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Pets / Re: Please What Breed Of Dog Is This? by martronilla: 4:00pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
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Pets / Re: Please What Breed Of Dog Is This? by martronilla: 3:59pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
It's 1 year old here 1 Like
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Pets / Please What Breed Of Dog Is This? by martronilla: 3:58pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
Good afternoon guys.... I need help in identifying the original breed of my dog Most people say it's local... And I bet most of you will agree with that... Even if it's local, I don't mind... The breed of a dog doesn't matter.... It's all about how it's trained.... I know of a German Shepherd that eats poo My dog is a full time pet but it's also very aggressive towards strangers... He is very neat... It is bathed twice a day, morning and night... It eats everything except groundnuts and orange.... Emphasis on "EVERYTHING" It doesn't poop in the compound.... It rather goes to the backyard and when it's done pooping or urinating, it uses its paws to dig out sand from the ground and covers it's poo and urine.... It's also quite hairy... Well, this my dog does look local tho.... That's the fur of the dog.... But it looks very big and it's just two years old.... It clocked two years four months ago... And it's growth is rapid... Our neighbour's local dog is 7 years old (so they said) and my dog is way bigger than it... When my dad purchased this dog, he was told that it's a mixed-breed.... It's mother was local and the father was a Labrador.... Is that cross breeding possible? Cc: Seun 1 Like
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Romance / 10 Things Women Should Never Lie To Men About by martronilla: 1:43pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
When interacting with the opposite sex, communication is everything. Simply put, authenticity is everything. It's not always easy to be transparent when you’re getting to know each other, but it’s 100 percent necessary. Keeping things honest will help you avoid leading Mr. Wrong or turning Mr. Right off. Be yourself and be real. Little white lies will get you nowhere, especially in these 10 categories. Your Birthday I know the rule: You never ask a woman her age. However, when it comes to dating, this rule must be broken. Don’t lie about your age. If he’s turned off, at least you will know where you both stand immediately. Lying about your age will instantly make you seem insecure, especially if you’re older. Who says PYTs have an age limit? Keep it real, ladies! How Much You Like Sports Your interest in sports isn't as important to him as you think. As long as he can watch the game, he's fine. You don't have to watch it with him. If you really aren’t that interested in his favorite football or basketball team, it shouldn’t bother him one bit. But if he takes sports seriously and you’re misquoting stats, butchering player's names and feigning interest in the score, it will be more annoying than endearing. He will know if your interest is genuine or not, so don’t fake it. Your Number Discussing your sexual history is always tricky, but it's unavoidable if things between you are becoming serious. I know all women won't be in agreement here but, when it does come up, I say be open and honest about it. If he asks how many people you've slept with before him, don't give him the "safe" number. Give him the real one. If he can't handle your answer, that's on him—not you. He should've taken heed when his mother told him to never ask a woman a question you don't want the answer to. Your Cooking Abilities Nothing’s more disappointing for a man than to be promised a "life changing" home-cooked meal only to be served a plate full of watery macaroni and cheese and questionable meat. So you don’t know your way around a kitchen, that’s fine. It doesn't make you less of a woman. Tell the truth and give him the chance to impress you with his skills. If you’re both clueless, you can always order take-out. Your Marriage Goals Most women assume that talking about marriage will scare a man off, but that’s false. The man that’s right for you will want to know where you really stand—especially if he’s on a different path. There is a way to be open about where you desire to be in the future in terms of your relationship without putting too much pressure on the present situation. Saying you don’t want to be married when you clearly do, will send him running for the hills. Your Real Thoughts On His Inner Circle If you’re not “cool” with his inner circle, you shouldn’t pretend to be. While you should keep an open mind when getting to know them, it's imperative that you find a way to be open with him about your reservations instead of forcing yourself to hang out with people you just don’t care for. How Cool You Are With Him Having "Female Friends" Not every woman will be comfortable with her man's best friend forever being a female. This is something you must be honest with yourself and him about up front. The issues you overlook in the beginning can potentially become romantic barriers later on down the line. Don’t tell him you’re “cool with it” when you’re not. He’ll see right through this one fast. The Ex-Factor If your ex is still in the picture, say so. It’s just as important not to hide a connection to an ex, as it is for him to reveal any women in his life. As long