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YoungBlackRico:
How old are you?

28yrs

I do post her pictures always on my account

Good morning Nlnders.
Please help a brother here. I have been dating this lady for eight month now that we met. This lady covers a distance of 5-6 hours to meet me for the first time after meeting on Facebook. From that time things were cool and okay, but I later understood that the lady has never posted my pictures in any of her social media account as her boyfriend or stuffz like that, and i do post her pictures everywhere , I complained and asked her why she hasn't ever posted my picture but no answer. but sometimes she do post other guys pictures and celebrating their birthdays. Fast forward, even on the recent Valentine that passed, though we are not that close sha but still she couldn't even make any post about me or anyone else, so I challenge her last night that if am the only one she is dating, she should post my picture on her status with Love quotation as "Love of my Life" this lady refuses to do so. Please forgive my typing errors
Please Nairalanders, is there any sign of a True Love in a situation like that ?

Reason with me.
If there is Valentine day(Lovers day)
When is Haters Day.
If there is Non. To hell with Valentine.

#Show Love Everyday

In Kebbi State electricity cable thief was electrocuted while trying to vandalise PHCN cable. He succeeded in removing two cables and was going for the third one when light returned and was subsequently electrocuted.

People called him mad-man
but I was surprised when he moved close to me,
He said, “can I ask you a very important question?”
I nodded, in acceptance,
and then,
he asked, “am I a mad man?”
The obvious answer, from a sane person, will be, "no",
and that was what I said.
“Thank you!”, he replied;
then he said,
“just because I don’t see things the way other people do, does that make me a mad man?”
"No", I answered again.

He bent down, wrote “W”,
and asked me what he wrote.
At this point, I was already feeling ashamed,
getting involved in a lengthy conversation with him.
In a hurry to leave, I said “w”,
but I was amazed when he replied to my answer,
“You only see 'W',
because of the angle at which you are looking at it.
If you turn upside down, you'll see “M”;
If u look from the right side, it is “3”,
and looking at it from the left side, it is “E”.

The fact that I don’t see things at the perspective that everyone is seeing it doesn’t make me a mad man, he said. Then he left.

I pondered for so long about this and its application to life.
Because We act, and relate to people, based on the perspective at which we are looking at their situation.
Have you taken your time to look at other possible perspectives?

I then decided that,
before I get angry with, or act against, or judge anyone that has done something unfavourable to me,
I will view it in at least three possible perspectives;
1.my own perspective,
2.his own perspective and
3.others perspective'.

So, before you judge people, before you rage your anger on them, take a little time to view their angle or perspective, and, if you still cannot see a reasonable reason, then you may act REASONABLY .

People called him mad-man
but I was surprised when he moved close to me,
He said, “can I ask you a very important question?”
I nodded, in acceptance,
and then,
he asked, “am I a mad man?”
The obvious answer, from a sane person, will be, "no",
and that was what I said.
“Thank you!”, he replied;
then he said,
“just because I don’t see things the way other people do, does that make me a mad man?”
"No", I answered again.

He bent down, wrote “W”,
and asked me what he wrote.
At this point, I was already feeling ashamed,
getting involved in a lengthy conversation with him.
In a hurry to leave, I said “w”,
but I was amazed when he replied to my answer,
“You only see 'W',
because of the angle at which you are looking at it.
If you turn upside down, you'll see “M”;
If u look from the right side, it is “3”,
and looking at it from the left side, it is “E”.

The fact that I don’t see things at the perspective that everyone is seeing it doesn’t make me a mad man, he said. Then he left.

I pondered for so long about this and its application to life.
Because We act, and relate to people, based on the perspective at which we are looking at their situation.
Have you taken your time to look at other possible perspectives?

I then decided that,
before I get angry with, or act against, or judge anyone that has done something unfavourable to me,
I will view it in at least three possible perspectives;
1.my own perspective,
2.his own perspective and
3.others perspective'.

So, before you judge people, before you rage your anger on them, take a little time to view their angle or perspective, and, if you still cannot see a reasonable reason, then you may act REASONABLY .

DAramis:
Even if he can't pay you minimum wage (maybe due to your region), at least he should have Paid you equivalent of one student's school fee or slightly above it.

Another thing, hope the students due pay their fees fully and in time? Not having 100 students while 20 pays full fees, the rest will pay small and drag it to month's end thereby no longer paying the balance while starting new term (and adopting the same approach)

Thanks sir

Brandonx:
I'm sorry but it's laughable
Where are you based ?

North west region

Orjioorji:
we have all been there before. But 6k is very small after the exam by January don't return move on God will make a way for you. Even if it's carrying blocks in building site with your certificate it's better .

Yes sir. Thanks a lot, God bless

Herbephe1:
Nothing is more stupid than a graduate asking whether to wait for 6k job or not.
Shey you de whine me ni?
You didn't even negotiate how much your stipend would be.



