₦airaland Forum

Twoclans:
Sweetiee i can see you dont want martins to know i have been camping at your house in the last one week

Please check i forgot my loop earing and g-string by the bedside please keep it for me.

hahahahaha hahahahaha ur mouth eh

donnaD:
lwkm u know i don't near such trivial threads.na u find my trouble

my dear sign board nor dey na! so I wouldn't know na.

donnaD:
na u I know,na u mention me.

eheh OK oo!

lefulefu:
omo this one go be market 4 yahooboys

Ala-yahoo market e go be their own Ala-aba market

lefulefu:

yeah

donnaD:
this one weak me.shey na competition?abi na food? haba children of nowadays.

r

na me u dey ask this kind of comment Na op u suppose tell am to oo

lefulefu:
i just wonder na wich babe u dey yarn about
oh Twoclans visit u?
greet her for me oo

no she no visit me abeg!

see woman no dey visit me oo Coz ayam a holy small boy wey never break virginity and my urine still dey travel long..

ar just dey tell u say she dey around for Nairaland..

emmm Biko donnaD come share your opinion on this matter wey open gist us oo!
abeg na wetin u think Biko

lefulefu:
wich babe be dat one?

Na wa come nor go let them do you decimal 10:10 oo twoclans go dey imagine which other babe u talking about wey u nor go use ur brain know it her am talking about

lefulefu:
op dat said 9 minutes is even too much 4 him na im u dey yarn one and half hours?

ur babe dey around oo

Why You Should Never Force Anyone To Love You.

Have you felt so much love for someone yet they don't feel the same towards you? And you think putting pressure or force on them will make them accept you?

Many people do this. When it comes to men especially some women accept your love proposal just because they are tired of your persistent disturbance, when in actual fact your presence, words and actions turn them off.

Instead of running away from such pressure, the best option to them is to play by your rules or demands.

Most of these relationships often lead to hurt in the long run when you finally realize that the person in question is not real with you; that they only pretended to be in love with you and were forced to respond "I love you too". They always feel guilty saying "I miss you too", knowing they don't feel that way. This is done to avoid your reaction if the respond is otherwise.

It is such a beautiful thing for someone to ask for nothing but your company, to be given permission to put a smile on your face, but you need to give them the freedom and time to accept or reject your request.

A lot of times people think all love stories should start with a "yes", but the truth is most of the beautiful ones started with a "no". I know it’s not easy for some people to open up and express what they feel for someone, sometimes they even have to risk their friendship to do that.

Love is not a business for the faint-hearted but the strong. The weak heart gets broken when their love is neither returned nor accepted, but the strong at heart can continue to love after being hurt.

Love is a gift and has to come from the heart freely.

Love is a gift and has to come from the heart freely. Most importantly it’s beautiful when it’s real. This is why you need to be patient with the one you want to be with, give them time but continue to love and pray for them.

If the one you want is with someone else please let them be. If they are single and available but say ‘no’ to you, your best option is to continue being a good friend and wait patiently without pressure. When you do that, you will end up with the best love story. One day, they will fall in love with you and love you more than you ever expected.

For those who can’t wait or think it is impossible to wait, know that your love is not real, so move on. When love is real, it's hard to just stop loving someone, even after they have proven to you over and over again, that they don't deserve your love.

It’s bad to force someone to love you. You can't force anyone to love you just because you are in love with them. It will be like asking the snake not to bite you because you won't bite it.

It is always better to wait for someone you love to see in you what you see in them, and to feel for you what you feel for them, than to force and get it, or else you will always have to force to keep.

In conclusion "Love does not give up.

#i love you sweetie #to the mother of my kids ###exclusively bae#

ways to fix your wife - when she is falling apart!

Your wife can be dying in silence while still performing her wifely duties. You will need to know her to know when she needs to be fixed.
When a woman is always moody, cries a lot, yells on Children, can easily sleep or sleeps a lot, she may be battling with something you are not careful enough to see.

A real man will not allow his wife to fall apart without fixing her and making her better and happy.

