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CrimeRe: Dorothy Edet Raped Four Times, Shares Horrible Experiences by Marpol2021(m): 3:30pm On May 17, 2021
She has rape spirit following her.i hope she won't be rape by her children. pastor rightouness2 over to u. may damsel gat spirit that is prone 2 rape in side their body.
PoliticsRe: MURIC Blames Jonathan For The Killing Of Palestinians by Marpol2021(m): 1:36pm On May 17, 2021
AN ISLAMIC JIHADIS IN ACTION. I FEEL PITY 4 THE AFONJAS.
Foreign AffairsRe: Synagogue Bleacher Collapses Near Jerusalem, 2 Killed, Over 167 Injured by Marpol2021(m): 10:11pm On May 16, 2021
Pray 4 ur self,pray 4 ur nation,pray 4 ur president.finally pray 4 cr7 to make top4.
ComrdDRS1:
pray for Israel
PoliticsRe: Pamela Ifejoku: Ned Nwoko Jailed My Father, Okey Ifejoku, Illegally by Marpol2021(m): 5:20pm On May 16, 2021
LIVES AFTER THEM
Karemarealty288:
Evil that men do.......
PoliticsRe: Boko Haram To Kwapre Adamawa: Pay N28m Or Lose 52 Captives In Our Custody by Marpol2021(m): 5:11pm On May 16, 2021
Nigeria my country,what is happening?how long shall we continue like this? today northeast,tomorow southeast,next tomorow south south or middle belt.God pls send down the rain and wash our nation. give ur life to christ b4 its too late
SportsRe: Nigerians Who Have Won The FA Cup (Full List) by Marpol2021(m): 7:26am On May 16, 2021
welcome back damnn niggarr,i hear say u chop another person food. how that way be? congrat fox
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr


Kelechi Iheanacho and Wilfred Ndid my niggarrrrs
SportsRe: Cristiano Ronaldo Buys 'Ferrari Monza' Limited Edition Worth N740m (Pics) by Marpol2021(m): 9:49pm On May 14, 2021
my son must play football
PoliticsRe: Aisha Yesufu: Why I Won’t Link NIN To My Phone Number; Pantami Must Go by Marpol2021(m): 9:45pm On May 14, 2021
WILL YOU KEEP QUIET,SHE IS AS BOLD AS LION.
Moferere:
Sometimes it is better to keep our cards to our chest. She has exposed herself
CareerRe: Is 60k Monthly Ok At My Age ? by Marpol2021(m): 9:32am On May 14, 2021
OP don't be confuse, will this post change the price of commodity in the market? ;DOP don't be confuse, will this post change the price of commodity in the market?
HealthRe: 200Level Female Student Of Ondo University Commits Suicide (Pix) by Marpol2021(m): 11:20pm On May 13, 2021
straight to hell. how can i kill my self? why do peoples commit this madnes? kill ur self and find ur self in hell
FamilyRe: Family Problems About Remarrying by Marpol2021(m): 6:46pm On May 13, 2021
Oga just three month after her demise you brought another daughter of eve in to your matrimonial room, chaii there is God oooo.
family6644:
I need serious advise from experienced nairalanders, please forgive my lengthy message because it requires detailed explanations.

I lost my wife exactly 3 months ago, 4 years of relationship and 13 years of marriage with her before she passed on, she left behind 3kids, 13yr old girl 7yr and 3yr old boys. I understand marriages are full of their challenges but we have been through the journey and we came out victorious having a loving and happy home, a union other partners appreciates.

My late wife was so organized and we trainned my kids to be independent while she travels on local business trips. So I just needed to continue our family habit of buying and stocking everything at home while they manage themselves with the help of an older maid who has been part of the family for many years, in short, we are faring quite well as I continue to mourn my wife and carry on with life.

Here is the problem, from a lot of condolence messages coming in on my Facebook, I had the chance to reply some of them 2weeks ago, I met this single mother of two who invited my kids to her daughter's birthday party, i was reluctant but she said it is time to start taking the kids out since they are yet to resume school, exactly what they needed at that point was the usual outing which has been missing for a while since their mother's sickness and after her demise, approx 6months in total. She said it's not a loud party that she needed only my kids for the small sitting room party.

