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XhosaNostra:
Discussion for another day, Marty. How's 2019? Btw, is Jayceon still around? Looks like he deleted or something. Looks like we've finally been driven out of NL

OK, better cuz I'm in a different area now, maybe when i return back hopefully might be that day you wish!
my dear 2019 is just cool for me, just trying to fix up some new ideas.

don't know really, i strongly believe his around with a new moniker...

XhosaNostra:

Are you ready?

XhosaNostra:

Are you ready?

XhosaNostra:
Yeah & ready to take things to the next level Are you game?

yeah and if you are serious and very very ready

XhosaNostra:
Living How have you been? Hope 2019 has been good so far

she's back again

Twoclans:
I trust your mum she will treat your fuvk up if she ever sees you with any old woman in the name of love

nna mehn see pics ooo, you go kill person i swear

Jacqueline22:
Busy Happy Christmas Nd newyear

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same to you oo

Twoclans:
I trust your mum she will treat your fuvk up if she ever sees you with any old woman in the name of love

eh, twobaby, i know ur way finish o boy Lefulefu come oo this ur babe get back sha, if you see her back eh, chai

Jacqueline22:
Hmmmm

see this babe ooo, OK another person don take my position abi, OK i see

gypsey:
Hian! wetin happen to ya prick? you no get prick? again?

abi dey ting no dey work?.

hahahah, you know them nor dey use small nail take dey nail 2by2 wood na

so this day's na long nails nai dey good na, who no get long nail is not qualified to be given a hamer to nail down to the main hmmmm

BlaqCoffee109:
no worry about people like us... insurance cover us. I get one white man wey dey totori me. The reason wey im be say she leave herself come dey pray for you fit be say the prophet for SA tell am about him Nigerian bestie (you rself) wey one Nigerian karishika don use you like pangolo so she come dey feel for you pray and you no understand say part of the prophecy say na you go marry her.

chai so you nor just like me like this eh, chai this girl you nor dey try oo

nor worry na to just give you glo network then later i switch to mtn, for telling me that

Lefulefu come carry this your baby oo, she go too spark like biscle light, see as she just melt me down


see better change oo coz one nice guy fit dey Nairaland wey dey crush on you now, i hope say you get ukwu and agbalomo

BlaqCoffee109:
I swear Naija men too dey stressful to be in a relationship with.

eh abeg make i sedon well Biko, you mean naija, we dey stressful to be in a relationship? na wa oooo, i don hear word for this life oo, one of my tight baby friend dey follow follow my former partner till date dey run to church for south Africa and my former partner don marry oo but she dey run to church coz of prayers, counselling her own na to dey follow am dey go pray for husband, on just this morning i video call her only for me too see her praying for me, imagine BTW me and her who suppose pray for each other na this thin wey you dey talk nai she dey talk that year oo, I'm telling you about 10years back oo, abeg better change from this your talk oo coz na 2019 be this

BlaqCoffee109:
me? Oti oh...aah! Wetin I do now? Which tactics again sef? Wetin you drop for 2018? I don forget sef.
See as guys dey para sef...nah una dey make us run leave una go marry white men nah...why all the vexing?

i nor dey vex oo, iffa vex weitin i gain? nothing abi so why ar go vex

see make una nor dey run follow ndi ocha again oo, stay with us, we go change our ways

lefulefu:
oh dat one? I get dem plenty..haha.Jjbankys i have one 67 yr old american white old grandmom and she loves blackmen. the mama get body sha oo.are u interested.

eheh you mean am, OK i dey come collect her from you then, twoclans i don follow this Lefulefu old mummy friend ooo Lefulefu show me the way

BlaqCoffee109:
ok ...over to you Amakavula. Lefulefu I see you ...what do you have to say?

oh oh oh now i know who's behind this moniker, i hope say you nor carry your tactics cross over ooo, i don drop mine for 2018 house ooo

BlaqCoffee109:
Amakavula, do your thing gal...a good number of us have given up on Nigerian men it's almost distasteful the thought of marrying them.

we are still strong sha, we still love our black shinny beautiful queens, Amakavula and nwanyiakaetiti knows

gypsey:
maybe you should join her in the Olosho business

we go dey think am together then you go advic me on it na

gypsey:
Na soo!! IGBO people sabi make money wella.