as you both keep it real in this department, there will be no unwanted surprises. Your Bedroom Activities Don’t ever tell a man he’s the best you’ve ever had unless it's the actual truth. You may want to feed his ego, but it won’t work that way if you’re lying. If you tell him he's the best then he has no room to improve. Compliment him but don't overdo it. He’ll appreciate it the realness. The "Real" You Additions and enhancements are cool, but at some point the man you’re dating should be able to meet the real you. I am attempting to tread lightly here. I know that at times certain outfits may require some "help.” But don’t let padded bras, body shapers and hair weaves mask the real you. That’s who he is most interested in, promise. Or at least, Mr. Right should be. SOURCE: http://www.thebeat99.com/blogs/10-things-women-should-never-lie-men-about-17-06-13 |
Celebrities / Re: Pictures Of Charly Boy & His Stunning Wife, Lady D by martronilla: 1:33pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
Celebrities / Re: Helen Paul (Tatafo) Delivers A Baby Boy by martronilla: 1:31pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
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Celebrities / Re: How Denrele Edun Was Robbed In Festac Area by martronilla: 1:09pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
Why them no rap€ am? |
Romance / Re: Your Wife's X-man Is Better Than You! by martronilla: 1:08pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
losprince:Crazy |
Romance / Re: Picx She's A Year Older Today by martronilla: 1:04pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
Her dress sense tho.... Wack! That leggings is so last season She's trynna rock the 'diva' pose.... @first pic... Happy birthday to her ooooo |
Health / Re: 8 Things You May Not Know Are Making You fat by martronilla: 1:00pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
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Romance / How To Escape The Friend Zone by martronilla: 12:56pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
Break the "nice guy" or "sweet girl" stereotype. Most guys and girls who find themselves in the "friend zone" are usually susceptible to many of the characteristics of the "nice guy" or "sweet girl" stereotype. This means pretty much someone who wants to avoid making other people uncomfortable at any cost, but does so usually at their own expense by not communicating their own needs. Where you're romantically attracted to someone, but you don't want to "pressure" them into a relationship, or "ruin" the friendship by expressing your interest or making a move, you'll end up holding back in a variety of ways. The trouble is, when you make other people's feelings more important than your own (instead of finding that happy balance), you're unconsciously communicating to people that your own feelings don't matter. This may make it seem like you have low self-worth, which is the opposite of confidence. While some people are attracted to ever agreeable mates, the person who assigned you to the "friend zone" probably is not. If nothing else, inaction tells the other person that you're simply not interested (chances are, even if they never felt attracted to you, they wondered about your intentions). Stop being needy. One of the reasons you might be interested in this person more than they're into you is because you are giving off signals that you really want to be in a relationship! You might be coming off as a little desperate, which is quite the attraction killer. You might be rushing things emotionally and maybe physically.You might also be placing this person on a pedestal, because you're so caught up in the idea of the relationship, that you're quick to assume this person is "perfect". Examine your own neediness. In one word, relax. There will always be many more encounters besides this one, so stop treating it like the last one you'll ever have. Also, don't force yourself to reveal your hopes for intimacy, let your actions display your confidence. Your demeanor should speak for itself. Think about the difference between a friendship and a romantic relationship. If you think a romantic relationship should just be a great friendship with physical intimacy thrown into the mix, then it's understandable to look for common ground first, and wait for the physical attraction to kick in sooner or later. But not everyone sees relationships this way. Some people expect a "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" to play a particular role in their lives in order for physical attraction to emerge. The person who you want to be more than friends with probably makes a bigger distinction between "friend" and "romantic partner" than you do. Realize that many people (both male and female) expect to be courted in some way. And many psychological issues play out in the relationship arena that don't ever arise in friendships. Some people, for example, look for a romantic partner who can play more of a parental role than a friend would. Figure out what the person you're pining for wants in a boyfriend or girlfriend. Then decide whether you want to be that for them. Note that some people are attracted to toxic relationships. If your love interests keeps getting involved with people who treat them badly, despite your advice, you might just have to accept that they're working through some issues. You could spend your entire life waiting for them to "see the light" or you could move on and find someone who actually (through their