If you discover your wife is falling apart, watch out and fix the following:

xy
.CHECK IF YOU ARE THE PROBLEM
You might be her problem, but out of her respect and love for you, she may not tell you. Ask, let her talk sincerely


. BE AWARE OF HER RESPONSIBILITIES
Get to know how her work load is killing her. Regardless of whether she stays at home or goes to work, do you know what she does all day? If you don’t, ask her. Her to-do list is probably overflowing with tasks that far outweighs her time and energy.


. BE APPRECIATIVE
Be mindful of her needs and appreciative of her sacrifices. The work a woman does at home can be too common that nobody will appreciate her for them, this can be killing her. Appreciate your wife


.GET INVOLVED BEFORE SHE BURNS OUT
Don’t just be appreciative, but get involved. The best time to begin helping your wife is now. Don’t wait until she breaks down to offer a helping hand.


.GET MACHINE
Get all the machine needed for her work at home (the ones you can afford). Dish washer, gas cooker, refrigerator, oven, laundering Machine, etc


.BE AN ACTIVE PARTICIPANT
Be totally involved at home, stop delegating parenting and family life. Don’t be a “visiting Professor”, be an active partner in this business of your life. It takes two to parent. It takes two to make a marriage work. It takes two to run a household. Be fully involved in every aspect of your family life.


. HOLD HER
Hold her like a lover and a friend. Place your hands on her shoulder, her laps, hold her hands, just hold her and let her feel you.


. JUST LISTEN
Men are known to be good talker but very bad listeners. At times what your wife needs is for you to just listen. Do not interrupt, let her unburden, let her talk. Sometimes the best way for a woman to reset is by getting all of her thoughts out. Let your wife talk through her feelings and problems. Show empathy. Listen carefully. Ask questions. Be fully engaged in the conversation.


. BE A PARTNER NOT A TEACHER
Most men do fall into the “Teaching trap” when they are supposed to be a partner, showing love and consideration. Do not blame, just be there for her. Just listen. That’s all you need to do. And if she wants you to offer solutions, she’ll ask for them


. GIVE HER HOPE
No matter what happens, don’t ever raise up your hands in surrender. Giving up, crying or weeping will hurt your wife more. Encourage her. Let her know what you love about her. Help her see the good in any situation. Avoid being critical or negative. When she has hit the rock bottom, be the man who lifts her up, and brings light and hope back into her life.


. BE SENSITIVE
Get to know her mood, get to know her needs, get to know what is needed to be done at home and do them without prompting.
Learn the art of looking around the house and finding things that need to get done. Are there dishes in the sink? What is broken that needs to be fixed? Don’t wait to be asked. Just do it!


.PRAY FOR HER
Take your time off to pray for her, hand her over to her maker who knows the deepest need of her heart . Let God fix her, you can’t do it.

Let God know what you appreciate about her. Ask for his help. Ask him to tell you how you can be a better spouse to her. Ask him to comfort her and help her see herself as He see her.


. PRAY WITH HER
Don’t just pray for your wife, find time to pray with her, hug her as you pray together, hold her hands, just talk to your maker together.


. ASK HER HOW YOU CAN BE OF HELP
Your wife knows what you can do to help her reset, so just ask her. She will open up to you, it may not be what you think, so don’t speculate, ask, She’ll appreciate it more than you will ever know.


. HELP AROUND THE HOUSE
Give a helping hand around the house. Give her a kitchen holiday for some days, do all the cooking or hire somebody to do it for you. Let her just sit, eat and rest, this may be all she needs,


. TAKE HER OUT
Take her out, eat out, go to the cinema, go to wherever she will love to go, not where you want, just follow her.


. ALLOW HER TO CRY, IF SHE MUST
“Stop crying, are you a baby?, will you be crying about this little thing?” This is what most nude earning husband will do when their wives cry, what an insensitive word. If she feels like crying, hold her to yourself and let her do the crying while you pat her on the back. It’s a great way to fix the problem.


.LET HER GO ON HOLIDAY
Allow her to go on holiday all alone to herself, this can fix the problem as she returns with greater energy.