I decided, went to the party with the kids, it was fun for the kids, I have not seen them happy like that in a long while, it made me happy too, they fell in love with the two sisters and their mother all like a miracle, my little 3year old boy started calling her mommy, others follow and it all seem like a family reunion. We left late at night with her girls asking that they meet again the next day which was a Sunday. To cut it short, my kids and hers agreed to meet the next day except for me. To be honest, the lady is a nice and lovely person to be with, she's a realtor who can work from home, she's real and beautiful, she has been a single mother for 4yrs after her husband travelled out and abandoned them to marry another woman, that's according to her.

She called me that her kids could not allow her rest, they said if we can't come, she should bring them to our house, I mildly rejected but i was persuaded by my daughter and my first son to have them around, I could see that they have bonded quite well, I want my kids to be happy too, that's what I have always wanted for them so I agreed and gave them our address. To cut the story short, I find it impossible to separate the two families that has come together to become one, when they were leaving back to their house my kids pleaded with me to allow them go with mommy to her house, I understand that is real because she's lovely with kids. I had the confidence to trust my kids with someone for the first time in my life. They didn't want to come back, I had to go and pick them up the next day, all of them made sure they came back home with me, we started living together as a family and everyone was enjoying it.

It became an automatic affair with her, I was worried about it been too early, I had to involve few of my friends to seek opinions, some were happy that i could get a good mother for my kids this soon, others asked me to stop the family union and give it a little time to study her character. I suggested some space but she felt very bad, she thinks I am sending them away. I had to allow them stay while I use the opportunity to observe the new found love and family.

12days after, I realize that in a bid to reorganize me and help me to move ahead in life, she totally disregards anything that concerns my late wife whom I still hold dear to my heart, same as my daughter and my adopted daughter, I don't like to address her as a maid. We loved and cherished my late wife, everything she introduced seems to be strange to the norms of the family. If I try to raise my concerns for her to adjust, she will simply tell me that the dead is dead and I should just forget everything about her including whatever she stood for as a mother and wife.

If I try to talk some senses into her to make her understand that brooding over the dead is different from honouring and respecting the deseased, she gets really angry claiming I am comparing her with a dead person. Whatever she discovers as our way of doing things in the family she disregards it and replaces it with her own way without minding how we feel as a family or how easy or difficult it is for us to adjust.

It looks like we are the only ones tolerating and accommodating them here, I have tried with no avail to stop her from insulting the memory of my late wife. I discussed with each and everyone at home, they all wish I could perform a miracle to have them leave because no one can tolerate the mother and kids anymore, I am equally fed up myself and willing to take a break.

I have a friend who is aware of my problems with her, he told me that I am the problem here, he said it will be hard for any woman to fit into our family way of doing things and it will be difficult for us to cope with a different way of life introduced by another woman.

I hope I can get one or two advices that could help. I am quite confused

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: The Champions League Final Moved From Istanbul To Porto by Marpol2021(m): 5:08pm On May 13, 2021
God abeg no answer this guy prayer please
Abalado:
God pls let Man City win,, instead for Chelsea to win,let Buhari rule Nigeria for another 16 year's pls,,,I exchange Nigeria for Chelsea,,so man City pls go and win
Nairaland GeneralRe: My Sister Lost Her Purse And A Sincere Nigerian Picked And Returned It (photos) by Marpol2021(m): 8:28am On May 13, 2021
Damn nigaar chop another person food. If you are in Benin,you will know what I mean.. shocked shocked shocked[quote author=SmartPolician post=101625012][/quote]
Nairaland GeneralRe: My Sister Lost Her Purse And A Sincere Nigerian Picked And Returned It (photos) by Marpol2021(m): 8:23am On May 13, 2021
Slawormir the dam nigaar is on holiday,i heard he chop another person food.
kinzation:
And you no fit dash the person 1k huh


But seriously so good people still dey this con3


Modified: another FTC


Please where is Slawormir

#pleasefindslawormir
CelebritiesRe: DavidoAt10: Davido Shares Throwback Photo Of His First Recording ‘Dami Duro’ by Marpol2021(m): 8:14am On May 13, 2021
where is thy brother the falseprophet?
Bunnatex:
I see many people congratulating Mpa Ifeanyi.
I see someone coming to compare him with wizkid.
I see people arguing about Davido and wizkid.
I see someone advertising his product.
I see people liking my comment.
I see more killings by ungun known men.
I see more calls for national solution.
This I have seen.

