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Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 1:32am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Thane: Boss, we all learnt it here on NL when Nairaland business section was very hot and a no nonsense mod cos the section seems filled with many stuffs now. It's a business that boom in 2013, 2014, 2015 , thought many ran away in 2016 and faced coins but I stay put and it paid off... 1 Like |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 11:38pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Kweensavvy: Hmmmmm... Lolz. He only forms hard heart, when little things happen, nah cry cry person Ugo just see. I could remember some years back when mum was sick... Papa just dey cry around, nah we pikin dey beg am 1 Like |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 11:35pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
adekaden: Thanks to everyone that came round... But let me clear some misconceptions, I didn't bring this up here to convince my father or seek emotional comfort.. I have made my decisions, I opened this thread to show my fiance what is applicable and clear some doubts.And to keep record for my kids and other future purposes. Now let me clear some misconceptions in the many comments. 1) One year of my mum's demise ( some of us might misquote this English again, demise means that she had left this planet, I don't want to use the actual word) had already passed One year done pass teytey abeg 2) . My dad is very rich, I am not 0000000000000000000.000000 near him yet. 3) I met my grandmother today (my mum's mother) and I narrated my story to her, I was expecting her to pick phone and called my dad and beg him, she didn't , she just called her children, and said, we are following him for marriage, she spoke with my in-law and told them they are coming. She told me my father never paid my mum's bride price. 4). Am not painting my father bad. He is a very good and nice man, But once he says something, you can't change him from it Now here is it, In my lineage, they don't go to in-laws place or have cordial relationship with them. Women are generally seing as piece of paper, I did lots of works to remove this ideology from my brain cos it's what we grew up to see. On my father's part, it's more of ideology, it's more of believe system. He also advise one of my female siblings to just get Belle, even if it's for married man cos men are scarce now, you can see it's just his own believe and ways of life... But you can't remove this from him. We do had issue with course I studied in school, he rejected a very course close to medicine and surgery. I begged him to let me continue that following year, I will write Jamb again, he agreed, I did and passed till I entered 300level, I was still writing Jamb grin. When I finished the course, he advised me to start law. I was so short of words.. After I had Bs.c in a medical related course, you are now saying I should go and study law. I prostrated and thanked him. I never went back, just picked up my business fully grin. So to roll with my father, agree with him quickly, infact thank him the next day, then do what is on your mind and show him the result. grin I will surely share my wedding photo here... Thanks to all. |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 11:33pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Thanks to everyone that came round... But let me clear some misconceptions, I didn't bring this up here to convince my father or seek emotional comfort.. I have made my decisions, I opened this thread to show my fiance what is applicable and clear some doubts.And to keep record for my kids and other future purposes. Now let me clear some misconceptions in the many comments. 1) One year of my mum's demise ( some of us might misquote this English again, demise means that she had left this planet, I don't want to use the actual word) had already passed One year done pass teytey abeg 2) . My dad is very rich, I am not 0000000000000000000.000000 near him yet. 3) I met my grandmother today (my mum's mother) and I narrated my story to her, I was expecting her to pick phone and called my dad and beg him, she didn't , she just called her children, and said, we are following him for marriage, she spoke with my in-law and told them they are coming. She told me my father never paid my mum's bride price. 4). Am not painting my father bad. He is a very good and nice man, But once he says something, you can't change him from it Now here is it, In my lineage, they don't go to in-laws place or have cordial relationship with them. Women are generally seing as piece of paper, I did lots of works to remove this ideology from my brain cos it's what we grew up to see. On my father's part, it's more of ideology, it's more of believe system. He also advise one of my female siblings to just get Belle, even if it's for married man cos men are scarce now, you can see it's just his own believe and ways of life... But you can't remove this from him. We do had issue with course I studied in school, he rejected a very course close to medicine and surgery. I begged him to let me continue that following year, I will write Jamb again, he agreed, I did and passed till I entered 300level, I was still writing Jamb grin. When I finished the course, he advised me to start law. I was so short of words.. After I had Bs.c in a medical related course, you are now saying I should go and study law. I prostrated and thanked him. I never went back, just picked up my business fully grin. So to roll with my father, agree with him quickly, infact thank him the next day, then do what is on your mind and show him the result. grin I will surely share my wedding photo here... Thanks to all. |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 11:05pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
megareal: Good you read well and understood.... |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 11:05pm On Apr 22, 2019 |
Sam2310: God bless you my brother.. some of our people here couldn't differentiate between "Earlier year " and "early this year"... 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 6:23am On Apr 22, 2019 |
donfeluche: Acts 5:29 is the true driven spirit in this matter bro. Will rather obey God than go with men... |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 5:59am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 5:52am On Apr 22, 2019 |
deltateam: My God is a baby maker, I can not be a baby beggar. The matter is this, since we've been growing up as kids, my dad had always been warning us about court marriage. listening to him while growing up, he gets angry and gossip about men that goes to registry/wedding, it's more of ideology. Now, churches requires registry before they joined couples together. Only my mum can change his ideology since they grew up together, currently I tell you, I haven't seen or known anyone who can do it like my mum. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 5:24am On Apr 22, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL: Oh, so reasons many people were complaining?. I said "Earlier year". Year that had passed . Not " early this year". |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 5:04am On Apr 22, 2019 |
CASHCOW247: Lotta senses sir... 1 Like |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 5:00am On Apr 22, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL: My naija people. The years done pass o.... |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 4:50am On Apr 22, 2019 |
tosyne2much: Anything done in rebel won't last, the sin rebellion is like that of a witchcraft and thou shall suffer no witch to live... I did all I could to avoid being rebellious, now I decided it's my life, there's nothing I am been rebel of?.. do you think there's any?.. kindly point it out maybe I wasn't paying attention to it. |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 4:45am On Apr 22, 2019 |
