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 Literature / THE AGONY... A Story And Motivational Write Up By Mary Temitope by marytemitope(f): 11:46am On Jan 31, 2019 |
At first,I thought I was going to end my life wandering
about the streets in Lagos. I’d thought living my life would
finally come to an end perhaps,I might one day get knocked
down by a moving vehicle or beaten to death or accused, or
maybe rot in the prison with anybody to ask or rescue me.
My life has no meaning to me. My life has no importance to
around me or maybe I’m the who’s got the mentality of
no one taking any importance about my life.
Never in my life have I thought of living a happy life because
I’d never been a happy one ever since the incident
happened….
I’m only a young girl of thirteen even though I was just
ten when my beloved family left me to the great beyond. All
I thought was dream. Everything seemed like I was in the
dream Land.
I’m so happy I lived to share my pasts and presents.
I’ve wished Evey time that I could live to tell my story,and
my wish has finally come true! Who hasn’t been through
anything should always be up and grateful. Your present
situation is another person’s everyday prayer point.
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| Literature / Depression By Mary Temitope by marytemitope(f): 2:19pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
Having a male child used to be the priority of every man in the small and successful ILUTEDO village where I grew up. Every man wished to have a male child,if not all his children at least a male child. Each male child are taken with high level of respect and dignity. The eagerness of an expectant mother and father used to be very high with the expectations of a male child. A man would be in fear till his expectant wife is being delivered of a baby. The anxiousness to check whether she had a male or female child was always present. But amidst all these, a lot of sadden incidents occurred. My Mum once told me that the head of the village almost committed suicide once when he discovered that his precious wife was delivered of a bouncing baby girl again,the seventh born. Young girls were treated as an outcast in respect of the male children. They were taken advantage of irrespective of their status. No education, no learning,no vocational training. Meanwhile the male children got all these. My father was the village youth leader. The same pressure was on my mother. Being the head of all youths in the village,my father was given so much respects. He was accorded with so much regards. Meanwhile I have a female elder one. And my Mum was an expectant mother. She had all her hopes,spirits up in the airs. She had all her spirits high placed on her soul. She told me once she discovered I was going to be a female child,the first thought which came across her mind was to go to the stream and jump into it. But she had the going back spirit which kept stopping her. Getting back home to realized my father had https://temiconnect./2019/01/27/depression-a-motivational-article-by-mary-temitope/ |
| Literature / Depression A Motivational Write Up By Mary Temitope by marytemitope(f): 8:38pm On Jan 16, 2019 |
When I was young I could hardly waited for my Dad to come home from work in the evening, I’d sit on that porch of our house watching until I’d see striding down that alley toward our house. Then I’d run and leap into his arms. He would swing me up into the air and carry me into the house,laughing and talking with me as we went. By the time I was school age,I know my father was spending less time with us,but I thought we has a happy family. Our family started to fall apart when my father doubled his home. Things started to fall apart. Things changed the other way round for my mother and my elder brother. Things changed from from what they used to be. My mother:she loved,she hated,she hurt and got hurt,but most importantly she sacrificed! From good to bad. From bad to worst From worse to worse, and finally….. DEPRESSION CAME IN! We’ve got issues to discuss as far as Depression concerned . We need to start paying attention to issues that kill is everyday: we need to examine the contributing factors of suicide rates in our beloved country. People give up on life on a daily basis because they couldn’t push anymore. Poverty level and society pressure of what to expect from an individual is compounding the problem at hands ,our Government isn’t helping either. The Great Depression, like most other periods of severe unemployment, was produced by government mismanagement rather than by any inherent instability of the private economy. We can’t all fold our arms and let depression and anxiety rule our world. A story needs to be told,words need to be shared,and solutions need to be provided. The cause of depression are not fully understood but we do know that a combination or psychological,social,genetic, and biological factors can contribute to its development . If you don’t think your anxiety, depression, sadness and stress impact your physical health, think again. All of these emotions trigger chemical reactions in your body, which can lead to inflammation and a weakened immune system . Depression is a serious mental illness that involves the brain. It’s more than just a feeling better of being “ down in the dumps” or” blue” For a few days. A big part of depression is feeling really lonely, even if you’re in a room full of a million people. The feelings do not go away ,it persist and interfere with your everyday life and its trick is to lure you by charming your life . Depression is the leading global disability and we understand how cruel this life could be,but it is what it is,don’t allow depression take over your existence. Talk to someone today and activate you happy mood. Stay tuned ,connected,and updated . read more at https://temiconnect./2019/01/16/depression/ 1 Like
