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EmperorCaesar:

I will be very realistic with this. Not in comparison with any European country and some Phantom minimum wage equivalent
Anyone who disagrees with me isnt only unrealistic, but daft and lacks good judgement on critical matters matters


OP, depending on the level, For an Entry level staff, i feel 350k-450k is fair(Most banks pay within this range),

Those in Tech should earn around 500k-700k as Entry level staffs


Higher levels should depend on acquired skillset and years of expertise


If you disagree with this, create your company make you pay your corpers and interns 1m every month. Nonsense

How about a senior officer in federal agency earning 189,000. Is that fair?

No. The realities of today has eroded the purchasing power of the naira

Every wicked person will reap what they sow sooner or later. Currently politics in Nigeria has never and can never be about the people. But rather the politicians themselves.

TimeManager:
https://www.nollywoodtimes.com/2025/02/genevieve-nnaji-opens-up-about.html

She didn't say this. Stop lying

ChizzyBuna:
Akpabio is very right..
Which kind See Finish be this.

If i was a whole Senate President
No mumu will have my number..
Talkless of calling me about useless topics. I go block and arrest you

He for call putin and zelensky . Nonesense

I understand what you're saying. It's actually demeaning to call the man out of the blue to mediate. Who does he think he is? No prior notice.

OgbeniOja1:
hmmmm this guy really wants to get out. 14 trucks, wow

He will recoup everything within 2 years. Nigeria judicial system is a joke. They will leave him soon after greasing some palms.

GanagiBitrus:
Mumu man.
Which coach singles out a player for public criticism for a team's failure.

It's racism veiled as criticism. They just can't help themselves.

nairavsdollars:
Thank you Natasha for standing against the kid in adult body called Senate President.

All Nigerian women are behind you.

You are not Ireti Kingibe that he bullies anyhow

This is just the perfect description of that clown.

RealityKings1:
Africa is not in bondge. The progress is just slow

Africa is in bondage of terrible leadership. Bad leadership is the bane of Africa's very existence.

I strongly believe you have developed anxiety and depression. If you can do this, I suggest you go any general Hospital and see a psychologist. It will do you a lot of good.

SouthAmericalif:
thank you sir for your candid advice
i have reported my neighbors to the landlord because he doesn’t stay in same compound and after warning them dey stay clear from me for 3days and started last night, they doing this so we can pack out and then give the house to another person and eat agent fees
the car keke and machine after been packed for years i sold it then for small money.
it was last december i started studying rigidly online and found out ways to invest by myself for myself january i started tbills and mutual funds and ok with it than wasting money for 8years i can no longer partner again we did okrika business it failed where buying from togo.

Please of you don't mind... What exactly did the neighbour say was your offence? And what does she demand from you? Or she just randomly calls you names without provocation?

SouthAmericalif:
most of my childhood friends that seniors me are single and have started envying them from last night.
Everyone is complaining that i have lost so much weight from the last time they saw me before my marriage
several people have said it in his present and he is not saying anything about it

when the marriage was knew i complained a lot it got to the extent 200naira was a big money that i have to start begging my mum to eat
it was then i pick up and double my hustle

I think you should just leave him. The man seems like an unambitious person. Go and leave with your mother and children. You go dey ok.

SouthAmericalif:
i am not quarreling or fighting with him, i feel depressed and stressed each passing day and he is not making it easy for me , i am not asking him to fight for me but as a man there are some measures you put in place to protect your family especially when you know i can never do anyone wrong but he is always mute to every thing and am carry too much burden that i can’t take care of myself my blood pressure is high and it has never been this high.
He should care for himself and i will do same if he doesn’t give me a valid reason to come back and not this house we are presently in then i will let the marriage go.
He knew fully well i didn’t sleep all through the night and it has never happened before but is 5:30am he is sleeping very soundly. It’s very easy to please me but i don’t think he has a heart.

Do you people communicate at all? Do you pour out your heart to him and he doesn't do anything? Because you sound like you want him to read your mind and it's not possible. Do you people know about marriage counsellors? Why not try to salvage your marriage instead of running away. Communicate for God's sake!!!! The man is not abusive. What do women truly want sef

franugo:
Above actually, souvenirs was above 200k, food was 600k (we were ripped off on this, caterer originally agreed to 430k but kept increasing things after we already agreed and it was too late to find someone else in the area, I was frustrated but had to pay), hotel booking, photographer etc

Nawao.

Bro do what you can afford. It's not a law anywhere that one must spend lavishly for a wedding ceremony.

franugo:
1m is okay. Did mine Jan 3rd 2025, just went to church, priest wedded us, we gave out food and souvenirs to whoever came after church service, took photos and everyone went home...no reception, less stress

And this cost 1m?

Who cares?

PDJT:
- Typical Nigerian. She is now a "scholarship" giver. The girl better be careful, else they will lure her into international prostitution, except that's already her career path.

If she accepts that thing it means she is truly not smart at all.

Punch is a media organisation. Is it that someone cannot take out an advert in the newspaper to market a depreciating asset?

Thewrath:
The agency is not supposed to seal the entire market because corrupt NAFDAC OFFICIALS are hungry….you don’t go about closing schools or churches because you found a rat that doesn’t belong there! Crime is everywhere!
It’s a public place,not a private organization!

