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SA Goddess:
Please share your views, would you ever cut your hair, if not why? Are you more comfortable in weaves and hair extensions than your own hair, short or long?

I've been cogitating over getting a  "Buzz" cut, it shouldn't be a big deal but for some reason I'm torn (that's why I used that word ).

Maybe I'll finally pluck up the nerve this weekend .

^^Zaniab badawi,she's on the tv quite often (Hardtalk). Great Presenter.

^^^Nice tie.

^^That's very good advice (4real)*** noted***.

^^^It's about being nice to peeps, very rare on this hmmmm these days.

Hmmm all of the above would work for me.

Nice to see a post that's  not bashing. 

[quote author=--190-- link=topic=509104.msg6701752#msg6701752 date=1283700112]Seriously,
Why are Ex Gf's such a case,
Everyone know's how much i despite ex's, there has been this particular one ( a workin class)
that has been on my case for the past 2weeks now, we broke up like 3-4yrs ago without single word from both of us
only for her to return About 2weeks ago, Got my Phone # from Gawd knows where,and has been calling me out of the blue
for all sorts of irrelevant things, she claims we didn't officially break up (cos she got engaged and the marriage didn't hold more than 2yrs ago)

There has been absolutely nothing towards us and the last time i saw her was June 2007,funny thing is she keeps throwing all sorts of BILLINGS towards me,she hurled the 1st one, I DODGED,the 2nd one, I DODGED, Now she has hurled the last one asking me to change her car -- WAT the bleep,then I provoked and insulted her straight away that she should go and rot in hell,

I have been so cold on fone wen ever she calls me and she has sworn that she wont call me again.
Now the issue is why are ex's like dis, why wont they never let Go--
she claims she has heard alot about me all these years and tins were good wit me--
what kinda stalker is this,
And why are Nigerian Gurls like dis, she keeps reminding me of beyonce's movie obsessed [/quote]What's wrong with being working class at least we try to earn a living.

@Topic Block her calls or change your number.

queeneve:
Awwww, ME life of the party?!!! You so sweet Madlady,


Abayas is that muslim clothing the women wear, did I spell it right? You know that hot azz, black wool, granny looking, and prisoner bind clothing them muslim men make their women wear in the MIDDLE EAST,

What you mean how I am gon be meek and reserved?!!! What I can't be meek and reserved? (purring like a kitten)

Ok I know what you mean now.

The bolded above, can you do it, well knowing a bit about you I THINK YOU CAN but, would it be fun for you be your funny self and you will have a great time.

[quote author=eNKe! link=topic=509007.msg6700246#msg6700246 date=1283669548]hello,
Didn't find personals, didn't know where to put this, so I decided here. Why, it'll perhaps get more responses.
Just wanted you guys to advise someone dying for it. I don't get to talk to a lot of people, so it's diffifult finding out.
I just happen to be too nice, I guess.

I'm always inclined towards helping people, even when it puts me in some dire situations.

Why can't I just stop? I dunno. I try, I try, but it's like my life is dependent on it.

Somehow, I get the awkward feeling that people don't appreciate it when they know you'll be willing to help them. Why is this for Christ's sake? I mean, can't they just be glad there's a helping hand? Then again, I just wanted to know what you guys think of those who help "a lot", I mean in any situations, or go the length others scarcely go, perhaps even in a relationship, though not necessarily in a relationship.
I'm just less of a Nigerian to understand all of this.
Then when I try to be harsh, I find it incredibly nauseating; yet my desire is not to be in people's radar all too frequently. Apparently, helping them puts me there, albeit in bad light. Then coupled with this, I go my way; won't fight when annoyed by others, and am extremely polite ( I guess). All of these appear to me to be put-offs, and not in the general line of being "cool". Of course, it isn't that I am dying to be cool, but of course, I don't want to be uncool either!

Note: yab if you want to. you think it will matter?[/quote]That's my problem also.

Today is a new day, I will still help but, I have to be 99% I am doing the correct thing.


Help if you can BUT be careful who you help. If being harsh causes you pain ( I know the feeling) then don't be harsh.

I think you just need to hang with peeps who are like minded, no need to change the way you do things (maybe )

@queeneve your so funny. PLS tell me how you will act meek and reservered (where's @190).

Be your wonderful self that's who your husband loves and that's who he wants to go on his date with.

Wear your killer heels if your hubby likes them and wear a dress he loves (what's a abayas?) you will look great.

I can't blame your friends for wanting to join you, you must be GREAT to go out with (the life and soul of the party).

A guy who can  empathis with me.

A guy who does not hate women.

These are the wonderful things I got from my ex ( no need to ask why he's my ex)

Kindness.

Very supportive in most of the things I did/do.

Very happy nature.

Hardly ever said a bad word about anyone.

LOVE the silver one.

Really colourful.

I like the shape of the yellow one. I will keep looking at this thread.

Great pictures (are you using a digi cam?)

@Fellybabe Very glamorous.

Do you have any casual bags to show? is your shop in the UK?

Why do they keep calling my name, I've never even heard of the guy never even spoken to any of the peeps offline.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ObT34P1IlQo?fs=1&hl=en_GB"

I tire.

googles:
wife mi

@post

mi o le pray ni ori transformer o

ah i laff in the face of twouble

My NL fav person (4real)


@post I am shell shocked, how did such a smart guy get to be soooooo bitter, RIDE ON if you think your a bad man.

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zaliya:
ok Madlady, am in my mid-30s.
I would love this

@Ok. Nice necklace.

@Poster your 1st example TRULY   interests me.

Your a Doctor so you will be able to give me the answers to my questions.

You have a ethical duty to your patient to keep her medical history private but, is she not obliged to give you the name or names of her sexual contacts? and are you not obliged to inform him/them of her HIV status? and finally are you not duty bond to advice the husband to go for another test?

So in the case of the 1st example ETHICS wins the day in my eye .

[quote author=Core_talk link=topic=507323.msg6682428#msg6682428 date=1283380102]Also, to the ladies, do you generally accept a guy even though you don't REALLY fancy them?, ,(i have heard that the expression "attraction grows as you get the to know each other", do people really believe in this?)[/quote]Yes ONCE. It didn't grow for me but what did grow was the respect I had for him.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9DA8eRAECGU?fs=1&hl=en_GB"

Gosh there are some really REAL peeps here ( I must thank them) but woh trouble de bout.

[quote author=Tink_sh link=topic=109512.msg6676902#msg6676902 date=1283325209]Peachperry, are you kidding me My goodness you must have way too much time on your hands!!! We dont need a bible lesson but if you are going to give one, show me where it says a woman can have two husbands.

My god, why would any woman want multiple husbands! Crazy!!!

Have children instead, they are a lot easier to handle and complain a lot less!!! [/quote]Very very well said.