pstmikol1:
Pls nairalanders which is the best between vet. Medicine and radiography in terms of job opportunities and prestige.
Tnks

Good day, saw you e-mailed me. I don't use that e-mail anymore. I assume you wrote to thank me, having received the funds. You are welcome. Remain blessed.

EngrJD:


Yes sir.

Thanks so much we really appreciate it. May God Almighty continue to Bless and enrich you in Jesus Name Amen

Did you get mine?

Ginomel:



Do you think we jointly help the guy again on the treatment ,he seems not to be OK yet.

What do you think? He eventually acknowledged my fund to him.

How do you know he isn't okay? Do you know him personally? One must be sure. He asked for a certain amount, I gave him more. They are so many people in need these trying times, online and offline. One must maximise one's giving. Thanks.

Ginomel:



Thanks for being good. It can never be in vain. I attended to him yesterday. let's hope he judiciously use our assistance well. Though in another thread. He got the alert but not yet acknowledged.

I was debited.

That's what discourages me from giving out. on this Forum, I have helped several but they do not know because I don't chat with them. I only see their needs,verify their nairaland acounts and send. You can imagine how I feel when that same person goes on begging as though nothing was given to him.

PopeFlatino:
How sis?..ii have not gotten any financial assistance yet for the that

hold on, it will come. New account beneficiary delays. Alternatively, check via ATM.

PopeFlatino:
No Sis...no one took me serious,both here and on IG...it makes me look like a hopeless begger and it's depressing..

The symptoms kept getting worse

I have sorted you out. Go get treated. All the best!

made2fit:
youare iwu ebuka pius ?

I have sorted you out. Receive speedy healing in Jesus name.

youare iwu ebuka pius ?

made2fit:


So have you finally been sorted out?

PopeFlatino:
That's my prayer..as I said I have food ..I eat well but I need to calm the pains with d drugs I want to buy

So have you finally been sorted out?

Thanks everyone. I have decided to tell my mum, for a start. Others will know much later.

tripplephi:


I suggest you should keep your business to yourself.

Since you are NOT moving in, they do not need to know. and whenever you visit the place, just tell them you were checking for someone.


You have a loving and concerned family BUT it may shock you to know that those who reprimanded you are also keeping things from you.


Families often always OVERRATE or UNDERRATE success.

You know how long it took you to heal, so kindly maintain your peace.

by the way... CONGRATS on your new acquisition.

Thank you. Thanks for understanding.

n
Nope! I don't ask them about updates in their lives. in fact, I am one of the last to know about their plans etc. There is no competition, at least not from me. Everyone enjoys their money as they like. I don't just want to relive the experience of 3 years ago. Once bitten twice shy .. theirs is not even the issue. it's my mum finding out that I'm worried about.

3 years ago, my husband and I bought a landed property, built and moved into our our home. All through the 9 months it took for us to buy and build, we kept the information to ourselves. We didn't inform our family. When it was time for us to move into the house, which was 60% completed then, I told my siblings about it. Their response and reactions were shocking. Instead of congratulating me, they reprimanded me that I was keeping secrets from them. Their grouse was that I didn't tell them I bought a land, didn't take them through the process of building, didn't even drop a hint in our Whatsapp group. They were acidic and bitter.

True, I was expecting a mild reprimand concerning why they were kept in the dark; but I was really unprepared for the backlash that was unleashed. On my own money! I was deeply hurt and I cried. My husband had to comfort me. Mind you, my siblings are all doing well. If they really wanted they can as well sacrifice and build their own homes. Anyway, we moved in. No one talked about it again. Everyone ignored me and my new house. It took a whole year before one of them came to visit. Another sister of mine, didn't even bother for a longer time, even though she visits the area around every now and then to see her in-law.

All that is behind us as time as healed all their "hurts". Everyone visits and everything is fine . Now, I bought another property. Only this time it is close to around my mum's vicinity. This property was a very good deal, couldn't ignore, and I intend to use it for commercial purpose. I intend to be as discreet as possible. But my fear is that if my mum find out from outsiders, or artisans, , she'll be deeply hurt. If I tell her, she"ll want me/ pressurize me to tell my siblings, which I do not want. I don't want anyone to kill my joy, as I'm unsure of their reactions. How do I go about this?


NB; I'm second of six siblings. I have not always been rich. In fact, I was the poorest. God opened the way for us about 6years ago.

