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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Fuckgovt: 6:45pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Eroms4life17:yes na I will call it off till she grows up |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by iyke0280: 6:49pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Righteousness89:Well... I see where you are coming from. However, I think a lot of us have mixed up certain issues...like the difference between the moment you are married and when you "dedicate" your marriage to God. Like I said earlier, a pastor or priest can not pronounce you married if you haven't done the traditional rites...once you have done that, you are married. And you might not agree with me, but if anyone decides to have sex with their wife at that point, it is not a sin. You quoted heb 13...and my point is you don't become married when the pastor or priest says you are... You become married when you have fufilled the traditional rites of your spouse's people. If not, you can go ahead and get married in church without fulfilling the traditional rites. Even as Christians, we are also subject to authority (romans 13: 1-7)... If as a matter of principle you and your spouse decide not to consummate your union until after the church wedding, that's fine... But my point is this... The couple who decided not to do a church wedding have not committed any sin in the eyes of God if they have sex after their traditional wedding... Because they are already married after that event... Mind you... It is not the pastor's/priest's pronunciation that makes you married... It is the consent of both families having fufilled what they/their culture deem to be marriage rites. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 6:55pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
DeRay98:Very lovely! They will not see this. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by mignone(f): 7:12pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
West2019: Sir, I'm not here to debate abt types of wedding ceremonies or how they're conducted. I'm simply towing the line of what this groom here stated. Note: I'm not even a fan of wedding ceremonies. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Eroms4life17(m): 7:13pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Fuckgovt:Good for you my brother. It is well |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by mignone(f): 7:14pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Offpoint:Very well sir;silence must av meant consent then. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by mignone(f): 7:16pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Offpoint:He didn't take it serious, neither did he object. See the issue. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by mignone(f): 7:26pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Enemyofpeace:You will continue to eat nonsense! Talk of test-driving... You test-drove Judith,u were intellectually incompatible; u test-drove Iara, u were financially incompatible; u test-drove Alimat, u were sexually incompatible. So ppl shd be inheriting leftovers abi? If 10 ppl taste gari frm a seller without buying, what happens to d seller's capital nt to talk of making profit 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Righteousness89(m): 7:27pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
iyke0280:Give unto GOD what is GOD'S Give unto Tradition what is Tradition.. As A Believer, it would be Best for you to cement your Marriage on Godliness before anything.. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 7:28pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Righteousness89: God bless you for knocking senses and your Godly stance on this. There can't be middle with God. Its either all the way or otherwise 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 7:29pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
mignone: Hahaha ive noted this moniker. I'll never offend you for this life 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Righteousness89(m): 7:32pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
DeRay98:It becoming the Norm does not Make it Right.. I cannot Forget the Bible . The Bible is my Guide.. Finance has nothing to do with Church Wedding.. Give unto GOD what you is GOD'S 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Angelacruz: 7:55pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
True Righteousness89: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 8:36pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Sakamanje!! . I just pity this op cos you're not even guaranteed a healthy sexual life in that marriage. If you love sex, as in you really gbadun puna... deactivate from that sham ASAP cos na frustration go kee you for that marriage. You won't get value for money! Konji lo ma pa brah yi! Eku iroju sir My country man with high tension libido, kinky and naughty, labolabo, hot and spice, would ignore a stripper, kinky hot and spicy girl in the same genre, for a mother Mary, Christ-like-Sister because his society has coerced him to ignore his NEEDS and embrace Morality. Una go soon learn 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by dvd(f): 9:01pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
WHY THE RUSH? NA WA FOR UNA O 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by meobizy(f): 9:03pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
After the wedding you’ll find out why. Who comes up with these stories anyway? They catch a lot of attention so whoever’s writing them is on a roll. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 12:36am On Nov 01, 2019 |
