₦airaland Forum

Time2Smile:
You sound like a broken Man. Why would you allow your wife to have so much control over your life and happiness? . Did you say no sex since January 2017? More than 1 year!!!! Is she the breadwinner of the house and bearing most of the financial responsibilities?That's is the only reason I can think you find yourself in this miserable situation.

You need to man up, take control of your life and stop talking about STUPID love. By the way, what you have at the moment is not really a marriage. You have lost respect of your wife. You need to stamp your foot down and let your wife know that you will no longer accept this bullshit. She either agrees on working on your union or you part ways for your sanity.

sir, concerning pathing ways, beside the fact that we have 2 kids, i so much love my wife to the point i can't think of living my life without her, i can't just divorce my wife

Time2Smile:
You sound like a broken Man. Why would you allow your wife to have so much control over your life and happiness? . Did you say no sex since January 2017? More than 1 year!!!! Is she the breadwinner of the house and bearing most of the financial responsibilities?That's is the only reason I can think you find yourself in this miserable situation.

You need to man up, take control of your life and stop talking about STUPID love. By the way, what you have at the moment is not realliy a marriage. You have lost respect of your wife. You need to stamp your foot down and let your wife know that you will no longer accept this bullshit. She either agrees on working on your union or you part ways for your sanity.

sir, i must confess you are a matured and wise man to understand if she is in control financially, yes she is, am just a secondary school teacher who earns just above 20k. But, i never thought this could be the reason. She says it's because i have hurt her in the past. But, have really been begging her for forgiveness consistently for over 6 months

PSTEMMA1960:
Women don't know how to pretend, expecially when she truly loves her man..

u broke her heart, she has nt forgiven u from the bottom of her heart..

my advice: take her out atleast 2 times in a week, always make out time to listen to her, they love attention so much..

prove to her that u are a changed person, and u will see her falling inlove with u all over again..

thanks so much for this.
Sir, i have sincerely been doing all within my capacity to prove am a changed person, but she still insist have not changed. I can't even understand.
sincerely, have been trying a lot when it comes to listening to her. Though am financially not too healthy, but am trying all i can in taking the family out.thanks sir

Gooday house,
Am typing With a heavy heart and eyes full of tears, have been crying for the past 30 minutes.
I sincerely don't know how to win my wife back.
We have been married for the past 7yrs.
We have had issues in the past (some of which can be found in my topics here on nairaland).
Between 2011 and 2013,we had serious marriage threatening misunderstandings.
Between 2013 and 2016 we stopped fighting, but engaged in silent relationship.
By 2017, i felt we not growing younger, so i called my wife for total reconciliation. I pleaded to her telling her i have been wrong all these years.
The issue now is, my wife is not loving me the way she should. Whenever i demand for a pathing or welcoming hug, she does it with some level of hesitation, sometimes she even refuse.
If i tell her i love her, she scarcely respond.
My wife has refused me sex since January 27th 2017. While i desire we relate directly, my wife would rather be on wattsapp, sometimes down to 12 midnight.
I love my wife so much.
I desire to have my wife back to me.
House, please tell me what to do.
Have been on sleeping pills so i can sleep from thinking.
Am currently contemplating alcohol, if it could resolve my frustration.
I love my wife, as a matter of fact, my wife is the only woman i have known sexually in my entire 40yrs on earth.
HOUSE, PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO TO GET MY WIFE BACK

Seun360:
From 5 to 2 in the UCL.

bros, so, you don write off chelsea already?
Lol

Under where do we categories this one na?
Mental instability,
Childish,
ogbanje,
or
Lol

Who will think these are Muslims?
What is good is good joor,
Na poverty dey consider religious dressing.
Lol

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MicroBox:
Why growing gray hair? Put everybody in copy so that you can have reason to throw her out of your home. Are you telling me you are living with aristo as a wife..?I
Continue to be patient cos what Hassan can take, Hussain might not take it.

sir, divorce shouldn't be an option, please.
Better don't start than thinking divorce.
Am still hoping and working for my marriage to work.

please

TrulyHis:
This is quite pathetic but he will just have to forgive her since divorce is not an option. They should sit, talk and settle whatever led her to that.

I also saw this one on the same site, the world is gradually going to an end. https://dailyfamily.ng/my-husband-is-not-the-biological-father-of-one-of-our-four-children-woman-tells-court/

hey, did you say "divorce is not an option"?
Abeg abeg abeg!
Is it when she mortgage his only life before divorce becomes an option?
Mr op, please DIVORCE, asap

MhizzAJ:
So what's her point?

I don't know why people will leave their lives and start watching other people's life

What's her business if they go for various crusade and still fvck at the end of the day
We

hmmmm, guilty conscience

fortune1968:
Yes. Jonathan squandered a lot of money .You have to factor in other elements of the economy for your assertions to stand .Have you considered how much we are earning from the crude oil sales to keep the exchange rate at dt level then ,juxtapose it with how much the current administration is earning or has earned .Mark my words ,Jonathan really ruined this country ! And things would have collapsed totally had he returned to power with his large team of looters ; his wife - Patience inclusive.