Focusmind, changing your kids school from their posh school to a public one is too much of a contrast and would affect them psychologically. Integrating them into the environment should be a gradual process.

Instead, find a regular school that is less sophisticated, with minimal amenities, normal good schools without an AC bus services and the likes. They will meet kids like them from good and decent homes, relate easier with them, and won't be drastically affected psychologically.

GeorgeTheCoder:


You really don't have sense. I am not concerned with Tiwa's divorce but her conduct with Wizkid. You stated reasons for Tiwa's divorce that I never alluded to then went on to call your father a fool.

Where were you raised ? Is this the kind of empty skull and poor home training you go around with from day to day ?

I wonder at his outburst, myself. Don't mind him.

I read on one of your post that you want to travel to Europe by road. Why? because of this cheap thing? A girl whom you've known for just 2 years? What about family and friends you've known for longer. even all your life? My advice for you is to surround yourself with friends and family who love you. Work hard, not just to avenge her, but for your own personal goal and joy. Aren't you glad that you were only with her for 2 years. What will you say about married men who go through several years of hell with their wife and eventually divorce?

So my dear, you are stronger than you think. Forget this girl. You can! You will still enjoy a beautiful relationship and marriage with a woman who loves and cherishes you someday. Be strong!

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olawealth93:
madam,am really sorry.i just saw ur post when i was even planning on giving up.i dnt knw how to thank you enough,dnt even knw where to begin.may God in his mercy,infinite blessing and infinite glory and grace bestow everything you ever wish for in this world and in the hereafter.he will forever be ur backbone.

Amen. i' m happy to be of help

how much do you need? 6,500? modified: I have sent you some money. pls keep my identity secret. be careful next time.à All the best!

Lat1tudeO2:
If only someone can help me on a day like this

My. School fee portal closes next week Friday , and am a final year student.
I really dont know what to do. I don't even feel like living anymore, I've tried all my possible best, at this junction am giving up. Any body that want to confirm this claim can contact me for my school details to see.
Everybody is claiming this is a scam.
Am fed up
My contact is on my profile.

The problem is you recently registered. So, don't blame people who think its a scam. If you are really genuine, post some proofs for all to see.

jayson87:
After reading all the comments, I have just come to terms that, uninformed and uncouth persons are those behind most moniker here on Nairaland. You mean you don't know your network recycles numbers that have been inactive for 3months.

Whew! jeez

how will he know? is it written boldly on every sim pack you buy? I bet there are 'common' things you yourself don't know about. We are all hear to learn, brother.

Desire so much? very funny. Do you know this is the second time I'm being offered this position. I was able to wriggle through the last time. but this time, everyone expects me to take it. I'm thinking of a strong reason for decline. After all, no body knows what's going on in my heart. It's a personal Walk.

About 5 years ago, I stopped Paying tithes. I stumbled upon an article, searched the scriptures and discovered the truth about tithing. Not wanting to stir up controversy, I kept this to myself and continued in my service to God. Nevertheless, I became a committed giver, giving to church projects, programs, welfare and the needy as the need arises.

Now, last Sunday, I was given a preordination form for deaconship in my church. On this form are a couple of questions on tithes and tithing. Answering positive to these questions will make me a liar. After all, I don't tithe. But no one knows this since I'm a committed member and giver. Also, if I am ordained as a deaconess, there will be instances where I would have to promote tithes and offerings. Doing this would make me a hypocrite since I don't tithe or believe in it.

One part of me is telling me to think up a very good excuse to give the pastorate, simply forgo it and continue leading my quiet Christian life. Another part is considering it as an opportunity to serve God, take up spiritual responsibilities, build more confidence, and build a ministry. After all, God is the ultimate Judge of the heart of man.

Believers in the house, what do you think?

Modify: pls. let not turn this to another tithe thread. There are numerous discussions on tithe. It is exhausting! tithe this, tithe that, is tithing the gateway to heaven! Every man should do what he believes in. God knows who alone is his. I just need a little counsel to make a decision, that all. Thanks.

