Family › Re: Woman Cries Out After Sacking 9 Maids Because Her Husband Keeps Dating Them by MarketDispatch: 2:52pm On Apr 19 |
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Romance › Re: Stuck Between Two Women And Don’t Know What To Do by MarketDispatch: 2:48pm On Apr 19 |
Damakboy: I’m currently based abroad and I’ve found myself in a complicated situation.
I was in a relationship, but I got involved with someone else and even took her on holiday. Things escalated when my girlfriend found out, and the other woman also refused to walk away. Since then, I’ve been dealing with both of them at the same time.
Recently, my girlfriend showed up at my place unannounced in the middle of the night and discovered everything. That situation exposed how out of control things have become.
Both women have good qualities in different ways, and I haven’t been able to make a clear decision about either of them. However, I realise that I’ve allowed too much access and familiarity, especially with my home, and that needs to change.
Right now, I’m trying to figure out how to properly handle the situation, set boundaries, and regain control, because continuing like this isn’t sustainable.
I’d appreciate honest advice on how to deal with this properly. Discuss with both women and marry the two of them since they both have good qualities. Or 2. Let go of both ladies because if you marry only one and leave one, women do not forget. The one you marry will set trap for you and When she is fully settled, she will throw you out of the house you own for cheating on her during that pre wedding period. |
Politics › Re: Army Decries Low South-east Enrolment, Only 117 From Anambra by MarketDispatch: 12:24pm On Apr 19 |
attackgat: The Nigerian Army has expressed concern over what it described as the low level of enrolment from the South-East in the ongoing recruitment, revealing that Anambra recorded only 117 applicants out of 38,000 applications received nationwide.
This was disclosed during a sensitisation event held at the Ministry of Youths’ office in Awka, the state capital.
The leader of the army delegation to sensitise youths in Awka, Brig.-Gen. Uche Nnabuihe, said the figure was recorded as of April 7, before the commencement of a nationwide awareness campaign for the 91 Regular Recruits Intake.
Sunday PUNCH gathered that in April 2025, the Nigerian Army had raised concerns over the poor enrolment of South-East youths in its recruitment exercise. The leader of the 2025 army recruitment enlightenment team, Chima Ekeator, had said the South-East was gradually losing out on what was rightfully theirs.
Speaking during a town hall meeting in Enugu, Ekeator said out of 200 slots allocated to South-East states in last year’s recruitment, the region barely recorded 100 applications.
“Our people are losing what rightly belongs to them. Each year, whenever a slot is being allocated to our people, we keep noticing that the number of applicants from our side is usually very poor,” Ekeator said.
Speaking at the sensitisation on Saturday, Nnabuihe said the programme was aimed at encouraging more youths from Anambra and the South-East to participate in the recruitment, which is open to tradesmen and non-tradesmen, and will close on May 27.
He added that the sensitisation was intended to correct the imbalance and encourage youths to take advantage of the opportunities available in the Nigerian Army.
Nnabuihe said, “We observed with concern that out of 38,000 applications received nationwide, only 117 came from Anambra as of April 7.
“This sensitisation is to correct that imbalance and encourage our youths to take advantage of the opportunities available in the Nigerian Army.
“We urge eligible youths to apply. The Army offers a structured career path and opportunities for national service.”
Also speaking, Lt.-Col. Ogbemudia Osawe said the Army had expanded its training infrastructure with institutions in Abakaliki and Osogbo to accommodate recruits.
Osawe highlighted the benefits of joining the service to include career progression, regular pay and allowances, access to continuous military education, and specialised training.
Other benefits include exposure to diverse cultures, welfare packages, free medical care for personnel and their families, as well as pension and gratuity.
He added that personnel also have opportunities for international assignments.
In his remarks, the Permanent Secretary, Anambra State Ministry of Youths, Ifeatu Emodi, commended the initiative, describing military enlistment as crucial, especially for youths in the South-East.
Emodi said many young people in the region had shown declining interest due to misconceptions and misinformation about the Army.
A traditional ruler, Igwe Michael Okeke-Uche of Enugwu-Agidi, also lauded the welfare structure of the Nigerian Army and urged youths to enlist to ensure adequate representation of the South-East in the military.