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| Literature / If I Had Known A Poem By Mary Temitope Inspired By Adekunle Gold by marytemitope(f): 1:30pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
The Grass Is Greener On The Other Side That’s What I Thought, Before I Took The Ride I Burned My Bridges, So I’d Never Look Back But, If I Had Known The Life I Was Searching For, Was Looking Me Right In The Eye If I Had Known, The Life I Was Searching For, Was Already My Own The Grass Is Greener, Where You Water The Ground That’s What I Found, When I Took The Ride I Realized The Mountain I’ve Been read more https://temiconnect./2019/01/14/if-i-had-known-by-mary-temitope-inspired-by-adekule-gold/ |
| Literature / I Wish I Never Meet Him A Regret Story By Mary Temitope by marytemitope(f): 7:10pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
It all started at that wedding I should not have attended, this particular wedding reminded me it’s 4 years I left akin, 2 years I left debo, and 1year I left Segun My name is adeshewa I was on work vacation this particular day then my sister funke came into my room “Anty shewa since you are not going to work this week, why don’t you chill out with me to Rachel’s wedding ” she requested “Rachel is getting married ? Wow so fast how old is she self ?( I know I was asking a jealous question, my sister notice I was jealous) ” anty she is 24 , she work in ecobank , her finance is the CEO of metro transport, what else did she want? Hun?! She replied rolling her eye while trying to move out of the room then she turn back are you going? ” I had no choice so it won’t be like am envying her friend , I replied with after a heavy breathe “sure why not when is the date ?” I ask her, “next Saturday” she replied with a smile, “why didn’t she even invite me self” I ask a question out of jealousy again, ” anty you are always busy your I.V is in the living room” She replied, “OK till then I said with a fake smile , she went out I went to lock the door then put my back at the door I went down slowing thinking about my life , when would it be my turn Rachel is 24 am 31 oh God … The wedding day…… Funke and I already did shopping on Wednesday the gift we would present and our wears, the venue was at the luxurious eko hotel and suit, big personality are there to witness the great occasion, I see 3 senator , 2 minister and 3 king from the Yoruba kingdom. Lucky girl she got married to the CEO of metro transport, I was not bad looking too as the ceo of DELTA OIL COMPANY I was also giving an recognized ovation, not to be too proud but METRO is no where my company, I was having a good time sipping my usual blue wine, when I started observing some group of men starring at me from far ,I pretend as if I did not notice but sincerely it unbearable , I had to turn my chair to the other side , I had no idea what they where talking about,millionof thing where going through my mind , am a CEO of a recognized organization, you don’t expect me to give them that “all is okay look” I need to class my self so I continue sipping my drink and suddenly I heard a cool thick voice from behind “HELLO MA’AM” He came all the way to my front in the round table , he look like a foreign base Nigerian so fresh but I had to be more mature… I replied with “CAN I HELP YOU”he smiled and says ” yes ma’am can I have your time at least 10 min” “sure you have 7 min left “I replied with a serious face while sipping my wine “Ma’am my name is Desmond a Switzerland based banker , I came here for the wedding of my friends wale CEO of metro transport, seeing you from far with my friends I was carried away by your beauty and your gentle character” (I cut in ) “character you say? how do you know my character? “Ma’am seeing you sitting here while other go on stage to dance show high level maturity,” he replied “So what do you want from me “I asked “Friendship good one”he replied “But you’re based in aboard” I make him noticed “Yeah but am back in Nigeria for good now,I will be helping my friend on is company in Nigeria since he is married now”he explained “Well no problems” I granted is request ( I taught giving him a chance could speed my chance of getting married soon , he his kind of a cool guy on the outside and look hardworking , just being a desperate single woman getting old, before I talk I saw his 4 friends came to join us , on