Make una dey fuvck the girls naa

yeah that na true

my brother na who get prick dey fucvk oo

gypsey:
Mmmm... so you didn't need me then.
Maybe she be Olosho! for nassarawa.LOL!
as i said, i will make sure say i dey come before i tell you.

maybe na when you go enter plane you go tell me say you dey come na

gypsey:
Mmmm... so you didn't need me then.
Maybe she be Olosho! for nassarawa.LOL!
as i said, i will make sure say i dey come before i tell you.

maybe na when you go enter plane you go tell me say you dey come na

gypsey:
we celebrated Massively! but i would have loved to have been in Naija.

eheh omo, Naija well i don't know know sha but it was fantastic here, so many people came home, at a time i was wondering if buhari governmenti nor affect this our igbo people, coz so many came home now village don empty, dem do leav us to the girls wey dey here

gypsey:
Mmmm... so you didn't need me then.

Maybe she be Olosho! for nassarawa.LOL!

hahahah i need you oo, but that state hmm i never go there before oo, and it seems it not peaceful from how thing's take dey go for that north area....



well if olosho pays more, then of what use is my Amu to me now?

gypsey:
well...you know, i don't believe in them.Rubbish
besides No one knows me in Unubi..Mybe my father dem know but not me. No worries you can come to ekwulobia

OK no wahala when you land anytime then!

how una take celebrate the Christmas for that side na?

gypsey:
Mmm...so na waka waka you do much. No wahala! i no go begin promise say o
i go come, incase i dissapoint.


Any time i see you, you see me be dat.

no wahala, see I was told by my friend's nnubi people dey do charms well well i fear oo, i was planing to tell you I'm not going to visit you at nnubi in case you come oo

gypsey:
O boy! how una take celebrate the chiristmas!! naa?


By the time i found seat on British Airways time don pass it was Already 31st of December, they want me to Re-book for next time or get a refund.

Waow if them want make you rebook, then book na, but that na if them go give you off for April na....

I met one of my class mates, Gypsey this girl don get money ooo, mehn na so she wan use dog meat and fresh palm win finish me on 1st morning oo, mehn I con begin they run from her oo, even today na so she dey call me to come take her out, me too was still running coz she told me before i came home that she want to see me get drunk, so she will laugh at me

she said i should come and see how my fellow ndi igbo are making money at nasarawa state coz that where she base, and i might visit there oo coz I'm asking her and I have been asking her if she will pay my tp, so let see what she's going to reply me

gypsey:
O boy! how una take celebrate the chiristmas!! naa?


By the time i found seat on British Airways time don pass it was Already 31st of December, they want me to Re-book for next time or get a refund.

my brother the Christmas was muaaahhh, mehn i visit so many Town's, villages this year, from Amokpala, to adazi enu, enugwu ku, ichida, alo or alao whatever it called, i also went to obosi, then also went to see one of my long long time female friend at abagana open university, at her hostel, mehn i Waka tire nor be small...


masquerade too carry their wahala dey disturb person join, tomorrow I'm going to agulu and nnaka, then maybe visit one or two friends before i return back on Sunday next week...

gypsey:
No mind am! he dey here dey beg for Tshirts and caps

Ewu Gambia!!

hahahahah Chai na wa ooo

gypsey:
Rubbish!! Mr Richard, you seek to run for election and you don't even have Tshirts and caps? This shows that you will loot us dry if elected.


By the way, were are our bribes of bag of Rice, tin of tomato, tin of Milk and 1 loaf of bread with your photo and name printed on it?

You are not serious!

he never ready at all

OboOlora:
Truer words have never been spoken Burna!
Watch how the fools will come for you

happy new year ooo

SilentWisper:

you don dey laugh this you laugh again for this new year abi

I reflected today about all the love that I have experienced in my life so far. During the last 6,7 year's (basically my entire youthful life), I have been in two serious relationships, with completely different, but similarly amazing, people. I wanted to take a moment to fully acknowledge and appreciate my past.

while most people do nothing but complain about their ex’s, have a negative memory of their relationships, and often times, don’t talk to them anymore — I feel fortunate to not have had that experience with any of these two women. In matter of fact, I don’t even feel comfortable calling any of them an “ex”, as that has a negative connotation when they were really the loves of my life. They met me exactly where I was ready to be met at that point in my life. Perhaps “former partner” is more accurate.