https://punchng.com/again-army-decries-low-south-east-enrolment/ When Army was Army, Nigerians did not need sensitization to enroll in the Army. Many people wanted to join and enroll into the Army. Now that ordinary Boko Haram and terrorists are tossing Army up and down with Ambush here, ambush there. It makes people wonder what's going on when we have not even faced another country like Donald Trump is facing Iran |
Business › Re: Crude Oil Price Crash: Why Has Dangote Not Reduced His Fuel Prices? by MarketDispatch: 7:54am On Apr 19 |
Malcolm21: The price of crude oil has crashed internationally but why has Dangote not reduced the prices of his petroleum products? Because I noticed that when it was increased internationally he immediately increases his price but now that it's dropping why has he not followed suit You will hear the product in his storage was refined at the high price. After selling off those products and when he gets the new products that was refined at low price, he will reduce the price. |
Romance › Re: My Big Azz Nebor And Me. Dz is Real by MarketDispatch: 8:48pm On Apr 18 |
Escabado: I have this big ass Nebor that has been to do story . So guys in the house what do you really think I should do in this situation Your neighbor is already planning who will continuously be paying her house rent |
Health › Re: Open Defecation: Open Your Toilets To The Public - Lagos Govt To Banks, Eateries by MarketDispatch: 7:12pm On Apr 18 |
fergie001: Tokunbo Wahab Lagos State Commissioner for Environment & Water Resources Government should give incentives, tax breaks or tax rebates for businesses to open up their toilets for public use |
Politics › Re: Re-Integration Of Repentant Terrorists; A Red Flag Nigeria Does Not Deserve by MarketDispatch: 7:02pm On Apr 18 |
Racoon:
https:klPm4w?si=gT9eMIihzaul
Brigadier General Sani Kukasheka-Usman (Rtd) analyzes the reintegration of reformed insurgent fighters.
nlfpmod Why is the government not using them for farming? |
Politics › Re: Open Letter: The Death Of Merit & Legalization Of Fraud In Nigeria’s Electlons by MarketDispatch: 7:57pm On Apr 17 |
It is very easy to destroy but difficult to build.
Even a lawyer finds it difficult to demonstrate integrity ( that one that is changing name on X to deny allegations. |
Nairaland General › Re: What Animal Could Be Creating These Holes? (Photo) by MarketDispatch: 7:52pm On Apr 17 |
BarristerWumi: Good morning , what kind of animal could be creating these holes around my house, it does same to some soft shoes and I can hear it’s stomping as it runs or walks across the POP ceilings
Thank you for all insights and guesses Rats. Buy rat poison, spice small piece of fried fish and throw it into the ceiling. ( It will smell if it dies in the ceiling...so you need to have a way of getting rid of it |
Romance › Re: Is It Appropriate To Help My Married Ex? by MarketDispatch: 7:40pm On Apr 17 |
Toolegit123: Good day my Nairaland fam.
Nlfpmod obembet Dominique mynd44 Seun Dominique No it is not appropriate. Send her to her husband. Her husband should be the one to give her money |
Politics › Re: Lagos Governor Sanwo-olu Post On New Redline Train Coaches Set Internet On Fire by MarketDispatch: 7:35pm On Apr 17 |
[quote author= wwwihy post=139125191]Beyond Lagos residents, many Nigerians across the country expressed excitement and deep admiration for the high governance standards being set—standards that other governors are encouraged to emulate. The recent post by Babajide Sanwo-Olu on the new Red Line train coaches has further fueled this sentiment, setting the internet on fire and reinforcing public enthusiasm for the state’s transportation and governance strides. h/jidesanwoolu/stat1261015304[/quote]Great news. I'm looking forward to the day Lagos state will allow Nigerians to build houses across the mainroad like this
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Health › Re: This Bread Didn't Spoil After 2 Months, Says Bread Seller (Video) by MarketDispatch: 7:26pm On Apr 17 |
Lovelink1991: A bread seller has discovered a different kind of bread that does not decay or spoil after 2 months and it is in circulation now. Something is wrong.
Watch and see for yourself
https:/SBXogA Preservatives... Ascorbic Acid |
Jokes Etc › Re: When Is Nigeria Going To Block The Atlantic Ocean? by MarketDispatch: 9:36am On Apr 16 |
panafrican: Nigeria would make a huge amount of money every day if the country blocked the whole Atlantic ocean.Just see the map. We never block lake chad to prevent terrorists, na Atlantic Ocean |
Foreign Affairs › Re: "President Xi Will Give Me A Big,fat Hug When I Get There In A Few Weeks.”-Trump by MarketDispatch: 7:45am On Apr 16 |
muyico: But where did Americans come across this man? He sent all the whole world into recession/inflation Nigerians will give everything to get this type of man to be the president of Nigeria if they had a choice. A man that thinks of his people and his country first. A man that makes other countries respect his country . |
Politics › Re: Gov Mbah, French Ambassador Flag Off 14.5km High-Capacity Water Pipeline by MarketDispatch: 7:26am On Apr 16 |
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Autos › Re: Toks Ford Transit Long UK Used Diesel Engine 9.5m by MarketDispatch: 3:57am On Apr 15 |
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Family › Re: If You Have A Beautiful Marriage Please Tell Us The Secret by MarketDispatch: 3:43am On Apr 15 |
amoco: I love this. Play the husband and father role well. Let your wife play her wife and mother role well.
Marry a responsible person who loves God and has the fear of God. The fear of God to a extent serves as a deterrent for misbehavior in many people. If a responsible child of God views cheating one's spouse or hurting one's spouse as sin against God, they will out of respect for God choose not to do such things. This will ultimately benefit everyone.