actions, not their words) wants a healthy relationship. Break the touch barrier. For many people, a bigdistinction between "friendship" and "relationship" is theway they touch. There are platonic ways to touch someone, and romantic ways, and the boundary is different for different people. But if you're terrified of touching someone the wrong way, to the extent that you hesitate and never touch them first, your intentions may be good but your "touch paralysis" isn't helping you at all in the romantic department. Take a few little "touch risks". Reach for their hands, hair, shoulders, ankles, and back. Don't just always wait for them to do it first. If they don't like it, they'll definitely let you know. But touching someone communicates to them that you find them attractive, and also that you're reasonably confident. Both of these things can make someone feel more attracted to you. There are more tips in How to Touch a Girl and How to Hint for a Kiss from a Guy. Note that some people are very affectionate with their friends; the person you're interested in might be all about cuddling with you, and think nothing more of it than friendliness, while you feel like you're getting mixed signals. At some point the person you are interested in needs to give out or give in. Realize that you're "tying up" your feelings by staying friends with someone who isn't romantically interested in you. In the instance where you've already followed the previous steps and you've left your pushover habits behind, you've stepped up to role that he or she is looking for in a relationship, and you've crossed the touch barrier, but this person still wants to be "just friends", you'll need to make some hard decisions. Maybe they're simply not attracted to you, for reasons you'll never know. But you still have feelings for them. Is it wise to continue spending time with them? Consider that it'll be difficult to develop feelings for someone else if your feelings for this person are fueled every time you hang out. You'll struggle with feelings of jealousy and frustration when that person dates. Consider that even if you do manage to develop feelings for someone else, your heart might always be torn and confused, and it'll be hard to give your new flame your undivided affection. Sometimes, the best thing to do is to take the friendship down to the level of acquaintance. The person might feel offended, perhaps it will seem as if you don't value them as just a friend, but remember (and explain to them if necessary) that you can't control how you feel, just like they can't control how they feel, and you need to make room in your life and heart for someone who feels about you the way you feel about them. Warnings Do not obsess over your friend. This will come across as creepy and possibly ruin your chances of ever escaping the "dreaded friend zone". Don't ever try to get them to break up with a boyfriend /girlfriend. That makes you look desperate, it makes him/her feel embarrassed, it probably freaks them out and makes you look stalker-ish. Its a bad idea. If you decide to let go of someone who doesn't return your affection, you might find that suddenly they're attracted to you. Be careful, then. This might tell you that they love the "thrill of the chase". If you find they lose interest when you become interested again, you've got a cat-and-mouse game on your hands--not the recipe for a healthy relationship. Don't give relationship advice to your friend, they will eventually just see you as "one of the guys/girls" always there to give advice, which will throw you deeper into the friend zone! Making time for them even when you don't have any may help the person realize that you are always there for them, but don't make it obvious that you like them, as it may repulse them and end the friendship. Just go for it. When the time is right you should spill your guts to them and not beat around the bush. They are your friend and trying to be sneaky about it like you have been is a big red flag. So just tell them casually and see how they feel and act accordingly such as getting sweet MouthAction from her since your new found confidence is a total turn on. SOURCE: http://www.thebeat99.com/blogs/how-escape-friend-zone-15-07-13 |
Jobs/Vacancies / Why Good Grammar (and Teeth) Are Important for Getting A Job by martronilla: 12:41pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
Earlier this week, the online dating website Match.com released the results of a study on what singles look for in potential dating partners. The results weren’t particularly surprising, but the prioritization was. Number one on the list – nice teeth. Number two – good grammar. It makes sense. A first date is an introduction to what could possibly (and for some, hopefully) be a long-term relationship. And who wants to spend the next several years of their life with someone who sounds uneducated…or who has bad teeth? It’s not hard to make the analogy to a job interview. Again, we’re talking about an introduction that could potentially lead to a long-term relationship between an employer and employee. Granted, nice teeth will probably not get you the job (though we have established that appearance does play an important role in the workplace). Grammar skills, on the other hand, are essential! There are a number of reasons why someone may use poor grammar. Whether it be cultural background, educational background or simply not knowing the difference between good or bad grammar, here’s an important piece of advice