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OB3344:
Greetings folks .
I started dating this particular girl since 2018 ,while I was in 300l , she got pregnant for me 2019 , though I intended keeping the baby , but she said it'll will bring shame to her family bla bla and she was in 200l ,so I had to allow her abort the baby. She took abortion pills and yet the baby was still there, she took several stuffs just to abort the baby and the baby was still intact ( ) .Then I told her to forget about aborting the baby, buh she went ahead to remove the baby via operation.

2021... we're still dating , and I'm ready to get married to her now, I decided to check if she hasn't lost her womb..had sex with her on several occasions without condom and I have been doing it since 2020 till now ,no sign of pregnancy.
I'm so perplexed right now...
This particular girl suffered me emotionally while I was still an undergraduate because I had nothing then, but she has changed her character now though.
Please I'm 100% sure I'm not the one with the problem because somebody else is pregnant for me already...
I PLAN ON ENDING THE RELATIONSHIP..OR DO YOU THINK OTHERWISE?

purples25:
This post is just my way of letting off steam. It is truly not easy to take care of teenagers. Those who have teenagers they care for can probably relate, and those who do not can have an inkling of what its like.

I am a senior sister and second mother to my 14 year old youngest brother, and 15 year old male cousin. They are such characters that they each deserve their own section. Here goes:

Troublesome Teenager Number 1, My 15 year old Cousin: I love my cousin, but he is a serious case. When he came to live with my family, I resolved not to touch him or discipline him extensively. People staying with others tend to bring up accusations of abuse, anything you do to them is attributed to the fact that they are not your immediate family. As a result, I and my brothers handle him like an egg.

The boy took ample advantage of this. From being sullen and disciplined, he became very wild. Many times he would take offence to the slightest correction. He also goes out when he likes, picks whatever he wants from the kitchen and watches movies on my laptop from dawn till dusk. Answers me back as he likes from time to time. My brothers are his role models but if I correct him, that's where the problem lies. I think he feels I cannot and should not tame him. The funniest thing he ever did was starting to act up after he was told that the only reason I was not touching him was so as not to create issues between his mom and us. He became bolder and even tried to deepen his already deepening voice.

Whenever his mom comes around, he turns me to his enemy. He starts to perpetuate the notion that he is a victim of abuse. The last time his mom was around, he started shouting at me at his whim and when I got angry one day and slapped him, his mother finally made him a celebrated hero. She almost took him home by midnight that day, because the image of an abused boy that she wanted so badly had finally been portrayed to her.


Troublesome Teen Number 2, my 14 year old brother: I love my little brother as well. I tried to raise him like people raise kids abroad. Talking to him gently when he misbehaves, explaining to him, punishing by taking things away or just small reprimands....

That shii didn't work. He became the most troublesome little boy I knew. Whenever his friends are around, he wants to show off to them by talking over me, ignoring my demands. I started to discipline him but before long, he knew how to run to the neighbors house, taking the cane from me, and running outside where the discipline would become a spectacle. Sometimes he even yells at me too. He has tried to beat a few adults who tried to beat him. But they gave him a good beating

Since when he was small, 'he wants what he wants.' If I don't give him something, sometimes he would go and take it. Sometimes I would catch him. Time and time again, even with warnings, things still disappear at will.

When any kid around him is being bad, he wants to do two times what that kid is doing, and be loved for it. He feels that is love. From the time that my cousin came around, and we told him that we cannot touch our cousin, else it would be termed as abusing a family member from another mother.....he has taken it as proof of love that however we pardon our cousin, we must pardon him. He copies what our cousin does, does worse, and always defends himself with the fact that we leave our cousin, we dont spare him.

Now we have come to the last part, my experience with these two kids combined...


The Terrible Two: The two of them constantly answer me back, laugh and joke and even encourage me to come and punish them. They feel no amount of beating from me can break them, maybe because I am a woman. However, they have full fear and respect for the males around them. If i try to talk to them they act as if someone or something insignificant is talking. Few times though, they try to calm the wild spirits inside them, and behave.

Things still disappear at home, and even if we are the only ones at home, they both co operate and deny everything. The co operate to disrespect me. They start joking and laughing right after I'm done with my long warnings or advice talks. They tell me to come and punish them, that they will enjoy the punishment. They have turned my laptop to their permanent TV, day, night and midnight, i cant use it. If i hide it, they find it, turn it on, play whatever on it as early as 5 am till 12 or 1 on weekends. They put games there, got a game pad and play till thy kingdom come, all without my consent. They don't answer me, they do what they like when they like.

They are only tame at school. These are not kids that are meek. These are tall versions of Aki and Pawpaw that are already as tall as me at the moment.


This morning, my mom called me and told me that handling these teens is all about patience.

If you have had difficulties with teens, you can talk about your experience, to make this more interesting and educative. If you were a troublesome or troubled teen, you can also share.

Ciao!

If you really wanna get at Teenagers and bring them to their knees, making them know you are the alpha of the house then make them do irregular chores! They dislike that shit more than any other punishment

malcom1X:
It's not true bro, have you ever heard of the domino effect?

Let me explain, people break into Lagos warehouse to take palliatives because it wasn't given as at when due, then all of a sudden all over Nigeria people starts breaking into warehouses.

Nigerians were attacked in SA then people starts attacking ShopRite in Lagos, then ibadan, then Oyo, then Osun, just like that.
Remember MTN offices?