Wait of 6000 ABI 60000?

Six thousand sir.

emmy512:
Guy I'm embarrassed to hear this.
Pick a skill, go sell pure water, do something other than teaching in that school.
They sell more.
2014 at age 17 I was earning 15k and bonus of 2k with good sales for selling pure water from truck. That standard got to me that I can't find myself collecting less than what I'm worth.
The moment you do that you rubbish yourself.
Had an encounter with an Indian, I didn't know he was Indian until he started misbehaving and I looked him up.
He requested for my services and was going to pay 5 dollars for 5, something I don 5 to 10$ for 1.
I accepted based on just getting an additional review,
The guy started acting like his the boss, throwing orders here and there, calling me names when he wasn't satisfied. I kept shut and gave him his work when I was done, after all he came back a week later and placed and order for Sam's thing, this time with 8 for 5$ I just laughed and cancelled it.

The moment you take yourself down. You'll be taken advantage of.
Stop that work, don't even negotiate with the man, it's evil.
Any school that can't pay its staff at least the same amount a student pays for their fees is ...

Thanks sir. I appreciate your words

chii8:
Na waooo,Oga you fall hand die.

Na una dey spoil work for private school teachers.How can you work in a school for a whole 4weeks without negotiating your salary? You are even asking us what to do? The wicked headteacher will even brag to having employed a graduate and paying him #6k.


Is it not better than one million menial jobs? Sometimes,white collar jobs na scam!!!

You're right sir.

The pupils were asking me today how much is my salary and I told them the amount, they all shouted! Some were saying if its them, they will leave the school..bla bla bla...I jus laugh

thesicilian:
Big mistake on your part. And also a big lesson. Always make sure everything is clear before you start working: salary, working days, resumption and closing, clear cut job description etc.

The man is wicked for paying such peanuts but then again he hasn't done anything illegal (except it is illegal to pay below minimum wage).

Anyway, what's done is done. I'll advise you to finish the term completely (since you have already set the exam questions, all that remains is invigilation and marking) and then resign.

No matter how badly I have been hurt by my former employers, I always tried to leave on good terms. You never can tell when you might need a signature or reference letter years from now. This world is a small world.

Thanks a lot. God bless you sir

shegzan:
you waited on his feedback too long... the moment he told you that you guys would discuss the money part, right there and then, you should have demanded to know what would be coming in for u.
I don't do anything without a formal agreement. well, if u think u can manage with the 6k, u can keep going till you go for service. But OP, na u dey dah picture wey dey up?

Lol...no.sir

Thanks for your words

thesicilian:
Didn't you agree on a salary before resumption of work?

No sir. The man has been telling me right from day one of my resumption that we'll talk about the money till the Month ended he now gave me 6k

parkervero:
But you're almajiri na, you should appreciate that 6k, almajiri will jump on 6k which you did. Happy teaching

Lol

Karleb:
Guy, stop going to that school.

Besides, never start a work without negotiation.

Okay sir

Brandonx:
Why do I find it hard to believe? How can you work for four weeks to 6k is it not better you stay at home and read books instead?


What do you intend to do with 6k
Subscribe for Internet?
Buy call cards ?
Pay for your laundry?

Although I don't believe this story but if it's true then it's not worth it.

Its true sir, I was paid last Wednesday

OK sir. Thanks alot

I really felt bad about it

thesicilian:
Didn't you agree on a salary before resumption of work?

Yes sir, the man has been telling me from day one that we'll talk about the money tomorrow till it reached month end with same story

Good morning Nairalanders.
I was called to teach in a private school last month and I resumed work immediately without hesitation.
The school I was called to teach is a Nur & PRI school with 100+ pupils with the minimum of #12500 naira as school fees for each pupil, maximum of ten teachers including Nanny, I was asked to teach in primary six with about 11 subject, and I did that with the whole of my heart, when the month end, I received #6000 as my salary.
Please Naira Landers your advice is needed on what to do, we are starting exams next week and I have set the exams questions and handed over to him, should I quit the teaching and move on or should wait and see.
Though am awaiting for my NYSC, possibly next year when the portal is opened for fresh registration. The head master promised to work it out for me to serve in his school after my camp.

Please your advice is needed. Thank you all.

She can't do anything abeg, na kpomosho mouth she de make

Who took the snipper first between them

Brother Joshua Inginla of Champions Royal Assembly

OneMillionBoys:
wetin the guy circle for that picture?

Muslim prayer mat

If you are truly a lady with such emotional infidelity, one day you will definitely see another guy with the best qualities you await for over time.

These guys are not great full, they all knew that this program will last for 2years only and they are ignorant of such

DrinkWater247:
Just imagine

Dammmnnn niggar!!!
THEY ACTUALLY OBSERVE SOCIAL DISTANCE

Juliearth:
Are you Bachama?

YES I AM BACHAMA