. CELEBRATE HER
Let your wife be celebrated. Celebrate her in secret and in public. Talk about her beauty, motherhood, wife hood, support, thoughtfulness. This will make her day.

Let the men read and apply...

Let the women read share, and forward to the men..
#exclusively bae #

I love you so much sweetie#

fuckpro:
...but wait oooo why is it when f.u.cking Nigerian babes they start moaning and calling you daddy daddy please ooooo shuoooo daddy OOOO daddy
honestly I get alarm where did they get that from

oga me i don't know oo

donnaD:
com join me for whatsapp joor.09023401398.

OK ma I dey run come sharp sharp!

donnaD:
Na Aromatic I wan act.

I dey teach you something you dey play with am abi

donnaD:
Am innocent ooo.I did not do anything.

you nor get mind at all abeg dey act romantic sometimes Biko na wa ooo

[quote author=donnaD post=67136174]small small bawo? abeg na bee sure pass.[/quote

hahahah nor let them hear am oo, mehn u finish me today oo see as u dey row of waist like Boris

sexy diva

IT TAKES MORE THAN JUST FEELINGS TO MAKE OUR MARRIAGES WORK !!!

What makes our marriages work is not just what we feel for our partners but our commitment & maturity in our attitudes. Truth be told - We would have no marriage standing if it were feelings. We stay in marriages because we make a decision & a commitment to be with our partners.

Feelings come & go but our maturity & commitment remains. Stop lying to yourselves. We will always meet people better looking,well shaped & doing better than our partners but,we can't leave to be with them each time we meet them. Even sex can be better out there - We just learn to have the best sex with our partners.

We stay with our partners because we chose to make them the best there is & committed to being with them through thick & thin despite the pressure of getting "Better" out there. That is why I say "Cheating is greatly linked to immaturity".

Pressure to go for better is always there. Both from men & women but, that's where you see & separate a child from men & women from girls.
Fools will chase & try to have every good looking man/woman they see but committed & mature people stick to who they make a decision to stay with. What we lack in most marriages today is commitment.

#exclusively bae #

Archangel15:
Martin all these threads will not get you a girlfriend o

wetin concern thread and girlfriend una just dey talk for talking sake sha

donnaD:
lwkm i no get ur tyme now Martin.U sabi get word for mouth.

babe Na una teach me ooo anyway I go follow you small small like fly

donnaD:
lol kai see as u wash my head.church ke?go met my papa first.

hahahah na wa for you oo na witness Na matter oo

lefulefu:
sorry iyam not Flavour

hahahahah hahahahah slim daddy come oo wey twoclans ur babe

donnaD:
lol wetin be my own go be my own.

whoever told you these are dead some 40thousands years ago trust me I know

donnaD:
no mind me na bumshort I go wear com.sexy to the fullest.

didi mu, ayamu ututu chai u gonna be sharp
oya come make I carry you go church first ee

donnaD:
lwkm na iro and buba I wan wear come,faji galore.

eh na wa oo OK if that what you want good,but when I start staring somewhere else don't get upset ooo

lefulefu:
hmm which wife u dey talk about?

hia so dem plenty sef

mikejj:
i tire o bro

hahahahah wahala plenty for this l if r you know na

donnaD:
lwkm buhari still be our president so everything na packaging joor.as for the dance no problem small tyme I go show and u will take me dancing.

hahahah buhari nor near you oo

abeg when coming wear jeans oo or see just wear shot gown

lefulefu:
anyhow dem both deserve each other

yeah, Oga how ur wife, abi u still dey hospital

[quote author=Opentokwowledge post=67126917][/quote]we are all entitled to our opinion, so am fine you clearly stated yours

greiboy:
I have not dated any lady that I met online to take whatever they say seriously.

Whatever I say or type here is simply based on my experience in the real world

I can't be claiming to be giving my gf certain amount that in reality I actually can't afford.

Not an attempt to massage the ego of any so called Nairaland independent lady.

dammit u are a real niggar and Lefulefu never told me you got good maturity Oga I gotta follow you now..

remember I be asslicker oo