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another sars on the loose ..
remember how sars turned Hong Kong into a grave yard..
Hong Kong economy was fvcked that period nobody neared that place

seangy4konji:
Having your baby aboroad iabjuat like giving over 70% already chance of making it while you gone..

Next 20 years will have a lot of dual citizens...

Buhari would have rot in hell by then

70% guy please reduce this percentage

WTF I repeat WTF did my eyes just read

Expert17:
Go and watch d first leg...... 2-0 win

LIAR

LION

sorry I meant home matches..

man u has drawn their last three games against Burnley..
draw loading and under 2.5

back2sender:
I don't disagree with you bro but why venture into this without doing due diligence checks?
Very simple to carry out a due diligence check, just go to a site like naira land land and post such asking for inputs and you will at least see someone that will raise a red flag about places like Oman, Saudi, Kuwait etc.

Secondly if the places is all rosy why have the agents not empty thier families and village people and take them to such places for greener pastures?

What happens to this people that falls victims to such practices are simply foolishness and greed, they wint want to open up to great minds because they feel telling people will reduce thier chances of getting to such places and also because they want to go quietly and return in BIG WAY to oppress people claiming abroad people.

Foolishness and greed!!!!!!!

most of these girls here actually knew they where gonna be selling their bodies here..
abeg their matter tire me..
if not for the high currency the pay is sh.it

Seunaj05:
I just watched a documentary on BBC about how some highly connected and influencial people traffics Nigerian girls to India in the name of greener pasture. Then I remember a pretty lady who had a patent medicine store close to my house. We only learnt that she had fled with a travel agent to Oman in search of greener pastures without the consent of her parent. In fact, her parent had to come pack the remains in her shop after several months. Only God knows what she is really made to do right now in Oman. But I am sure that the story is similar in every case. Our dear ladies, the grass is green when you water the ground. Get some sense!

bro's make I nor lie na ashawo work she dey do for here..

back2sender:
Stop this nonsense here. You can raise 250k and cannot do a small business with it here but will rather give it to an agent to go and do slavery in Dubai and come back and blame buhari.

Since they said Nigeria is bad why are they crying and begging to come back after they have tasted Oman, Dubai, Kuwait, Lebanon?

Foolishness and greed!!!!!

dude Oman is difficult for guy's not to talk of girls na ashawo work Dem dey donfor here
and they go as low 30k

Liposure:
Neva recieved. Dis reminds me, what happened to d free 50mb from operamini?

used it only one day after then..
I nor see anything again

buhahahahahaha..
you guys are funny

what a fvcked up world..
buh love her personality at least she's not in her thinking of how to commit suicide

the guy abi kid has more than 10 pvssy to drill ahead might be even less since e no fine the girl has more than 30 dicks to climb ahead ..
so forget all this children love

=-O

OP I don't think she's proud of her body or she's just really shy all in all is all in head..
the job is on you to make her comfortable,free around you..
give her the impression that you won't judge her even if you don't like her body..

subtlemee:
Desperate time needs desperate measure ...no be advice you dey seek?

love your smile

all in all we thank jah.
buh wad up with the fat and stretch marks na..
who asked you

Righteousness89:
It becoming the Norm does not Make it Right..
I cannot Forget the Bible . The Bible is my Guide..
Finance has nothing to do with Church Wedding..

Give unto GOD what you is GOD'S

is it God that created church wedding or man..
so your saying those that just did traditional marriage are not married in the eyes of God and man
ok oo

if you want a rich man go ahead and get him
na your choice..
buh all in all nobody is perfect..
if you think you can get a 100% of what you want from a guy or girl your on a long thing..
if you see someone that has 50 to 60% what you want take it and add the remaining one

sharone21:
Whether u like it or not Court wedding ( if u like add church's wedding with God's blessings) are IMPORTANT especially to a woman. One the marriage certificate is recognized at her place of work, she is not judged by the dictates of her tradition if the man dies especially if she has no kids, the man cannot just take off and many more on top of her head, if you seek to divorce her- u do it legally while the court decides what she gets from u out of the marriage no matter how small ( even if u deceived her)- if u don't divorce formally, u can't just hop on to another woman.

can she be dumped..
yes or no..
for your info both parties can go to a registry after the traditional marriage no difference

Chigold101:
It will not but the man would know he has a bigger battle to fight.
Remember the church wedding certificate is given to the woman not the man. The woman would have what to approach the court with incase of stories that touch the spine.

which Bigger battle..
are you sure you in this planet and in this country...
cause you sound gullible

kunleweb:
Yeye try harder eediat

after observing your madness..
I give up on you..
can't waste my strength on someone like you

paix:
That's ok by me. If the white wedding is the stumbling block, why not do it next month? Case closed.

and I ask what if he isn't financially capable..

WriterX:
thanks for indulging may I ask if you celebrate Christmas?

because if you do according to some Christian doctrines you are partaking in an occultic festival or something of that nature fact is Jesus wasn't born in December and there was a certain festival in honor of some deity and all that which to some sense have some proof

listen I am not much of a religious person even though I respect each and every religion the thing is Christianity has survived this far by adapting customs and traditions , yes a white wedding is a white man's thing as well as Christianity but we accepted it because it provided standards by which we felt were morally right and socially acceptable in the eyes of the world.

I get your point in my family, traditional wedding is the wedding too but that doesn't make the significance of the white wedding at less sort after.

much respect to you and your opinion.