when interviewing for a job: learn the difference between good and bad grammar, and know when to use it. Every good performer knows his or her audience, and plays to it. No matter how talented a pop or hip-hop artist may be, they know that their music probably would not be well received by the audience at a Royal Philharmonic Orchestra concert. When interviewing for a job, the interview is your stage, and your potential future employer is your audience. Give them the show they came to see, and if you do well, you’ll be invited back for an encore. Now, I know there are plenty of exceptions to every rule. If I were interviewing with Citibank, the way I presented myself would be very different than if I were interviewing with Wu-Tang Corp., and grammar would be no exception. But my advice remains the same – know your audience, and play to it. Keep in mind that grammar isn’t limited to verbal communication. Most of the time, a candidate’s resume is the first contact he or she has with an employer. Obviously, I shouldn’t have to stress how important spelling and grammar are on a resume. One of the most overused descriptors when describing oneself to a prospective employer is “detail-oriented.” What better way to disprove that than applying for a job with a resume full of grammatical errors? I know, some will say that unless you’re applying for a writing or editing position, a lack of grammar skills doesn’t inhibit your ability to do your job. But I beg to differ. EVERY job requires attention to detail in some aspect. Bad grammar shows a lack of it. Lack of attention to detail translates into mistakes, regardless of industry, and no employer wants to hire an employee who requires damage control. So before you ask a potential employer to entrust you with confidential company information or thousands of dollars of company equipment, you should prove you know the difference between “you’re” and “your.” In addition to screening applicants’ resumes by spelling and grammar, some employers will go as far as issuing a grammar test to prospective employees. Online repair community iFixit and software company Dozuki are two such companies. According to the companies’ CEO Kyle Wiens: "Grammar signifies more than just a person’s ability to remember high school English. People who make fewer mistakes on a grammar test also make fewer mistakes when they are doing something completely unrelated to writing – like stocking shelves or labeling parts. In the same vein, programmers who pay attention to how they construct written language also tend to pay a lot more attention to how they code. All applicants say they’re detail-oriented; I just make my employees prove it." Of course, exceptions can be made for those who are not native English speakers. But for those who are speaking their native tongue, consider the learning curve you’re demonstrating to employers. “You’ve been speaking the language how long? And you still haven’t mastered it? Is this the same learning curve we can expect when taking on a new assignment, or learning our company’s products?” Make no mistake, if you aren’t detail-oriented, your interviewer will be. With all the preparation that goes into a job interview and all the skills you’ve worked to acquire that led to your being offered the interview, don’t eliminate yourself because of something as fundamental as grammar. SOURCE: http://www.thebeat99.com/blogs/why-good-grammar-and-teeth-are-important-getting-job-18-07-13 2 Likes |
Health / 8 Things You May Not Know Are Making You fat by martronilla: 12:32pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
If you're spending hours in the gym to no avail on the scale, it's time to change your game plan. Here, things you'd never suspect could be making you fat. Your Reading Comprehension We all know that person, the one who eats burgers and still loses weight while you eat salad and yogurt and can’t shed a pound. Turns out the problem may not be your appetite; it could be your reading skills. According to a study published in the Journal of Consumer Research, healthy-sounding labels are duping dieters. Your Diet Soda Habit Put down the pop! Studies have shown that subjects who drink two or more diet sodas a day have waist size increases up to six times greater than those of people who don’t drink diet soda. These insidious sodas may be free of calories, but they're not free of consequences! Lack of Sleep New research suggests sleepless nights don’t just ruin your mood the next day—they could also damage your waistline. Researchers at the New York Obesity Nutrition Research Center at St. Luke’s-Roosevelt Hospital found that while sleepy folks seem to burn the same number of calories as well-rested people, they consume about 300 more calories a day. The Room Temperature Trying to lose weight? Turn down the thermostat. A cozy home could be contributing to making you fat, suggests research in the journal Obesity Reviews. When our bodies are cold, we shiver, causing our muscles to contract to generate heat—and burn calories. Your Overweight Friends A New England Journal of Medicine study declared that people can actually ''catch'' obesity from close friends. When researchers followed 12,067 people over 32 years, they concluded that those of us with very close friends who are obese have a 171 per cent higher chance of becoming obese too. The theory goes: you're influenced by your friends, and if they overeat, you may unwittingly follow their lead. Surprisingly, spouses have less sway over the belly than