Ambode my guy. Please become a hero by breaking mini god poitics that has been holding lagos in bondage.You can say NO!

I can suck ,lick and nak a hell out of Ngozi Nwosu honey pot if i had my way.She is over sweet.I know the kind thing the husband will be passing tru because too many men including sugar boys will always disturbing the house and its likely she may atimes succumb when the pressure is much on her,thereby engaging in adultery which end result is heart break and feeling of uncomfortable to hubby.He can hardly trust her.One disadvantage of marrying a very beautiful wife coupled being a celebrity.

Iykmann:
Eating foods from an adulterous wife can cause untimely death.

How,as in poison or what.

If ones wife sleeps or had slept with another Man(Men),what are the effects of it spiritually to the husband of the Adulterous Wife?

Berbierklaus:
OP answer truthfully.
1)Were you celibate during the space of that 6months you and your wife separated?
2)What led to the separation
3)Was your wife pregnant immediately after you both got back together?

I think its your African mind playing tricks on you though

Pls this is a serious matter and I need a proactive advice.I don't think u read the post and the previous post I posted in 2015 attached with it.If I start writting everything step by step that means you read lengthy pages for this post and I want to assure you that at the end of the day,u will be surprised that after everything I am still with her.For her to even confess then,I know what happened and what I told her which within her mind she is aware that I have already know what she did and has no option than to confess and it is left for u to think whether she has been in such act before.I don't want to go in details for it will be lenghty.Also mind you that this is temporal separation just to give time for ourselves and within an interval of 4 Months,she has already opened leg and slept with two men.

Thanks for all the advice so far.

Sometime ago in 2015 i posted how my wife confessed to have slept with two men within the interval of six months that same year we had a temporal separation before being reunited again and the matter has since been forgotten as we have been living together since then.Though i did not know any of the men in person when i asked her of their name,what they do and their location which happen to be within the axis we stay and pass almost on daily basis but i did not bother to go and trace the men or start having issues with them since they did not rape her or forced her into that or to start finding something that will disturb my mind.Hence i do pass there or stop and buy something around there and there after go my way.
However three days ago,i was buying something around the place and the man i was in his shop do not have all i wanted to buy he called the other man by name for me to buy the remaining thing from him.Coincidentally,the man he called is one of them that slept with my wife but i did ask him anything and he too did not know me and i left.
Since that three days ago i for the first time saw this man face to face,my mind has been disturbing me,Why? we have two kids,the first kid is exactly my carbon copy and also just like me,he is not fair in complexion while the other one is very fair in complexion like my wife.I was shocked when i saw the man that he resembles the second kid more than I.He is also fair in complexion and apart from that if I and him stand together with the kid,people will assume he is more of the father by resemblance.This has been bothering.The kid was one year old when we had the temporal separation which means if they had known before the temporal separation,it will be back then in 2013-2012 downwards.
My question now is should i sit my wife down and ask her further questions even though she may find it difficult telling me truth if any or should i meet the man and ask him some questions as well or should i forget asking neither my wife nor the man and start planning for DNA paternity test.Please i am confused and need an advise.
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Cutehector:
It's clear u married for sex...

I love sex and will not hide or shy away from it and can't do without sound and quality sex if that's what u want to hear.

My partner refused to at least even if once in a while give me mouth action.I have told her that i love mouth action more than the real action,but she refused.This is affecting our sexual life.I am not getting what i want sexually from the union.Should i look for elsewhere or simplly divorce her?.I have sat her down on many occasions to discuss it but she refused even when i told her that i am willing to do anyone she love most but she said its only "hard pumping" she enjoys most which i am doing my best in that area but i am not getting what i also love most from her.Pls advise wisely.

See your mouth to win edo,South east and South south.Anuofia.What business has South East and South South with APC which you know we hate and rejected from begining.Come and campaign in South east and see what will be happen.We are not ass licking politicians like yellowbars.Anumpama.

Happy birthday to my GO.

hahn:


What is your proof that these people belong in a secret cult, are occultic or that they are ritualistic?

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I am speaking from facts and not guess work.

