₦airaland Forum

AceRoyal:
Owner wants to relocate outside the country.

Shagati:
He wanted to say 20,000
Maybe a Ford Ka with 0.7L engine

Benclever1:
that we will do next week. Thank you.

Benclever1:
Hello everyone.

So I met this girl through a mutual friend and we started bonding. Initially, I didn't take the friendship seriously because this lady is a little older than me and I do not see any future between us.

Now, things got more intense between us. She visited me one time, one thing leading to another, we were in bed, about to have sex and then I pulled out the condom but she refused, insisting that she doesn't enjoy sex with condom. I was very surprised to hear that, so I tried to make her see reasons why the condom is very necessary. She adamantly refused. We ended up not having the sex that day.

Just last week she visited again and we spent the night together. We tried to have sex again but the same issue came up again. She insisted I must not used condom. Now this got me upset. During the conversation that ensued, she made it very clear to me that she does not have any STD/STI so I should not be afraid. She however admitted that she was ovulating and that the chances of getting her pregnant was high, but that I should not worry that she'd take care of herself and the pregnancy, if it happens. She said that she would not force me to get involved with the baby if I don't want. However, she made very clear that she's not ready to get married. This got me confused.

I don't want to let my guards down by indulging in unprotected sex with someone I don't trust. I also do not want to hurt her feelings. So I plan to take her for medical tests next week and then we can kick it off from there.

What's your advise for me.

Thank you.

Pearl1996:
I have done several HIv test. Even did HIv in federal hospital. I am not scared of HIV. Have you heard of the saying that says its better to know what's wrong with you than not knowing. At this point I will Gladly start treatment with out complains if its HIV.
And for all those calling me names. I pray you are all virgins and never made a mistake in your life. The guys a banker and we broke up due to me relocating. We have been together for years.

condemn:
Obobs, these people dey spread hiv everywhere oh. Make una nor dey do skin to skin again abeg. Hiv too full this country oh. Me i done stop to carry olosho sha. Jo soapy till I marry oh.