close friends of the same sex. The good news is that it may also work in reverse. Hang out with thin people and you might lose weight. Eating Too Much If you prescribe to the idea that eating small meals frequently throughout the day makes it easier to reduce overall calories, you could be doing yourself in. Turns out we're programmed to think that a meal is a perfect combination of proteins, carbohydrates, and fat. In reality, the mini-meals in some studies are much more like small—very small—snacks. How small? Check out the story below for a reality Toxic Chemicals While you may never have heard of phthalates—a family of chemicals used to make plastics flexible—new evidence linking these and other so-called “endocrine- disrupting” chemicals with obesity has been growing. In fact, researchers have taken to calling many of these substances obesogens (obesity-promoting chemicals). A healthy immune system can help ward off the dangers of these chemicals, but why not boost your body's efforts by not packing your produce in plastic the next time you buy groceries? Your Stress Level When you have chronic stress, your body steps up its production of cortisol and insulin. Your appetite increases, and so do the chances you’ll engage in “hedonistic” eating in the form of high-calorie sweets and fats. When you try to combat stress with food, you activate the reward center of your brain. After that initial feel-good spell wears off, you’ll reach again for the same thing that made you feel good, calm, and relaxed in the first place: more food. SOURCE: http://www.thebeat99.com/blogs/8-things-you-may-not-know-are-making-you-fat-08-05-13 |
Romance / Re: Mr Nairaland [December 2014] Contest Winner - Naijaboiy! by martronilla: 5:33pm On Nov 22, 2014 |
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Romance / Re: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest - Final Elimination Round (semi Finals) by martronilla: 5:17pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
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Romance / Re: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest - Final Elimination Round (semi Finals) by martronilla: 5:14pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
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Romance / Re: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest - Final Elimination Round (semi Finals) by martronilla: 5:13pm On Nov 08, 2014 |
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Phones / Re: Keep your Bank Account Contact Phone Number Safe. by martronilla: 8:05am On Oct 31, 2014 |
bhaliz44:Yeah. You'll have to go to the bank but that wouldn't save you from this 'unprivacy' |
Phones / Re: Before You Buy The Innjoo Phones On Sale On Jumia.com, Please Read This. by martronilla: 9:57pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
tuncetila:I'm surprised your co-workers haven't strangled you yet for convincing them to buy the phone 1 Like 1 Share |
Phones / Re: Keep your Bank Account Contact Phone Number Safe. by martronilla: 9:37pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
I perfectly understand him. Here's what he's trying to say: GT Bank has a method you can buy airtime using the sim you use to receive alerts from the bank. All you have to do is Dial *737*amount# and your line will be credited with that amount. It's very wrong. No privacy. It's just like MTN share and sell but without a private code. Mr A had 5000 naira in his account and someone collected his phone and joking typed *737*4000# and Mr A's line is credited with 4K airtime... No refunds! If you have 20k and *737*20000# is typed on your phone(with the sim you receive bank alerts with), then you're automatically buying 20k airtime. It's a one-click process. You won't be asked to confirm the transaction before it's processed. I hope you all understand georgee: bishopjoe02: nairalife2013: armadeo: nairalife2013: 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest (campaign Thread) by martronilla: 7:50pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
This campaign is getting ridiculously Funny |
Romance / Re: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest (campaign Thread) by martronilla: 7:45pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
sylvalord:Bonne Chance |
Romance / Re: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest (campaign Thread) by martronilla: 7:35pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
chibwike: I feel it too brother... I feel it too... |
Romance / Re: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest (campaign Thread) by martronilla: 7:35pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Romance / Re: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest (campaign Thread) by martronilla: 7:27pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
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Romance / Re: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest (campaign Thread) by martronilla: 7:26pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
Romance / Re: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest (campaign Thread) by martronilla: 7:25pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
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Romance / Re: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest (campaign Thread) by martronilla: 7:24pm On Oct 30, 2014 |
MarthaK Small but MIGHTY Vote MarthaK for Miss Nairaland 3 Likes 2 Shares
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