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NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Martin lemme jor

come here ee nor con dey fucvk up oo

khiaa:
It's not terms and conditions, but[b] DEMANDS,[b] COMMANDS[/b]b]/b] and [b]ABSOLUTES, meaning, you better stay in your lane if you want to be with me, and you better not tell Alezy, Luminouz or Kingtom.

don't worry! I will stay my lane u re not even creamy jor

ultimate77:
Omo, i don day use am ontop one babe here, she just day wish say ma she be the future wife... Chai.. Knowledge sweet o. I go day expect visitation tomorrow be that...

hahahah one love mehn! Na so eee brother

Biglittlelois:
this is coming from Martin0, lol

shuuu Na wa for you oo babe babe how ur side na

Twoclans:
Honestly I tire for martinO,the guy is just a player lover boy.

na u know ooo

Nickymezor:
Really touching....martin how far?

baby oku! I'm fine ooo how ur side na

lefulefu:
let him write his poem biko in peace. But wich one is future wife again. I was thinking Martin0 has one black american wife.

hia! na wa ooo

Twoclans:
Marty baby, tosyne2much has already concurred to my earlier submission ,Marty you are a fuc.k boy. Enough of the drama

hahahah hahahahaha hahahahaha rubbish

lefulefu:
hehe u want make i call biancan for u?

why you dey fall my hand Na

adedayoadeoye:
tanks 4 dis message dat makes me feel relief.it very hurt 2 end a relatnship u investd so much on bt i dnt tink he worth my cry,beg n praying endlesly 2 stil acept me back despite d fact he was d one offended me bt i tink i should let him be 4 d past 7months.i nw love him as my past.tanks so much

thanks my lady

lefulefu:

u go jus dey laugh come oo I see ur creamy waist ooo twobaby

tosyne2much:
And this is coming from a fucck boy?

nor let me tie you beat ooo ur big head

Twoclans:
Ohhhhhh God ,its nairaland Romeo again

Keep deceiving yourself ,an ukwu boy can never be loyal to any woman .

Amu dimkpa like OP.

see this girl ooo big head ikpu gi

fearlessly and deeply!!!

Just because a relationship dynamic has shifted doesn’t mean that the love is gone. If it does, that wasn’t love.

I reflected today about all the love that I have experienced in my life so far. During the last decade (basically my entire adult life), I have been in three serious relationships, with completely different, but similarly amazing, people. I wanted to take a moment to fully acknowledge and appreciate my past.

While most people do nothing but complain about their ex’s, have a negative memory of their relationships, and often times, don’t talk to them anymore — I feel fortunate to not have had that experience with any of these three women. In matter of fact, I don’t even feel comfortable calling any of them an “ex”, as that has a negative connotation when they were really the loves of my life. They met me exactly where I was ready to be met at that point in my life.
Perhaps “former partner” is more accurate.

To me, the success of a relationship isn’t based on how long it lasted, but rather how deeply you loved when you were in it, and how much love and growth you still experienced after it.

It is not based on the chemicals that you thought meant Love when you first got into the relationship, but rather the actual love that was still there when you got out of it. Did you forgive them and did you forgive yourself? Did you still find a way to love them as a person even after all the pain? How are you a different person after being with this person? Do you wish nothing but the best for your former partners or do you still have bitterness that it didn’t workout? True unconditional love is you wanting them to be happy, even if it’s not with you.

The truth is I never had a failed relationship.

They were all unbelievably successful. And the testament to that is this simple fact: Not only do I still talk to my ex-girlfriends, but I am still in absolute love with each and every one of them, even though we don’t talk as much anymore.

What kind of person would want to hear their current partner say they’re still in love with their ex’s? One who understands what Love actually means. Often times, we confuse Love with life compatibility, intimacy, and relationship status. They are not mutually exclusive. Just because a relationship dynamic has shifted doesn’t mean that the love is not there. And just because we’re not sharing this life together in a romantic way and don’t talk everyday, doesn’t mean that they are no longer a part of who I am. The only reason that I’m able to love as deeply as I do now is because of my shortcomings in the past…because of the heart ache I experienced. Each person that we fall in love with is directly part of the butterfly effect of each person we fell in love with in the past, and how that relationship ended…

I’ve been able to experience such freedom in the love that I now have for my former partners.
When I explore a new love interest, my former partners do not react with jealousy or anger, but rather with support and appreciation. All three of them get genuinely excited, and even want to meet the person who’s making me happy. It makes me feel so humbled that I’ve been with such powerful women in my life that truly want to see me fully loved and appreciated. I sometimes don’t even know what I did to deserve this, and why I’ve been so lucky in love, but I am deeply grateful for it.

