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QueenSuccubus:



I have no idea as well..it's kinda weird that he has a different surname.. If that's the case, anyone of them in Ng can juz choose a surname they want? And my question is --- when are they allowed to change it?

Have u seen his birth certificate or school diplomas?

Anyway, this is too complicated for me..lemme ask my TRUE-BLUE Ng friends to confirm..

Cc
RadicallyBlunt
Martin0
Dafeyankee
Itzjwizzy

OK I suspect that guy is an igbo guy..

it is not a daily seen something from my culture to change and not bear you father's name, but in most cases some grown up men maybe decide to change and not bear their fathers name probably for a substantial reason known to them alone...

Honest answer for this pics

QueenSuccubus:
Abeegi, u better start writing ur own love letter ooo
Ur baby mamazies are watching u

hahahahah hahahahah I hear you ooo

QueenSuccubus:


See love letter ooo

Old school but cool...

this love eh

khiaa:
No, it isn't night it's only 5:30 pm. Go Clubbing? I don't go clubbing with men who cheat on me. Go by yourself or go .

ummmm OK oya come, was only kidding sha

ednut1:
people that give birth at 50 nko, aneg 35 aint dat old haba

u people don't understand how risky it is, adontcare if you give birth at 100 all am saying is it risky..

khiaa:
Hmmmm!!!

isn't It nigh down there...
get dressed up if it night let go clubbing

At 35 she got the nerves to embark on such life threatening delivery... hmmmm

why not go adopt if baby is something very important at that moment of their lives

Twoclans:


My mother has always told me that my mouth will lead me to hell. So you are vexing because of that seminary play I was playing with you .

Never take anything I type to heart, I actually thought you understand me that is why I play with you on that level. I don't think any moniker yabs me as much as you do, it's just the likeness Martin. No hard feelings.

lefulefu come ohhh Martin has provoke for me.

no no no am not angry, but just that anytime people tell me about going to the seminary, I get worried, I still love the seminary but I don't just want to be practicing such profession.

But then again I like you too, but you don't wanna join me on whatsapp nau

QueenSuccubus:
U only have WILD THOUGHTS

hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha

QueenSuccubus:


Well , that STATISTIC is not even true..

*What happened to those accounts that deactivated? I don't think so they removed it from their data base...

*What happened to those accounts that was being banned for damn 10yrs? Nobody gonna sit in the corner & wait for 10yrs before he can use his account again

*And to be honest, majority of members here have more than 5 accounts..Na lie abi?

I thought as much

Twoclans:
A bad boy

yeah good observation

Twoclans:
A bad boy
But Martin are you insinuating a party

yeah I wanna be a bad boy

how will a lady tell me to go back to the seminary that am not fit into this society, that got me up wondering at 2am some nights ago....

I kept wondering or is it because I practice celibacy But sometimes I do Involve my self

in some human sex sha, but I don't just find it interesting, am not gay either, I just don't want to be bothered, that is why sometimes I do tell my ex then to practice masturbation...

But all hope are not lost, I wanna be bad like Lefulefu, I mean bad in womanizing ukwu

yeah I am insinuating a party! nothing bad in it ...

I even believe it is more better,sexually ladies got more strength than men, I know that and I believe it wouldn't affect a single sex partner like bothering him for orgasm, hence with that party she's well assured of orgasm..

Twoclans:
Martin0 martinnnnnnnnnnnnnnn come and explain this your the more the merrier

Bia Nwokem you are turning to something else.

hahahahah jamb question for the jambite

what are my turning into

Ladyhippolyta88:
Yes and doing good Martin.

oh OK anytime sha I go come carry you make we Waka together, probably go visit some few Nairalanders here...

nor just tell me say u are never gonna be chanced o

victorian:
U nko, agbalagbafo, I dey around

ummm agbalagbafo na wa oo, who send me anyway I say make i holla you! enjoy your time

victorian:
Chai


Intelligence at its peak!

Mehn shaybebaby! You are too much! In fact 3much! I love you die!
Am no lesbian o! But I love intelligent ladies! Mehn u are too much. Such intelligent piece. With this deal, u are as good as covered and safe, in whichever way he behaves in the future.

I duff my pink hat for u!



Any lady that believes op and accept his conditions like that? Is just big fooll. Sorry babes but that's the truth.

this agbalagbi where u go hide since e don tae oo

victorian:
Chai


Intelligence at its peak!

Mehn shaybebaby! You are too much! In fact 3much! I love you die!
Am no lesbian o! But I love intelligent ladies! Mehn u are too much. Such intelligent piece. With this deal, u are as good as covered and safe, in whichever way he behaves in the future.

I duff my pink hat for u!



Any lady that believes op and accept his conditions like that? Is just big fooll. Sorry babes but that's the truth.

this agbalagbi

Ladyhippolyta88:
Fine thanks for asking.

you dey Benin now..

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Being Blindfolded


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Living On The Edge


I know when you both are excited it is hard to hold back from just running towards the finish line, but if you learn to slow yourself down, your woman would love for you to bring her close to orgasm and then pull her back from the edge, this process creates a sexual intensity that cant be matched.


A Sexy Photo Shoot


She may seem shy. but if you are good at making her feel like she is the most beautiful woman you know, she may feel comfortable and completely aroused at the idea of have a sexy photo shoot with you. Don’t get too graphic with it, use a subtle art of sexy and seduction to make her feel like a super model.


Create A Movie Set


If you two have already engaged in some sexy photo play, take it up a notch and set up for an intimate video session. Make sure to get a flattering angle and have some fun dressing up and role playing. Watch the finished product together and watch the sparks begin to fly as you observe your on screen chemistry
Role Play
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Dirty Talk


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Watch Porn Together


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New Locations


Instead of always waiting for nighttime, when you both have gotten ready for bed and your about to turn the lights off, to start getting it on. Change up your locations. She will be pleasantly surprised if you ravage her while she is cooking dinner, or meet up for a sexy bathroom rendezvous during her lunch break.