Ghost_Propheth
PoliticsRe: Army Arrests Ikonso’s Second-In-Command During IPOB, ESN Raid In Abia by Marpol2021(m): 8:05am On May 13, 2021
Small sense no Dey your head.you need sense, how can you say esn are protecting their land? There are dismantling road blocks, police station,killing and destroying property and you gat the gut to say they are protecting their land. This is how boko boys started. In the name of chukwu okike abiama.
goodnessme1:
If is true then ZOO should know they can't stop ESN from protecting our land.



They should have killed him and show us his dead body.
Foreign AffairsRe: Israel Kills Hassan Kaogi And Wail Issa by Marpol2021(m): 1:47pm On May 12, 2021
[b][/b]hmmm mr righteousness2 what about your senior colleague righteousness89,hope you guys are reasoning together.
Righteousness2:
Its 3 Commanders bro!

Isreal will wipe out Hamas or anyone there!

A tiny nation surrounded by Enemies and yet living in Plenty should give people understanding of who they are.

Israel is a Nation that Exist by a Covenant. A Strong Covenant with GOD ALMIGHTY, the Creator of Every being on Earth. Israel does not even need the Help of anybody. But Nations fight to Help them so as to partake of the Covenant.

Nobody, Nation, or people can Remove Israel! It is a Strong Covenant.
Thus saith the LORD, which giveth the sun for a light by day, and the ordinances of the moon and of the stars for a light by night, which divideth the sea when the waves thereof roar; The LORD of hosts is his name:
If those ordinances depart from before me, saith the LORD, then the seed of Israel also shall cease from being a nation before me for ever.


The Israelites could be stubborn and heady. Infact majority of them do not even Believe JESUS Christ as their Messiah.
GOD Almighty knows how he deals with them. Atimes when they go astray, GOD raises people to fight them, but after fighting HE deals with the People or Nation that Fights them.
AgricultureRe: Obasanjo Inspects His Yam And Maize Farm (Photos) by Marpol2021(m): 2:48am On May 12, 2021
[b][/b]true talk
3lovelyflowers:
Nice. Stay strong baba. At least, your government was far better than what we have today.
Christianity EtcRe: Pictures From The Burial Of Pastor Dare Adeboye by Marpol2021(m): 2:44am On May 12, 2021
Brother I like the way you preach the gospel of of Christ. Hope you are practicing what you preach, for it is written not all those who call me lord,lord shall enter the kingdom but those who do the will of my father.
EmmaLege:
kiss

Christianity EtcRe: Pictures From The Burial Of Pastor Dare Adeboye by Marpol2021(m): 2:36am On May 12, 2021
no need to cherish luxury cause everything come and go,even the life that you have is borrowed cause you are not promised tomorrow. Christ should be our first priority in life. embarassed embarassed tongue
RomanceRe: Nigerian Big Boy 'ATM' Proposes To His Pretty White Girlfriend On Her Birthday by Marpol2021(m): 7:16pm On May 03, 2021
Oh lord bless my hustle and Favour me with white babe like this. You know i hate them black, white babes are the best



No shit Sherlock.



Just quoting what a black girl said when she was interviewed with her white boyfriend. undecided[/quote]
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Dated Someone Whose Status Is Above Yours? by Marpol2021(m): 1:20pm On May 03, 2021
Bad boy,keep betting God will surely pick your call.
LMS1:
No!
We Broke Up The Sixth Day Because I Played Bet9ja With Her Makeup Money. cheesy
PoliticsRe: Lightning Strike Kills 12 Cows In Delta As Herdsmen Flee by Marpol2021(m): 12:35pm On May 03, 2021
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]may thunder keep striking and killing them.next time may it kills those supporting them.
Built2last:
ok

CrimeRe: Armed Robbers Rain Bullets On Cash Van In South Africa (Video) by Marpol2021(m): 9:44am On May 03, 2021
[b][/b]next time you should be the one to aim the fuel tank.just imagine as person they reason. shocked tongue
Goldbw122:
They didn't aim the fuel tank, engine, driver or tires, just the body well, they got lucky...

PoliticsRe: Shame On You - Mbaka Replies Garba Shehu On Contract Scandal by Marpol2021(m): 8:04am On May 03, 2021
[b][/b]mbaka is real.
Tranquill:
I don't know why I just have this strong feeling that this Mbaka of a man is one of these 'catholic priest' that have a wife and children hidden somewhere.

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