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shaybe baby: Op, you seem like a decent fella. All you can do is be a good friend to her. We all have to live with the consequences of our decisions and learn from them. Maybe the lesson she'd take away from this is to appreciate goodness in people and not take it for granted or throw it away on a whim.

thanx for ur warm heart shared thought, i do appreciate

onila: my mail has not been working for some months now

sorry 2 anyone who has sent me mails and u think I didnt reply. .sorry aint my fault, my dearies

kk, shud i drop my num need ur fb id

onila: love is a two way thing
I find it difficult to understand when a girl or guy complains abt being in-love with someone who does not love them back. .maybe because I never be in this situation before

all the niggas i gave eye contact. .fell inlove with me instantly

u might think you love the person who does not love you but u just actually have a crush or an infatuation

sent u a mail gal, go check

vivian chinaza: Good! Go and sin no more. Now give me kiss joor. *winks*

*kisses her and shys away*

thanx for ur thoughts on this

vivian chinaza: Yea, you brought that one up as your attacking tool. I read ur original post remember?

kk

vivian chinaza: My friend stop swearing up and down joor, who and you dey do that "fucck and shyte?" Rubbish! Oh it didn't even happen today? But all of a sudden u just brought it up to bash women!

Why did u title the thread "why are women like this?" It should have been "why is my ex girlfriend like this?"

seems u read and left the 'she came to me today part' read again, btw dont take it all personal am just here like u to share thoughts and have a good time ok

vivian chinaza: I agree with you 100% but again being a good person doesn't guarantee that someone you love must love you back! Good or bad we all deserve to be loved, there is no crime in that. Love is liberal just like its creator!
So yes, when someone we love choose to love another person whom we think we are better than, it hurts but while we are hurting we shouldn't forget that's how life is.

true

moreeni: No need to throw punches.If you really want to know then I will tell you.Girls and I know,Boys want to experience some excitement every now and then in relationships .We need to get out and live some adventurous experiences that will remove the word dull from our lives.Only problem is such experiences don't last just like a cheating husband wears off his delightful mistress to go back to wifey or some other new experience.So a girl might want to be with a bad boy cos he runs her blood so hot!Get over it.

interesting, loved the insight thanx, didnt like the last words though, its nt abt me

vivian chinaza: Buddy advice yourself first, cos you need it more. We are all cry for different reasons.....now that's ok, but wearing your problems on your face? That's childish!

Next time you got dump? Nurture your broken heart and move on believing that something better is out there for you! Don't come in here to paint women black in order to make yourself feel better! If you believe so much in yourself, why bring others down?

WTF
lady this was like my first date, abt 3yrs ago, she came to me today telling me abt hw the supposed 'HE' is treating her. Seems u got the wrong message dear, her story touched me and i decided to share her pain so pple can learn and u r here saying shyte *no offence*

carefreewannabe: People have to make mistakes to learn. You can't save anyone from making mistakes. I know you have nice intentions but people will ALWAYS MAKE MISTAKES, especially when it comes to love and relationships. When it comes to "love" people sometimes stop acting reasonable. That's the way love goes for soe people. That's life. That's ok.

YEAH ur right swity, u r so right *kudos*
but what wud u call someone who chooses to make the same mistake over and over again

vivian chinaza: Trust me, some lady somewhere feels sorry for you too. yea as if she asked you to...... Move on joor.

u knw actually she did ask me to............
Lolsss
bt still pls and pls watch ur choices, there are guys out there not worthy of ur tears ok, i feel sad wen i see ladies cry cus of a guy, maybe thats just me....


#STAY SAFE#

vivian chinaza: Move on buddy, stop wasting all the self pity on urself!

self pity?
Lolsss, u dont find a guy getting emotional abt a breakup gal, u find that most of that comes from u ladies, YES am pitiful, for her unfortunate condition, and i want oda ladies to learn and nt make the same mistake, that is the point of all this

mikuz: You now sounding like a culprit. He says it's better you girls make the best choices when going into relationships; how does that pass as whinning?

i wonder ooooo

vivian chinaza: I'm sure u are very "smart" yet you got burnt and you come here pouting and whinning! That's life for buddy.....we don't know it all. So grow up and be a man!

No lady can stand a man that whines!

lolsss @WHINING
Miss, am nt whiniing, far from it, am concerned, concerned for a huuman being and how she choose to use her brains and treats her choices, its sad, looking at her today, seeing her go tru all that pains and sorrow all for what? I so pray she gets snaped to reality soon cus after all d endurance the GUY wud clean his d.i.c.k. And move on, she wud be left with ntin bt wait sowi YES she wud be left with sometin a bruised face and a broken spirit.


