emekelnigeria:
am sorry to say it op if you are not careful you will take your hand and put yourself in a big mess. This girl is clearly using you, she is married and it is her cross to carry. if she so much wanted your assistance why didnt she marry you. You might think you are rich now but when responsibilities start coming even her husband would be a saint when the issue of stinginess pops up. Please use your money and better your life.

Piercedclit:
Please don't do it. If her husband consented to it, it would have been a different something. If you go ahead to give her money to buy the form, be ready to sponsor the degree.
Nna e ga ebulikwa?

Elkay3:
Ah ah. Wonderful wonderment! Financially provocative! What!!!? Akantakeit!!! What!!!

But seriously... Are u related to Dangote or Adenuga or Otedola? If you're not, spare your cash. Being a married woman I think you should have defined a boundary not to cross.
How will you feel if someone should be sending your wife money? Don't you think it could cause trouble in the marriage? Would you like that? The part that should really bother you is; how will a married woman tell her ex about the problems in her home? Haba, bros, check am na. I think you have no business with another man's house happening.


Dude,you need not be too rigid in giving advises, he just needs help, life isn't so hard bro....chill

JerryTemi:
Tell me who is not stubborn?who told you she is not a good wife? please my brother if you want assist her do it,please tell her to enroll herself in any good skill acquisition instead of this postgraduate something, Oga tell her say job no dey for naija so please encourage her to acquire some kind of skill so as to assist herself and family. we Africans sometimes we take things in another dimension, I can assist my ex but will always caution myself.

funkyibodude:
thanks for the advice, but i don't have any biz with that fam. This is just a recent development, we hardly talk except special occasions, either birthdays or other events, which she invites me. Trust me im not into her family problems. The issue of money came up 2 weeks ago when she asked me for assistance for her masters program and that was when she opened up about her hubby not catering for her financially. I was even shocked to hear that from her, and since then she has been begging me for cash.

funkyibodude:
haha, well it can't get to that stage

ritababe:



leave them alone don't start what you cannot finish, she's not your responsibility so clear off.

ted1741:
Tell her you will lend the money on one condition only, i.e., in the presence and with the approval of the husband. If she disagrees, stay away from her and stop making excuses for keeping in touch with a married woman and mind you own business, am sure you have your own personal problems to deal with; if you don't have your own problems, create one or we will ask God to give you abundant issues to deal with, something to keep your mind, brain, cell phone, finger and mouth away from a married woman. Get it? Am sure you empathize with her each time she complains, which makes you a potential home wrecker.

mctowel01:

Best comment..The guy is just a soft woman rapper..See as he opened thread and is sounding so concerned on something like this..Money miss road

ted1741:
Tell her you will lend the money on one condition only, i.e., in the presence and with the approval of the husband. If she disagrees, stay away from her and stop making excuses for keeping in touch with a married woman and mind you own business, am sure you have your own personal problems to deal with; if you don't have your own problems, create one or we will ask God to give you abundant issues to deal with, something to keep your mind, brain, cell phone, finger and mouth away from a married woman. Get it? Am sure you empathize with her each time she complains, which makes you a potential home wrecker.

funkyibodude:
thanks