Ehyah! Looking at d woman's pic, the money involved, the court case and the fact that she is being remanded in prison over non-payment of N100,000 bail. Don't know why I feel sorry for her. She is probably a victim of a 'business deal' gone bad. She made a mistake. May the Lord see her through.

naijaman14:




@OP, if you and everyone reading this really really what to know and live by the truth of your question, read these links provided below:


http://www.thepathoftruth.com/falsehoodexposed/diabolical-doctrines/you-must-go-to-church.htm

http://www.thepathoftruth.com/teachings/the-true-church.htm

http://www.thepathoftruth.com/teachings/counterfeit-christianity.htm

http://www.thepathoftruth.com/falsehoodexposed/diabolical-doctrines/sunday-is-the-sabbath.htm

Get back to us after reading these materials if you and everyone who reads aren't helped, which I believe you will be greatly helped as I have by the Grace of God and enjoying His peace and blessings.

Majority of professing "Christians" in organised and institutional "churches" are in great and strong deception and delusion as well as in HELL(Just don't argue yet. The true Scriptural meaning of Hell is a great gulf different from what's been commonly taught in mainstream Christianity nowadays that have held billions of people in and plagued them with tormenting fear. Read : http://www.thepathoftruth.com/teachings/state-and-fate-of-hell.htm http://www.thepathoftruth.com/teachings/restitution/meaningforever.htm)

May God mercifully help us all.

Olufemi is my first name.

Gone and going through the site. Very challenging, uncommon and thought-provocking articles. God bless you

dein77:
Good morning, my good people. It's a privilege to be both alive and well...
This writ isn't about bashing the women folks. We can't really do much without their company, advice and support. It's about addressing an issue isolated with ONE woman.

It's not even about giving my wife a bad name. She's being a huge path on my life. It's about a matter i consider very touchy to me.

Thank God it's a faceless forum, hence we can bring up some deeply private issues so others can advise, rebuke where necessary, correct and exhort us.

The world pays more attention to physical abuse because it's consequences and scars are physical and tangible. But i believe verbal abuse is even more traumatic than physical abuse. The impacts of its are unseen, hardy known to outsiders, and yet even more destabilising and frustrating. It's scars lie beneath sur face.

Verbal abuse also posts a significant threat to the overall wellbeing of a home. I hate being it's recipient. Maybe that's why I don't dole it to anyone, especially my wife.

Couples of course do disagree once in a while in every healthy marriage. And it doesn't need to degenerate to name calling or direct abuses. No human is perfect. I can't claim I'm the perfect husband. I may sometimes be a bit too touchy when words are hauled at me. I hate being bullied. Tonight was one occasion too many.

I had gone for a church programme late last year. And the pastor asked us to write on a paper the names of all our loved ones so he could prayed against DEATH on their behalf. I wrote the names that flooded my mind that moment. We didn't have much time shaaa. This list is still in my Bible as I type.

My wife saw the list as she was studying my Bible. She observed, even to my surprise, that some other names came before hers. Some relatives of our both families came before hers on the list. I was even ashamed myself. I explained the situation and apologised immediately that it shouldn't be taken too seriously. She furiously closed the Bible and the torrents of abuses commenced. I know most women to be very detailed, observant and detailed. I'm still surprised that such a matter could create some tension in the home. I'm still struggling to continue my RCCG fast today. This ought not so to be.

No poster, u are not wrong. Ideally, there should be people in our lives that we are most concerned about in certain areas. For instance if I were to be in ur shoes, I will consider a frail aunt, a sickly relative, my aged parents etc before I even think about my hubby. Same thing for if I were to pray for financial breakthrough for loved ones, I will first consider that my uncle who has been struggling all his life etc before hubby. Your wife is jst being petty and immature. Ask God to give her wisdom. "A wise woman builds her home but a foolish one destroys it with her own hands"

His sermons are becoming more and more secular. Last year alone, he spent more than half of the year on a 'series spree': making of money, benefits of sowing, money management, sowing into your destiny, how to sow and reap etc. He has started dis year again with first fruits etc. I feel sorry for the congregation cos they are not growing. I make up for these by listening to sound and balanced messages from other servants of God and studying on my own. In short, I'm leaving. I don't care anymore.

My pastor is guilty again as usual. Pls. I need to leave my church. It is imperative that I do. I cringe inwardly most times when he preaches. I can no longer bear the gross distortion of scriptures for personal benefit. But what should I say, what will be my reason? I'm a commited worker, everyone will start to visit and ask questions. I don't want to lie. What do u think I should say? How do I leave quietly, with family and all? I don't even have another church. I'm just tired of all these manipulations.

JonBee1:


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This helps, thanks.