I understand your points ..
buh let me highlight something for you..
whether we like it or not both marriages are not on equal ground one out weigh the other..
let me put this to you..
you can do a traditional marriage without doing White in our society and in the eyes of God and man you are married buh you can't do a Christian marriage without a traditional no church will wed you ..if you know of a church that will do that please say..
and let me tell you this most people that seek white wedding isn't because of religious beliefs from my own observation..
as for me I couldn't careless about white wedding but if my future says she wants it and financial capable I will give it to her

kunleweb:
I'll show you if you're the owner of the vagina. Olodo. Kids who denigrate principles, that's why they always fall victims to what wasn't meant for then to become victims of.

now I know you're stupid

WriterX:
thanks for indulging may I ask if you celebrate Christmas?

because if you do according to some Christian doctrines you are partaking in an occultic festival or something of that nature fact is Jesus wasn't born in December and there was a certain festival in honor of some deity and all that which to some sense have some proof

listen I am not much of a religious person even though I respect each and every religion the thing is Christianity has survived this far by adapting customs and traditions , yes a white wedding is a white man's thing as well as Christianity but we accepted it because it provided standards by which we felt were morally right and socially acceptable in the eyes of the world.

I get your point in my family, traditional wedding is the wedding too but that doesn't make the significance of the white wedding at less sort after.

much respect to you and your opinion.

I understand your points ..
buh let me highlight something for you..
whether we like it or not both marriages are not on equal ground one out weigh the other..
let me put this to you..
you can do a traditional marriage without doing White in our society and in the eyes of God and man you are married buh you can't do a Christian marriage without a traditional no church will wed you ..if you know of a church that will do that please say..
and let me tell you this most people that seek white wedding isn't because of religious beliefs from my own observation..
as for me I couldn't careless about white wedding but if my future says she wants it and financial capable I will give it to her

kunleweb:
No they aren't as they both have not stood before God, but till now have only stood before tradition, parents and men. She wants God's blessings and wants to stand before Him unblemished.

He knew he was dealing with a born again from the onset and should stick by the rules of engagement even obatala,amadioha,sango,oya,yemoje,amadioha,ikenga,Buddha has rules


Don't get it twisted.

please show the place In the Bible that relates with what you said..
and tell me what is the highest type of marriage rite done in the Bible

paix:
I would sincerely advice you wait till after the wedding. Payment of bride price is an indication that the woman you intend to marry is now readily yours. Please be patient, I don't believe she's hiding anything from you, whether she's a virgin or not; that's not the point. Bear with her and don't nurse any ill feelings. The sex you are craving for, you'll always have it over and over after the wedding. Good luck as you patiently wait.

dude they are married as far as the two families agree and the bride price have been paid they are married

[quote author=Kingpele post=83618162][/quote]all what you said doesn't make someone a good Christian..
I can do it and still won't be a good Christian..
let me clear this to you even without getting a blessing from the church they have the right to sleep with each.
as far they have done what God have said concerning marriage please read your Bible..
as far as the two families agree and the bride price have been paid they are married in the sight of God whether church blessings or not

Chigold101:
Brother she told you this you went to pay the bride's price. So I don't see why you are acting surprised.
Again wisdom should have told you to fix the wedding immediately after or even during the traditional wedding.
In Igbo land it is allowed for the couple to do church wedding in the morning and use the traditional wedding ceremony as the reception that is after you might have paid the bride's price the day before.
I won't blame the girl because a friend of mine was totally destroyed emotionally and psychologically and she never really recovered from the shock until she died few years after. A man claimed to love her and she was head over heals in love. The man paid the bride's price, did every other thing that is traditionally required, but finally abandoned the girl two years after and got married to another lady. He said my friend was an ogbanje.
I have another girl who is like a daughter to me, pressure of life pushed her into early marriage that never lasted for 3 months with a baby to nurse plus a broken heart and almost a broken life. The man can as usual did all the traditional rites put her in the family way. Came up with all manner of stories and left her.
I don't blame this lady, respect her christian faith and church doctrine.
I didn't touch my wife until after our wedding night.. But I did everything within two months. I wanted to do everything withing a month but because the Bishop who would wed us have other engagements, it now took me 2 months and 2 weeks.

Don't break your marriage because of sex. It is too early for that. Don't make the lady detest sex forever. Don't make her see sex as only a man's need.
Give her space. Fix the wedding date and wed then joyfully enter into the world of sex with your wife. Don't give her reasons to doubt your love for her. Women are looking for tender care, understanding and practical love.

DON"T BREAK YOUR HOME NOW... IT IS TOO EARLY TO HAVE MARRIAGE PROBLEM

let me ask you this question ..
if a white wedding have been conducted will it stop the men from dumping those women

NoToPile:
But they had an agreement

And since they plan to have a church wedding then he should just wait abi isnt the OP a christain?

read my statement again..
what do you mean by him being a Christian

ctleurocollege:
Go for check up, your understanding of things is questionable

is God a confusionist
ideology like this are the reason most guys are in debt..
and this is the reason I stay clear from religious fanatics like you..
show me where in the Bible God recognized
white wedding ..
am starting to believe africans are fvcked up in the head.
this is why I love Asians

WriterX:
listen may I ask if you are a Christian just play with me o. this one and answer my question what I may tell you next depends on your answer, let's talk, I like your views

yes