GOODLUCK TO U AND HER

mikuz: . . . and it will always be a reoccuring decimal . . .

EXACTLY......
Miss vivian this is our reason for crying and posting, so u ladies wud learn to be better at ur choices, stop being DULL, IT KILLSSSSSSS....


#lights up a cigarette#

GUYS........
Its sad, very sad, my reason for this post is cus of my very lovely EX, I loved her bt we cudnt go on cus she fell inlove with this yahoo guy, funny part of it all is that the guy treats her like trash, he beats her day in day out and wud tell all his friends hw he slept with her and hw she cries and screams
as an ex i felt bad for her cus HEY, we once had sometin. I talked to her today to knw why she still stays in this hell of a relationship and she gave me one answer, one that got me wondering, she said










#I DONT KNOW#

why do ladies fall easily for the bad guys, and after all the parade they come back
heartbroken, but in all this there wud forever be a guy that wud do anytin for dem,
someone who loves em truelly bt they wud neva be with this one,
seems they enjoy the bad guys and the heartbreaks more than care and true love, bt HEY
what do i know?
Am just a guy that cares too much



#women# smh

When I was a kid, my Mum liked

to make food for dinner every

now&then. I remember one

night in particular when she

made dinner after a long, hard

day at work. On that evening so

long ago, my Mum placed a plate

of stew and extremely burnt yam

in front of my dad. I remember

waiting to see if anyone noticed!

Yet, all my dad did was reach for

his yam, smiled at my Mum and

asked me how my day was at

school. I don't remember what I

told him that night, but I do

remember hearing my Mum

apologize to my dad for burning

the yam. I'll never forget what he

said:"Honey, I love burnt yam."

Later that night, I went to hug my

Daddy good night and I asked

him if he really liked his yam

burnt. He wrapped me in his arms

and said,"Your mama put in a

long hard day at work today and

she's really tired. And besides... A

burnt yam never hurt anyone but

harsh words do!"'You know, life

is full of imperfect things... And

imperfect people.''I'm not the

best when it comes to keeping

dates and remembering things

just like everyone else'. What I've

learned is to accept each other’s

faults and choosing to celebrate

each other’s differences, is one of

the most important keys to

creating a healthy, growing, and

lasting relationship. Life is too

short to wake up with regrets.. .

Love the people who treat you

right&have compassion for the

ones who don't. Stay blessed and love one another.....

Somebody sent me N400 airtime & she

shared a

testimony d following'day. Another

sent me N750 airtime and

bought a car dat week...

Just last week,a guy sent me

N1,500 airtime

& 2day he has gotten

American visa& a

job with an oil firm.

U may be d next 2

share ur testimony.

Plz send urs now

cos MIRACLES Still

happens. Na AIRTEL i dey

use ooo .. Bliv n get ur miracle

2day!!

Gboliwe: How does this not cut across gender?

dont think it does dude, whats ur take on number 5, look a little bit closer

5 Rules for Ladies
1. Be with someone that will love
you at your
worst and arms that will hold you
at your
weakest.
2. Even though one relationship ends but life
goes on.
Your ex was just a stepping stone
to something
better
3. Stick to the man that loves And shows that in million ways.
4. Stop wanting someone who
doesn't want you.
You're just wasting your time.
And
5. Don't be happy you have many boyfriends
because "law of demand"
Says» cheap commodity attracts high
demand,enjoy urselves....

Mavor: I am tired of seeing your threads. You are addicted to attention, it's so fu<king obvious you silly man-hater. If the man fu<ked up, what is our business? Must you always open silly-a$$ threads?

kinda like her, maybe a little too much

binger: of course,i am...u dey sleep walk,ur mates are busy living their dreams.every fvcking thread u open here is all about you,yourself and life...ur egocentric nature has made u sick...and the disease...ATTENTION SICKNESS

DAMN!!!! someone is pissed......

onila: HOW is he right?

u didnt reply the ideal part of that post

xynerise: you must be her father's factory worker

dude, wtf, is ur post suppose to pass a message to me? Cus am nt gettiing it

onila: NIGERIAN MEN CHANGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CHANGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CHANGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CHANGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

but his right u knw, ony i wanna hook up with u, is there a possibility

but for real oo, onila if thats ur virgin body eh, i'd rada do a prost1tude than do u



#pun intended# lols

joeydozzy: onila, must you copy rihanna? see how your tummy looks like sth that a truck has run over

if that onila's tummy, id be DAMNED..... *praysItIsnt*

i dont get it *scratches head*