When we broke up, I never had the “You’ll never find someone better than me” attitude. Instead, I told them that I HOPE they find something even more expansive than what we had. As we are all constantly shifting, I acknowledge the fact that who they were when we dated, is not who they are today. It doesn’t take away from what we had
Because we loved each other the best way we knew how to at that time, we were able to grow as individuals. One partner isn’t “better” than the other. They are all connected to each other. They are all a part of each other. The ceiling of each relationship is the basement of the next one.

They all taught me what I want and didn’t want. What I value and what I can let go of. I am now only able to love as deeply as I do, because my former partners loved me as deeply as they did. Our lives are inner-connected. With all three of my former partners, we didn’t “break up” because we hated each other, but rather because we loved each other so much that we knew it was time to set each other free. We knew that we already served our purpose in each other’s lives, and it was time to expand individually. This is why we are still in each other’s lives. It is because we loved each other unconditionally, and still do. Remember, love is an infinite source and no one person has a monopoly on it in your life. You have found it in the past and you will find it again. You can even find it right now, if you choose.

To my former partners:

I want to thank you all from the bottom of my heart. I will never forget what we had, and will always honor the lessons you taught me. Thank you all for being part of my path. Thank you all for loving me through my darkest of times. You were clearly my soul mates, and were my angels during my spiritual evolution on this Earth.

I will never forget how much our relationship helped me grow. Not from a place of attachment to the past, but from a place of honoring the beautiful times we had together. Thank you for everything that you have taught me, and for giving me the opportunity to practice true unconditional love. For wanting to see me happy, even if it’s not with you anymore.

You are all beautiful human beings who mean so much to me, and you deserve nothing but the best. Love is not about time and space. It is about presence. Thank you for honoring who I was, and for accepting who I now am. Thank you for your forgiveness, and your apologies. Thank you for honoring what you felt at that time, and for trusting your own path. For the rest of this life, I will always care about you, love you, and wish you all the happiness and love that this life has to offer.

I carry all the past experiences I’ve had deep within my heart, as one accumulated energy of pure love. You have all expanded my heart and it is only because of the growing pains of that expansion, that I am now able to love fearlessly and deeply. It is because of you I am the man who I am today. I love you, and thank you.!!!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I am here cracking my brain to see if I've had any memorable meeting with a stranger

if you lie eh! how far about that guy wey u give number that night na

ultimate77:
Bro, I'm a spoken word poet. Readjng through this letter, I sure must say you are a good writer. "If you did write that" (no disrespect meant) permit me to cull from your work to perform on stage in the coming days.

Oga feel free jor u nor need to ask for permission ee

izzou:
I'm just trying to retire and start my own firm. Then I can now start my journey

My wife and children, especially my children cannot come and suffer anyhow oh.

But marriage dey fear me seriously

e nor need to fear u oo just have in mind what you desire and you will be fine!

izzou:


I love this

Sometimes, I always feel this rush to get married. But then, my financial condition and the thought of making the mistake of spending the rest of my life with the wrong person brings me back to reality

mehn na so e dey be oo

Hello, my future wife.

Whether you are reading this before you meet me, or stumble upon it after, I want you to know a few things.

The reason I am writing this today is because I can’t stop thinking about you, and I can’t stop myself from imagining how happy we will be. Let this letter be a promise to you that I will do my best to be the man I want to be for you.

I may not yet know all of the difficulties that come with a lifetime commitment, but I have enough relationship experience to know what I want and how I picture my life with the person I will commit to: you.

Those around me are a continuous source of education and inspiration on how I want our relationship to be. So here and today, I vow to try my best to do the following:

I promise to do my best to make you beam daily, so count on many surprises. Your smile will be my priority. I get weak knees when anybody smiles, so just imagine the effort I will make to be the source of yours.

