baby_123:

God forbid KFC! I wouldn't even eat there with my enemies money. Not to talk of Saga's dough . Too cheap.

baby_123:

KFC ke, tooo cheap. The smell of the place can land me in the hospital. Saga is a real Ijebu. KFC? Buhahahaha.

baby_123:
@Coogar,
You miss how much Saga has fallen. He wants to take me out and do nice things. Saga is all mouth. He doesn't stand a chance fighting. He will go down.

y me:
The fact you make it sound like its just men that goes through this phase alone depicts how strong women really are (na only una sabi complain? )
I repeat when a man knows what he wants and sees a woman who matches those criteria and still decide to front and let ego (all in the name of being an aplha male) get the better part of him, La thunder La fire

*Arrange curves back into my sexy dress, nurrin for you*

Goldieluks:
Damn respect and all that ish. A woman wants your affection more than anything.
You will keep going from one woman to the other, and maybe end up with a gold-digger who doesn't
care about affection/love.

This is London there are too many takers, but very few settlers.

Zico0: Just be succesful in what you do. That way,if your too nice or not nice at all it dont matter:the smart woman will know your worth.

Sagamite:

KFC restaurant?

E ma wo baby yi. Ko iti da mor. (Make una dey see this babe. She never recognise).

Best restuarant for awon gbogbo big boys.



Go down on you with the rod?

So you know it is inevitable?

Yasmine: I find myself falling for the kind of guy ekt_bear describes .. The undercover nice guy ---> He roars in the crowd, dons the 'player' veneer with full swag, chases and hunts and is as elusive as the best Alpha male, gives me grief trying to get his attention, but when I (finally) get to know him, see that under all that braggadacio, he's really a well-brought up, kind, loving nice guy with a softside , who can stand up when necessary !

baby_123:



OMG! Please go and say those to Tgirl and the rest of your wives. I am not negotiating with you, never.

*speechless* . You have a very active imagination.

baby_123:

You are too damn cheap! .

You think the 10 kobo you give your wives is enough. Baby123 = 1trillion women. When you are capable, you can check back.

Sagamite:

KFC restaurant?

E ma wo baby yi. Ko iti da mor. (Make una dey see this babe. She never recognise).

Best restuarant for awon gbogbo big boys.

maxwello.yg:
hahahaha !!! It's obvious you're into the Alpha dudes-just as I had thought.

shymexx:

You can't lose what's yours already, especially when you'r respectful and normal to the chic... And you possess some qualities that are rare to replace out there - that's where alpha-male-ism comes into play...

However, if she leaves you, there are tons of chics out there who'll replace here... That's more reason why guys need to work on achieving success/security before chasing after chics - it puts them in a position to take charge and demand without being overly controlling...

This is London and there are too many takers...

coogar:

of course, he can - but it would be at his own time, his own pace. he won't be rushed by any woman or any circumstance. he would settle down when he's ready

baby_123:

You are too damn cheap! .

You think the 10 kobo you give your wives is enough. Baby123 = 1trillion women. When you are capable, you can check back.

shymexx:

The bolded part applies to the guys - more reason why the chics should be ones chasing after guys who're ready to settle down, else they'll end up as baby mums like their peers..

The guys are winning right now - as long as a guy plays his card right, he'll be the shot-caller...

Tgirl4real:

Nonsense!

totalbaby: A nice guy anyday and anytime.FOr serious relationships definately the nyc guy. My bf is a nyc guy n definately is not boring or a pushover.

Sagamite:

But for friends-with-benefits, booty-call, adventure, quick-hits, good-servicing-after-a-drought and give-it-to-me-baby---huh-huhn-huh-huhn you would go for a bad boy sha?

Pharoh: This debate is funny to me, everybody gets sex one way or the other. . that is both nice guys and the so called alpha males. It is funny that people say nice guys usually get the used up ladies after they have been used by the alpha males, the thing is they have failed to tell us which type of ladies the alpha males later end up with in life. We can guess and say it is the same used up ladies by other alpha males right or what really?.

Sagamite:

Yep.

And they luuuuuurve it!

It is an interesting challenge and project they want to manage.

Fine girls like it because it is different and more interesting than guys kissing their feet all day that they are boringly used to.

Average and below girls love it but avoid it because they know they can't win the competition, so they go for the nice guy.

Best strategy:

Be a bad guy and ENJOY your life. Bangg as many girls as you can. Pull a hot girl and then when you are settled and she has produced, then you can change to nice. When they know their value in the market has diminished, it somehow acts like a calming agent and personality enhancer, so she would stay.

A fcking win-win strategy, while still playing to the rules you did not create but that can work against you if you don't follow it.

Sagamite:


Yes, nice guys get sex too. Let me explain how it works to you:

Nice guy - the girl makes him work hard and exhaust his resources before she gives it up after a long period of time. The type of guy that takes her on several dates, treats her like a princess and then she gives it up like 2-8 months after, completely on her terms and condition. She sees it as rewarding him for doing so well and working hard. She then expects him to commit, while she is only enjoying him and his attention or managing him just in case nothing exciting comes along. Normally, majority of the girls like the way these kind of guys likes and treat them. If he stops doing those, she would stop liking him.

Alpha Males - the girl finds them mysterious and emotionally unavailable. She works as hard if not harder than him in kicking off the relationship. He hardly exhaust much resources before she decides she wants to jump in bed with him. The type of guy that meets her and starts getting funky with her by the second date if not the first, she is doing all the things she has always boasted she would never do and she would give it up anytime between same night to 1 month of meeting him, and it is even mostly on his terms, maybe she gets the rights to the conditions. They negotiate. She might even give it up to him and expect nothing in return (e.g. that rubbish called commitment), besically make it a one night stand or fck buddies. She sees it as a privilege sleeping with him. Normally, majority of the girls are besotted with these guys, not merely liking the way the guy likes them. He really does not have to do much and she would still like him.

Yes, some Alpha Males may end up with used-up babes, but at least they know they have taken their entitlement of use and are not only taking used-up babes when they have never had many fresh ones. Most nice guys get used-up babes after years of trying to get this used-up babes fresh but the girls either put them in reserve or indirectly or directly tell them to fck-off. Then when the sell-by date is aproaching, they now tell them to come and take a discount before the taste completely deteriorates. Alpha males have had so many fresh goods offered to them on a platter of gold, fresh is not a big deal later because they are used to the taste.

I don't know what you want, but I kind of like to be the latter. It is in my best interest.