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^^ what dat?

Dafemo:
it,s true since the creation of man<adam> and there won,t be respect

Who said their won't be RESPECT, if the guy behaves like a man then I'm sure she will show him 100% respect  .


Any guy who behaves like a MAN WILL get respect from a woman regardless of her age.

YSL bangle.

LOVELY, loafer fronts, cool very cool and the colour looks wonderful.

Look at the height of the heel

MOBO444:
Googles obviously you have never left Nigeria, if you see what your fellow sisters are doing here in the UK,you will shame, ask Madlady she lives in the UK and will keep you informed

What information would I be passing on to the lovely @Googles, that your not Nigerian, your stories are make believe, your a --------, she knows all that.

@Poster Dulwich Hospital is a community hospital (I live less than 10 mins drive from it), if such an incident did take place she would have been rushed to her nearest A&E which would be KINGS COLLEGE.

@Poster, are you sure these things ever happend

^^
I'm not up on beauty contests but, I thought Nigeria won miss world, maybe more than once .

By the way what did the Jamaican runner up look like.

Could you show the winner and the runner-ups pls.

mohawkchic:
~Yeah? How high do you go?

3 maybe 4 if really going out .

googles:
Wide mouth

hairy chest

Full bums _{cant stand a bum competition with my partner}

I like those.

WHAT PHYSICAL FEATURES TURN YOU OFF IN MEN

The twisted mouth a FEW guys get from constantly verbally abusing females.

^^ur cool .

I love these, they would be great in n ude, they are too high for me .

jay bee:
To add to all I've said before i leave work, I have also experienced g/f's paying their cheating b/f's back and i know how them guys felt. A friend of mine almost killed himself cos he just couldn't accept the fact that the g/f cheated.

Play them at their own game
if u wanna accept the status quo like a no-hoper and if not move the heck on. It's really a free world. No one was born to suffer in pain

From a man's point of view this is maybe the way to go but,SPITE will not solve this.

She would be better to leave the HUSBAND and start a CLEAN life .

2 wrongs do not make a right, her kids are more important than getting back at her husband.

jay bee:
Well that's the thing. Men do it but frown upon it when cheated upon. So play us at our own game and see how it goes.
Forget about morality as it's your happiness that matters.
If you don't want to go via that route then just sit and accept whatever comes your way.
I hear prayers can remotely work as well but then again can prayers heal the past?

That's a joke right .

No I could not sleep with 2  guys at the same time. It's not about morality but self-respect.

jay bee:
What does the woman want? Convenience or Love
Having it all can be a tall order dis days. If that's the only weakness he has then surely their are better ways of dealing with such.
They could both decide to have open relationships thereby no party feels cheated.
They could try counselling
They could move away from his familiar surroundings

Could be the way to go but, how many people can really cope with that .

I bet you a dollar if she availed herself of the OPEN RELATIONSHIP the guy would scream blue murder.

I think it's quite sad.

She's has children for him, can she leave him .

He will never change, she may end up a nervous wreak.

He must have had these traits when they first started,why did she overlook them .

A guy like this is very easy to spot, they can be real babe magnets, if you can cope with it then fair play, but it's a tough path to walk.

Women really suffer

Rocktation:
Crazy fella. My eyes remain on you, 24-7. As per head officer of Madness Control Unit.

That's great, I thought I would need to use a silver bullet on this guy.

jay bee:
OK. oya come here for a hug

And i ask whose belief cos u seem to be speaking for the yorubas. I know quite a few actually. Another girl friend of mine just married someone she is 2 yrs older than 2 months ago. The point is it won't work cos of greater age gap rather than her just being older than him. That's the difference

I will happily marry someone that's 2yrs older than moi. It's kool and sexy to grow old together. hahahhahahaha

Don't bite me hun.

Oh dear, I better be a good girl. 

jay bee:
Believed by who? the yorubas? never heard of such and i'm sure it ain't no taboo.
My sister is 2 years older than her husband and they have been married for 20yrs.
My point is age difference of <4 yrs is somewhat same age group and more acceptable than 11 yrs.


I c u madlady. look at u quickly agreeing

That's not true , I just thought his reply seemed very thought provoking.

tosyne007:
@poster, forget his friends or wateva business he is doing. the fact still remains that u are lot older than he is and he's gonna change his mind very soon when the pressure from his family becomes unbearable. It can be painful but the truth needs to be said. I will advise u let go and look 4 somene who is thesame age bracket.

I want to blv u've got a yoruba background too if your profile name is anything to go by and whether u like it or not, age means a lot to the yorubas. It's believed the husband should be older than his wife, not the other way round. Moreover, he is the only SON of his mother. If u really care for him and urself, it's better u start planning on how to end the relationship b4 it gets out of hand.

Very enlightening reply.

Games hmmm, I never play, I'm out.

Dahbutter:
@post, cos its only Naija babes dat would stupidly leave a honest hardworkin guy cos he hasnt gotten dere yet, to date a yahoo boy, only to come back begging after she got dumped and heard the struggling guy is now made. Then when he repays her in like coin, some witches will gather and call him heartless. Shior! I Trust these white n even jamo girls. They hang wit their guys thru thick and thin.

Come on , no need to be soooo rude about women.

A girl from any nation will stick with their guy if he's worth sticking with. I do not mean he most have money.