Johnnynash: Hello nairalanders, I need candid opinion on how to deal with this relationship. There is this lady I am dating she is 26 while I am 46. We started in December 2022 with good vibes, love, care and romance. She was very helpful in helping me settle down again after the demise of my wife and I have her all the attention, care and love I can. I honestly wanted to marry her but she said the age limit is too much, even if she agrees, her siblings and parents will not. Ok fast forward to May 2023 she just started with attitude and eventually said she is not interested again. I tried to persuade her but it all fell on her deaf ears. We still remain friends and still vibe well but no more relationship.
Before the relationship started I noticed there is this guy that calls her almost everyday but she keep saying they are just friends from nysc.
Immediately she broke up with me she paid the guy a visit somewhere in Osun State, I got to know all these when my phone had issues and I had to collect the phone I bought for her when her own had issues too.
When I reinstall the WhatsApp on the phone hmmm all I saw was that she had been keeping this same guy all these years and when she eventually visited him they had sex that she even contacted urinary tract disease from the guys toilet. Till now she dies not know I had seen all their chat history.
What is really baffling me with this lady is that before we started the relationship there's another guy in her office she confessed to me that they had a quickie and I said I will not judge her with this let her take it as a mistake and move on.
Right now as we speak, she is still claiming she is not dating anyone considering the fact that she had gone to visit the other guy, even did masturbation and nude video with him.
There is another guy again I saw on her chat history she confessed to him she had a crush on him and they are working in the same office with the one she had quickie with.
Summary of the whole story is that this lady is on the verge of sleeping with three guys working in the same office within the space of one year she started working there (this including me but I have since resigned from the establishment). And she already slept with the other guy in Osun State and still claiming they are not dating.
Meanwhile she still has numerous guys approaching her for either relationship or sex including her ex (s).
Now to the issue, how exactly do I deal with this kind of lady because I know she really need help not castigating.
Though I know she has been fooling me all along but this time I refused to be fooled. I want to end it all with her but not without making her realise all she had done in the past while I was dating her and how this would surely affect her marital future.
She is also a type of person that doesn't mind talking to her ex. Though very useful domestically.
Pls forgive my long write up I need candid opinion. Thanks
She need help you say?
So you want to save her, captain save-a-hoe?
Bro you are almost 50 you should know these things naa
FuckTheMod: Lagos is actually the most expensive State to live ESPECIALLY FOR CIVIL SERVANTS. Cost of living, transportation and house rent is the highest compares to every other states relatively.
In more than 12 YEARS now, the salaries of civil servants have not changed, but inflation since then has risen by at least 200% in any commodities you can think of.
12 years ago, the dollar to a naira was around 120-140 Then, a level 8 civil servants was earning better 80-120k per month, TILL DATE, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING HAS CHANGED. THE SALARY IS STILL THE SAME. NIGERIA IS THE HEADQUARTER EVIL GOVERNANCE. A HELL HOLE WITH THE MOST GREEDY AND CORRUPT LEADERS, ELDERS AND POLITICIANS.
And the most useless set of human beings cheering in their oppressors Example is one below you
Usmanovic95: Waow, so PO has a zero tolerance policy towards people of shady character regardless of affiliations to him? What a man! you have given me a reason to like him more.
Kingosytex: Which one be romance again? So he shouldn't mingle with them or attend occasions he's invited simply because they're political rivals? It's a wake up call for the ignorant masses. These guys dine and mingle together so think twice before you chose to die for any of them.
jahsharon: He is here to repeat the same in Abuja. He is here to reduce your population drastically in Abuja. You either go back to your crime infested region, or Wike the wicked one will send you to 6 feet under the soil.
Go after him now, and see your region wiped out the map
Mugu You think wike is in abuja to fight battles
Neophyte, don't allow your hatred for igbos make you cap foolishly and irrationally
Maybe he should start by going after jail breakers of kuje prison, shey it's in abuja?
Pakute: Peter Obi is next, DSS picks him up if he continues his sponsoring of media blackmail against the judiciary. After being locked up in underground cell, i'd show his wife what it is to be a man unlike that femimine loser wey dey twerk waist like woman ontop Margaret.
Clevite: For the attention of Peter Obi and Atiku's seekers of illusive 'stolen' mandate, kindly take this dismissal as a fate rehearsal of how to handle the shock of your own imminent defeat.
paramakina202: Ikwerre land and Ilorin is not the same situation . Ikwerre land is occupied by the natives while Ilorin was conquered by Fulani strangers.Two different things.
Ebubu3: Wike banished IPOB in Rivers state and Kwara banished Isese festival
The day Yoruba will claim back Illorin is the day Igbos will claim back Ikwerre land and Ph.
Upland Rivers state is to Igbo land what Illorin is to Yoruba.
But of good notice is Yorubas in Kogi (Okun) are proud of their Yoruba tribe.
Igbos in Delta state are very proud of their Igbo tribe and tradition (Asaba and Anioma). They practise Oji (kolanut tradition), they practise Umunna hierarchy, they use Igbo 5 market days, they bear Igbo names and politically they Admit to be Igbo. Same situation as Okun in Kogi to Yoruba.
Unlike Rivers people. Well like I said. Like Kwara state is to Yoruba like Rivers state is to Igbo.
You must be obsessed with igbos
If you have problems with Fulani taking over your ancestral lands in illorin, go and fight them and take it back...but we know you can't because cowards can't do that.
Instead you open a thread and start mentioning igbos, so that what will happen?
Stop provoking igbos and then cry to the mods when we insult your useless cowardly lineage
Politics › Re: See How Kwara State Distributed Palliative From FG by maticar: 6:49pm On Aug 19, 2023
