tablet, like 30 mins b4 action.... that won't happen again... believe me, of u don't, that shit will continue and it will mess ur sexual life!!!

It messed me up.
Re: . by MadeinHNDRXX: 11:34pm On Mar 16, 2020
Maclink288:
Good day all, I'm a 22year old undergraduate and so far in my life I haven't had sex but recently I decided to try it out but the issue now is that during the pre-intimacy I got hard but as soon as I wore the condom my dick went flat, no erection at all! I became scared coupled with the way the girl was just looking at me. I really don't know what to do I was really frustrated!
I don't know if anyone has faced this challenge before. I really need advice I'm so scared, I think I'm too young to be experiencing this.

I'm in my final year in school and I have not been able to focus on my studies because of this.
I'm even scared of inviting her for the second time.

Please I need advice.
Thank you.
.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you bro, it’s mere anxiety, try to be more relaxed next time
Re: . by Joeeasy(m): 6:28am On Mar 17, 2020
Maclink288:
Good day all, I'm a 22year old undergraduate and so far in my life I haven't had sex but recently I decided to try it out but the issue now is that during the pre-intimacy I got hard but as soon as I wore the condom my dick went flat, no erection at all! I became scared coupled with the way the girl was just looking at me. I really don't know what to do I was really frustrated!
I don't know if anyone has faced this challenge before. I really need advice I'm so scared, I think I'm too young to be experiencing this.

I'm in my final year in school and I have not been able to focus on my studies because of this.
I'm even scared of inviting her for the second time.

Please I need advice.
Thank you.

Lol... I guess it's porn-induced Erectile dysfunction
Re: . by Maclink288: 7:47am On Mar 17, 2020
Vega100:

I faced same thing in my sex life, that thing frustrated me as a person!!! It messed me up and sapped my confidence... very bad thing for anyone to face..

What you do, take a little of vega100, it's sold every pharmacy, just take half of the tablet, like 30 mins b4 action.... that won't happen again... believe me, of u don't, that shit will continue and it will mess ur sexual life!!!

It messed me up.

Thanks allot
It actually drained my confidence
Re: . by Maclink288: 7:48am On Mar 17, 2020
Joeeasy:


Lol... I guess it's porn-induced Erectile dysfunction

Whao!
Please what's it all about? I watched porn alot while growing up but recently I stopped
Please tell me how to remedy the situation
Re: . by Kobicove(m): 8:01am On Mar 17, 2020
Maclink288:
Good day all, I'm a 22year old undergraduate and so f

I'm in my final year in school and I have not been able to focus on my studies because of this.
I'm even scared of inviting her for the second time.

Please I need advice.
Thank you.

What you had were probably anxiety attacks which will wear off soon
Re: . by Maclink288: 10:10am On Mar 17, 2020
Kobicove:


What you had were probably anxiety attacks which will wear off soon
Thanks
Re: . by Maclink288: 3:19pm On Mar 17, 2020
MadeinHNDRXX:
.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you bro, it’s mere anxiety, try to be more relaxed next time
Thanks bro

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