₦airaland Forum

Draslo:
I've met her. It's not that big. It's just wide and fat.

So uhmmm.. what's the difference? Lol

PissfulProtester:
all in the name of forming woke, some of you have lost your senses completely

You have said the whole truth!
It's disheartening!

OyigboUpdate:
Oga he us not mad this is normal.in china

Do they reside in China!!??
And so what if it's normal in China? does that make it right!??
Goossshhhhhhh...this generation has become so vile!

Highter1:
sorry about that. Most guy will feel the same way he felt that you are not submissive or proud cos u are financially ok and can afford to buy some stuff by ursef. You ought to have apologize when he approached u for not supporting you financially about ur new ride. May be that is one of his way of testing ur submissive level.. My thought though.

She ought to have apologized?I don't quite get this, Sir
What exactly is she apologizing for?

AstroG:
All these na for guy wea get strength

Marriage requires strength and work
Refusing your wife's food and eating out is petty
It's better to quarrel and settle things than to refuse her food and give her the silent treatment because of some dumb stuff.

Unik3030:
so it's a must d guy enters d kitchen b4 eating?when there are fast foods everywhere....Na to dey chop outside dey straff outside on a steady

Mtchewww
For how long will you do that?
Imagine your wife sleeping out and stops cooking for you because she's mad at you?
Abeg how will you feel?

Eat the food she prepared,eat it with joy then sit her down and talk some sense into her if she did something wrong...simple

My point here is, don't refuse your wife's food or starve her sexually because you are mad.. communicate please. This advice is also for women, don't stop cooking for your husband or starving him sexually because you are angry with him! It doesn't make sense abeg! communicate and sort your issues!

You guys are saying that refusing a woman's food and not having sex with her is a sure way to get the woman worried and anxious,but if a woman does this same thing to a man you guys will call her a bad woman.
Na wa
Pls with this childish attitude you guys shouldn't get married,stick with your "having a baby mama" decision.

Gaggii:
How do we punish an unrepentant wife

An unrepentant wife?
Gosh.. I'm so tired abeg

Openbusiness:
You will get time when the side chicks start dishing his food and chopping the money meant for you, and leaving you with crumbs. Be forming you hear, till them show you pepper, then you will get time then, your day will be 36 hours instead of 24

You guys should just stop this nonsense treat of side chick dishing or taking care of a man.. seriously
The woman prepared food and you refused to eat,what do you expect her to do? Nail herself on the cross of Calvary?
I don't understand how you guys think sometimes!

goodnewscliff:
handling cases like matured couple is king...... Being hardened does Not help but in case its needed to teach a so called hardened wife a lesson, i dont jonze.... She will leave the house for me all by herself without me telling her to.......
Never chin chum chin

I don't think you guys understand what jullima is tryna say. She's trying to let you guys know that although refusing your wife's food and not having sex with her may affect her in the first few years of marriage, overtime it won't bother her if the man keeps doing it.
Let's all be honest here, does it make sense to refuse your wife's food because of an issue?
That's an archaic thing to do abeg...I don't think men should still be doing that shit!
So it's the constant rubbish the man keeps doing that has hardened her..

SultanOfAbia:
Blame the curvy thick angel that kept pushing it back as queue got tighter..
She felt it, enjoyed it and still gave me her number.. At this point im already chatting her up in WhatsApp..
If it was bad she would have embarrassed me but nooooo she liked it.
So do me a favour and go cry in your cave..

In my previous post I called the girl the "bigger fool" but it doesn't change the fact that you are an asshole!
Accept it and grow the Bleep up.

Grown niggas acting like kids,acting like Benjamin button.

SultanOfAbia:
Don't try me, my gbola will unleash the floodgates between your legs
I had to hide my boner so of course I purposely made it look small so as to not attract Attention from others around me duhh?

LOL!You just showed how dumb you are OP!
Do you know why you hid your erection in order not to attract attention? It's because you knew what you did is bad and shameful!

SultanOfAbia:
Don't try me, my gbola will unleash the floodgates between your legs
I had to hide my boner so of course I purposely made it look small so as to not attract Attention from others around me duhh?

LOL!You just showed how dumb you are OP!
Do you know why you hid your erection in order not to attract attention? It's because you knew what you did is bad and shameful!

etrange:
Would those people have acted the same as the OP?