To me, the success of a relationship isn’t based on how long it lasted, but rather how deeply you loved when you were in it, and how much love and growth you still experienced after it.

It is not based on the chemicals that you thought meant Love when you first got into the relationship, but rather the actual love that was still there when you got out of it. Did you forgive them and did you forgive yourself? Did you still find a way to love them as a person even after all the pain? How are you a different person after being with this person? Do you wish nothing but the best for your former partners or do you still have bitterness that it didn’t workout? True unconditional love is you wanting them to be happy, even if it’s not with you.

The truth is I never had a failed relationship.
They were all unbelievably successful. And the testament to that is this simple fact: Not only do I still talk to my ex-girlfriends, but I am still in absolute love with each and every one of them, even though we don’t talk as much anymore.

What kind of person would want to hear their current partner say they’re still in love with their ex’s? One who understands what Love actually means. Often times, we confuse Love with life compatibility, intimacy, and relationship status. They are not mutually exclusive. Just because a relationship dynamic has shifted doesn’t mean that the love is not there. And just because we’re not sharing this life together in a romantic way and don’t talk everyday, doesn’t mean that they are no longer a part of who I am. The only reason that I’m able to love as deeply as I do now is because of my shortcomings in the past…because of the heart ache I experienced.
Each person that we fall in love with is directly part of the butterfly effect of each person we fell in love with in the past, and how that relationship ended…all guiding us to our next teacher.


I’ve been able to experience such freedom in the love that I now have for my former partners.
When I explore a new love interest, my former partners do not react with jealousy or anger, but rather with support and appreciation. All two of them get genuinely excited, and even want to meet the person who’s making me happy. It makes me feel so humbled that I’ve been with such powerful women in my life that truly want to see me fully loved and appreciated.
I sometimes don’t even know what I did to deserve this, and why I’ve been so lucky in love, but I am deeply grateful for it.

When we broke up, I never had the “You’ll never find someone better than me” attitude. Instead, I told them that I HOPE they find something even more expansive than what we had. As we are all constantly shifting, I acknowledge the fact that who they were when we dated, is not who they are today. It doesn’t take away from what we had — it actually gives more value to it.

Because we loved each other the best way we knew how to at that time, we were able to grow as individuals. One partner isn’t “better” than the other. They are all connected to each other. They are all a part of each other. The ceiling of each relationship is the basement of the next one.

They all taught me what I want and didn’t want. What I value and what I can let go of. I am now only able to love as deeply as I do, because my former partners loved me as deeply as they did. Our lives are inner-connected. With all three of my former partners, we didn’t “break up” because we hated each other, but rather because we loved each other so much that we knew it was time to set each other free. We knew that we already served our purpose in each other’s lives, and it was time to expand individually. This is why we are still in each other’s lives. It is because we loved each other unconditionally, and still do. Remember, love is an infinite source and no one person has a monopoly on it in your life. You have found it in the past and you will find it again. You can even find it right now, if you choose.

To my former partners:

I want to thank you both from the bottom of my heart. I will never forget what we had, and will always honor the lessons you taught me. Thank you all for being part of my path. Thank you all for loving me through my darkest of times. You were clearly my soul mates, and were my angels during my spiritual evolution on this Earth.

I will never forget how much our relationship helped me grow. Not from a place of attachment to the past, but from a place of honoring the beautiful times we had together. Thank you for everything that you have taught me, and for giving me the opportunity to practice true unconditional love. For wanting to see me happy, even if it’s not with you anymore.

You are all beautiful human beings who mean so much to me, and you deserve nothing but the best. Love is not about time and space. It is about presence. Thank you for honoring who I was, and for accepting who I now am. Thank you for your forgiveness, and your apologies. Thank you for honoring what you felt at that time, and for trusting your own path. For the rest of this life, I will always care about you, love you, and wish you all the happiness and love that this life has to offer.

I carry all the past experiences I’ve had deep within my heart, as one accumulated energy of pure love. You have all expanded my heart and it is only because of the growing pains of that expansion, that I am now able to love fearlessly and deeply. It is because of you I am the man who I am today. I love you, and thank you.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
lol

i dey serious now you dey laugh abi you know me na, my own nor dey hard me do oo