Brothers and Sisters,it used to baffle me and i keep on thinking over this often and often why most high level secret cult members(not university cult),i mean powerful cult members that do rituals,sacrifice,etc all in the name of being rich and wealthy and commanding the society and some of the real born again christians in the church with their occult power will most often be a dedicated church member who many can swear that they are born again and you can hardly believe that he or she is an occult member.In most cases,they are the ones they says what happens in the church and the society.And this set of people will keep on shouting most of all these christian terminologies like,....blood of Jesus,it is well,God bless you my brother or my sister,God is good etc.I am not talking from guess work,i am talking with facts.Even most of the activities in the church,many of them sponsor it and majority will be well known in the church and also closer to the men of God.Does it mean those men of God don't know and cannot know that those people are in occult?
My people,i am always shocked and surprised and i begin to ask myself many questions-does it mean that God welcome Occult people?,how would they be serving God and serving Devil,even using human being to perform sacrifice and yet things will still be working perfectly for them??,does it mean that God doesn't care about what they are doing even though they are still shouting his name and worshiping him??.How can this combination be going on?, does it mean that one of the characteristics of being a secret cult member and making it work for you is that you must not only be active in church but should also ensure that you are shouting all these christian terminologies for it to work?.deceiving people by combining power of darkness with power of light,yet it is still working even at occupying highest position in the church and being recognised?.I believe such will also be happening in muslim,but i am not a muslim so i dont know much about them.Please my question is why is it that many secret cult people attend churches most and at the same time are the one that calls Lord's name most,yet things are working for them,is it a tradition or condition to be an occult member?.I dont understand the whole thing and it baffles me and need an explanation.

Getting a new job also implies meeting new colleagues in your new working place.How best can one socialize in such an environment atleast for the first week,two weeks,one month etc to avoid such words like..he/she doesn't socialize,he/she is not friendly,doesn't greet people,doesn't talk or play with anybody or that he/she always "overdo" in order to be noticed etc.Please what is the best way to act/mingle with old staff in your new working place to get acquainted with the new faces you are to work(working)with.

All comments are highly appreciated.Though for some that are saying that i did the same and hide it,i did not hide it,i confessed to her even before she told me what she did,truly irrespective that i fall into this, i have a conscience and know that what i did was wrong and that was one of the reasons that made me to be considering her because she opened it and i did same thing as well.It would have been a different story if she had lied over it or i found out myself.However,culturally,the consequences of a man or a woman committing adultery differs according to tradition and a married woman committing such is the worst in many traditions which many of us know.I am very sure that a lot of married men and women reading this post may have communicated adultery and are still committing it and wanted to learn from their experience on how they handled it,though i am also aware that majority that even commits such on regular basis may not open up here and share their experience and advice,but i see nothing to hide here as this is a faceless forum where we learn a lot from peoples experience.

lovaleenny:
This ur grammar get double k-leg

forget d grammar,but go for advice and opinion.

There happen to be some misunderstandings between me and my wife coupled with the fact that there was financial challenges on my side,hence the two reasons for giving ourselves break as in temporal separation for some months so that we can figure out what used to cause misunderstandings and quarrel and for things to normalize before we start living together again,so she went to stay with the parents.However,we get united again last week as in she coming back and we start living together.When i wanted to touch her as in love making,she keep on turning it down,i was suprised how after missing each other for some months does it mean she doesnt has sexual feeling.The more i keep making advances,the more she is rejecting and i begin to think whats is wrong.She was giving difference excuses,later she said she dont know to do and how to tell me this and that it is disturbing her and cant allow that we make love as her conscience and what could be the consequence is disturbing her.I told her to tell me what it is,she finally said that since we separated till now that she made love with two men.I was shocked,thou i reason she may fall into such because she has a very high sexual drive,that i hardly leave her and travel for more than a month without coming back because of the nature of her body unless i buy intimacy gadgets and keep for her.She said that apart from her high libido,that she has been having the apetite and bearing it and was thing that i have use style and abandoned her as in divorcing her.She pleaded,and i am confused on what to to because our culture has implication on woman commiting adultery but i cant tell my parents otherwise they may say that i sent her packing.I only explained to my elder sister and she said from her knowledge,that she doesnt know much about how our tradition handles such,but since she confessed that i can forgive her,unless she do it again.Thou i am not a saint anyway for i know i have committed adultery since i marry her but i dont know how our tradition handles this matter and i cant tell such to my parents.She begged and begged that even at two days ago,i later fall and made love with her which i said i wont do but i am disturbed.Please what should i do.Advise pls.