Please, bro, let's call a spade a spade. This attitude is terrible and it's only low life guys that do such things

You're reasonable. Only guys that lack morals and self control can do such.
The question is,if it was his girlfriend,wife or sister that was treated that way how would he feel?
This OP lacks self control and sense.

SultanOfAbia:
Simple Question
If it was Idris Elba or Will Smith or Leonardo DiCaprio that did that to you.
Would you have reacted the same way??

Keep quiet pls.
Any woman that has respect for her body won't let any man do that kind of thing to her.
So what if it's idris Elba? shouldn't he respect me and also respect himself?
Don't go about thinking all women like the same thing or can tolerate the same thing! Learn to respect yourself and stop thinking every woman is open for your silly advances.
What you did was wrong and ofc the girl is a bigger fool for not slapping you!
Periodt!

Babyforever:
Since she came to your apartment has she cheated on you ? I guess the answer is NO you see she's just like a baby under your care put somebody to watch her for you when she goes back and delete the guys contact invite her over and over again if possible give her head too since that's what is taking her outside that way the love will grow ooo nna

I don't understand what you're saying tho. He should put somebody to watch over her? A grown ass woman should be watched by somebody so she doesn't cheat? Gosh, doesn't make any sense my dear, doesn't at all.
If she's not old enough to know what's good and what's bad then she should keep fooling around then. That's my two cents on this issue.

emonis88:
It is not weakness or stupidity, ok can d child change his DNA? He might not acknowledge d man as his father, but when biology comes into play he has no choice. That is y some men r so careless, Cus they know u can change d fact of them being d biological father of the man or lady n U must understand that in Africa that matters. Abi u want turn American, even those recognize d biological parents.

You have your own view and I have mine. I stand firm on my opinion that he's stupid and weak to go look for a father who didn't care about him. A man who didn't bother to check up on you as a kid...nah. Not knowing your father wouldn't stop you from becoming great or anything,so please it's not a big deal to me.

RamessesIV:
Dear you have to right to your son,no man that refuses to take care of his child has a right to call himself a father,when the child is 18+ and he decides he wants to meet the father that's his choice,there is a different between been a father and a sperm donor

You're the only man who has said something reasonable about this issue.

Futurejoy:
He will look for his father doesn’t mean he will love his father

If the man is ready to take care of his child and spend sometime with his child then the woman should let him do so but if he doesn't come looking for his kid at all and doesn't want to be part of the kid's life then I don't see why the child would grow up and start looking for his dad. A man that didn't give a f**k about him when he was a kid? That's just weakness and stupidity.

She never left!!!!!



I love this woman so much

lefulefu:
if she doesnt demand sex from u now u will come back and create another thread complaining she hates sex

Too much of everything is bad. It's not bad for him to open a thread and complain,he needs a solution.

ProtectMyMoney:
Have you bothered to ask how she coped before you started dating?. She may just be unleashing her dragon in the confines of her relationship.

Mr Man, do your job rather than complain. That is why kolaqalagbo has been advertising for you since.

What do you mean by he should do his job?
Pls let him be,he said he can't continue again. It's draining him
Abeg two people that aren't sexually compatible shouldn't be together.

DoubleEngine007:
Stamina for cheating partner? I no get,no vex...

Lmaaaooo ..guy you dey make me laugh ooooo

Kevsmart88:
Having a high libido doesn't necessarily mean one is promiscuous. If she's a good lady and posseses the qualities u jus mentioned,bro keep her but find a way to strike a balance...U could try engaging her in other time consuming side hustles that requires both physical and mental input but fun,that way she wouldn't have all the time in the world to demand sex. Good women are scarce my G ,so if U find one keep her biko..

I'm not disputing the fact that she could be a good woman and wife material or whatever but bro sexual compatibility is very important when considering marriage

incogni2o:
April 7th

Cool
Mine is April 8th

Philipmighty:
This op nah jew man I swear...who still dey do no sex till marriage now..guy if you be virgin nah for your pocket

I don't think it's any of your business if he decides to keep his virginity till marriage.

Apparently, this shows the extent some men are willing to go just to have sex with a woman.
Lmaaooo
Wetin Musa no go see for gate!

Abeg the man is just disrespectful.

Even if you don't like how your wife looks you have no right to send her nudes pictures just because you want to fuvk one random bitch. Sick asf mehnnnn

Xisnin:
What do Nigerian men lose in divorce?

I taya o
Abeg ask him