@nutase: I like women that stand out and tell the truth to men. Women indeed are portrayed weak, helpless and what have you which is wrong and a lie. Even though you are Nigerian but that mindset is out of this continent. You are my new friend for today. See you

@poster: you are a sexist if you treat a woman the way you won't treat your fellow man. Are women not men-made(made from man). Why treat some human being as if they better or divine. Stop following those stupid rules made by stupid humanity. You are doing her a favour by marrying her. Remember her biological clock is ticking away. Maybe you are emotionally attached to her like a little boy to his mommy.

Women only want your money. If you give her, she will grow avaricious and more demanding until you can't meet up with her demand and like a cow, she will go to another pasture land with enough grasses(money) for her to feed on

If a woman is asking if you working. What she is really saying is do you have the needed money to fund my dreams(marriage, weddings and child catering). They only care for themselves. They don't care about your dreams. All they want is. Money and you better be a working ATM machine

I wonder why women disturb men with marriage as if it is Canaan land with milk and honey not knowing that once she get married, she will grow bored and resent marriage. Women don't understand their own nature. She never wanted to get married. She just wanted the social and financial status that comes with it that she is married and had a wedding. Men need to open their eyes.

She is happy that her dreams(not yours) of being funded by free money and getting her childhood fantasy fulfilled(marriage and children) is done. You finally fall for the trick women have played all this year's because of men biological defect. Use what she has to get you to give her your everything : prostitution

@firstking01: I expect such comment. We all want instant gratification but don't want to put in the work. Your life today is a summation of all choices to this day. To make 1M today, NA for you to go rob bank oo. Lol. How you doing?

Most men need second - mommy, any woman, to stroke their weak ego and make them feel OK as first-mommy did to them many years ago. Men today have been emasculated. Men need be strong again.

@paulineace0: she want to eat her cake and have it. You depriving her of attention is death to her woman ego and feeling that she is attractive. Stop calling her or giving her free attention she didn't work for. For a woman to tell you she is thinking about it, it means she want you to keep paying her free attention she didn't work for while she is considering other guys proposing to her among which you are one. She sees you as an option. Solution is for you to communicate with your actions not words(men communicate with actions). Action like ignoring her,not picking her call and not calling or returning her call. if you see her walk pass as if you don't know her. She will quickly decide and give you a Yes or No.

If your spouse is a woman, don't bother arguing. She is always perfect and can do no wrong. She won't claim responsibility. Your best weapon as a man is to not give what she crave most which is your attention i.e walk away, stop talking to her or looking at her, ignore her. She will get on her knees to beg you.

For the poster to ask this question shows men are kept in the dark about women nature. Woman see you a man as a tools to provide her money.Money is all they want and they enter marriage for the marriage and what they will get out of it which is children while men enter into marriage because of the woman. After all, men biological clock no day late.

This is a man to man gist room to educate fellow men on what they have been badly trained and programmed to base their worth and value on without knowing the being nature involved: A woman approval/validation/acceptance. With the right training, a man become his own world and a woman can only enter if he meet his standards. Men need be men again. For a Man is the joy of himself. Build your manly body, mind and ego while you get them coming to your world. Drops your issues for MANplaining.

@johnholmes: dump her. She have no foundation except it is rooted in deception. If she does makeup to deceive your eyes. Have you thought of the psychological makeup she has done like a chameleon to make your mind, ego and heart to like her too just the way the makeup make your eyes like her face when she does it. Maybe you in love with a lie.

@bond007i: you are dealing with a creature called woman. She is not like you mentally, ego wise and body wise. The more you ignore a woman, the more she will want you. So to get rid of her, give her what she is hungry for: attention. She want to feel validated that she is desirable and not a invalid. once she get what she want she will grow bored and leave. Be unattractive in her eyes by calling her often, praising her as if she is angel and you so unworthy of her, appear Needy and clingy. Tell her you a Virgin and never had s3x etc.