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valdes00:
Right on point bro.... I av learnt nt to argue with anybody with a gun or any dangerous weapon no matter hw right I am.. there r sum situations we can avoid with the way we respond.... wen I see ppl arguing wit a policeman carry a gun, I do wonder weda dey r Mario with double lives.... Rather Dan argue in sum situations, its better to keep shut n walk away....
Note: am nt in any way blaming d guy for wot apened...

not for vigilantes or local security men. those ones, I will even fight them. if they try to bully me..

Gpopsicle:
@op, u have to take charge of ur mind and b n control of ur emotions.from d look of things Ure a good guy with a gud heart trying to make amends.. first off, burn dose bridges.. u said u frequently visit d 'ashawo thread' on Nairaland, stop it. secondly engage urself in something very productive and mind tasking. d last Buh not d least, u pray kos it's not easy dealing with addiction. u need d help of God to help u get through ds...

hope to hear better from u

thanks bro, I appreciate.

mamatayour:
Baba God, please pick up my call this year. I pray this is my year in Jesus name.

come let's get married..

dammysel:
Used to think I wasn't normal oh lol I am exactly this way too

with this your kinda body, you are over normal

SuperSuave:
get yourself a gf bro, that might be your escape route. Overcoming addictions isn't easy, I can attest to it as I haven't had much luck either.

getting a girlfriend will be hard for me.
1)I lose interest in women easily.
2) I am not serious with women
3) I might wake up one morning, and tell her to go her way.

SuperSuave:
I'm certain you do not have a girlfriend or friends at all, you're probably lonely

I have few friends. they are far from me. but I have plenty acquaintances. at my work place and house. and about girlfriend, no. I don't have.

SuperSuave:
Sorry to spoil your party but nothing out of the ordinary will happen to you if you continue to visit the brothel from now till 31st January. Everyone has something they are addicted to, i have mine and I know it. I've made a restitution to forsake that path and I hope to keep to it.

What I've learn in the course of life is that "An idle hand is the devil's workshop" addictions can be easily cured when you get busy and find joy/pleasure in other things.

I appreciate your contribution. but I have something doing. I hardly have time to even brush my teeth or rest a little. I even work on Sundays. but when the 'demon' comes, I see myself going there..

delishpot:
Tell your mind it is a battle between good and evil. That way you would make conscious decision to not let the enemy overthrow you.

It seems I can't control my mind. and the 'ashawo thread' on sexuality section is not helping matters at all. I frequent it.

I am an only son. I can't be living this life. it's too bad for me..
lalasticlala

I am a young guy of 21. I will be 22 next month. I first patronized a prostitute in 2013, then I was 18. I regretted it. I cried. felt bad, and vowed never to repeat it....
I got admission, travelled to school, and stayed away from that life.. 3 years later, 2016, I came back home for IT. and I found myself going to that life. even when I promised myself not to go back there, I still continued. I am sick and tired of living that lifestyle. it doesn't suit my personality. I am a good guy. but I can't control myself.
just this evening, I went to that brothel again, after fighting with my mind, my body won. I patronized them again. I am felling bad right now. and I have asked God to take my life, if I dare step my foot in a brothel. now and in the future. please I need your advice, counselling and prayers. because prayers alone can't solve this..

wisdomguy4u:
This is a true story of an unforgettable near death experience I had on the night of 24th December, 2015 that changed my life forever. I decided to share this story here again not because I want you to castigate me for my act (you can't castigate me more than I have castigate myself), but because I believe a lot of people will learn from it and thereby avoid the pitfall in the coming 2017.

It all began when I attended the night church service held in my village. I came a little late so I wasn't opportune to get a seat. I had to stand up for the mass. After standing in the cold for about an hour, my legs began to shiver, I decided to walk toward the church gate and back to stretch my near stiffed knees.

As I got to the gate, I stood for a while and then turn around to walk back when I heard a female voice from the dark corner of the gate; she said, "it's boring right? ". I walked toward her to get a clear view of who was talking; I saw a light skin girl sitting on a small flower pavement. I asked her "what's boring?". "The service , the night, everything" She replied. It was obvious she wanted us to have a conversation, so I quickly sat down beside her.

To cut the story short, from our little conversation I got to know that her name is Aderoke, her father is from Ogun state while her mother is from my village. She was born and brought up in lagos and can't speak or understand Igbo language (meanwhile the service was coordinate in igbo language). This was few things I was able to get from her before she told me she was shivering due to the cold. As a sharp guy i reasoned she wanted me to cuddle her, so I told her to draw closer so I can hold her. Without hesitation she moved closer and placed her head on my shoulder while I placed my hand around her waist.

Everything went so fast, before I could say "bingo!" We were already into deep romance: kissing and groping . In the climax of it all she held me and whisper in my ear " fuk me please". As I look around for a more hidden corner, a part of me was persuading me to control my urge that she could be an agent of darkness sent to destroy me, and another part of me was telling me not to lose the opportunity that she's just a lonely girl in need of some fun. I fell for the latter. I got a more hidden corner were we began to have it; first she bend low while I got on her back ; after awhile she suggested I sit on a pavement there while she climb on top.