Everyone involved must be willing to make sacrifices to make the relationship work. Everyone. It's a lot of hard work but it's achievable. I am enjoying mine aside from the financial pressure to raise children, support siblings and relatives. Fear of God, who loves God, what will we say about Pastor Chris Oyakilome and ex wife, or Pastor Chris Okotie and ex wife? |
Crime › Re: Soldiers Kill Suspected Kidnapper In Ondo, Rescue Victims (Photo) by MarketDispatch: 11:59pm On Apr 14 |
pyyxxaro: while others escaped into the forest with varying degrees of gunshot wounds
Naa since primary I don de hear this part
Some must Escape with wounds lol When you watch crime videos of USA and UK , they always pursue criminals into bush until everyone of the criminal is caught. In Nigeria, It is always... while others escaped into the forest with varying degrees of gunshot wounds |
Politics › Re: Akpabio Defends Tweet Linked To Amupitan by MarketDispatch: 9:27pm On Apr 14 |
Mbanda: Lol.. they (APC) don finally admit say the crook professor actually have X handle  And this is coming after tinibu data boys, don waste their ant strength and saliva fighting and defending lies and incompetence. The way the professor tried to change the account name to Sunday reminds me of the way scammers were painting and rewriting the polling booth results of last elections |
Romance › Re: Asking Random Girls For Phone Numbers On The Street; What's the chances? by MarketDispatch: 11:53am On Apr 14 |
Icareforyou: Good evening Nairalanders,
So back to the question:
Guys, have you had any success asking girls for numbers on the street? Girls, would you give a guy your number if he asked on the first meet? Share your experiences!
Let's discuss. Several success stories but I end up not calling. I didn't know it used to pain the ladies until one told me why did I collect her number and didn't call. |
Nairaland General › Re: Oya ooo by MarketDispatch: 11:47am On Apr 14 |
davidowizkid: ITS BEEN SIX YEARS AND I JUST NOTICED THIS SHE IS BEING ALL DEFENSIVE AND BRUSHING IT ASIDE That is the the biggest red flag you can ever get. She exposes herself to other men and blocks you from it |
Politics › Re: Woro, Kwara Residents Reject Mats, Buckets From Tinubu Government by MarketDispatch: 11:36am On Apr 14 |
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Crime › Re: Lagos Bus Driver Slaps, Beats LASMA Officer (Photos, Video) by MarketDispatch: 11:34am On Apr 14 |
Bus driver can claim it is AI |
Crime › Re: Nigeria Police Recover Large Arms, Ammunition, Anti-Aircraft Launcher by MarketDispatch: 7:16am On Apr 14 |
Chenu60: VIDEO: Nigeria Police Force Recovers largest arms, ammunition including anti-aircraft launcher HK9 The headline is misleading. Nigerian Police are showcasing different arms and ammunition recovered after arresting several suspects in different activities. The white paper stuck to the boxes tells the report of the ammunition recovered and the suspect arrested. |
Romance › Re: 39 Without Husband: Lady Cries During Her 39th Birthday Photoshoot by MarketDispatch: 7:12am On Apr 14 |
eepeepook: Is she trying to say no one toasted her from age 18 to 39? Mscheew, attention seeking. She said she regretted her steps. She was like don't settle for less, go for money. This means people toasted her but she only wanted money men |
Education › Re: Abraham Adesanya Polytechnic Students Take Alabuga Start Campaign To Campus by MarketDispatch: 7:06am On Apr 14 |
How many women will listen to the advice. Some will think it is better to be suffering in Alabuga and eating 3 square meals than be suffering in Oshogbo and drinking garri in the morning once a day.
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Politics › Re: Rainbow Event Centre Under Pressure To Cancel ADC Convention - Bolaji Abdullahi by MarketDispatch: 6:49am On Apr 14 |
ogododo: Rainbow Event Centre Under Pressure To Cancel ADC Convention
[url=https://] What is that guy's name...is it Yakub or Yerima |
Politics › Re: Anyone Supporting Bandits Will Be Treated As Terrorists — Defence Chief by MarketDispatch: 6:41am On Apr 14 |
Why does Boko Haram always ambush ambush Nigerian Army when you have this Agency. Why has the Agency not fished out the sponsors in Government or fished out those who always give out the position of troop movement for Ambush
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Politics › Re: Boko Haram Used Drones To Strike Army Convoy, Kill Colonel, Others In Borno by MarketDispatch: 3:05pm On Apr 13 |
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Crime › Re: BREAKING: Boko Haram Ambush Kills Nigerian Army Colonel, Several Other Soldiers by MarketDispatch: 1:48pm On Apr 13 |
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Politics › Re: Meet The Billionaire Linus Williams Ifejirika (blord), Who Refused To Be Bought by MarketDispatch: 1:42pm On Apr 13 |
AfriNotesNEWS: Linus Williams Ifejirika, url] Is he Billionaire or ex-convict when he comes out? |
Politics › Re: From Pharisee To Tax Collector: Tinubu's Nigeria-Kenya Comparison In Focus - Obi by MarketDispatch: 11:19am On Apr 13 |
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