Good morning Nlnders.
Please help a brother here. I have been dating this lady for eight month now that we met. This lady covers a distance of 5-6 hours to meet me for the first time after meeting on Facebook. From that time things were cool and okay, but I later understood that the lady has never posted my pictures in any of her social media account as her boyfriend or stuffz like that, and i do post her pictures everywhere , I complained and asked her why she hasn't ever posted my picture but no answer. but sometimes she do post other guys pictures and celebrating their birthdays. Fast forward, even on the recent Valentine that passed, though we are not that close sha but still she couldn't even make any post about me or anyone else, so I challenge her last night that if am the only one she is dating, she should post my picture on her status with Love quotation as "Love of my Life" this lady refuses to do so. Please forgive my typing errors
Please Nairalanders, is there any sign of a True Love in a situation like that ?

U don post her own picture as love of ur life for ur own social media account u don see redflag say the girl just dey freestyle & she no want commitment... Girl wey love & cherish u, u no need to tell her those things before she go do them. Make una stop to dey force unaselves for love wey no dey destined to be. Move on Mr OP she just dey use u past time.

I do post her pictures always on my account

How old are you?

why do you people always carry relationship matter on your head....


this vagina people ain't loyal..just chop your own share and move than enslaving yourself in the name of relationship

Sir, I can't post my boyfriend's picture in a relationship if I have one, never!, I hate anything public. Even in marriage, I hate anything public, because I'm not either engaged nor married to the public. I'm married to my man. If you have trust issues, kindly solve it before jealousy kill you in marriage.

Olunmercy56:
Sir, I can't post my boyfriend's picture in a relationship if I have one, never!, I hate anything public. Even in marriage, I hate anything public, because I'm not either engaged nor married to the public. I'm married to my man. If you have trust issues, kindly solve it before jealousy kill you in marriage.

Gbam! I love this!!! Jealousy oooooooo I love my privacy. I can't post my boyfriend's picture nor my husband nor children pictures online expect I'm celebrating 20 years of marriage. Na by force to post pictures Trust is something you need to work on. Besides na kids still dey do that kind thing. I don't pray for any paparazzi nor gragra husband

YoungBlackRico:
How old are you?

28yrs

Olunmercy56:
Sir, I can't post my boyfriend's picture in a relationship if I have one, never!, I hate anything public. Even in marriage, I hate anything public, because I'm not either engaged nor married to the public. I'm married to my man. If you have trust issues, kindly solve it before jealousy kill you in marriage.

Is Alright..

In this situation, the lady can post other Guys pictures to celebrate their birthdays and stufz like that

Bola146:


Gbam! I love this!!! Jealousy oooooooo I love my privacy. I can't post my boyfriend's picture nor my husband nor children pictures online expect I'm celebrating 20 years of marriage. Na by force to post pictures Trust is something you need to work on. Besides na kids still dey do that kind thing. I don't pray for any paparazzi nor gragra husband

Its OK...

But you can celebrate other people time to time right ?

Seems like she can't handle being a faithful partner. I recommend you dump her and try your luck, since there's always other fish in the sea. If you need a good service to meet girls, try https://www.loveaholics.com and you will should be able to find some great dates there. Trying to make broken relationships work never goes well, trust me. It will result in nothing but disappointment.

Olunmercy56:
Sir, I can't post my boyfriend's picture in a relationship if I have one, never!, I hate anything public. Even in marriage, I hate anything public, because I'm not either engaged nor married to the public. I'm married to my man. If you have trust issues, kindly solve it before jealousy kill you in marriage.

Smart You!

Olunmercy56:
Sir, I can't post my boyfriend's picture in a relationship if I have one, never!, I hate anything public. Even in marriage, I hate anything public, because I'm not either engaged nor married to the public. I'm married to my man. If you have trust issues, kindly solve it before jealousy kill you in marriage.

You made a clear point here, but not wen someone has asked u time and time again to give an explanation as to why you don't do such and you're keeping mute...

If the lady had told the Op dis is y I don't post your pics (like u said above) the op's jealousy would have dropped a little and he'll know how to go about it with her. But anytime he brings up the topic she doesn't say anything.

And as for you Op

MARSHALDEMSA202:
I do post her pictures always on my account

You don't force someone to do what they can't do freely on their own. Or do u want the case of where wen she finally posts ur pic "you'll be the only one viewing it" am sure if u find out that way na die u go die na....

Someone once told me little things matter, if she's seen ur post of her pics on ur wall and everywhere, the little she can do is atleast give a reason as to y she can't post ur pics. Simply stop posting her's on any event/festival.

And for ur question: posting one's picture on social platform doesn't justify if someone loves u or not, everyone has wer tickles them and for u it's posting ur pics. To bad she doesn't see that.

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MARSHALDEMSA202:
Good morning Nlnders.
Please help a brother here. I have been dating this lady for eight month now that we met. This lady covers a distance of 5-6 hours to meet me for the first time after meeting on Facebook. From that time things were cool and okay, but I later understood that the lady has never posted my pictures in any of her social media account as her boyfriend or stuffz like that, and i do post her pictures everywhere , I complained and asked her why she hasn't ever posted my picture but no answer. but sometimes she do post other guys pictures and celebrating their birthdays. Fast forward, even on the recent Valentine that passed, though we are not that close sha but still she couldn't even make any post about me or anyone else, so I challenge her last night that if am the only one she is dating, she should post my picture on her status with Love quotation as "Love of my Life" this lady refuses to do so. Please forgive my typing errors
Please Nairalanders, is there any sign of a True Love in a situation like that ?

Why will she post ur pics online or make a post abt u? U don marry her? Abi want make she use u as a stumbling block for other serious guys to back off? No. B4 she would do any of those things u mentioned above, she has to trust u and u will have to give her that assurance that u mean business. I.e Ur relationship with her is heading to marriage. If i were in her shoes, i won't do the same.