the table making 6 they cracked joke my sister was looking me from afar giving a thumb up ) The second day of the wedding I was tired on Sunday I could not think of going to church, I woke up on my soft bed I stand and walked up to the mirror my face was quite happy than before, suddenly my sister just open my door and entered shouting ” ANTY MI ” I replied “ki lo de!? “Hmm you don’t want to tell me abi “she continued, “tell you what?! I asked with suprise ” Hmm those guys which of them his your husband self “she continue tissing me. “husband ko husband ni go and prepare breakfast jare” -I try changing the topic As she went out I jump on my bed freely thinking about Desmond before I could think so long I saw Desmond call I did not pick it until it rang about five times ” hello Desmond ” hello ma’am , hope you have a good day yesterday ” sure thanks to you ” I was thinking , which church do you attend am kind of new in Lagos hope I can attend your church ” hmmmmm, yes come over to my house so we can go together am almost done with my wears “OK ma’am send me your address ” 16 Oxford street , trade more estate ” I would be there soon ” would be expecting 36 min later i heard a bang on my gate , my gateman went to get it and it was Desmond as I taught that arrive in a uber car , with a suited blue wear, I offered him brakefast but he said no , that we should go for the service after That we can have all the meal we want to have, well I had to agree to a gentle man, we went together like a couple the pastor even blessed us together from the service we went to KFC and eat some chicken which he paid for, all the way from KFC we went home as at 3:36 we eat some traditional food together my sister seems happier than me , she was all the time asking what did i need , me and Desmond talk deeper and he gradually win my heart , actually I am not an easy girl that fall but due to desperation, of getting someone to be with I just have to be easy , I have to let down my ego , we talked till 8:45 pm he then ordered for an uber, while seeing him off he request if we can meet on Monday ,I almost say no because my vacation was over but I taught again that I was the boss so I accepted his offer to go out and have fun together On Monday We went out to different beach playing We went to theater at night to see movies On Tuesday We went to olumo rock On Wednesday He kissed me On Thursday I kissed him On Friday We almost had something together but he refuse On Saturday We had a good time together you know what I mean, Waking up on Sunday I was the only one one bed at the luxurious Sheraton hotel in abuja , me and Desmond just had a good time together (sex) but I could not find him inside the room, I called thinking he was inside the bathroom, I waited , I called is line but I could not find him , it look kind of a miracle or a film trick I did not have his friend number nor his relative we are just one week old 3 days later.. Then I remembered the working card I saw , the foreign home number I call it ” hello” the woman speak in different accents ” hello please I want to speak with Desmond* ” Desmond? Please who are you? What do you want from my husband? ” Hus….band?, read the last paragraph on https://temiconnect./2019/01/12/i-should-not-have-meet-him/ 1 Like |
| Romance / I Wish I Never Meet Him... The Romantic Full Story By Mary Temitope by marytemitope(f): 6:36pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
It all started at that wedding I should not have attended, this particular wedding reminded me it’s 4 years I left akin, 2 years I left debo, and 1year I left Segun My name is adeshewa I was on work vacation this particular day then my sister funke came into my room “Anty shewa since you are not going to work this week, why don’t you chill out with me to Rachel’s wedding ” she requested “Rachel is getting married ? Wow so fast how old is she self ?( I know I was asking a jealous question, my sister notice I was jealous) ” anty she is 24 , she work in ecobank , her finance is the CEO of metro transport, what else did she want? Hun?! She replied rolling her eye while trying to move out of the room then she turn back are you going? ” I had no choice so it won’t be like am envying her friend , I replied with after a heavy breathe “sure why not when is the date ?” I ask her, “next Saturday” she replied with a smile, “why didn’t she even invite me self” I ask a question out of jealousy again, ” anty you are always busy your I.V is in the living room” She replied, “OK till then I said with a fake smile , she went out I went to lock the door then put my back at the door I went down slowing thinking about my life , when would it be my turn Rachel is 24 am 31 oh God … The wedding day…… Funke and I already did shopping on Wednesday the gift we would present and our wears, the venue was at the luxurious eko hotel and suit, big personality are there to witness the great occasion, I see 3 senator , 2 minister and 3 king from the Yoruba kingdom. Lucky girl she got married to the CEO of metro transport, I was not bad looking too as the ceo of DELTA OIL COMPANY I was also giving an recognized