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EriMma1:
This is why I'll never marry an average income earner because they can complain and press calculator? See all of them here. Calculator pressers.
That is why i advise men not to get married until they have a high income job, to avoid all this kind of headache but no, that small thing dangling under can't wait to start eating what the big boys are eating. They just jump enter marriage with 120k salary and start punching calculator here and there.

So when it comes to giving your wife money, mathematics go enter am?. You can't give her money to maintain that same body you mount every now and then? Na him you turn financial expert seeker/adviser.? SMH. This generation of men have lost it.

Na this kind things make marriage no dey hungry me again because if all a man can offer is to panel-beat my body and not care whether knots and bolts don dey loose or find it difficult to give me when I request, then ill rather live singularly, work and take care of myself without stress or any body knacking me up and down with no benefits or care. abi you wan dey chop me make i no chop you back? Damn! Na wa o.

Oga, give her pocket money. Na that one she go take know say she marry. Men are supposed to spend on their wife's, working class or not. That is why igbos name their wifes Oriakum, "eater of my wealth". It is your obligation to spend on her. I'm guessing you're Yoruba otherwise mouth no go gree you come talk this kind thing outside. I'm sure all your supporters here na Yoruba men. Kobojunkie number one.

So people shouldn't get married bcs they are earning 120k?

Not everyone is a thief OP😆

flexyrule:
U no ready be that.


When you have mouths to feed, bills to pay and family responsibilities, having a phone while at work will be the least of your problems.

What am I even saying?


If you were a military personnel drafted to the warfront, would you even be thinking of your phone?

Been in warfront doesn't last for 35years, it's rotational duty

Which area is this, I live in Birnin Kebbi

advanceDNA:
U said non stop...

There is no such thing as too much prayer... you are just being judgemental of people's lives...
Jesus never mention duration a prayer must last for

Dem say pray without ceasing

IyaebeTheGreat:
You said God does not answer prayers except you are righteous which is not true. Jesus also healed the unbelievers. By your statement,it means you don't believe in miracles and that's unchristian

That's grace sir

advanceDNA:
What do u even mean by non-stop prayer?? U are just painting extreme scenario....who can pray non-stop in this world

Too much can be to any length

JASONjnr:
Not everyone pray because they ask... Some pray to exalt God.

Must God be exalted through non stop prayer life?

I once posted this on social media and got people's reaction over this, mostly Christian Faith.
To you sir/ma, could this be true ?

Everyone is a saint and a good advisers now that you make it in Life😆

Sir kindly do as the spirit leads

Exactly how Obidients court case will never rise again

immanuelsize:
@op jokanem, young man, i have questions for you, do you practice other things in the bible? Why must you preach about gambling? Don't you see other things to preach? Better mind the type of preaching and comparison you making with the bible. Na your dey carry bible for head yet, never practice it.
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admin, seun, just close this thread. It doesn't worth discussing.

Nobody will close this thread, we love it cos is educative

jeromestarks:
Donate blood kwa?
That one no concern me. See waitin concern me here


Many people (especially non virgin girls) have been advocating that only a virgin man should marry a virgin woman.
They are of the opinion that body- count has the same importance for women as it is for men. They are wrong!
A man is the one who gives during sex. The semen leaves his body into a woman's body. That is to say that a woman collects the semen which is housed in her body.

Have you wondered why a wife starts to look like her husband after many years in marriage? That's because she has been absorbing the man's genetic material into her body. This will somehow (however minute mix with her blood and inturn, her DNA). This traits in her system will also be passed down to her children (as we all know that fetus feeds from the mother's system (that is, they take from everything inside the mother's blood).

Now, if a woman sleep with a man who has some kinda of disorder (biological or spiritual disorder), the man deposits this disorder in to her system. Her system will keep some of these disorder ( through a genetic process called "duplication " of blue print - this is how DNA multiply in the body of animals)
If this same woman sleeps with other men, her body keeps a copy of all the men's DNA in her system ( she may not even know that this is happening). Therefore, if she slept with 5 guys, she would house five traits from these men.

Now, if this same woman marries a man. The man impregnates her. The baby will feed from the mother's body system (which is now a hub of the genetic material of 5 men). This baby will absorb the traits of these 5 men (now 6, including the husband) and develop into a full grown body.
Here is the danger of this super- hybrid.
If the traits in these five men is womanizing, stealing, assassination, gluttony and depression, this innocent baby will "inherit" these traits even when it is not found in the family of the original father.

One day, you will see your child exhibiting characters that your father and grand great father's did not exhibit and you would wonder who is the father of this boy.

This is why our fore father's used to pick wife for their children from a notable family not from a family with bad tract records.


As for wether body count means anything to a man, The man gives the semen. It leaves his body into a woman's body.
Take for example; you have a big cup. You pour orange juice in it. Then you pour wine in it. Then coke. Then mango juice. Then urine. Then tomato paste. Then saliva. Then pap. Then sea water. Then goat blood. Then engine oil and many assorted juice.
Which do you think will be conterminated?
The juice containers or the big cup?


Marry a virgin. If you did not, then I am sorry to tell you that one or Two of your children is not your own.
Most likely, your wife pinned her ex pregnancy on you.
You want to spend your life training someone else's child?
Make a choice today. Fvck any girl you want but settle down with a virgin.

Non virgins are good for sex but not for family (except you want your daughters too to open their legs for men before they marry).


