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Efik guys are hot, no lie....








Am one, so I know

See wat joblessness has caused ma naija brothers and sisters... chai see vexing, even after the OP specified IT... "E go better"

Moyola: hahaha!

switz, so ur still on nairaland... missed u loads

nairaland crashes once again.

goal

well this worked.

Sagamite: But for friends-with-benefits, booty-call, adventure, quick-hits, good-servicing-after-a-drought and give-it-to-me-baby---huh-huhn-huh-huhn you would go for a bad boy sha?

.... Please help me tell her, it still the same thing we are saying here... After the alpha male has finished the whole deal, the left over is kept for the nice guy. Who doesnt have any choice, than no be nice.

^^Nice guys always lose... Nice guys always come last.... Itz Just a thing wired in the femále brain.

Yeah we are trained to be nice, lovely and fún... But we dont accept nonsense/ BS.... Ami ndo eyen calabar...

kimberluge: Long talk,just buy her blackberry porsche! U don win am inatanta!!Lol!!!

Lolz. .. But money doesnt work.

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Dude!! LOL! Im almost ashamed to admit that this crap would work on me!! Although it's all pretty sure signs the relationship is over. If a girl is breaking up with a guy like this though, she has probably put up with a lot of his bullshit already

I dont think the guy must have seriously done anything if she breaks with him.... Most times, you girls dont know what you want, or prolly feel the grass is greener on the other side.

Flytefalls: Hmmm. Then perhaps I'm just too easy. Or I make my decisions too quickly. I don't do well with playing hard to get, and if the guy backed off this much, I'd cry myself into singledom (even if I was in the wrong, I dont do well with begging either). What a stand off that'd be

Its not begging. Its just meeting him half way. He likes you, you like him too, but somehow, u dont want to rush.... he kinda pulls away not because he is giving up on you, but because he wants to keep his ego. Unconciously u end up sending him an innocent text. ... But definitely the guy would know what that means, that he is making progess... dunno bout u... but most ladies do.

Flytefalls: Do the above rules apply if you DO want her back or DON'T?

Loving the end paragraph as a cheeky twist but practically, he is backing off too much if he wants her back..

its just psychology, we want what we can't have. When she realises she is loosing grip, nd he is going out of her radar, she tries to want him back.... From experience, the more you plead with her, the more ego u loose.... its almost the same thing as what happens when a guy asks a lady out, but she keeps playing hard to get, when the guy starts pulling away, she reaches out to him... its same technique used here "reversed psychology"... She wont want you if she doesnt miss you.

Here's a list of what NOT to do if your girlfriend is
breaking up with you.


1) Do NOT fight with her. Fighting ALWAYS creates
tension and kills attraction. Fighting with a woman is useless.
Even if you win the argument, you will still lose the war.

2) Do NOT try to use logic to show her why she should
come back to you. Love is based on FEELINGS, not logic. No
matter how brilliant your logic is, she's still going to leave
you.

3) Do NOT reassure your ex that you have "changed" so
things will be "different from now on". It's like trying to
bail water out of a sinking boat. It won't work. The hole is
still there and your words are not going to mend it.

4) Do NOT keep telling her you love her. She won't
care. All a woman cares about is how much SHE loves YOU...not
the other way around!)

5) Do NOT beg her to come back. The more you beg, the
more she will ignore you.

6) Do NOT try to make her feel guilty about leaving you.
(Examples: "I can't work without you." and "Don't break up
with me during exam period..." It won't work. It will only
make her DREAD being with you even more.

7) Do not act depressed so they will feel bad for you.
Sympathy does NOT equal ATTRACTION!

Do NOT talk to her friends to win their support. All
she cares is how SHE fees about you. Even if her friends love you,
they can't make her love you forever. External pressure never
lasts longer. If your girl decides to stay with you, her motivation
has to come from WITHIN.

9) Do NOT spend money on gifts and flowers for her. You
can't buy her heart back with money.

10) Do NOT push her into getting back with you. The more
you push, the more she will PULL AWAY.

These are the most common mistakes guys make during a
breakup. Trust me, you don't want to do ANY of these things.
If you do, I can guarantee you your relationship will be doomed.
You probably won't even get a chance to kiss your girlfriend
goodbye, let alone get her back.


WHAT TO DO

1.Be polite
2.BE indifferent
3.Show to her that you can live without her and your having fun and you have a life and surviving without her.
4.Ignore her
5.Your time now is for other people and things not for her
6.Dont be rude or do somthing signifies that your in pain like anger or hate.
7.Flirt with other girl BUT THIS IS OPTIONAL...if your gonna do this make it sure that it will not seem that your just making her jelous..remeber the point here is to make her realise that you can still continue to live withouot her and have fun and you dont give a fck if she dumps you..
8.Dont try to be friends
9.Don’t be taken for granted
10.Don’t try to seduce them
11.Just cut them off and get on with your life
12.make their decisions final
13.Be patient and wait for her next move but for the meanwhile keep doing all the above statements.

When she contact

1.be polite
2.be indifferent
3.show to her that your time is not for her
4.cut her calls short
5.Be patient and wait for her next move.
6. Say to her or show to her through your actions that "NO HARD FEELINGS"

when she cry or says she misses you or do somthing that sugest she cant afford to loose you or trying to be friends

1.Continue to back off
2.be a challenge
3.Accept her only of your truely conviinced that she will do anything just to give her another chance.
4.be polite still
5.Be patient and wait for her next move


whe you take her back
1.donr EVER BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED
2.PUT THE BLAME ON HER
3.Do so on your own terms

commentator wanted to say first, he said "fúçk" ... ha bad man... can imagine what is on his mind.

Is bright dike not the guy who scored against catalunya? how come he didnt make the 23 man squad? Am I dreaming

Jeez cant stare at that face... Looks scary

I called your phone several times, u havent picked... I need the phone, lets discuss

Is the phone still available? I need it urgently. And plz post pictures

How about 30k for the torch 3? And what is the last price for torch2 ? Please it is urgent.

That is a pure china phone.

west ham equalize

Jesus... that guy na waste

That wz closw.. tnk God

Goal

Nyx one naija

Clueless keeper

Another free kick

These catalans are very wasteful