I promise I will always look at you with the same adoration as I did the moment I realized I loved you.

I promise to try to ignite the same sparkle in your eyes I see when you’re surprised, inspired, motivated or when you are about to lean in to kiss me.

I promise to hold your hand when we’re 80 years old with the same liveliness that I did when I crossed that line to hold yours for the first time. I vow never to let the excitement of dating me die down; I will surprise you with the location, the reason or the activity itself.

I promise to keep you guessing where we’re going next. I promise to do my best always to interest you. I will keep reinventing myself, gaining new hobbies, new knowledge and new interests to keep you -- and myself -- entertained.
I promise to have new stories to share with you, and maybe I’ll retell the best ones again if you insist. Our friendship will continue to grow over the years.

I vow to challenge you to challenge yourself for the better; to make you think differently.
I promise to try to feed off of your illuminating energy that will inspire me to do the same with myself. I will do my best to ensure that being bored never crosses your mind.

Even in grief and darkness, I promise to show you the different shades of the dark, and to help you find the tiny rays of light that are always there if you seek them. After all, there’s always worse than worst and better than best;
everything is relative.

I promise to kiss you throughout our life together, with the same passion I had the first time I felt my lips on yours. When we kiss, I want it to slow down time -- just you and me engulfed in our feelings.

I promise to play the games you like to play.

I promise to do my best to remain physically attractive for you, and I will do my best to be healthy in order to keep up with our children and grandchildren; someone has got to teach them Muay Thai kickboxing. I’ll train you, too; I want you to know how to fight and defend yourself, just don’t use it against me.

I promise to help you to be healthy, both physically and mentally. I will cook and clean for us. Expect the best breakfast: traditional Armenian tomato and pepper omelets, followed by fruit salad with well, I can’t give all the secrets out.
I promise to strive to be a role model for our children. I want both you and them to see me as a source of motivation. I want to inspire them in the same way that my father inspires me.

I promise to do my best to love your family as you love them and to be by their side as much as I am by yours.

I promise to always listen to you when you simply just want to be heard; when you want someone to vent to about something or when you want advice.

I will listen to you especially when you don’t feel comfortable sharing your thoughts with anybody else, and to the things you try to tell me when you’re not even speaking. I promise to always listen.

During our life together, I promise to make sure that you feel as though you are the center of the household -- I know you will be -- and I will always try to show my appreciation for you because of that. Being the man of the house is nothing without a woman.

I promise never to let my guard down in taking care of us. I know you won’t be one to be satisfied with the bare minimum.

I promise to do everything that I can for you without taking away from your independence physically, intellectually or emotionally.

I promise to create family traditions and to make sure that your legacy lives forever through our children.

I promise to encapsulate the moment when I realize that I am in the most magnetic, amorous and erotic love with you, not to let that feeling dissipate to the best of my ability and to relive it with you constantly, always.

Sincerely, Your Future Husband

Babyforever:
I'm not a lesbian but if I cross path with her I'll gladly smash that ass

hmmmm e good! ur publicity stunt again

[quote author=khiaa post=70033706][/quote]Is this how you define understanding?This looks more of "terms &Condition "to me!!!

khiaa:
Who's a who're?

possibly me

gypsey:
na waa oo! i still kno her oo!

hahahah hahahahaha

gypsey:
see this small girl oo!!

bia u still know this scarta scatter Babe eh

gypsey:
see this small girl oo!!

bia u still know this scarta scatter Babe eh

Twoclans:
Yeah my king . My back side is just about that size and I have got boobs to compliment it

I am coming over to give you a lap dance,please leave the window open so I can come in

Waow

khiaa:
Do you want to be one of my side pieces ass well?

clown would you accept to date a who®

khiaa:
Do you want to be one of my side pieces ass well?

clown would you accept to date a who®

khiaa:
Do you want to be one of my side pieces ass well?

clown would you accept to date a who®

khiaa:
LMAO You so cray-cray. Ok, you can be my other side piece but don't tell Kingtom.

hahahah hahahahaha hahahahaha I laugh in zaba zaba

nwanneni:
you go old for there See their mouths like dream woman

hahahahahahahah u want my run enter you?