Righteousness89: is it God that created church wedding or man.. so your saying those that just did traditional marriage are not married in the eyes of God and man ok oo |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Enemyofpeace: 4:06am On Nov 01, 2019 |
mignone:At the end of the day you will discover that some people have been there before you. I just hope you didn't pay too much dowry on her. What is bad in test driving a car? I ate nonsense. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 4:12am On Nov 01, 2019 |
midnighter: Lols Amen! Thank you very much my friend. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:31am On Nov 01, 2019 |
Righteousness89: God is not found in church, church is just a building where people get together and worship God, no pastor can bless a wedding those are just ceremonial or customs things humans do that make us think thats how God like it. Remember what you call christianity is combination of roman traditional and stories of the bible right now a christian thinks that Christmas is special day for them, but christmas is not there in the bible, easter is there in bible but not as rememberance of dying of jesus but as festive period of ancient beliefs or celebration those who are well researched know that a white wedding has nothing to do with God and the church, the two were later incoperated into 2 categories 1 as you can have a church wedding that can be administer by a pastor who has the license to marry you under the civil marriage 2 you can still marry in church under your beliefs of christanity but your marriage wont be civil marriage therefore your marriage was just a ceremonial the bible has never said people should marry in church, it only say parents should bless your marriage, bless means acknowledging your marriage the church marriage thing is a belief that christians think that marrying in church what God wants, God wants parents to approve of our marriage or accept our marriages which is meeting what parents request during the traditional ceremony a normal african family would do the traditional wedding, be it dowry payment or lobola payment which is the acceptance of parents that out child is now married by paying those things you are declaring to God and your parents that this is my wife. no one marries without doing traditional rites be it dowry payment or introduction thats step cant be left out if the church wedding is important, why cant we do it first before the traditional one 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by GrossPrice: 8:10am On Nov 01, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by BrokeFucker007: 9:33am On Nov 01, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano:I bet you you will regret marrying her...I'm so sure about it. who does that? do traditional marriage without having sex with the wife to be?! because she told you no until after she must have got you in a corner with all marriage stuff. seriously bro you acted like a freaking f00oL**here. If you know what's best for you don't go ahead until you fvck this dangerous liar/pretender. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Righteousness89(m): 9:59am On Nov 01, 2019 |
[s] ZIMDRILL:[/s] The Carnal Mind cannot Comprehend Spiritual Things.... |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 10:02am On Nov 01, 2019 |
Righteousness89: God bless you my brother for being resolute about righteousness like this. Chai, if only we had more single people who too Righteousness this steadfastly. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Righteousness89(m): 10:06am On Nov 01, 2019 |
kunleweb: You are BLESSED my Brother |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by PrinceMario(m): 10:28am On Nov 01, 2019 |
Polyurethane:Lol ... this one doesn’t know the white wedding is a traditional wedding for the west. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by igwegeorgiano(m): 10:39am On Nov 01, 2019 |
Lexusgs430:The registry wedding was actually the first that we did before the traditional wedding |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 10:42am On Nov 01, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano: You can do a preliminary white wedding. And it doesn't cost much. Its as simple as a church service where a priest stands and declares blessings over the wedding. Worse case scenario 50-80-100-150k this can be done. If you have fears send her back home summon a meeting with her people stating the current issue puts you at a disadvantaged position and you feel insecure and would like them to dig to the root of the matter. This is the right way of doing things. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Lexusgs430: 11:00am On Nov 01, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano: My Oga, you are married legally..... She is been completely unreasonable............ Assuming you do not conduct church wedding for 25 years..... You would be kept waiting....... I can smell trouble ahead......... |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by farady(m): 11:24am On Nov 01, 2019 |
Righteousness89: This is the summary of everything. So long as the carnal mind view this topic from the physical point of view, the argument will go till Jesus comes. Let's leave them to argue. In next 6months to one year, someone or the OP will open another thread to start complaining. Una dooh oh! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by midnighter(f): 3:10pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Daree88: You are welcome 1 Like |
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