She Her Some Extra Attention


Instead of going through the motions and just giving her a kiss good bye, and hugging her when you get home from work, get a little handsy throughout the day. Touch her neck, and put your hand on her inner thigh at dinner, show her body some extra attention and she won’t be able to keep her mind off of you.


Take A Siesta Together


She loves to lay in your arms and feel all safe and warm. So invite her to take an afternoon nap with you where you both kiss and cuddle and let your bodies relax together. If you play your cared right, she won’t want to be napping for long, her desires will overcome her.


Hug It Out


Every time you give her a hug, don’t just half ass it, give her an embrace that will linger with her for the rest of the day. Press your body against hers, wrap her tightly, let your hands linger on the small of her back, make her feel wanted and adored and she will be begging you to come home early.


Amp Up The pre-intimacy


Getting each other all hot and bothered is so much more than just touching the right parts until its time to get it on. Ramp up your pre-intimacy game, be more sensual, and think outside the box. She will be wowed by your creativity, your sensuality and your attention to detail that she won’t want the moment to end.


Give Each Other Cute Nicknames


Put a little fun and lightheartedness into your relationship. FInd something adorable and quirky to call each other and have a good laugh about it, use these secret little names in private and in public and enjoy having something silly and special between the two of you.


Laugh A Lot


Sex and relationships and being together should be the most fun part of your day. Stop being so serious about everything, embrace the weirdness and the funny times, the more you laugh and play with each other the sexier you will become to her and the better the sex will be.

#exclusively bae#

lefulefu:
aghhh u don already dey d celebration spirit

mehn nor be small tin oo, make them clear road jor

Ladyhippolyta88:
Martin how are you?

chai ladyphi awww my women addiction just dey make me forget to even holla you asa nwan baby

am fine oo Nne how ur side Na

lefulefu:
Yeh! ..our beloved Lala aka snakeman is about to get married. Biko Lala who is d lucky bride? Is it Berlyn?.. Wow so happy for u. Mikejj,greiboy,izaray,Randy91,Martin0 come and celebrate with us oooo. Lalas247 hw u dey?.

aaaaaaa para para

QueenSuccubus:



This is not in FP yet?

Martin0 come ooo...someone is getting married very soon ...How about u?

ummm am no longer interested in marriage abeg, it will be hard for me to get a proper wife..

no woman can accept my kinda man, don't you see how expose I am to woman

khiaa said am a player

but we may later marry sha

Dyt:
Do you have any terms and conditions?

hmmmm

hmmmmmm this baby something hmm still observing all comments sha!

They might get back together!

They may decide to give it another shot for the sake of their child or he may run back to her because “her cookie’s way better than yours”. This prospect is always at the back of a woman’s mind.

These crippling insecurities cause baby daddies to feel like they’re constantly being ostracized. Baby-daddy-ville will always be seen as “hostile territory” which you enter at your own risk.
The fact that he is the father of a child not of your womb will remain the defect you just can’t overlook.

just picking out what I think from people's comments sha

sisisioge:

I thought you wrongly quoted me initially... Now I know you didn't.

clown

Am learning from this thread..

I have observed something on this thread!

She will use the child to manipulate him!

She’s also likely to use their child to maintain some control over him; i.e. random phone calls regarding the child when she knows he’s with you. He’ll be left feeling powerless because he has a responsibility to his child after all.

sisisioge:
Oga, all these could be achieved with each as individuals living apart. Read her post well

so you think so, have you been in such situations

lefulefu:
haha wich one u wan come dey do aproko for person marriage.let her enjoy her marriage oo. Na so wen she announce say she wan marry i congratulate her oo but then small laugh jus dey my throat cos i know wetin d husband will go through. Most lesbians when married dem go starve their husband off sex cos the sexual energy dem dey use am on their fellow lesbian lovers.

hahahah hahahahaha

sisisioge:


Good to know that someone shares my views about the whole thing. Sheybabe is offering him a good deal...free education, medicals, nationality of a great nation for the kid, not gonna hoard the fanny, motherhood experience...plus common sense. All she asks for is some simple assurances here and there...no fuss.

I think the guy isn't really clear about what he wants...he's proposing living under the same roof like a legal couple minus the legal intrinsics. He even hinted that he expects loyalty from her ...who gets that but a husband

Conclusively, I think the wahala of patiently courting a partner and marrying same is too stressful... Na to adopt the oyinbo styles all the way remain. OP just needs to realize that in this kind of arrangement, its strictly a business deal with as much impersonal terms as possible. Otherwise, na war go finish am.

I think the op is trying to make a point about living together!

Let it be known to both of you what co-parenting means. Be on the same page with him. Have a sit down and let it be known to him what you want. Boundaries means that your conversations are only limited to your child, cause that’s what you have in common.

Don’t let emotions blind you because you have a child together, be open minded because at the end of the day it is about your child. Set boundaries where you know what you want. A person should never walk in and out of your life and bed whenever they please. It will only confuse you and your baby. Remember that your child comes first.

Let it be clear to both of you if you can enter into relationships with other people. Your life shouldn’t stop just because you had a baby. We are human beings and we crave love. You can see other people but let him know because big possibility is your new relationship will need to meet your child.

Never let your feelings get the best of you. The person who is most important is your child.

Co-parenting is very possible. But it takes two people who put their egos and pride aside for the sake of their child. You should never have to force anyone to be part of something they don’t want to be in. But if he wants to be part of his child’s life, let him, you can live together.