complain complain complain.
3yrs down the line you guys are still complaining Jonathan.
1)if your Buhari was competent enough we, by now should have long passed this economic quagmire (remember how in less than 3 months Obama properly solved the "global economic meltdown caused by Bush?
2)its obvious you don't even know that global crude has increased from $40 to $70,how come we are yet to seen the effect on the life of the masses? Abi na gej cause am?
3)why are we still importanting pms? Why hasn't the refineries been repaired 3yrs after? Na gej cause am.
Take note, i voted Buhari, but i refuse to play crass sentiment, Buhari is not good enough, PERIOD

madridguy:
Get your fact right bro. I be APC both front and back.

o! But you always refuse your support is based on party line.
Well, now i understand why you have no option supporting the government, good or bad

fortune1968:
Of course ,you would have known how it had better our lives if probably now you are exchanging 1000 naira for $1

so, what you saying is, the current #365 to $1 is better than the #197 to $1 under the administration that "DIDNT SAVE"?

usba:
I am sorry to say most of you don't have critical analysis skills. A lot of people will take a mortgage to buy a house in essence borrowing beyond their immediate capacity to pay, hence loans are take to undertake purchase that are usually beyond your capacity to pay in one sitting but will be paid when spread over a period of time. Nigeria wouldn't need to borrow if Jonathan had saved his 56% portion of the ECA.

what is confusing me is, how has this savings better the life of an average citizen?
Secondly, what are we doing to ensure these savings doesn't become another political noise, because, if another government comes and we hear the money has disappeared, all these Buhari noise turns totally nonsense.

madridguy:
Good development.

Happy new year Sai Baba

Happy new year Sarrki/hadura29

Happy new year APC world wide

Happy new year Nigeria.

@happy new year apc ",
tomorrow you go come with your lie lie talk say you no dey support party but credible people.
You see your life.
Lol

Next match vs Everton, right in Everton.
Are you thinking what am thinking
Hahahahaha

emusmithy:
Is it your idiot? Is it not my idiot?

It is my idiot. It is my idiot.

I'm a sheeple. You just quoted the Scripture sha...

And Jesus said, "If any man will be wise in this world, will be a fool. If any will be a fool, will be wise."

I lose to gain #eternity

sir, about 3days after creating your thread, it has finally made fp.
Now, go back to the first page, compare your number of "likes" to that of the anti tithers, what do you observe?
It seems you are a pastor or related to one, but take it or leave it you guys are loosing the fight just the way the churches has lost it in Europe and America.
I was a tither, until daddy freeze opened my eyes,
and, thank God, am happier because i now use that 10percent to help those in need.

According to the Bible (not me), all our flamboyant pastors and rich men are going to hell.
How or why?
According to the story of the rich man and Lazarus,
the rich man went to hell, certainly not because he was rich, no!,
but, because, he leaved a flamboyant lifestyle right in the midst of poor people.
ie, as long as your neighbor is hungry, you must never feel contented, it is your responsibility to feed him NOT WITH CRUMBS.

Xo, this oyinbo didn't go to church for testimony and drop a fat thanksgiving seed?
Kai, all these oyinbo stingy sha.
See opportunity for papa to shine far.
Lol, our Nigerian pastors using natural occurrences to make money since 1993.
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sarrki:
Stimulate boiz

Dead on arrival

Even wike ,okowa don fence Atiku

Truly Atiku can't win pmb in Adamawa

these BMC guys are really trying.
It's not easy standing for a clueless regime.
Ride on bro, more money to your pocket. Lol

Evablizin:



Nice. Jay Jay my man,he is not looking bad.

hmmmm, ladies and physical appearance.

Since when has our great nairaland reduced to such Childish level.
Just imagine the kindergarten drawings

sureheaven:
When freeze or any of his household will be in trouble, he will be taken to one of those pastors he criticizes most time for deliverance, then he will know God still uses some people .

this kind of words were directed at prof Soyinka in the 80s by bishop Idahosa,
baba soyinka is still alive, hale and hearty at 80+ yrs,
WHERE IS IDAHOSA TODAY?
May the above never become your case

wth28:
Look at this idiot, tell me when did pastor Oyedapo or Adeboye buy a Lamborghini

for your mind now, you dey fight for God

Pacesetter123:
Dat mumsy nah strong lady..oooo!See as she d vibrate.Abeg mek dos men leave her alone joorr.But wait..ooo,who de dey dat villa d leak official document.1st,it was Ibe Kachukwu's n now nah mrs Oyo-ita's.Something nids 2 b done asap.

what the southern guys are presently doing Buhari was what the northerners did to Goodluck

Balloon d or?

rottenPussy:
Don’t be fooled man! Looking at the Bible from a logical aspect, it is infact a sin to pray for your enemy.

A case in point, if it was normal and Godly to pray for ones enemy, why didn’t God forgive and pray for lucifer? Why has he made his current existence a temporal purnishment, because the Bible tells us that he (God) has a special retirement home of purnishment for lucifer (the lake of fire)?

Another instance is seen in the case of Jesus Christ. Do you think if he, Jesus was not choosen, he would have tolerated all the pain bestowed on him? Remember at some point, he said Eli Eli lamasabachtani (God please spare me of this sacrifice/purnishment). Then again he said, God forgive them for they know not what they are doing.

At the bolded, if all the pain inflected on Jesus were not in fulfillment of the Godly sacrifice, do you think he would have begged for forgiveness on their behalf, or have you forgotten what happened to all those who attempted to kill Jesus before he learnt about his purpose

I don’t want to argue this seriously

bros, what are you insinuating?
What do you have to say about Steven, who, at the point of being stoned, prayed God forgive those stoning him?
Read your Bible, stop reading papas lips

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