Saviour22:
is that u on ur dp

Yes

Halfpenny:


We should lie to her and tell her that he loves her and he will marry her and they will live happily ever after.

What I hate the most is the fact that she isn't disgusted by his yahoo lifestyle but she's offended that he told her the truth, that 'she is a dumbass!'

I feel she has her doubts but is just seeking validation from us. She should move on because that guy will just smash what's left of her heart

QueenUtum:


He claims he's telling a story about a friend and it's not him...what do you think?

Sorry. I refuse to think for you. I'm out!

QueenUtum:


Yes

so how in fvck name are u white? this guy u are dating are u older than him?

Halfpenny:


Then stop being some poor man's fool

No fine men in your country?

You should've been offended that your man is a scam artist and not the fact that he called you a dumbass! Because you are being a dumbass.

You better go hit the town and get under another fool to get over this fool. My 2cents...

He's claiming it's his friend he's talking about but I wonder. And yes we have some fine men in the UK but I met this guy in Nigeria and fell for him. He didn't talk to me like this when we were together. The more he tells me about his scamming friends I wonder if I'm getting scammed to?

I like how blunt you are. English people don't talk like that, just tell you what you want to hear.

Saviour22:
so how in fvck name are u white? this guy u are dating are u older than him?

I never said I was white, I'm mixed. He's 26 and I'm 31

QueenUtum:



He's claiming it's his friend he's talking about but I wonder. And yes we have some fine men in the UK but I met this guy in Nigeria and fell for him. He didn't talk to me like this when we were together. The more he tells me about his scamming friends I wonder if I'm getting scammed to?

I like how blunt you are. English people don't talk like that, just tell you what you want to hear.

You look too old to be this silly. I can't cope. Good luck.

QueenUtum:

I never said I was white, I'm mixed. He's 26 and I'm 31

ok

Halfpenny:


You look too old to be this silly. I can't cope. Good luck.

Your a sweet woman

QueenUtum:


I never said I was white, I'm mixed. He's 26 and I'm 31

u are older than him na madam, but can I ask u one question?

Asowari:
u are older than him na madam, but can I ask u one question?

Go ahead

QueenUtum:

Go ahead

which tribe is he from?

Asowari:
which tribe is he from?

He's from Ugep, one of the smaller tribes

^^^ I can't believe this old dumb whÖre is playing on the intelligence of grown ass men here. Sheesh!! How dumber can it get.

QueenUtum:


He's from Ugep, one of the smaller tribes

ok I don't known wat to say , good luck in ur relationship, if there is any lol

Greenpage:
^^^ I can't believe this old dumb whÖre is playing on the intelligence of grown ass men here. Sheesh!! How dumber can it get.

Harsh...I always get trolled on here when I ask for advice sigh

QueenUtum:


He's from Ugep, one of the smaller tribes

that ur boyfriend is only using u, I don't think he's talking about his friend, he really talking about himself, leave this guy be4 u regret it.

NB not all Nigerian men is like ur fraudster bf, bye Lady

Saviour22:
that ur boyfriend is only using u, I don't think he's talking about his friend, he really talking about himself, leave this guy be4 u regret it.

NB not all Nigerian men is like ur fraudster bf, bye Lady

I know it's not all Nigerians. I've met plenty of good ones. But yes I have my answer. Back to being single

QueenUtum:


I know it's not all Nigerians. I've met plenty of good ones. But yes I have my answer. Back to being single

that's the spirit u can not kill yourself, move on am sure someone good will surely come ur way, u are not bad looking.

Saviour22:
that's the spirit u can not kill yourself, move on am sure someone good will surely come ur way, u are not bad looking.

Thanks

QueenUtum:


He's telling me a story about his friend. But it's making me think he has no respect for me and is possibly using me too.

My dear, a man that calls his woman dumbazz isn't worth holding on to and it wasn't as if he was joking about it.
The kind of friends he keeps says a lot about the kind of a man he is. He's excited by what his friend does so if given the chance, he will do such too. Is that the kind of man you'll be proud in years to come to have dated?