megareal: I do have a stable and trusted one. He said , if I wait for so long again, the unexpected will happen and prayer won't be a substitute. #hesigneditwhenwevetriedallwecould# |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 4:42am On Apr 22, 2019 |
chidekings: Don't make mistakes bro, you've said the truth, but years had gone over it... Understand?. |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 4:38am On Apr 22, 2019 |
baby124: Years done pass oga.. Abi person wey introduce little bride he wan put for house some days ago to me . Uno Sabi as edey go. |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 4:37am On Apr 22, 2019 |
NIKEDEEDS: The pregnancy thing is just a trap. Once you tell him she's, pregnant he will say no more needs for wedding, he told those ahead of me no more wedding since wife is pregnant. So I need to learn from those ahead. |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 4:33am On Apr 22, 2019 |
ZIMDRILL: Bros, the years done pass teytey. |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 4:29am On Apr 22, 2019 |
cvibe2: Sure sir... |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 4:29am On Apr 22, 2019 |
CertifiedGee: Lolz.... He will say since she's pregnant, there will be no more reason to get married.... |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 4:27am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Donald3d: As a Christian, I have actually used all the kingdom mysteries I know, prayer o, blood of Jesus, blood of sprinkling , I have fasted, I have been to mountains. And when things like this happened to me in the past, God is saying " use your common sense or the solution is rather physical rather than spiritual and I need to take a step or look inward... |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 4:22am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Olukologia24592: Very much understand bro, but little one can actually discuss on social media... |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 8:16pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
Ishilove: Thanks ma'am... 16 Likes |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 6:50pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
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Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 5:59pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
Emescot: It's against my faith bro. God had been arranging my life for me since, and this is one of God's institutions , I have to follow his rule.. 281 Likes 16 Shares |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 5:56pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
middlebelter: I have, they spoke to him and he banned them from attending..... I haven't discussed my next steps with any family members yet. He's the family breadwinner If you are richer than my dad, he will never walk with you. If he can't talk to you anyhow, he will never walk with you. When we talk of parents blessings, what about my mum that is no more, or people without parents... 90 Likes 7 Shares |
Family / Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 5:53pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
Emescot: My papa no get emotion o... We were brought up with iron hands, bro, the matter pass Abacha regime. He's a dictator... Impregnating before wedding is against my faith but he's surface Christian, and by the way, while growing up, he beats us for not remembering church sermon. I have met him severally, he never gave any reason, also in the history of the family, I am the first person that want to pay a lady bride price before pregnancy or living together or attempting wedding... Added 11:38PM of this day. Thanks to everyone that came round... But let me clear some misconceptions, I didn't bring this up here to convince my father or seek emotional comfort.. I have made my decisions, I opened this thread to show my fiance what is applicable and clear some doubts.And to keep record for my kids and other future purposes. Now let me clear some misconceptions in the many comments. 1) One year of my mum's demise ( some of us might misquote this English again, demise means that she had left this planet, I don't want to use the actual word) had already passed One year done pass teytey abeg 2) . My dad is very rich, I am not 0000000000000000000.000000 near him yet. 3) I met my grandmother today (my mum's mother) and I narrated my story to her, I was expecting her to pick phone and called my dad and beg him, she didn't , she just called her children, and said, we are following him for marriage, she spoke with my in-law and told them they are coming. She told me my father never paid my mum's bride price. 4). Am not painting my father bad. He is a very good and nice man, But once he says something, you can't change him from it Now here is it, In my lineage, they don't go to in-laws place or have cordial relationship with them. Women are generally seing as piece of paper, I did lots of works to remove this ideology from my brain cos it's what we grew up to see. On my father's part, it's more of ideology, it's more of believe system. He also advise one of my female siblings to just get Belle, even if it's for married man cos men are scarce now, you can see it's just his own believe and ways of life... But you can't remove this from him. We do had issue with course I studied in school, he rejected a very course close to medicine and surgery. I begged him to let me continue that following year, I will write Jamb again, he agreed, I did and passed till I entered 300level, I was still writing Jamb . When I finished the course, he advised me to start law. I was so short of words.. After I had Bs.c in a medical related course, you are now saying I should go and study law. I prostrated and thanked him. I never went back, just picked up my business fully . So to roll with my father, agree with him quickly, infact thank him the next day, then do what is on your mind and show him the result. I will surely share my wedding photo here... Thanks to all. 117 Likes 9 Shares |
Family / Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by Marriage26: 5:19pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
Good day nairalander, I am a popular jingo nairalander but got to hide under this moniker... I have been dating my fiancee for the past 7 years, she had met my parents and I have met her's many times . We planned to get married earlier year. But it was the year my mother left this planet, I informed my family I wanted to get married but they declined, saying, it must be over years of mumsy's demise before I can marry. We've fixed introduction days 3ice and it got cancelled by my father, what's his reason? 1. NYSC: I was posted to serve in the Northern part of the country 3 years ago, I went to camp, but I couldn't cope with the weather and couldn't leave my business as NYSC won't guarantee me job and I don't have other option. I absconded from the service and faced my business which I saved profits in 7 digits in same year, God made me comfortable. 2: He said I should rather impregnate the girl (backdoor talk) I am close to my late 20s, he already banned all family members as many depend on him from attending my introduction. He cancelled my introduction without fixing a new date. My in-law trust me and ready to release the lady to me as I haven't had sex with her since 2012 that we've been dating... And Also, God had supplied all I needed for my wedding from A-Z. Do you think this is a cogent reason?. I want to ahead with my wedding plans... Kindly advise....Thanks 26 Likes 3 Shares |
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