ovation, not to be too proud but METRO is no where my company, I was having a good time sipping my usual blue wine, when I started observing some group of men starring at me from far ,I pretend as if I did not notice but sincerely it unbearable , I had to turn my chair to the other side , I had no idea what they where talking about,millionof thing where going through my mind , am a CEO of a recognized organization, you don’t expect me to give them that “all is okay look” I need to class my self so I continue sipping my drink and suddenly I heard a cool thick voice from behind “HELLO MA’AM” He came all the way to my front in the round table , he look like a foreign base Nigerian so fresh but I had to be more mature… I replied with “CAN I HELP YOU”he smiled and says ” yes ma’am can I have your time at least 10 min” “sure you have 7 min left “I replied with a serious face while sipping my wine “Ma’am my name is Desmond a Switzerland based banker , I came here for the wedding of my friends wale CEO of metro transport, seeing you from far with my friends I was carried away by your beauty and your gentle character” (I cut in ) “character you say? how do you know my character? “Ma’am seeing you sitting here while other go on stage to dance show high level maturity,” he replied “So what do you want from me “I asked “Friendship good one”he replied “But you’re based in aboard” I make him noticed “Yeah but am back in Nigeria for good now,I will be helping my friend on is company in Nigeria since he is married now”he explained “Well no problems” I granted is request ( I taught giving him a chance could speed my chance of getting married soon , he his kind of a cool guy on the outside and look hardworking , just being a desperate single woman getting old, before I talk I saw his 4 friends came to join us , on the table making 6 they cracked joke my sister was looking me from afar giving a thumb up ) The second day of the wedding I was tired on Sunday I could not think of going to church, I woke up on my soft bed I stand and walked up to the mirror my face was quite happy than before, suddenly my sister just open my door and entered shouting ” ANTY MI ” I replied “ki lo de!? “Hmm you don’t want to tell me abi “she continued, “tell you what?! I asked with suprise ” Hmm those guys which of them his your husband self “she continue tissing me. “husband ko husband ni go and prepare breakfast jare” -I try changing the topic As she went out I jump on my bed freely thinking about Desmond before I could think so long I saw Desmond call I did not pick it until it rang about five times ” hello Desmond ” hello ma’am , hope you have a good day yesterday ” sure thanks to you ” I was thinking , which church do you attend am kind of new in Lagos hope I can attend your church ” hmmmmm, yes come over to my house so we can go together am almost done with my wears “OK ma’am send me your address ” 16 Oxford street , trade more estate ” I would be there soon ” would be expecting 36 min later i heard a bang on my gate , my gateman went to get it and it was Desmond as I taught that arrive in a uber car , with a suited blue wear, I offered him brakefast but he said no , that we should go for the service after That we can have all the meal we want to have, well I had to agree to a gentle man, we went together like a couple the pastor even blessed us together from the service we went to KFC and eat some chicken which he paid for, all the way from KFC we went home as at 3:36 we eat some traditional food together my sister seems happier than me , she was all the time asking what did i need , me and Desmond talk deeper and he gradually win my heart , actually I am not an easy girl that fall but due to desperation, of getting someone to be with I just have to be easy , I have to let down my ego , we talked till 8:45 pm he then ordered for an uber, while seeing him off he request if we can meet on Monday ,I almost say no because my vacation was over but I taught again that I was the boss so I accepted his offer to go out and have fun together On Monday We went out to different beach playing We went to theater at night to see movies On Tuesday We went to olumo rock On Wednesday He kissed me On Thursday I kissed him On Friday We almost had something together but he refuse On Saturday We had a good time together you know what I mean, Waking up on Sunday I was the only one one bed at the luxurious Sheraton hotel in abuja , me and Desmond just had a good time together (sex) but I could not find him inside the room, I called thinking he was inside the bathroom, I waited , I called is line but I could not find him , it look kind of a miracle or a film trick I did not have his friend number nor his relative we are just one week old 3 days later.. Then I remembered the working card I saw , the foreign home number I call it ” hello” the woman speak in different accents ” hello please I want to speak with Desmond* ” Desmond? Please who are you? What do you want from my husband? read the last paragraph on https://temiconnect./2019/01/12/i-should-not-have-meet-him/ |
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