Check what the bible has to say:

Deuteronomy 22:13-21
13 “If any man takes a wife and goes in to her and then hates her 14 and accuses her of misconduct and brings a bad name upon her, saying, ‘I took this woman, and when I came near her, I did not find in her evidence of virginity,’ 15 then the father of the young woman and her mother shall take and bring out the evidence of her virginity to the elders of the city in the gate. 16 And the father of the young woman shall say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man to marry, and he hates her; 17 and behold, he has accused her of misconduct, saying, “I did not find in your daughter evidence of virginity.” And yet this is the evidence of my daughter's virginity.’ And they shall spread the cloak before the elders of the city. 18 Then the elders of that city shall take the man and whip[a] him, 19 and they shall fine him a hundred shekels[b] of silver and give them to the father of the young woman, because he has brought a bad name upon a virgin[c] of Israel. And she shall be his wife. He may not divorce her all his days. 20 But if the thing is true, that evidence of virginity was not found in the young woman, 21 then they shall bring out the young woman to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done an outrageous thing in Israel by whoring in her father's house. So you shall purge the evil from your midst.

How long would it take Oshomole's wife to look like him

Good evening NL
I'm passionate to start up a mini Gas plant business around Abuja.
Please any idea on cost and management ?

Thank you sir/ma

Ok

I'm currently in Bunza

His political slot is giving to his Brother

Is better to cry in UK than in Nigeria
I'm a professional Teacher (physics) and I will apply and give it a try

Good day NL.
I have a thought on going back to school for MSc program
Please your advice is needed here on field of study I should go for as a BSc Ed. Physics graduate and institutions running such program.

Thank you my Bosses & Merry Christmas to you All

Finally this man don.... This singer

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Medianna:
So in your mind now, she doesn't know what she's getting herself into abi?
Caring big bro,
Let her use her tongue to count her teeth.
Any decision she makes support her, no body knows tomorrow.
God forbid, if she starve in the marriage, it was the consequences of her decisions not yours.

Thanks ma. She's my immidiate elder sister

virginprincess:
Op you better reason this matter well,any man his family is helping financially to marry a wife is not yet fit to start up a home,he should atleast be able to sponsor his marriage on his own or maybe with little assistance from few people but not depend solely on his family for help,op you better think of the kind of life your sister would live in that marriage,can that man be able to take care of your sister and her children when she starts having kids,i think you should first advise him to get something tangible doing before think of marriage.

Thank you ma

Medianna:
That decision or 90℅ not yours to make but your sis. Or is she a minor?
Yours is to caution her or were you the one who brought the man home for her!!!
Come to think of it.
The sister you're talking about is she a graduate? Does she have a job that can take care of her financial needs?
Why are you making it look like the young man committed a crime!

She's currently studying in the university

Creamcrest:
Op disregard all those advice from people above me.

Buhari and his satanic cabal have shattered the Nigerian economy, inflation is on the rise, prices of food items keep soaring on daily basis.

Ask yourself if you would like your sis to be soaking garri in the man's house.

Tell that mofo to go work harder and come back.

Only a financial stable man should consider marriage,take the advise of motivational speakers at your sisters risk.

Thanks sir

Nyascobar1414:
Reasons why I say MODERN marriages are for f00lsih, weak,low self esteem,exploited MANGINAS...

@op,tell that young man that he is a simp, he shouldn't part ways with his resources(bride price) just to get laid, as that is simply prostitut!on...


With due respect, if your sister ain't a virgin and you guys have the gut to collect any shi shi, TONDA go flog una yansh, but if she's a virgin, then Its cool according to traditions..


Any sane man out there should not buy(bride price) the cow, when the milk (pucci) was free..

Why do some real men feel glad to take themselves to prisons(marriage).

Men are tools to be used, men act like a leverage for vvomen to get something(comfort,marriage and finance)..

Who raised these f00lish m£n for christ sake

Thanks for your contribution.. pls sir if it's your sister, how would you handle this. Thanks

rickpat:
the man and your sister Should be able to meet their basic needs like shelter,food and clothing...IF NOT TELL THE BOTH OF THEM TO ABORT THAT MISSION...and they should have adequate financial plan before having babies...


TRUST ME,A LIFE THAT THEY WILL DEPEND ON OTHER PEOPLE (FAMILY) TO SURVIVE IS A WRONG PLAN AND IT WILL FRUSTRATE THEN AT THE END... I'm not saying earn millions but earn enough to meet 90% of your family needs...if the man is jobless, advise your sister to tell him to wait...if not......at the end your sis will be a burden to you all...

good luck

Thanks sir. But the truth is, woman behavior is something else when it comes to the one they want to marry. Ones advice can never be positive to them

Chee59:
Does he have a vision he's working towards?
Does he have set goals, achievable ones he's focusing on?
If yes, it's worth the risk.

Well, he works under someone

virginprincess:

Please ma say something

Lonestar124:
Any man that is brave to pay the woman brideprice, is able to take care his family

You mean even been paid for by someone ?

Thanks sir

Good day NL.. I need your advice
Straight to the point

I happen to be the first male child in my family and my dad is late. Someone asking for my immidiate sister's hand in marriage but the truth is that he's not financially stable but insist in coming to pay for her dowry.
Secondly, he's not a graduate yet but had (Diploma) but telling my sister that he'll further his education after marriage. To my understanding, the marriage wants to be foot by his family..

Pls NL help me with your advice because I have a strong final say about this. Thank you