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Hi, my name is Jerry, I am 30yrs old, suffering from osteoarthritis, depression and having suicidal thoughts.

My problem started from my teenage years. I am very shy and have poor social skills or so I thought. Think I was in ss1/ss2 in a mixed school(had spend my jss years in an all boys school).
My life growing up had been devoid of parental or sibling love and I wanted to experience something close especially with the juicy stories and escapades from friends. Peer pressure things.

I wanted to belong so bad that I tried too but was not successful. This rejection was the beginning of what I am suffering now.
I made a wrong decision which changed my life and turned me into a miserable pile of sack. One afternoon after my bath, I was admiring myself in the mirror and making faces and suddenly I realized that whenever I raise eyebrows and pout my lips, I looked more handsome.
Nairalanders, that was how I started keeping my face 24hrs, 7days a week for good 8yrs(2003-2008).

I started getting stares which I wanted and translated to admiration not knowing those were stares of "what is this clown doing ".
When I decided to stop and finally close my jaw properly, I realised that my jaw was not well aligned, felt discomfort and slight pain.
Started visiting dental clinics, no improvement still and that was how depression crept into my life. People around weren't helping issues at all cause hardly will I be able to have a face to face conversation with them but I observed that they were cool with looking directly from the side of my face. I couldn't bond with neither family nor friends.

It was a sad moment, skipping lectures so as to visit dentist, smoking weed so as kill the depression (another regret).
Am tall so I easily fell in love with basketball.
Around 2010, I meet an uncle of mine who listened to all my worrys and his words to me inspired me to follow my own path with every shred of courage,self determination and passion.
I decided I was going to follow some of my basketball buddies into the police force as a athlete officer(under sports) while continuing my education part time. I resumed training. Morning till night, I was at the basketball court training,

Out of nowhere, the pain and jaw discomfort came back and a doctor I visited told me about a tmj procedure to realign my bite(teeth)and I goggled about this procedure and how it's done. I saw it involved massage therapy and brace wire, so I foolishly went to a local masseuse who told me he knew how to get it right.
That's was how another bad decision further destroyed the jaw I was managing. This guy used aboniki to massage from my spine bone, to the jaw lines that runs underneath my ear, separating my neck from my head.
My neck was not spared.
I only stopped the sessions after I discovered that I was like a walking corpse. Couldn't walk 5km without urinating and drinking pure water, was easily fatigued, speech incoherent.

Its been 5years since this happened but ever since that day, my life has been hell. It was so shameful that I couldn't go out for a while but when I started going out, I returned to basketball practice. It helped seeing old friends and teammates but my body wasn't up to the physicality of an athlete. It was one day training, swollen knee, inflamed ear, jaw. Visited a doctor, did X-ray and it was discovered I had osteoarthritis.

I can't work cause my health is poor. Went back to school and studied tourism.
Whenever this pains starts, I just think of the way forward but I always fall short of any tangible.

I need help, medical help, advice and counsel and possibly a permanent solution cause I can't live like this. Emotional, am drained
I want to build a life like I always dreamed of.

cooldon4u:
Bros where can I learn this in Kaduna ? Thanks.

You can learn web development at NIIT kanta road .
Incase you find any other place, please don't hesitate to share

Vivipop:
Can we hear word? I wonder where u were when Japan was whooping them. World best fire

Y are you so pained.

Hazard
World best

;Dfunny
Anybody wey think otherwise Na sadist

lebuhsi:
some times I wonder how someone would go to school, claims that he/she has sense and still sit behind a screen and type nonsense and post on social media, and some gullible people will belit them!.....what is the meaning of fulani islamization agenda??....is islamization even a word in english?.....what are the pointers that suggests this?.....ipob and other pro-biafra groups have tried all types of propaganda even the story of 'jubril' from sudan...then this unfortunate conflicts in the middlebelt comes around, and it's like icing on the cake for them...please nigerians behave like you went to school, don't believe sh*team on social media, research, and all the mediocrity would end for our own good.

Mister, you can rant all you want. You think this is the first time the Fulani's have grabbed another tribe's ancestral land and renamed it. Read about saurdana lga
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gembu,_Nigeria

And yes, islamization is a word, use your dictionary often please

Zeek21:
Who are the other 3 players ?

One is Emmanuel sarki
Don't know the rest

CecyAdrian:
Every tom,dick and Harry now have an opinion and without respect

That's how real democracy is practice, dumbass

chubbyswit:
no animation in your post? Do you know you can make upto $1000/sec frame by frame of 2d animation as a freelancer? It even goes much higher than that if you are working in a studio.

Can you suggest institutes that teach animation?

desiigner01:
Representing africa in a positive light

Musically, yes
But that shirt he's putting on portrays him in a bad light

WTF

Good he won, but can't he just wear something without a known recreational (date rape) drug name imprinted on it.

Viserion:
close to bus stop before dadi street

Sign board/samsi area

Viserion:
you and your warped mentality, is everyone in the north Aboki?