OBI is right!!!

Some individuals have allowed hate & bitterness to damage their sense of logic. Once they hear Peter, their rational minds stop functioning. Leave them alone to be stewing in their idiocy

Skydivine:
The beef between Lamar and Derek was not settled after all. The half time show choice of music was not the genre most fans would like, but it was highly anticipated, especially “they are not like us” which was released to spite Derek.
Show biz thrives with gossips and the little fight.s. When you promise something bigger than the world current biggest rap artist, be sure to get the support of undiscerning fans.

It's Drake

Honestly this world is just a movie.. seriously.

EmperorCaesar:
I dont get this

Political office holders resign everywhere in the world. What makes Lagos assembly own different?

How does this make a joke out of the business, educational, investment and Tech aspect of Lagos or you just be one Nnamdi Kanu bloda wey wan talk for talking sake?

Scroll past if you have no related meaningful contributions to make

Resign for what? Exactly how many days after she was elected? You people sacrifice your sense of reasoning on the alter of ethnocentrism.

GOVERNORR:
And you are the all knowing..

You can't even make constructive reasoning to enlighten me on what you think you know

There are leaders and there are followers and everyone has the volition to decide which they belong

Honestly, I no nothing except for what the word of God, aka Bible, tells me. And it tells me that God is angry with the wicked. God was angry with the Israelites when they provoked Him in the wilderness and thousands died on that day. God was angry with Sodom and Gomorrah and he wiped the city with fire, saving Abraham's nephew, Lot. Do I need to add more examples to convince you that God does get angry?

GOVERNORR:
Saying the spirit of God makes man simply means you agree God Superior Being.

Anger is an emotional exhibition of a being still developing and not of God a perfect Being fully in charging of everything, including creation of man.

Seek light and see the path.

You clearly don't know what you're talking about but that would be all from this side. Stay blessed.

GOVERNORR:
God did not slay anyone..

Inspired humans wrote the best selling books and a few greedy other humans in power converted it to a tool to enslave mankind and deprive people of freedom

Anyone who exhibit emotions like anger is human so therefore saying God Slayed man is saying God was angered and like most humans couldn't control the nature

God can never be man who has emotions.
Probably you should read the Bible as a book of wisdom instead of a book of religion

Then it's obvious you don't know God. It is the spirit of God in man that makes him man. So get it right

Discountsempai:
It had nothing to do with Onan spilling his seed, and the verse in question had nothing to do with masturbation (and no, I am not excusing masturbation...especially as I have never engaged in it, because quite frankly it does not make sense).

Onan was supposed to marry his late brother's wife, and under the customs of that time, the first child he had with his wife would be counted as his brother's child (strange to us, but in a society with high child mortality, and a concern over keeping lineages alive...).

Onan refused to do that because (as the verses imply)...he hated his brother Er. So, out of bitterness, he denied Er THE RIGHT TO KEEP his lineage alive.

Essentially, what Onan also was doing was

1. Denying Tamar the right to have a child...in a society where barreness was a BIG STIGMA. (See how Jacob, Onan's grandpa, wife Rachel felt about having no kids...and later on Hannah. And even Sarah, Onan's great-great grandmother).

2. Essentially telling his father that he wanted both his and Er's inheritance...ie greed. If he had done what he was supposed to do, then when Judah died, his (Onan's) firstborn son would have gotten Er's portion of the inheritance. By having no kids, he gets a dobule portion.

3. Essentially commiting an injustice to his late brother and dishonoring his memory.

Thus..as the bible put it in Genesis 38 vs 8-10

8 Then Judah said to Onan, “Sleep with your brother’s wife and fulfill your duty to her as a brother-in-law to raise up offspring for your brother.” 9 But Onan knew that the child would not be his; so whenever he slept with his brother’s wife, he spilled his semen on the ground to keep from providing offspring for his brother. 10 What he did was wicked in the Lord’s sight; so the Lord put him to death also

So, nothing to do with seed or with masturbation as the OP thinks it does.

At its base it is a story about how harmful greed and resentment can be. And how wickedness also can provoke resentment (Er is described as a wicked man, so it is obvious that he was wicked to his two younger brothers, breeding anger and resentment).

Thank you. I could not have said it any better. These half baked Bible scholars will not harm us 🤣🤣

Masturbation is pointless except for the temporal sexual pleasure it gives to those who practice it. Otherwise it is a shameful practice. But it is not the reason God killed Onan. Otherwise God would have killed a very large percentage of men in this world who practice the act. If He didn't do that, then it means God is partial. And God is NEVER partial.
So this preacher can help himself by studying the Bible more and not just read a passage and jump to conclusions.

AbuTwins:
Abeg which kind custom is that for a brother to sleep with his brother's widow to produce offspring for him even if he doesn't want to?

Na by force?

And it's not only Onan! The father later slept with the same woman pretending as an harlot and she got pregnant. He wanted to punish her untill he realised he was the culprit.

God punished the sinful first son with death!
God punished the second with death!
The father committed adultery and incest but was forgiven!

How is such fair?

There was no incest please. They are not blood related. Calm down when you type. No one knows what the first son did and was killed by God. The second one was killed because of his wickedness, not what the OP has written. God looks at the heart.