Few minutes afterward, I felt a sudden sharp pain on my butt, I thought it was an ant or something similar, but the pain grew bigger. With a trembling voice I told her to stop and get down that I think something bit me, but she was so carried aways that she couldn't hear me out. As the pain kept increasing , I had to push her out of me . I stood up, flash my phone touch in the pavement and there was a long big snake rowed up . The strange girl screamed and ran away. By then I was already feeling dizzy and fainting, I managed to pull myself back into the church premises and disclose to someone that I have been bitten by a snake after which I lost conscious of myself. I heard I was even fuming from the mouth.

After 2 days of serious traditional treatment, I regained consciousness. When I was asked to explain how I got bitten by a snake in the church, I didn't know what to say. I can't believe I nearly lost my life because of a few minutes romp with a total stranger, it's a very shameful thing to tell your family. The only person i finally told the true of what transpired was a man of God; whom after praying, disclosed to me that the strange girl has a jealous spiritual husband who is a serpent. So the snake that bit me wasn't ordinary.

I believe God gave me a second chance for a reason. And I have sworn never to continue my careless lifestyle, I have given my life to God and anything premarital sex is not for me anymore. I know it's not easy to overcome temptation of premarital sex, but I believe with pray and determination we can overcome anything.

My fellow Nairalanders join me and thank God for my life, and at the same time learn from my story. For the seek of your family and loved ones, stop living a careless life . Stop sleeping around with strangers, so many people knowingly or unknowingly have spiritual spouse, some of who are viciously jealous . Sex is sweet , but life is sweeter. Try and live a safe life in 2017. I pray God see us all through in Jesus name: Amen!

ediot.. for your mind na you get this story. copy copy.
every 31st Dec I dey hear this story..

cross the country.. you don carry your ashawo ministry enter uk .. Mr Brunel, how is her spoken English?

cococandy:
No. I'm not.
It's just because I'm selective to the PMs I accept.

fvck off.. ! who gives a fvck abou you

I go show there with cucumber..

alizma:
some didn't forget but couldn't find time to do that which they have in mind. lets assume this woman had been called to glory last month. this man would have perfectly fit into the shoes of those who you think forgot their benefactors after they had made it through.

look at how you made death sound nice.. called to glory..

Ike4God:
wow more Greece to your elbow brother, thanks to nairaland at least now I know its not an accident, I use to think its fire burn.

Macedonia nko? Greece ke.

Ishilove:
1.5 Milla for sex doll baby. Hian

I rather wankk myself to death.. but i reject that one also..

Divay22:
Just wondering if 9ja men will someday now go for this................

nne recession! recession! 3k dollars is like 1.5million naira..

ILuvGummyBearz:
[color=magenta] ....im American [/color]

bae, what happened to your former monicker?

CaroLyner:
eyesore

talk true..

nawa4naija:
AFONJA WOMEN ouch !!! been crushing on igbo fresh boyz since time IMMEMORIAL

they dont ever crush on their tiger faced brodas rather they will only become a babymama for them just to make sure they chop them dry

i dont mean no tribal war,,,but afonja people need to come so we educate them properly on women affairs since it is obvious that they are only better than us in one thing,,,,,







YAHOO

nwanne run for ya life! I say run! take cover, the afonjas are coming...!

uzolexis:
so if mall is closed in Cape town, we should also close our own malls Why must we do what South Africa does stop thinking upside down my friend, obviously South Africa is the only country you have been to outside Nigeria else you would know that some countries still keep their malls open even on christmas.

you just schooled him..

mhisbliss:
those haters go be like "those who give a fvck went that way" when deep down the pain and jealousy is real, those guys have made a name for themselves, what they do with thier money is thier business

see as you paint your face like masquerade..

lastpage:
Keep Quiet, Nobody or Human "Skin color" is "WHITE"!
Say Caucasian, Negroid, Asian, e.t.c
Just put a White Cloth beside him and compare!
inferiority Complex no go kill una sha.


Lastpage!

and no human skin is black.. just put a black cloth beside him and compare..

favourmic:
For those of you asking for the pictures

bros the two pictures do not correlate. I see few 'whites' behind him.. but the report says a 'white' man..

JonSnow:
Propaganda.


See how neat "shekau's" flag is.

thank you.. I don't trust that bulati man..

obj fine pass your Smokey brother sef..

zynellsmum:
Been the first child is very tasking I can say but when it's a girl I feel it is very very very..well i have four sibling and yea boys which look older than me..I have a humble immediate younger about 20 years of age if you tell him something he listens,if your tone was harsh he will tell you in a better way.in his teen years he did not give us trouble,as a teenager he just did the normal stuffs teenagers will do.but the opposite for his immediate which am 6 years older than that has no respect for our parents fight my mum and dad that even when they give up on him..I still talk to them and they forgive him and do stuffs for him,but his ways of insulting his seniors to the extent of stabbing his older brother.We thank God no life was lost.I have called him spoken to him .even give him gifts,play with him,gist him like we are mates..but when he wants to
misbehave he acts stupidly.If I cook soup he won't tell me to dish for him the best thing his doing it himself if I caution him then he insults me and call me names make me feel so stupid..imagine him telling me he will carve my heart's out...And so many more I don't want to bore u with my gist..his17 don't tell me it's the normal teenage phase it's not..If you where in my shoes what will you do??

maybe he's a cultist.. your immediate younger brother should treat his fvck up.. he is a guy for Christ sake!

AngelSweetLips:
Me no makeup

I'm in love with your long face.. you Nigerian?

10 minutes.. I was wooing one sugar mummy.. she no gree ooo

idonbilivit