Which side for NY is this?

Looks like bus stop.

Though he's a pure talent, he still had to asslick osibanjo before he could be recognized

This is Nigeria

allanphash7:
Show some respect, not everyone you tell that shiit you wrote up there

Can you stand face to face with Joel obi and utter that silly statement you wrote in your post.

Other African footballers are married to white women and just because eboue's own turned out bad doesn't mean people should not marry who they love regardless of race, tribe, or nationality

allanphash7:
Xabeg bro no forget ebue matter o

Shut up.
Na only eboue marry white woman before

sirvvy:
Eysseric J / Pouille L vs Mclachlan B /
Struff J-L




please what is the outcome of the tennis match?

They have not played yet.
Probably till tomorrow cause it's raining there now

Why una dey compare police station bail and court bail.
The guyman still get case to answer and all accused stand a chance to be granted bail.

hope4nigeria:
calm down oga, when we told you that backwardness in the north is second to none, you won't understand. Many LG in north still live in analog age! Don't be surprise what is called LG is one forest desert with two dilapidated buildings, those who will troop out to welcome boko haram with joy, what do you expect from such people

Gbam

Lalasticlala, Dominique
This is front page worthy

GreenMavro:


SO HOW DEM GO CONTROL KONJI?

By fuvkking very team in their way

DonPiiko:
https://www.instagram.com/p/BjKIPR2hYwU/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=1uu1s2ozjk7rz

Just read the rules and you failed to mention that for our votes/likes to count, we must follow the organiser's instagram page

DonPiiko:
https://www.instagram.com/p/BjKIPR2hYwU/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=1uu1s2ozjk7rz

Done

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Him Bleep up,but 95percent of the people here would do worse,and run away with all the money.

He was the one on the spotlight.
If he knew he couldn't handle the hot seat, why sit on it in the first place.

amicable09:
Lol. When I saw the topic of this thread I knew I'll have a good laugh. Your last paragraph is funny. What do you mean by "made in Philippines products?" . If she's sponsored to Philippines won't you be happy?

But on a more serious note, they seem to have gotten hold of her. You can help her by sharing other people's stories and experiences in multilevel marketing (MLM) until she sees herself towing a similar path she won't believe you.

Don't just share for her to read or ignore, share and discuss it after reading. Hear her arguments FOR her job before bringing in your arguments AGAINST her job. If she's a staff and not a distributor, who knows? One day, she may be the one to go to Philippines for more supplies of more tea and supplements to Nigeria.

These guys have really repackaged this thing sha. This job market don kpafuka.

Have done all I could but it seems she's hell bent on continuing with them.
I will now give her space and time will tell if it's for her good or not but my prayer is for it to work to her advantage.

I have always been able to guide my sister when it comes to issues that needs external input or advice.

My sister was able to retain her job after her nysc but had to resign last year. Since then, she has not been lucky in the labour market.
The reason why I opened this thread is because of recent events that have finally provided her with another job .
Am not satisfied with the kind of job because of numerous red flags that kept popping before this supposedly job.

Let me start from the beginning to explain how I came to the conclusion that the company might be a gnld company.
Last month, My mom's former customer came visiting and on trying to catch up on old times asked about my sister and mom told her how she was working but had to resign and now she's job hunting.
So the customer now promised mom she might be able to help my sister get employed in the company she works in and asked for my sister's phone number.
She called my sister and directed to a man in Abuja where my sister is based.
Few days later, I had to call my sister With instructions to travel down to our village for a distant relative's burial as our representative but she didn't pick up until hours later with the excuse that she was in a seminar.
That should have the first red flag but I didn't read much into it under when few days later, my mom told me a very ridiculous statement about my sister demanding for N40,000 as a requirement before she will be given the job.
That ridiculous demand was what set my alarm bells on and I kept trying to convince my mom that this kind of job is not right but my mom never being able to read or write and with no knowledge about issues like this, disregarded everything I raised.
I kept pestering my sister to at least show me her proof that it's not an gnld company but she's insisting she's a staff and not a distributor.
That its an NGO that's into networking.

She on a visit for the weekend and she brought my mom some of their "made in Philippines" products ( tea, supplements)

Betnomore:
It seems they have postponed the interrupted matches till tomorrow. Will it be counted as void or person gats wait till tomorrow nii

Na waiting get us o

A friend gave me this coupon code this morning but no chance to go and print the ticket.

And it's going well o.

Wish I play am sha but I hope my guy win though

B945ECQQPPZREZ-1130919

My booking code for today

Booking Number:76D3SL3


God luck

SeunKelechi:
Somebody help us arrange this for bet9ja.. Na beg i beg....

For bet9ja code
76869J8

JixNation:
If Barcelona B were to be promoted to laliga will/can they play in the same league with the real FCB?

B teams are cannot be promoted to the same league as their main team.

Same is practised in Netherlands, Portugal