ababda: EvenThough, i disagree with this guy that presented his youtube videos about everything pertaining to sudanese history, this jewish connection have me somewhat curious. tell me what you think.
@ababda Some say the Ethiopian Jews are christian converts, but I think they are the descendants of Menelik? We all know Jewish bloodlines are found all over the world.The Nigerian Jews are the most fascinating of all.
Tracey121: My boyfriend runs away whenever its few days to my birthdays. valentines, etc, what do you think is that
Why not buy him a gift on those important dates, so on your birthday buy him a gift and tell him you do not need anything but you would like to give HIM a small token.
Do this on all those special dates, he may stop running.
[quote author=Ben-10 link=topic=397659.msg5506590#msg5506590 date=1266059010]Just a minor, sweetie only wanted to read more. [/quote]Ok, knowledge is always useful, you can always use it at a later date.
tai2: All ye who seek true control, I have returned to impart my opinions and counsel on what is being said here:
1.) A man of true control does not boss his woman or give her a list of commandments to follow. All those talking about men who tell their wives and girlfriends what job to do and not to do are not talking about men of true control. These are men of artificial control, men who have to shout and make noise when talking to their women because they think the money they have spent has bought part of her soul. A man of true control does not need to tell his woman what to do, she usually tries to do what will make their relationship work because she doesn't want to lose him. Men of true control do not have to beg for intimacy at night, neither do they make it a compulsory issue. A woman with a man of true control will give him intimacy 24/7 if she thinks it will keep her beholden to him.
2) If you men seek true control, NEVER spend more than 10% of what you earn on a woman. 20% is allowed in cases of extreme happiness and special occasions. Anything else you will resent it and complain to everyone that comes how much you spent on her and who the hell wants to know? If you can't afford it don't do it. No one likes to be reminded that they owe you, no woman wants to hear how much you spend. Only a man of no control or artificial starts calculating how much he has "invested" on a woman. Spend 10% and you will never have unnecessary regrets.
3) A man of true control treats his woman with respect when she respects him. Respect does not necessarily mean being foolish which is what some of no control an artificial control think it to be. Respect is a ladies first thing, when she gives you yours you give her relative respect but not to your own detriment. Anything that degrades you unnecessarily is not respect.
4) A man of true control does not need to shout to get his voice heard. He merely expresses his displeasure and gives the cold shoulder treatment if she acts otherwise.
5) A man of true control listens to his woman's opinions from time to time and takes some of her wise decisions into account. But he does not become a mugu by doing every single thing she thinks of.
@ Poster you sound so wonderful. You want to keep that feeling going, my guy that's the way to do it.
Do not rush to do anything hmmm s xual, be loving and phone her often (make sure she's likes that) Ask lots of questions about what she wants to do with her life/career. Try to understand her likes and needs , i am not talking about money.
As for Val gift, it should not cost you much money, it should be a token, well that's what i think.
Good luck and enjoy the feelings, you never know it may lead to something really worthwhile.