I dont know why some guys are so stupid thinking they are wise,for you not to fall victim,just jejely leave the relationship

QueenUtum:
This is my boyfriend telling me about one of his friends. It made me feel bad as I'm English/Caribbean and I met him in Nigeria....sometimes I send him money. He's 5 years younger than me. Guess your all gonna tell me I'm a fool?

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Dear you deserved better than this thrash , it unfortunate you are dealing with a player .
it obvious you allow this low shit play you .If i may ask what are you gaining from him because it obvious with this characters you can't blindly marry that thing that can even respect you as a women.

Angelparadise:
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Dear you deserved better than this thrash , it unfortunate you are dealing with a player .
it obvious you allow this low shit play you .If i may ask what are you gaining from him because it obvious with this characters you can't blindly marry that thing that can even respect you as a women.

I'm not currently gaining anything from him. When I was in Nigeria with him he was very sweet to me, I guess I thought love was more important than money. Is a relationship always about gaining something?

QueenUtum:


I'm not currently gaining anything from him. When I was in Nigeria with him he was very sweet to me, I guess I thought love was more important than money. Is a relationship always about gaining something?

To me I believe people are in relationship to gain mutual benefits not parasitic relationship that can not stand the test of time . even though the mutual benefits must not be equal or constant but there must be atom of respect to show between the individuals for been in a relationship . I can confidently say that he lied about his friend asking for creating UK account. You have to be a bit smarter to gain your respect even just for been in a relationship. I must say this because it have been proven that most Nigerian men go for money than love and they don't mind playing an innocent sincere lady just for her money without atom of love . it smarter to fine true love before letting him know you assist him financially.

Angelparadise:

To me I believe people are in relationship to gain mutual benefits not parasitic relationship that can not stand the test of time . even though the mutual benefits must not be equal or constant but there must be atom of respect to show between the individuals for been in a relationship . I can confidently say that he lied about his friend asking for creating UK account. You have to be a bit smarter to gain your respect even just for been in a relationship.

That's very wise Angel, thank you. Have you ever had a relationship you did not benefit from?

QueenUtum:


That's very wise Angel, thank you. Have you ever had a relationship you did not benefit from?

Not at the initial stage I immediately call it off just to avoid story that touch. It annoying and disappointing that many desperate men will do any thing for money .pls read the previous post I add few sentence.

QueenUtum:
This is my boyfriend telling me about one of his friends. It made me feel bad as I'm English/Caribbean and I met him in Nigeria....sometimes I send him money. He's 5 years younger than me. Guess your all gonna tell me I'm a fool?

wait let me be sure of something, you mean this is ur own serious sweetie pie telling you this

Martin0:


wait let me be sure of something, you mean this is ur own serious sweetie pie telling you this

Yes, he tells me how his friends scam American women out of lots of money. Then gets angry with me and calls me judgemental if I show sympathy for the victim. Apparently Europeans and Americans deserve is because of slavery he tells me. He calls me white and talks about the crimes of my ancestors, when my dad is black and from a former slave colony in the Caribbean. My mum is white and she's lovely, she would never hurt anyone, black or white.

just look at this dumb, gullibles and hypocrites Nigerians and foreigners too...


all you have made a very very and wrong, bad, useless, quack, hocus-pocus, and infact rubbish comments to this op..

There is absolutely no sincerity in any of these comments, no reality just see how you all have concluded.

**my comments doesn't implies insult to anyone oo**

Angelparadise:

Not at the initial stage I immediately call it off just to avoid story that touch. It annoying and disappointing that many desperate men will do any thing for money .pls read the previous post I add few sentence.

How can you just turn your feelings off if you love someone. If I have money and he doesn't how can I tell if it's genuine? He doesn't ask for money but tells me how he's struggling and I offer to help.