Remember ENDSARS?
Remember Trump, when social media banned him, then all other social media started banning him

Once this prison break has happened, it's going to continue just like that, non stop, it's growing into something bigger, don't count south west out of anything that happens in Nigeria.

You need to be praying for peace. The government need to come to the table.

Nostradamus:
SBS??

Special Boat Squad!!

Nigeria's finest military squad!!


That guy should consider himself extremely lucky to escape without some terrifying beatings.

Hopefully,he has learnt his lessons and won't do such again sha.

Nigeriadondie1:
I love this. Many of the people have been in prison without trial for long time

NwaAmaikpe:



I'd pick an encumbered lady over a freelance lady anyday, any time simply because the best conquest is conquering an already conquered fortress.

Nothing does a man's ego a better good than knowing that he can make another man's wife moan in bed.

Igbodicool:
You are just a smoked beef looking for cheap attention.
Who is this inconsequential urhobo to speak for Igbos before and across the Niger.
Go and tell Pat Utomi and Ifeanyi Okowa that they are not Igbo men.
Nonsense and minority groups looking for Igbo land to grab in the name of we saout saout.
Others are looking for a way in making their tribes great and you are here picking melon at waterside.

buckeyemedia:
The Governor is the custodian of the land, & can give up to 400 hectares, not more than 500 hectares for ranching if he so chooses, it is enshrined in our constitution, so please stop all these chest beating, you people promote so called herdsmen by eating cow meat, then you come up with all these trumped up allegations, make we hear word, which part of Ughelli are you from by the way? Urhobo Wado, Yeye noise maker.

Soolmus:
Ibos should stop this all Land his No man's land, They are developers, Ibo Biafrans own SouthSouth

Fulanis should stop feeling they own Hausa or all land belongs to Allah hence their property


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Heffalump:
These Aboki*s always reasoning with their anus. What are the bandits and bokoharam doing? Unite Nigeria?
Ndiara nonsense

Soolmus:



Fulanis and Ibos should let other 300 Nigerian ethnic groups rest

It is always Fulanis and Ibos, every damn time



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kriss27:
Please help me people, I was scammed by this _elite_mobile._ page on Instagram, now they have blocked me and changed the name of the page. Only God knows how many people that have fallen victim! They claim to sell mobile phones at affordable price, mostly iPhones that had minor hardware problems. They posted this iPhone 8plus with a cracked screen, that everything else works perfectly at the price of 53k. I showed interest, I asked where their shop is, they said 35 Ademola Adetokunbo Wuse zone 2 Abuja while I am Lagos. They said they do delivery nationwide, and insisted on pay before delivery, the page has almost 6k followers on Instagram. I thought it was a genuine business that their was nothing to fear for. They said delivery fee is 3k through fedex that it will take two days.

They sent this account number to me 2177034352 Ejomo Happy, a Zenith bank account, I did the transfer on Monday evening, they said I should be expecting the delivery after two days excluding Monday. When it was two days, I didn’t receive anything, I inquired about the delivery they blocked me on both WhatsApp and Instagram. Here is their WhatsApp number 09039250111. How can I get my hard earned money back ?please good people of naira land. The sh!t hurts badly! I took this risk cause I needed phone and felt I have gotten a good deal! I even borrowed money to add to the one I have

franchasng:
Before 2025, there will be a civil war in Nigeria.


If you know you can't fight, find way leave Nigeria because Fulani people have already prepared for war and have invited all Fulani militants from all African countries to help them conquer Nigeria.


Buhari prepared the grounds for them the moment he became President in 2015 by appointing mostly Hausa-Fulanis to all key security positions in Nigeria without respecting federal character. Igbos screamed and screamed, but Yorubas shut them up saying it's because Goodluck lost election, now see the outcome.



Southern Nigerians, prepare for war, its coming closer. Fulani militants have encycled the entire Southern and Middle-Belt Nigerian forests

COFFINSELLER:
[s]Good... Igboho must be arrested! Nigeria remains ONE, and there's nothing anyone can do about it.[/s]

iaamxavier:
Audio hater. Oga rest abeg! No body gives a flying shii about you talk more of wasting energy hating. Na money everybody dey find so please rest.

Rockerr:
Hatred and bigotry will consume the east very soon.

SarkinYarki:
Even the missing yoruba pilots name is can be seen on a tag on the ground

Jeez! What’s wrong with this government for heaven sake! Is it until BokoHaram take over the entire country before they will admit the fire on the mountain is close to consuming the entire mountain

Taitaiwo:
Something like this happened to my friend some years ago, his wife went to the market to get some food stuffs, a guy approached her she declined but the guy persistd... Out of frustration my friend's wife slapped the guy, the guy retaliated and kasala burst.

She picked her phone and called her husband that someone is about to kill her, my friend called some of his other friends (I was not around) they boarded maruwa, on their way Tipper crushed the maruwa, my main guy was the only casualty, the rest survived.

So I think SeaTrade has a point. She should have done everything to avoid the guy and calm the situation, calling you to come avenge her isn't necessarily. May God always guild us.

Sleekbest338:
Bro please ignore those foolish people

99% of nairalanders are cultists and fraudsters

You can see from the comment section

Bunch of brainless people

macdammy:
You just dey spit rubbish like imbec!le

Daniiel:
No mind all these ball less niggax ... In my uni my guy beat craze comot 3 so called frat men ... Dem rise squad for m ... Oga raise alarm sey Dem wan kidnap m ... Like play like play those boys enter prison. Some people na mad men no just carry frat yarns go dia side .